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By *he riverdeep69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s when they get a bit of confidence and a few friends behind them

They think they can say anything

Put someone down to make themselves bigger

I’ve seen it many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of its downright nasty, but some of its banter, albeit not very well delivered.

Its endemic within the human race! I know I've made off the cuff remarks, which on reflection may have been taken the wrong way.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I always avoid the negative posts and posters. No time for drama. Suppose it's a good way of them self filtering themselves though x

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

No different to any other social media forum, its faceless so no consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (her) totally agree, i felt too intimidated to post previously but now I dont give those people the courtesy of my attention. Focusing solely on the nice people, of which outway the negative.

Please continue to rise above it and post on the forum just like the rest of us are entitled to do

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

There seems to have been alot of nastiness the past few days, really negative, bitchy posts. I'm no angel but some things have even shocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's everywhere. Facebook is a fucking bear pit for it. I think it stems from people's own insecurities and unhappiness and self loathing and lashing out makes them feel temporarily better. In the long run though it will just make you feel worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality transplant maybe but hair cut is a step too far.

Listen peeps, people may ask for advice but surely the answer is for people to be themselves?

That way they'll connect with others who match their needs. Advising people to be something they aren't is setting both sides up for disappointment in my eyes and logic.

Ok we can share tips on clubs, socials and the such but other than that I think it's dangerous territory personally.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool


"No different to any other social media forum, its faceless so no consequences"

Exactly this I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There seems to have been alot of nastiness the past few days, really negative, bitchy posts. I'm no angel but some things have even shocked me."

This is true. In a nice way though I think this has been balanced out by ‘feel good’ threads. I’ve personally sent more virtual hugs this week than I can remember previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as real life. Arseholes are everywhere. Also we’re only human and sometimes when something touches us deeply we lash out...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just want to watch the world burn

As I watch batman

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The part that amuses me is people that don't realise it isn't just those their comments are directed towards that take note.

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By *he riverdeep69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Just not right to be so horrible.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people."

There are some vile people on the forums.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice"

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people."

It’s no doubt a combination of people being genuinely that vile in real life, and the added appeal of hiding behind a keyboard to deliver their nastiness. Sadly, a reflection of some members of society...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"It's everywhere. Facebook is a fucking bear pit for it. I think it stems from people's own insecurities and unhappiness and self loathing and lashing out makes them feel temporarily better. In the long run though it will just make you feel worse. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights" "

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ... "

I hate this phrase too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ... "

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new "

Every day is a school day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As most seem to think there are haters, cliques trouble makers who are so unhappy with their own lives they resort to attacking people they seem vulnerable and they can target. Its not new though its gone on for years with various cliques over the year who attack in packs and defend each other.

Best bet is just to avoid them and not get dragged into their petty games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ... "

Wasnt really looking for “White Knight” status I’m just not a fan of watching people being treated like crap for asking a question especially when the trolls are being as pedantic as to pick at spelling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new "

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive certainly noticed this a lot lately, and its put me off coming on the forums which are usually quite enjoyable.

Unnecessary arsey comments or stupid things said to derail a perfectly decent thread.

Everyone likes to give an opinion its human nature but then just pass a thread by if you haven’t anything proactive to contribute.

More love, kindness and uplifting please

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

There are just as many good/nice/positive threads but it happens that it's the negative comments or threads that seem to stick in our minds more x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ... "

Absolutely. It seems to mostly be other men who say it too. Judging others by their own standards I reckon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else "

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls "

You tried little puppy *pats head*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Absolutely. It seems to mostly be other men who say it too. Judging others by their own standards I reckon. "

That’s a good point, it does seem to be mostly men. Although I have seen the odd female agree with the idea. Strikes me as sad that some women have had such poor experiences of men that they are full of this type of cynicism to think men can’t be nice to just, well, be nice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*"

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a fine line between banter and trolling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people."

Can see this as a negative post, just saying it how it is. Lots of guys post in forums about how they can't get a meeting and site shite etc etc and people do get fed up with myriad of "oh woe is me" posts, which automatically gets the angst.

