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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land

What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already answered the question.

It's diverse with different personalities, you can't have a 'perfect' personality or attitude to join the forums. Just jump in, be yourself and be nice to others.

As for how we can be more inclusive, that's not going to happen.There's too many people, too many friendships and too much built up prejudice, for others not to feel isolated at first.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land

Is hard to jump in sometimes, and I still have no clue what's going on in some threads. Guess it's time and patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be yourself and have a thick skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think being respectful and tolerant of views that aren’t necessarily the same as your own is a good start. If you have this as a basic human quality, I don’t think you can go far wrong on here.

I think the second part of your question is more difficult ... inclusivity probably flows from the above. So if we can all start with basic respect, maybe we become more inclusive.

I’m waffling. Tell me to shush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*can’t go far wrong, even. I’m sick of doing typos now. I don’t know what’s wrong with me! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin "

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like a party, just bring something and a smile and share with everyone. Leave your fears at the login.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a party, just bring something and a smile and share with everyone. Leave your fears at the login..... "

And an item of buffet food

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just jump in if you have an opinion or can give advice etc. Took me a while to find the rhythm of it.

But you'll get there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a party, just bring something and a smile and share with everyone. Leave your fears at the login.....

And an item of buffet food "

Exactly, fucking cakey ppl.....

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think there is one particular thing; different people like/respond to different people differently (that was a fuck ton of different, apologies) and you're never going to please everyone are you?

I do think that you can be a more welcoming forum user (rather than *good* because I dislike the notion) by engaging with others, being respectful even when dealing with opinions that differ from yours and being authentic to who you are. And enjoy it! The fora can be fun and it can be an interesting place to learn from others.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Don’t be frightened just to post your own personal opinions. It can be frustrating when you are seemingly ignored whilst others highjack the thread talking with just each other. But. Come back in a few months. Those people will have gone to be replaced by a brand new group.

I post my opinions based on what the OP has posted and let the rest go over my head x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it "

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think there is one particular thing; different people like/respond to different people differently (that was a fuck ton of different, apologies) and you're never going to please everyone are you?

I do think that you can be a more welcoming forum user (rather than *good* because I dislike the notion) by engaging with others, being respectful even when dealing with opinions that differ from yours and being authentic to who you are. And enjoy it! The fora can be fun and it can be an interesting place to learn from others."

Gotta agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa"

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I don't think there is one particular thing; different people like/respond to different people differently (that was a fuck ton of different, apologies) and you're never going to please everyone are you?

I do think that you can be a more welcoming forum user (rather than *good* because I dislike the notion) by engaging with others, being respectful even when dealing with opinions that differ from yours and being authentic to who you are. And enjoy it! The fora can be fun and it can be an interesting place to learn from others."

Like the idea of welcoming for sure. Definitely am enjoying learning from others too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc. "

Tomato ok I take your point

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc. "

Hate the phrase man up with a resounding passion. Although I do own a woman up t shirt which I wear to work

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"It's like a party, just bring something and a smile and share with everyone. Leave your fears at the login.....

And an item of buffet food "

Heck no got to be wine surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc. "

True story....!

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Just jump in if you have an opinion or can give advice etc. Took me a while to find the rhythm of it.

But you'll get there "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc.

Hate the phrase man up with a resounding passion. Although I do own a woman up t shirt which I wear to work "

I’ve worked with men who’ve attempted to take their lives because they’ve been told to “man up’ so many times they genuinely don’t think it’s ok to not be ok. It’s a damaging phrase for sure and something I advocate strongly about in my work.

“Woman up” I will accept, haha

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Be yourself and have a thick skin "

I'm always myself but I'm the biggest softie ever

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

Urgh pet hate phrase ....... I don’t like it

Sorry but it’s true mwwwaa

It’s the “thick skin” part that makes me do this:

I have good reasons. I’ve spent years working professionally with people with severe mental health problems (in particular men) who were told to “man up” and have “thick skin” as kids. As adults they aren’t sure how to deal with their emotions and feel it’s wrong to have them. Therapeutically, this is hard to work with and “undo”. Hence my dislike of it.

