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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do? "

Yeah mate they always get back to you just have a little patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted to reply, they’d most likely reply instantly.

I used to read all my messages the do a bulk delete twice a week. For some reason men would tell me I’m ‘leading them on’ by not instantly deleting their message....how on earth can me ignoring you, be leading you on?!

If I’ve read a message that I want to reply to but don’t have the time, I’ll mark it as unread until I have the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do?

Yeah mate they always get back to you just have a little patience "

I’m happy to wait, I’m not going know where lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they wanted to reply, they’d most likely reply instantly.

I used to read all my messages the do a bulk delete twice a week. For some reason men would tell me I’m ‘leading them on’ by not instantly deleting their message....how on earth can me ignoring you, be leading you on?!

If I’ve read a message that I want to reply to but don’t have the time, I’ll mark it as unread until I have the time. "

Cock tease

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do? "

Probably a good idea to delete your sent mail

D.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If they wanted to reply, they’d most likely reply instantly.

I used to read all my messages the do a bulk delete twice a week. For some reason men would tell me I’m ‘leading them on’ by not instantly deleting their message....how on earth can me ignoring you, be leading you on?!

If I’ve read a message that I want to reply to but don’t have the time, I’ll mark it as unread

until I have the time. "

Oh makes sense, I can hope lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume they are like me and lazy with their inbox! I sometimes open a message and have no intention of replying but I just leave it unread until I get around to deleting it

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Sometimes we leave them open but no reply initially because only one of us has seen it and wait until we both have read before replying. It depends on the nature of the message.

Others just don't "manage" their In-box and leave messages to drop off the radar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

read not unread*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to send a wink about 20 mins after they’ve read it. Then a pic of my cock after a further 10 mins

If they delete those I resend as I assume they deleted it by mistake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do? "

I put exactly zero thought into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always delete the ones I'm not intending to reply to. Sometimes though I read it, want to reply then get distracted or don't have time there and then but forget to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just assume they are like me and lazy with their inbox! I sometimes open a message and have no intention of replying but I just leave it unread until I get around to deleting it "

I used to do this but I don't get as many messages now, it's much easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep messaging they always reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep messaging they always reply"

Why would you keep messaging? Do you get positive replys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep messaging they always reply

Why would you keep messaging? Do you get positive replys? "

He's winding you up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep messaging they always reply

Why would you keep messaging? Do you get positive replys?

He's winding you up. "

Oh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to send a wink about 20 mins after they’ve read it. Then a pic of my cock after a further 10 mins

If they delete those I resend as I assume they deleted it by mistake. "

I just snorted my coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you send a message and it is read and not deleted, do you think they are leaving there just in case they come back to it later?

What do you guys do? "

Assume there was no interest. Delete it yourself and move on. Do not pester.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I tend to send a wink about 20 mins after they’ve read it. Then a pic of my cock after a further 10 mins

If they delete those I resend as I assume they deleted it by mistake.

I just snorted my coffee "

How many lines?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to send a wink about 20 mins after they’ve read it. Then a pic of my cock after a further 10 mins

If they delete those I resend as I assume they deleted it by mistake.

I just snorted my coffee "

Someone is after a buzz! Your meant to drink it not put it up your nose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on usually reply straight away don’t pester people if they don’t answer

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By *khotcouple20Couple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

If its been read and deleted it probably means they weren't interested.. No hard feelings.. Plenty more fish in the sea

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