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How many fucks in one night = slut?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people fucked in one night makes them a slut?

If they all use condoms does it prevent them being 'a slut'?

Or it the location that is important?

Posh hotel with 15 people = sexy time.

Dark car park with 3 people = slut.

What is the combination that makes them a 'slut' raher than just "having fun"?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Male slut or female slut? I fear the numbers may be vastly different depending on gender

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Does having sex outside marriage make you a slut ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judgemental people apply the labels, or jealous because you're having more fun than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care much for the word being directed at me in any context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the term "slut"

Someone who enjoys themselves is the reality.

And why the hell not.

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hate that word. If anyone dares call me a slut even in heat of moment . The play would stop. Fortunately I've not been called that... yet. Even my husband wouldn't call any woman that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people fucked in one night makes them a slut?

If they all use condoms does it prevent them being 'a slut'?

Or it the location that is important?

Posh hotel with 15 people = sexy time.

Dark car park with 3 people = slut.

What is the combination that makes them a 'slut' raher than just "having fun"?"

If having sex can labeled as slut I would go for 100

Either 1 or 100 doesn't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Male slut or female slut? I fear the numbers may be vastly different depending on gender "

If a guy can do it 15 times in a night he can call himself whatever he wants!

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"Does having sex outside marriage make you a slut ?"

No, that’s sex outside Tescos

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Male slut or female slut? I fear the numbers may be vastly different depending on gender "

Either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex needs to be embraced without any judgement. If you have a high sex drive there is nothing wrong with looking for someone who has a similar interest to you. Slut is a word that objectifies an individual.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How many people fucked in one night makes them a slut?

If they all use condoms does it prevent them being 'a slut'?

Or it the location that is important?

Posh hotel with 15 people = sexy time.

Dark car park with 3 people = slut.

What is the combination that makes them a 'slut' raher than just "having fun"?

If having sex can labeled as slut I would go for 100

Either 1 or 100 doesn't matter "

I wonder who keeps count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does having sex outside marriage make you a slut ?

No, that’s sex outside Tescos"

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don't like the term "slut"

Someone who enjoys themselves is the reality.

And why the hell not.

"

This

Owning your sexuality. living your best life (a quote from earlier)

Doing what feels good and makes you satisfied.

I don't think it should be thought of in a negative way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How they see themselves is the decider

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My view. Slut is a word society uses to shame those who enjoy sex with abandon. It isn’t the number but more your behaviour. You’re a slut if you wear sexy clothes, if you say fuck me, if you show that you’re having a good time.

I quite like the word and love meeting what i call my ‘man sluts’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does having sex outside marriage make you a slut ?"

No but there are judgmental people who may say otherwise but that's more about them. Adults it's is there decision and no body else's business, would always try be honest about it though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My view. Slut is a word society uses to shame those who enjoy sex with abandon. It isn’t the number but more your behaviour. You’re a slut if you wear sexy clothes, if you say fuck me, if you show that you’re having a good time.

I quite like the word and love meeting what i call my ‘man sluts’ "

People are also called a slut if they say no. Not sure how that works.

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"I don't care much for the word being directed at me in any context "

It’s such a nasty word, for something that should be So much fun

Any better words to use?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There us a specific type of sexual genre under swinging umbrella "slut wife" personally I think the word is unpleasant and demeaning. But some accept it whole heartedly hand happy to be called "slut wife"

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't care much for the word being directed at me in any context

It’s such a nasty word, for something that should be So much fun

Any better words to use?

"

It is just a word. It has no power other than what people give it.

That is exactly why some people hate it, and others embrace it, they take back the power away from the word.

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you."

The only thing causing that word to be offensive and insulting is you.

You don't like that word being used and that is fine, knowing that I'd never call you it, but the problem is with people who don't like it, and not the word itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view. Slut is a word society uses to shame those who enjoy sex with abandon. It isn’t the number but more your behaviour. You’re a slut if you wear sexy clothes, if you say fuck me, if you show that you’re having a good time.

I quite like the word and love meeting what i call my ‘man sluts’

People are also called a slut if they say no. Not sure how that works. "

That’s hurt pride rearing its ugly head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you."

"

The wisdom of Tyrion Lannister

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't care much for the word being directed at me in any context

It’s such a nasty word, for something that should be So much fun

Any better words to use?

It is just a word. It has no power other than what people give it.

That is exactly why some people hate it, and others embrace it, they take back the power away from the word.

"Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you."

The only thing causing that word to be offensive and insulting is you.

You don't like that word being used and that is fine, knowing that I'd never call you it, but the problem is with people who don't like it, and not the word itself. "

I like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't care much for the word being directed at me in any context

It’s such a nasty word, for something that should be So much fun

Any better words to use?