But, flipping it around, it can also be helpful as a way of encouraging resilience I suppose. You say potato, I say ........ etc.

Hate the phrase man up with a resounding passion. Although I do own a woman up t shirt which I wear to work

I’ve worked with men who’ve attempted to take their lives because they’ve been told to “man up’ so many times they genuinely don’t think it’s ok to not be ok. It’s a damaging phrase for sure and something I advocate strongly about in my work.

“Woman up” I will accept, haha "

It's toxic masculinity at its best. Seen the effects on it on those I love and cherish and I absolutely hate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? "
i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful "

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

I'm always myself but I'm the biggest softie ever"

Me too. But I think we hold our own quite well my love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take anything too seriously and bring cake! I don't like it but everyone else does

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By *arracksCouple
over a year ago

Deal

Thick skin is a good thing I think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that "
why not

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Haha

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hey you are to mind and very respected by all and what a tan

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not "

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol"

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really??

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Haha

hey you are to mind and very respected by all and what a tan "

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Be yourself and have a thick skin

I'm always myself but I'm the biggest softie ever

Me too. But I think we hold our own quite well my love "

I'm soft but happy with it now as I've grown older. It's a part of my personality I now love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really?? "
in my case yes i wake up at 4am happy lol always have

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really?? "

I'm weary of overly happy people I'm such a cynic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol"
really but is their a welcome in the hillside?

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Don't take anything too seriously and bring cake! I don't like it but everyone else does "

How about alcohol instead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really??

I'm weary of overly happy people I'm such a cynic "

I get this. It’s not real life to always be happy. But if you genuinely are, then fair play to you

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

*gawks blankly*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells "

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet? "

Vagina innit

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lolreally but is their a welcome in the hillside? "

Haha I live by the sea!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

Vagina innit"

I can actually do that

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really?? in my case yes i wake up at 4am happy lol always have "

He does

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? "

If you can start a favourite colour/number/car/chocolate bar/etc thread and get over 50 replies, you’re the dog’s doo-dahs

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells "

Good points here, you made me comfortable enough to start talking in the forum's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

Vagina innit

I can actually do that "

You're shagging all wrong..... .....tmi

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really?? in my case yes i wake up at 4am happy lol always have "

Then I admire you greatly

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

Vagina innit

I can actually do that

You're shagging all wrong..... .....tmi "

You know you're not to use that emoji!

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join?

If you can start a favourite colour/number/car/chocolate bar/etc thread and get over 50 replies, you’re the dog’s doo-dahs "

That's the bar ok I'll keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Good points here, you made me comfortable enough to start talking in the forum's "

I didnt say you were funny!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

Vagina innit

I can actually do that

You're shagging all wrong..... .....tmi

You know you're not to use that emoji!"

She knows not to talk about fanny noises.....

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Good points here, you made me comfortable enough to start talking in the forum's

I didnt say you were funny! "

God I'm not funny at all, maybe funny strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? "

I just talk goggly gook anyway & ignored majority of the time , so I’m unsure what makes a good forumite ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Talk with their brain as opposed to....... their feet?

Vagina innit

I can actually do that

You're shagging all wrong..... .....tmi

You know you're not to use that emoji!

She knows not to talk about fanny noises..... "

How do I report someone for misuse of an emoji? I feel shamed for my special talent of vaginal talking

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join?

I just talk goggly gook anyway & ignored majority of the time , so I’m unsure what makes a good forumite ? "

You replied on my thread about wearing casual clothes not all done up, and mighty fine you look in your oh shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join?

I just talk goggly gook anyway & ignored majority of the time , so I’m unsure what makes a good forumite ?

You replied on my thread about wearing casual clothes not all done up, and mighty fine you look in your oh shirt "

Yes I remember now thank you & ditto x

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent


"You've already answered the question.

It's diverse with different personalities, you can't have a 'perfect' personality or attitude to join the forums. Just jump in, be yourself and be nice to others.

As for how we can be more inclusive, that's not going to happen.There's too many people, too many friendships and too much built up prejudice, for others not to feel isolated at first.

