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Quirks in your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all have em. ..maybe your ex military, lived rough...just lived a different lideas previously and certain Quirks from it still exist in present life. I ve lived many extremes but two years living homeless and off grid have left me with loads...I don't like 4 walls if gf is away, still treat my own injuries and illnesses in quite brutal ways and I still go to my former living spot with a Costa early hours to touch base..need the latter every 3 days or so. ..my life is one foot in a house situation and the other in the free outdoors...what's yours? I know exactly military types that years after leaving they still iron everything perfectly

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain."

So this! People are overwhelming at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain.

So this! People are overwhelming at times.. "

I pressed send too quick.

For me it has roots in being only child raised near a gorgeous forest. Wilderness, nature sounds and freedom of exploring. Used to walk there with a book or watch clouds lying in the meadow. Habits give us some sense of security dont they...

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Have several, one of the most noticeable to others is that I jump at the slightest thing. Something they find amusing but is a reminder of a past life. On the more positive grew up on a farm and I need to get away from people generally on the local common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain.

So this! People are overwhelming at times.. "

I'm easily people'd out.

I need space every day or I can't relax.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain.

So this! People are overwhelming at times..

I pressed send too quick.

For me it has roots in being only child raised near a gorgeous forest. Wilderness, nature sounds and freedom of exploring. Used to walk there with a book or watch clouds lying in the meadow. Habits give us some sense of security dont they..."

That resonates - I’m an only child too, and would be totally lost without the solitude and well-being gained by walking in the mountains of Wales.

That’s not to say it’s not nice to have company to do it, too.

It’s not a quirk really, but I guess the way I regularly let out a quasi-orgasmic yelp of delight when confronted by an amazing view on those walks is

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain.

So this! People are overwhelming at times..

I pressed send too quick.

For me it has roots in being only child raised near a gorgeous forest. Wilderness, nature sounds and freedom of exploring. Used to walk there with a book or watch clouds lying in the meadow. Habits give us some sense of security dont they..."

Mine is the same growing up in the forest has provided me with safe places to go when I need to..

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

I have many and yes I get up way to early after many years of working night shift.

Also ex military and I need my solitude to shift the darkness that does envelop me at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's interesting that everyone posting is in need of downtime and solitude from people..I think it's how the body and mind recharge and recalibrate balance...me time amidst the wild places is mellowing and to a large degree humbling as it sets in our minds that we are a small part of a greater cycle...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I hate closed doors.

Every single internal door in my house is always propped open.

Closed doors give me the heebie jeebies.

Urgh.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

You sound like Chris McCandless OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP"

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol "

Yes and No. It's a true story. Into the Wild is the film. I won't spoil it for you, but watch it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol

Yes and No. It's a true story. Into the Wild is the film. I won't spoil it for you, but watch it "

Ah of course..saw film and read book...thankfully didn't t end up same way though had my touch and go moments but I know nature better than I know people...she was my only company for years and taught me so much

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol

Yes and No. It's a true story. Into the Wild is the film. I won't spoil it for you, but watch it

Ah of course..saw film and read book...thankfully didn't t end up same way though had my touch and go moments but I know nature better than I know people...she was my only company for years and taught me so much "

I have a yearning for being in the middle of nowhere, been thinking of walking the Pacific crest trail for years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol

Yes and No. It's a true story. Into the Wild is the film. I won't spoil it for you, but watch it

Ah of course..saw film and read book...thankfully didn't t end up same way though had my touch and go moments but I know nature better than I know people...she was my only company for years and taught me so much

I have a yearning for being in the middle of nowhere, been thinking of walking the Pacific crest trail for years"

Do it.. it will be such a buzz...I ve done same in him alabaster. .New Zealand...Spain , Italy, UK. ..it's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like star trek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You sound like Chris McCandless OP

I have no idea who that is...is that bad...lolol

Yes and No. It's a true story. Into the Wild is the film. I won't spoil it for you, but watch it

Ah of course..saw film and read book...thankfully didn't t end up same way though had my touch and go moments but I know nature better than I know people...she was my only company for years and taught me so much

I have a yearning for being in the middle of nowhere, been thinking of walking the Pacific crest trail for years

Do it.. it will be such a buzz...I ve done same in him alabaster. .New Zealand...Spain , Italy, UK. ..it's great "

Bloody spellcheck. ..himalayas not alabaster lolol

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing


"I need alone space from people, at least twice a week I will tuck away for a few hours outdoors in the forest or at the beach and just breathe and empty my brain."

I do that with my garden. Shut the doors, stay away from screens and sit watching the birds feeding. Sometimes the local cat pays a visit to sit with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like star trek"

How can this be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much my own person and I need my space, both physical and mental. Been getting much better at sharing that in recent years and I feel fuck loads better for that. Still need my long showers for my thinking time and I'm a great one for staring into space looking like a spaz but that's when I'm planning world domination....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like sitting in the quiet.

My life is so chaotic and loud that when i can i just like to sit in quiet. No tv, no music, just quiet.

I’m also a pretty solitary person.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"I like sitting in the quiet.

My life is so chaotic and loud that when i can i just like to sit in quiet. No tv, no music, just quiet.

I’m also a pretty solitary person."

This is me to a Tee. I grew up in a city, moved to the country at 16 and now live in a fairly remote corner of East Yorkshire, but within 30 minutes of Hull. My life involves talking to lots of people all over the country, as well as lots of music, and at the end of the week it's great to come home and shut the world outside my door and sit in silence.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I like my own space and with one notable exception find that I have limited capacity to spend long periods of time (3 days maximum) in the same company... The urge to bolt kicks in. I love my friends and family, but in manageable portions

Oddly though I'll also miss them when they're not around

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