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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I joined this app to , well basically improve my sex life , finished a toxic relationship and have myself time to heal ... now that I’m single and interested in having fun it seems like no one else is hahaha , well not with me anyways . Still waiting for my first fab meet nearly 3 months later and it’s wearing annoying on me

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Oh OP, you seem lovely. Your age will put some people off as you're very young, what are you sending in your messages? Maybe that's putting them off? Remember there's loads more men than women on here so you're playing against the odds a bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean I completely understand the age problem ... I guess it’s hard being a guy with a kink for older women haha , my messages seem to be down to earth , long , and not just jumping the gun in terms of “ hey wanna see my cock “ or “ hey we should fuck “ , also the guy to girl ratio if you want to call it that is fairly shitty , but still I feel like its disheartening seeing so many horny and kinky women and not even being able to have fun with just 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 months is nothing. Plenty of guys (me included) have been on here years without meeting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, this is a swingers site, not dial-a-fuck

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Welcome.

Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.

Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.

Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know that , I’m not saying it’s a dual a fuck ... but theyres plenty of people on here who don’t swing .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah well that makes it a small bit better hahaha

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that’s a good call , I was just directed here by a friend who said it worked for her .... maybe it’s easier as a female due to the ratio but only time will tell

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Ah well that makes it a small bit better hahaha

Thanks

"

You reply and quote if you're replying to specific posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah well that makes it a small bit better hahaha

Thanks

You reply and quote if you're replying to specific posts.

"

Oh hahaha thanks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Yeah that’s a good call , I was just directed here by a friend who said it worked for her .... maybe it’s easier as a female due to the ratio but only time will tell "

My experience is that men do better for sex on dating sites. Women do better on sites like this if they want sex.

Not all of us, but most.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Welcome.

Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.

Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.

Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.

Good luck.

"

Listen to this one OP, she is very wise.

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rod and line, rod and line.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to clubs, particularly those with spa facilities. Chat to people, be polite, be courteous, be amusing without being a joker and don’t push anything.

I did all these things today and unexpectedly struck gold.

I wasn’t even looking for anything, I was chatting to my mate in a jacuzzi about work and this couple asked if they could join us.

Sometimes it just happens that way.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Rod and line, rod and line..... "

Worm...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

Go to clubs, particularly those with spa facilities. Chat to people, be polite, be courteous, be amusing without being a joker and don’t push anything.

I did all these things today and unexpectedly struck gold.

I wasn’t even looking for anything, I was chatting to my mate in a jacuzzi about work and this couple asked if they could join us.

Sometimes it just happens that way. "

That might be trickier in Ireland and too expensive for a young person.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Improve your sex life? Op, swinging is a lifestyle. It's a journey and discovery of yourself and engaging with others sexually. It's not dail a shag. Your age, greatly goes against. A high % of us have children your age. Plus, you a another fish in the sea of many.

Maybe a differant mindset would help you.

We would not meet you. 1, too young. 2, you mention dominant, again, to young for us.

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By *azakerleyLadMan
over a year ago

fazakerley

Mate I'm 34 and still waiting for my first fab meet. Ive been putting messages out there for a while now and hope that someone will have got the message.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Welcome.

Three months is a short time on here. It's not a straightforward sex site for many of us. If you want that you might be better going for a swipe type app.

Your age will be an issue for a lot of people, not all, but many.

Get out and about and meet people away from here. Join in on here and tailor your messages.

Good luck.

"

This really is great advice

Try and get involved on the forum. There are some great people and in getting to know them and them you, new possibilities may open up. At the very least you can have the crack have a bit

of fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took me a year or so, but met some great people since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rod and line, rod and line.....

Worm..."

Exactly! Cast for the single fish!

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