"

I agree with this (This is George). I’m still fairly new to the forums, and it is difficult sometimes to feel part of the conversations. But many of the people have been connected for quite a while, and I have had privilege of chatting to a few people privately and made couple of good friends in the process. Pretty much all the people here seem to be really kind and generous, which is Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the ppl I admire here the most are the ones who talk with their brain, engage others and ask opinion rather than talk just about themselves. If you make a point of being polite to everyone, especially on your own threads, and thanking new ppl for commenting I think it goes a long way.

Nothing worse than watching a person being ignored because they're the wrong sex or not traditionally beautiful or haven't found their forum confidence just yet.... ....its really good to encourage the shy ones because often they're the funniest when they come out of their shells

Good points here, you made me comfortable enough to start talking in the forum's

I didnt say you were funny!

God I'm not funny at all, maybe funny strange"

You know I'm kitten and teasing!

You ARE funny in a very clever and subtle way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe. "

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say you cannot have my penis helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join?

I just talk goggly gook anyway & ignored majority of the time , so I’m unsure what makes a good forumite ?

You replied on my thread about wearing casual clothes not all done up, and mighty fine you look in your oh shirt "
i second that..... oh my

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Without sounding too much like a cheesy cliche, being yourself

Some days I like the serious discussions, some days I'm in a silly mood, some days I fancy a good old flirt! I've only been an active forum user these past six months (discovered them when I was laid up in bed) and initially I did find it a bit daunting. Everyone seems to know each other, the running gags etc... But the longer I stick around, the more I enjoy it, and I've made some friends too.

Be more Frida!

Mrs TMN x

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Say you cannot have my penis helps"

Well that shouldn't be a problem since I don't own one F

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Without sounding too much like a cheesy cliche, being yourself

Some days I like the serious discussions, some days I'm in a silly mood, some days I fancy a good old flirt! I've only been an active forum user these past six months (discovered them when I was laid up in bed) and initially I did find it a bit daunting. Everyone seems to know each other, the running gags etc... But the longer I stick around, the more I enjoy it, and I've made some friends too.

Be more Frida!

Mrs TMN x "

Thanks for some sound advice F x

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Without sounding too much like a cheesy cliche, being yourself

Some days I like the serious discussions, some days I'm in a silly mood, some days I fancy a good old flirt! I've only been an active forum user these past six months (discovered them when I was laid up in bed) and initially I did find it a bit daunting. Everyone seems to know each other, the running gags etc... But the longer I stick around, the more I enjoy it, and I've made some friends too.

Be more Frida!

Mrs TMN x

Thanks for some sound advice F x"

You're very welcome lovely x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Just jump in if you have an opinion or can give advice etc. Took me a while to find the rhythm of it.

But you'll get there "

Yes.

All forums take breaking into, it's the nature of the beast.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking. "

Is it? Or are some people just genuinely like that in real life, therefore it’s not fake at all? And how would you know?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Is hard to jump in sometimes, and I still have no clue what's going on in some threads. Guess it's time and patience"

I didn't even realise you were new so you're doing something right

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

Is it? Or are some people just genuinely like that in real life, therefore it’s not fake at all? And how would you know? "

I see a lot of negativity and people trying to combat it.

I am how I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking. "

I was just thinking what a grumpy bunch of bastards there are on the forums

I suppose it can depend what threads you read.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is "

Eww let's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

I was just thinking what a grumpy bunch of bastards there are on the forums

I suppose it can depend what threads you read. "

(This profile) how weird I might be physcic

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

I was just thinking what a grumpy bunch of bastards there are on the forums

I suppose it can depend what threads you read.

(This profile) how weird I might be physcic "

Or maybe I am!

I don't think either of us would stand a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

Is it? Or are some people just genuinely like that in real life, therefore it’s not fake at all? And how would you know? "

My perception will be the same as some and different to others.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking. "

There are a lot of rimming threads I'll give you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

I was just thinking what a grumpy bunch of bastards there are on the forums

I suppose it can depend what threads you read. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not. "

Why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

I was just thinking what a grumpy bunch of bastards there are on the forums

I suppose it can depend what threads you read.

