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By *ieselhaze66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

I know I don't have any photos on my account but is there really anything I can do to make my account more enticing? I don't have too much luck on here, I have only ever met 1 couple apart from that I get deleted messages and a lot of people that don't send me a response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add photographs and expand on your write up.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Sorry to say it but you answered your own question in your first sentence

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I'd say 1 meet in 10 months with no pictures is pretty dam good and better than many manage with proper profiles

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By *rad_ell12Man
over a year ago

Brighouse

If I coudld say anything its fill out your profile a bit more, yes some pictures would be good, but adding things like what you enjoy, what your open too and what males you interesting and why people should respond too you, I didnt have much luck untill I came on the forums and started looking and asking, your at a massive disadvantage being a single guy as there are si many so you need to stand out in a good way! But also being a young guy like me, age may be a factor holding back! But good luck!

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By *ieselhaze66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 22 and you say your average. Add more pics and maybe more about yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "

But how do you expect anyone to speak with you without a pic,?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.

Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?

Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.

Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "

I think most people won't even bother looking at a pictureless profile

You can still be discreet with a body pic fella

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"So it's literally just the fact that I don't have any photos, or a profile pic hahah, what ever happened to being discreet, perhaps saying that I will send images when we get talking? "

I won't even talk to someone if they have no pics, it's feck all to do with discretion, you could do a torso or bum shot

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By *ieselhaze66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade


"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.

Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?

Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.

Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.

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Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.

Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?

Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.

Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.

Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"

It is possible to go out and about in the real world and be here, just not if you pin everything on being here.

You've had a meet - that really is more than quite a lot of men with no pictures.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich


"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.

Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?

Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.

Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.

Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"

You do come across as sounding very young and naive. That's not your fault by the way

But do take people's advice on the pic situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add some photos - it's not hard to do and they don't have to be of your face or your cock.

Improve your profile text - read it as if you were looking to meet you. Would you meet you with that text?

Your age - you can't do anything about this. You will only appeal to a small subset of Fab users. This is true of everyone, to some extent, so don't get angry or frustrated about it. Be patient.

Get off Fab and go out into the world and meet people there.

Thanks for your help, Im young and I should get off Fab and meet people but I have always wanted to try swinging lol"

Just be yourself OP. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Generally men have to work to sell themselves really cleverly, due to the high levels of competition. Always ask yourself how well anyone could determine if they find you attractive to them, as well as know if you will be a good match sexually. The less they are able to do this, the faster they will move on to the guys who make it clear and simple.

Check out the forum posts on topics like how to improve profiles, using local socials to get to know people, the benefits of clubs likewise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trouble with meets is they very rarely turn up

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My first 2 meets flopped, but so far so good since.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

If you added some personality and humour to your text you would help yourself a lot. At the moment it looks like you don'thhave anything interesting to say and don't want to make any effort. Why would somebody want to meet you if that's the impression you give?

Your profile is your shop window. Use it.

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By *ieselhaze66 OP   Man
over a year ago

Biggleswade

Thankyou all for your help, it has been noted and I will make the changes you have all stated

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By *ez1987Man
over a year ago

Great Harwood, Blackburn

Add some pics to your profile if your after discretion use a body pic or something.

Your age puts you in a minority area but some people will jump on it so be patient.

Your age range is set to will meet up to 99 year old, pretty much says your willing to do anyone, try filter the top end down.

Add some more info a out yourself dosent have to be loads but sell yourself more as us single guys well outweigh the single female and couples on here.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile.

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local


"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile. "

For me it’s important because of my career and how I feel about being perceived by potentially judgey people.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I dont tend to even read a message from a shadow profile, maybe change that to start? Xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile.

For me it’s important because of my career and how I feel about being perceived by potentially judgey people. "

But these "judgey people" have Fab profiles themselves

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Why is discretion so important to you ? I find it offputting to see on a profile. "

Agreed, I find it a boring thing that people just add on there because they've seen it on other profiles. I don't expect they've any more or less discretion than anyone who doesn't state it.

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By *hromosexualsCouple
over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We wouldn’t speak to someone with no photos at all, you can’t gauge who is on the other end of the conversation.

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