"

I don't see the need for any word in relation to my sexual behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely the answer depends on what the person feels, some enjoy being someone’s slut so it could be just one , other may enjoy lots and still not consider themselves to be slutty,

Each to their own,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, the term can be applied with no score chart needed. Also depending on the relationship between caller and callee it can be a compliment or an insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're only sluts if they dont exchange face pics first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" They're only sluts if they dont exchange face pics first?"
shallow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"None, the term can be applied with no score chart needed. Also depending on the relationship between caller and callee it can be a compliment or an insult. "

A virgin slut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" They're only sluts if they dont exchange face pics first? shallow"

Will you fuck people without seeing their face pic? Asking for a friend.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Surely the definition of a slag is subjective.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A slut is anyone who isn’t having sex with me

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Surely the definition of a slag is subjective.

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We are discussing sluts not slags

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

1

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London


"Surely the definition of a slag is subjective.

We are discussing sluts not slags"

Predictive text urrgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 in one night at a club. Nothing crazy for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely the definition of a slag is subjective.

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Hence the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread OP

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"My view. Slut is a word society uses to shame those who enjoy sex with abandon. It isn’t the number but more your behaviour. You’re a slut if you wear sexy clothes, if you say fuck me, if you show that you’re having a good time.

I quite like the word and love meeting what i call my ‘man sluts’

I was called a slut before I had even lost my virginity or even kissed a man. It’s a term used to shame others and put them down. It’s nice people here use it for fun. Not for me

People are also called a slut if they say no. Not sure how that works. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

im not a slut. Im a sexually liberated woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice thread OP "

Thank you. Why the rolley eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are a slut if you say you are a slut, if you say you're not, then you're not.

My wife is a slut, she's my slut, because she told me she's my slut, it was her decision.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

It's not a word I use.

Labels are for tins of beans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

53

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a word I use.

Labels are for tins of beans.

"

It is all very well knowing your beans, but which unlabeled tin contains the Peach slices?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything that is more that touching above clothing is sluttish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think the term "slut" is an archaic notion of someone who has sex with multiple partners, not necessarily at the same time, probably born out of jealously during the "no sex before marriage" times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything that is more that touching above clothing is sluttish"

Touching cloth us to be discouraged in polite society

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I think the term "slut" is an archaic notion of someone who has sex with multiple partners, not necessarily at the same time, probably born out of jealously during the "no sex before marriage" times."

Many women have owned the word again, made it powerful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think the term "slut" is an archaic notion of someone who has sex with multiple partners, not necessarily at the same time, probably born out of jealously during the "no sex before marriage" times.

Many women have owned the word again, made it powerful. "

To those women I say "mind your own business"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"My view. Slut is a word society uses to shame those who enjoy sex with abandon. It isn’t the number but more your behaviour. You’re a slut if you wear sexy clothes, if you say fuck me, if you show that you’re having a good time.

I quite like the word and love meeting what i call my ‘man sluts’ "

I was recently called a ‘man slut’ by one of my friends, because I fucked 4 different women over 8 days, which I thought was cheeky considering she once had a gangbang in a club with 5 guys But it’s just banter between mates, and anyway, I quite liked it

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Anything that is more that touching above clothing is sluttish

Touching cloth is to be discouraged in polite society "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel slutty as fuck, but haven't been fucked for 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel slutty as fuck, but haven't been fucked for 3 weeks "
omg can i help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word slut is degrading end of

I haven't had sex in over a year so I'm certainly no slut,saying that if I'd had sex 30 times last week with 20 different guys I still wouldn't label myself a slut

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The word slut is degrading end of

I haven't had sex in over a year so I'm certainly no slut,saying that if I'd had sex 30 times last week with 20 different guys I still wouldn't label myself a slut"

I disagree. Some women find it empowering. Not degrading at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel slutty as fuck, but haven't been fucked for 3 weeks

omg can i help "

When can you pop round to wet that whistle??

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"It's not a word I use.

Labels are for tins of beans.

It is all very well knowing your beans, but which unlabeled tin contains the Peach slices? "

Well peach slices are a bonus

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough


"1"

Yeah if you do it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me slutty behaviour is entirely a matter of context

if a girl wants to sleep with a load of guys and no one gets hurt fair play to her

if the girl is in a relationship that isn't an open relationship then being fingered in the car park because s***** behaviour

just my opinion and let's face it who doesn't love a lady that borders the s***** side of the fence

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

My little slut got annoyed after I decided she needed a rest after her 7th BBC in a row at a team players party.

In a sexual context this word, and others, is a term of endearment and part of the vocabulary of our D/s dynamic.

And of course she is proud to be a total slut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My little slut got annoyed after I decided she needed a rest after her 7th BBC in a row at a team players party.

In a sexual context this word, and others, is a term of endearment and part of the vocabulary of our D/s dynamic.

And of course she is proud to be a total slut!"

Her number must be 8 then. Love it!

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