(This profile) how weird I might be physcic

Or maybe I am!

I don't think either of us would stand a chance "

Maybe we're just meant to be together and speak for yourself I'm popular as fuck on here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why"

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings. "

Many thumbs to this!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings. "

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Narcissism is behaving like a daffodil isn't?

Around for a brief time before wilting away

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is "

I'll save you all some time, it's me!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

I'll save you all some time, it's me! "

Certainly put above some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Narcissism is behaving like a daffodil isn't?

Around for a brief time before wilting away "

Still confuzzled

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Narcissism is behaving like a daffodil isn't?

Around for a brief time before wilting away "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What makes a good forumite? As a relatively newbie to the forums, I'm unsure what it all means in all honesty. I can see a wide range of people with diversity of opinions, some are funny and playful. Is it the eclectic mix so there is no right answer? And how do we make it more inclusive for others to join? i am the perfect forumite, non judgemental, constant happy mood, comedic and playful

Waw constantly happy fair play I can't manage that why not

Cause I'm a grumpy moo very often lol

Haha I don’t know anyone who’s mood is always jolly. 100% of the time, 24/7? Really?? "

I'm very very rarely unhappy tbh I like my little world that I live in!

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"Is hard to jump in sometimes, and I still have no clue what's going on in some threads. Guess it's time and patience

I didn't even realise you were new so you're doing something right "

Aw thank you

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"No right answer. Anyone trying too hard to be one thing or another to fit in though just makes me cringe.

I agree. The whole forum is sickly sweet lately. It's all fake Stepford wives smiles and arse licking.

Is it? Or are some people just genuinely like that in real life, therefore it’s not fake at all? And how would you know?

I see a lot of negativity and people trying to combat it.

I am how I am. "

There's a lot to be said about being genuine to yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do we make it more inclusive? I guess joining in and contributing to their threads, without ripping them apart for the amusement of the blood thirsty pack?

It's very hard these days to create unique threads, so maybe new people are what's most needed? It's also very demoralising to have your thread crash and burn with no replies, but ultimately just contribute. This place is nothing without people of all types. It's why I come back.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

One who has their own opinion and doesn't follow the crowd yet doesn't force that opinion on others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy who aren't afraid to fuck watermelons on cam

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


" How do we make it more inclusive? I guess joining in and contributing to their threads, without ripping them apart for the amusement of the blood thirsty pack?

It's very hard these days to create unique threads, so maybe new people are what's most needed? It's also very demoralising to have your thread crash and burn with no replies, but ultimately just contribute. This place is nothing without people of all types. It's why I come back."

One of my first totally crashed and burned only 4 people answered on it. But you're right this a diverse place

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"One who has their own opinion and doesn't follow the crowd yet doesn't force that opinion on others. "

100% agree with you there

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"A guy who aren't afraid to fuck watermelons on cam "

Hmm not seen this from those I've come across yet, but I'm sure they are a ledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy who aren't afraid to fuck watermelons on cam "

Top 3

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"A guy who aren't afraid to fuck watermelons on cam "

... is this what all the watermelon comments are about!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction"

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One who has their own opinion and doesn't follow the crowd yet doesn't force that opinion on others.

100% agree with you there"

Glad I'm your faves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been participating in the Forums for years and most of the time feel unnoticed. It's not just newbies that can feel isolated or ignored. Early on I realised that the confrontational threads weren't for me as I can't express my feelings very well with typed words so I avoid them. Everyone is different here, some funny people, some total dicks which is a little how families are made up. Everyone plays a part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others. "

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up "

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

To be a really good forumite you have to be very active on the forums almost every hour of the day. Therefore a really good forumite will probably be a little bit dull in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you. "

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"One who has their own opinion and doesn't follow the crowd yet doesn't force that opinion on others.

