FabSwingers.com forum: Big breasts

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ladies only: ladies, I would like to ask any of you that have large boobs how you deal with men and sometimes women staring at your breasts. Do you have a hard time getting bras at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit sexyist innit....?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Personally it used to affect my confidence a lot. Not helped by my ex who used to insist that they were always well covered in case someone could see them. So they became something to be ashamed of. When I was younger I was unable to wear clothing like my friends so again not brilliant. And have had men grope them in clubs when I was younger just because they were big.

Now however, I dress as I please and have far more confidence in myself. I'm never going to be able to pick up a blouse from a high st shop but there's plenty more I can.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

And no brass aren't an issue plenty of companies out there now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies only: ladies, I would like to ask any of you that have large boobs how you deal with men and sometimes women staring at your breasts. Do you have a hard time getting bras at all? "

I do love my boobs and i love the attention they get during sex but the flip side of that is buying bras is a nightmare and bloody expensive, men tends to stare or make lewd comments, smaller busted ladies say ooooh i wish i had boobs like yours. I tend to cover up a lot of the time jumpers, big tee shirts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes OP, in answer to your PM, I can read. Can you.....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ladies only: ladies, I would like to ask any of you that have large boobs how you deal with men and sometimes women staring at your breasts. Do you have a hard time getting bras at all? "

1. I would love to pay less than 100 bucks for a nice fitting, sexy bra that doesnt fold up or accidentally breaks, stabbing me in the tit, sometimes drawing blood, with the fucking useless underwire.

2. I would love to be able to purchase the matching set for less than that too.

3. I'm not sure if people are looking at my tits to fathom how big they are or to see if they move.

4. Table boob. Because I am also short, is a reality.

5. If I am washing dishes, or leaning over anything, I will get wet. My boobs have been in soup, pie, pudding, ketchup, you name it because of this. And hence the reason, I need stain remover on my clothing.

6. The above us why people stare too.

7. I love my boobs, they are natural, they are amazing, but I stare at others, especially fake breasts, in envy because they stay put and dont swing about when you take your bra off which could cause serious injury sometimes when you are in motion.

8. No one with huge knockers and my body is going to be a runner, or jogger. They just dont make support for that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Smarty, I can only just understand what you go through. I get that your breasts can help you get served in a bar quicker, but you must have so much confidence to be yourself and say to the world 'fuck you', these are boobs, and I'm proud of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bemorefrida, I don't know what to say to that: that sounds like abuse to me. It must have affected you more than you say.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I hated mine!

Bras that felt like a straight jacket.

They hurt, always had back ache, trapped nerves in my neck & shoulders.

Trying to get clothes/dresses that fit a 60" chest, and a 30" waist. Impossible.

Always commented on, loudly, in public by men.

Lost count of how many times I've been groped!

So, I had them reduced.

3yrs ago yesterday actually.

Happy boob day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit sexyist innit....?"

Since when have men been braficionadoes?

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Check out boob or bust on Facebook or their webpage. They have amazing measuring and fitting advice and give really good support (no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hated mine!

Bras that felt like a straight jacket.

They hurt, always had back ache, trapped nerves in my neck & shoulders.

Trying to get clothes/dresses that fit a 60" chest, and a 30" waist. Impossible.

Always commented on, loudly, in public by men.

Lost count of how many times I've been groped!

So, I had them reduced.

3yrs ago yesterday actually.

Happy boob day

I totally relate to this, I have had a couple of consultations to have mine reduced, just need to save the pennies, even tried the NHS route, although I fit the criteria where I live they don't give funding so currently trying to save.

Do you regret your reduction or are you happy you did it? Any side effects etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I imagined that this subject would get some response, but what I see is the same thing said that bras and men are the main problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I was constantly ashamed of having big boobs. No one at my school was the same so I stood out. I was groped too many times to mention, men talked to them rather than my face. They’ve caused me back ache, shoulder and neck pain.

I used to have to wear old fashioned bras that were anything but sexy, thankfully now there is much more choice. They have shrunk a bit with weight loss, but I’ve accepted they’re part of me now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it is the two main issues, it's so hard to find attractive matching bra sets etc for the larger than normal size, someone mentioned the Facebook page where they offer measurements etc, I just find I buy smaller bras sometimes so I feel sexy as very rarely bras are offered in a bigger size.

The first thing a man looks at and comments on is boobs I've found, but believe it or not if I take my bra off I'm so bloody self conscious and would rather keep it on

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I hated mine!

Bras that felt like a straight jacket.

They hurt, always had back ache, trapped nerves in my neck & shoulders.

Trying to get clothes/dresses that fit a 60" chest, and a 30" waist. Impossible.

Always commented on, loudly, in public by men.

Lost count of how many times I've been groped!

So, I had them reduced.

3yrs ago yesterday actually.

Happy boob day

Do you regret your reduction or are you happy you did it? Any side effects etc.

My GP referred me several times over the yrs, the NHS refused to fund it was deemed cosmetic, not medical.

