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By *iss_serenity OP   Woman
over a year ago

nottingham

so, set some boundries with my special little friend last night when we was dong our normal yakking on the phone, and yet when he turned, totally broke them the min he got here. i have no will when he's here (sigh)

so, my question is, ever set yourself goals or set rules, what was they, and how long did they last?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think for me there are hard and soft boundaries. Some boundaries I will not cross for anyone (poop, wee, blood) others would require a very special relationship and deep trust. Examples of that might be fisting, restraints

For me sex and the D/s stuff is partly about pushing my boundaries, but at the end of the day it's about being informed and comfortable for both parties.

With general meets I initially set myself rules and broke them straight away - and then regretted it, so I think very carefully about each meet so I can go into it fully committed to having fun without any worries

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

we only have a couple of boundaries.

1, no pee.

2, no poo.

3, we always meet as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are certain things that I wont do on a meet, such as anal sex, but I've told Kate that if she wants to do it, it's her call.

We both agree that certain people are out of bounds, by that I mean people that we see at parties or clubs, who although we will socialise with, neither of us will play with.

There are some ladies that Kate has said she doesn't want me to play with and likewise I have told Kate that there are certain guys I don't want her to play with.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If it crosses the line before touching the ground it's a six, otherwise it's a four.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"There are certain things that I wont do on a meet, such as anal sex, but I've told Kate that if she wants to do it, it's her call.

We both agree that certain people are out of bounds, by that I mean people that we see at parties or clubs, who although we will socialise with, neither of us will play with.

There are some ladies that Kate has said she doesn't want me to play with and likewise I have told Kate that there are certain guys I don't want her to play with.

"

I wont hold my breath for a Christmas card then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are certain things that I wont do on a meet, such as anal sex, but I've told Kate that if she wants to do it, it's her call.

We both agree that certain people are out of bounds, by that I mean people that we see at parties or clubs, who although we will socialise with, neither of us will play with.

There are some ladies that Kate has said she doesn't want me to play with and likewise I have told Kate that there are certain guys I don't want her to play with.

I wont hold my breath for a Christmas card then "

If you want to shag me, you've only got to ask You're wasting your time if you fancy Kate though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pee No poo and thats about it xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

[Removed by poster at 09/04/12 18:20:58]

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

I wont hold my breath for a Christmas card then

If you want to shag me, you've only got to ask You're wasting your time if you fancy Kate though.

"

Ill settle for her glove...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I wont hold my breath for a Christmas card then

If you want to shag me, you've only got to ask You're wasting your time if you fancy Kate though.

Ill settle for her glove..."

lol, I was going to say that We can't find it now, Kate doesn't know where she left it

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

Ill settle for her glove...

lol, I was going to say that We can't find it now, Kate doesn't know where she left it "

Wasnt me. Honest Guv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just the one rule. No touching. Everything else is no holds barred.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I've just the one rule. No touching. Everything else is no holds barred. "

Levitation is sooooo over-rated in my opinion...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You won't be getting high with me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just the one rule. No touching. Everything else is no holds barred.

Levitation is sooooo over-rated in my opinion..."

And from what I hear, the older you get, the more difficult it is to rise ..

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"I've just the one rule. No touching. Everything else is no holds barred.

Levitation is sooooo over-rated in my opinion...

And from what I hear, the older you get, the more difficult it is to rise .."

Hey tell me about it, what with my bad back an' all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I wont hold my breath for a Christmas card then

If you want to shag me, you've only got to ask You're wasting your time if you fancy Kate though.

Ill settle for her glove...

lol, I was going to say that We can't find it now, Kate doesn't know where she left it "

Ask Femme to lend you one of BB's...;-)

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