100% agree with you there

Glad I'm your faves "

I asked what made a good forumite not what made them my favourite. I actually find some I don't like to be good, be boring if we were all the same.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"I've been participating in the Forums for years and most of the time feel unnoticed. It's not just newbies that can feel isolated or ignored. Early on I realised that the confrontational threads weren't for me as I can't express my feelings very well with typed words so I avoid them. Everyone is different here, some funny people, some total dicks which is a little how families are made up. Everyone plays a part. "

That's a really good point it's like a mini family

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"To be a really good forumite you have to be very active on the forums almost every hour of the day. Therefore a really good forumite will probably be a little bit dull in real life.

"

Haha I'm dull as dishwasher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be a really good forumite you have to be very active on the forums almost every hour of the day. Therefore a really good forumite will probably be a little bit dull in real life.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here "

Not to get technical but... attention seeking fits more with a histrionic personality. You might be that instead. It basically depends how much you love yourself with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One who has their own opinion and doesn't follow the crowd yet doesn't force that opinion on others.

100% agree with you there

Glad I'm your faves

I asked what made a good forumite not what made them my favourite. I actually find some I don't like to be good, be boring if we were all the same."

Well I'm happy I'm a good one in people's eyes either not really asked who likes me or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here

Not to get technical but... attention seeking fits more with a histrionic personality. You might be that instead. It basically depends how much you love yourself with it "

I'm sorry I'm confused now lol but I do love myself also maybe I'm just an arsehole

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Someone civil kind who involves everyone someone not self obsessed and someone who doesn't wind people up just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here

Not to get technical but... attention seeking fits more with a histrionic personality. You might be that instead. It basically depends how much you love yourself with it

I'm sorry I'm confused now lol but I do love myself also maybe I'm just an arsehole "

Haha. You’re a nice mix of narcissistic and histrionic then.

I don’t know what makes a good formumite, but I imagine having studied and worked within the field of human psychology and personality for the past 12 years probably makes me an unpopular one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here

Not to get technical but... attention seeking fits more with a histrionic personality. You might be that instead. It basically depends how much you love yourself with it

I'm sorry I'm confused now lol but I do love myself also maybe I'm just an arsehole

Haha. You’re a nice mix of narcissistic and histrionic then.

I don’t know what makes a good formumite, but I imagine having studied and worked within the field of human psychology and personality for the past 12 years probably makes me an unpopular one "

nice to have a bit of depth to my character, you're so brainy and hot my brain has discombobulated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We should have a vote and see who's people fave forumite is, my monies on either me or NSA chick or whatever the name is

Eww let's not.

Why

A thread of narcissism, people up each other's arses, cries of clique and hurt feelings.

Dunno what narcissism means, everyone likes there arse licked, clique on the forum ? I would never believe that and of people's feelings are hurt because they're not someone's fave forumite maybe they should look elsewhere for social interaction

Narcissism is a personality trait defined mostly by a sense of entitlement, overly inflated sense of self-importance, and a need for admiration by others.

Oh so me in other words thanks for clearing that up

That’s the definition. If you identify with it, then yes it’s you.

Of course I'm the biggest attention seeker on here

Not to get technical but... attention seeking fits more with a histrionic personality. You might be that instead. It basically depends how much you love yourself with it

I'm sorry I'm confused now lol but I do love myself also maybe I'm just an arsehole

Haha. You’re a nice mix of narcissistic and histrionic then.

I don’t know what makes a good formumite, but I imagine having studied and worked within the field of human psychology and personality for the past 12 years probably makes me an unpopular one

nice to have a bit of depth to my character, you're so brainy and hot my brain has discombobulated"

I love that word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been participating in the Forums for years and most of the time feel unnoticed. It's not just newbies that can feel isolated or ignored. Early on I realised that the confrontational threads weren't for me as I can't express my feelings very well with typed words so I avoid them. Everyone is different here, some funny people, some total dicks which is a little how families are made up. Everyone plays a part. "

I notice you.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

We are just being ourselves. Always very pleasant and respectful with a touch of humour when we can.

People will either like us or they won't.

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By *emorefrida OP   Couple
over a year ago

La la land


"We are just being ourselves. Always very pleasant and respectful with a touch of humour when we can.

People will either like us or they won't."

Love that kind of attitude

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