I had been seeing Osteopaths & Chiropractors for years, they all agreed it was needed.

I have a long term spinal injury, I broke my back when I was 15, and have a curvature to my spine as a result.

The discs in my back were also deteriorating.

5yrs ago someone drove into me at a junction & I spent 6mths in a back brace, still NHS refused the op.

I decided then to go private.

It cost £6k.

No regrets, it totally changed my life, able to do things is not done for years, restart sports that I'd had to give up, gave me back a lot of confidence, able wear pretty clothes.

No side effects, I had a brilliant surgeon & the aftercare was perfect

I wish now I'd gone private in the first place years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in my own wee world where I notice nothing. So I never notice guys looking at my boobs

It’s really hard to get nice shaped bras that don’t cost a mortgage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I read somewhere that the NHS won't do reduction surgery as its classed as cosmetic. So it no seems that the NHS will do surgery on a strict criteria, but its also a lottery around the UK as to if you get surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of the time I just accept they are big and get on with it . I make jokes about them and it's ok.

However I'm feeling very self conscious at the moment . Holiday is looming and I just don't feel confident about a bikini or even swim wear. Not only do I have large breasts but a full on mummy tummy which I can't seem to shift.

I don't want my son's embarrassed by me and I fear I'll already stick out in the resort as the only single parent there at Xmas.

I've bought so many things but feel I can't wear any of them

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I used to be conscious, especially when it was my chest being spoken to and not my face. Now I embrace them, so to speak. They are a part of me x

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"The majority of the time I just accept they are big and get on with it . I make jokes about them and it's ok.

I don't want my son's embarrassed by me and I fear I'll already stick out in the resort as the only single parent there at Xmas.

I've bought so many things but feel I can't wear any of them "

I used to feel like that about swimming with my son's. Until someone pointed out that they would notice me not participating rather than my big mum tum and boobs x

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By *eeman1000Man
over a year ago

durham

"The majority of the time I just accept they are big and get on with it . I make jokes about them and it's ok.

I don't want my son's embarrassed by me and I fear I'll already stick out in the resort as the only single parent there at Xmas.

I've bought so many things but feel I can't wear any of them "

That made me sad! Stop it your gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I looked at your profile and saw that you both are great looking people. Yes, enjoy your boobs as they are you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love boobs!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I love boobs! "

Clue is in the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs are magic

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Boobs are magic"

Expelliarmus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boobs are magic

Expelliarmus! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love boobs!

Clue is in the name

Haha! Boobies make everything better.

Having a bad day? look at boobs.

Stubbed your toe on the corner of the table? Look at boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love boobs!

Clue is in the name

Haha! Boobies make everything better.

Having a bad day? look at boobs.

Stubbed your toe on the corner of the table? Look at boobs"

I'm looking, i feel better.

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

"Boobs are magic"
like the letter E ( showing my age lol )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've grown into my boobs, When in my teens, I would hunch my shoulders over, round them to make the boobs look smaller. I've been teased and as for men staring; that's just a daily occurance.

The funniest was a partner at a HUGE firm in London was talking to my boobs, when I very gently placed my finger under his chin and lifted his face so that he could actually talk to ME. Silence in the room but everyone got the message!

I've grown to absolutely LOVE my boobs. They even got a LOT bigger after having children, something I now revel in.

I've gone topless on beaches; not for long as it was empty one minute and the guys playing football wayyyy down the beach, suddenly discovered they need to play right beside where I was lying!

I've learnt to embrace my HH cups (with a very small back) and Bravissimo does some lovely bras, so no problems getting the right size or huge costs.

To be honest, I would adore if they were even bigger; madness but true!

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

"I hated mine!

Bras that felt like a straight jacket.

They hurt, always had back ache, trapped nerves in my neck & shoulders.

Trying to get clothes/dresses that fit a 60" chest, and a 30" waist. Impossible.

Always commented on, loudly, in public by men.

Lost count of how many times I've been groped!

So, I had them reduced.

3yrs ago yesterday actually.

Happy boob day

Do you regret your reduction or are you happy you did it? Any side effects etc.

Best thing I ever did was have mine reduced. I'm still a big girl but way more confident than before

Only side effect was some lack of feeling in certain areas but luckily not all.

It is a big decision though as like with any ok things can go wrong

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Paying £80 for a Prima Donna bra was money well spent. My boobs are where they should be & my posture is better. They wash really well - mine has taken a battering as I wear it every day & it still does the job a year later.

J x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"Ladies only: ladies, I would like to ask any of you that have large boobs how you deal with men and sometimes women staring at your breasts. Do you have a hard time getting bras at all? "

I became a DD and 6ft at 13 so I've been stared at my whole life, luckily avoided nasty comments or groping and then I became a H at 35 after breastfeeding my child and they never went down when I stopped. I only hated them when my relationship broke down as I lost my confidence so I used to cover them up.

As I regained my confidence I fell back in love with them and again walk proud showing them off. m&s is where I get my bras from

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