Forums in all walks of life are for moans and gripes, it is the nature of the beast. When things are good how many posts do you ever see saying that. Also get people think their opinions are the only ones that matter. Ultimately Forums are used as a way of getting attention which they can't get other ways, they are a hot pot negative emotions, it is just the way it is.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ...... "

Of course. Men only know filth and manipulation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ...... "

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

Of course. Men only know filth and manipulation."

Oof ... sweeping generalisation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as real life. Arseholes are everywhere. Also we’re only human and sometimes when something touches us deeply we lash out..."

This is very true

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse "

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've noticed this too lately. Maybe it's the cold, dark, gloomy winter months which make people dark and gloomy inside.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

Of course. Men only know filth and manipulation.

Oof ... sweeping generalisation "

You know it's true monkey

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

One thing we can do in these situations is just be positive.

Be helpful rather than negative and spread love and joy in our posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive certainly noticed this a lot lately, and its put me off coming on the forums which are usually quite enjoyable.

Unnecessary arsey comments or stupid things said to derail a perfectly decent thread.

Everyone likes to give an opinion its human nature but then just pass a thread by if you haven’t anything proactive to contribute.

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*"

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

Of course. Men only know filth and manipulation.

Oof ... sweeping generalisation

You know it's true monkey "

Pfft I can't even spell flith and manipplesation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social media has a lot to answer for, male is a bit of a Twitter addict and the hate on there purely for having a different opinion to someone else is horrendous

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff "

Only if you sit and give me your paw.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

Of course. Men only know filth and manipulation.

Oof ... sweeping generalisation

You know it's true monkey

Pfft I can't even spell flith and manipplesation"

Manipulation even begins with man. Just saying

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people.

Can see this as a negative post, just saying it how it is. Lots of guys post in forums about how they can't get a meeting and site shite etc etc and people do get fed up with myriad of "oh woe is me" posts, which automatically gets the angst.

."

The threads asking for advice are easily avoided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

Only if you sit and give me your paw."

I can do that one ! I can also lay down, kinda roll over and I know when there is a bird in the trees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leave them be it makes it easier to avoid or block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social media has a lot to answer for, male is a bit of a Twitter addict and the hate on there purely for having a different opinion to someone else is horrendous"

I heard that opinions are like arsehole, everyone has one and I find that amusing but yeah twitter and all social

Media is awful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many people on hear are indeed very judgemental and or if not damn right rude. However, it’s totally normal for people to make judgments based upon observations. Even I do this and reserve my block button for anyone who deem it acceptable and or attractive to were sovereign rings and or more than 3 rings on anyone hand. But primarily I am more judgmental to the many on hear so vapid and self-absorbed and totally concerned with appearance and peer perception.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think the OP is right, there has been a whole load of nasty posts at the moment, some dressed up as "banter"

Banter is only funny if the person it is aimed at is joining in on the joke. Carrying on regardless of someone being upset is not banter

Advice threads ...if people are annoyed with them, avoid them altogether. We all need advice at times.

If a mod misses anything that looks dodgy please report

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't judge anyone til I've walked a mile in their shoes. Then if they turn out to be an arsehole I'm a mile away. And I've got their shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same as real life. Arseholes are everywhere. Also we’re only human and sometimes when something touches us deeply we lash out..."

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I don't judge anyone til I've walked a mile in their shoes. Then if they turn out to be an arsehole I'm a mile away. And I've got their shoes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

Only if you sit and give me your paw.

I can do that one ! I can also lay down, kinda roll over and I know when there is a bird in the trees. "

Are you pretending to be a puppy to get laid?

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

Only if you sit and give me your paw.

I can do that one ! I can also lay down, kinda roll over and I know when there is a bird in the trees.

Are you pretending to be a puppy to get laid? "

White Puppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing we can do in these situations is just be positive.

Be helpful rather than negative and spread love and joy in our posts. "

Truth is you can't be positive in forums either, you say how wonderful life is then that will immediately cause angst in many.

Guess can post lots about the weather lol, or politics

Oh Opinion:

In the next general election it is not about the best PM/Government for the country. It who is the least worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

Only if you sit and give me your paw.

I can do that one ! I can also lay down, kinda roll over and I know when there is a bird in the trees.

Are you pretending to be a puppy to get laid?

White Puppy "

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Why are some people just down right nasty and judgemental on the forums? Read a few horrible posts lately where people have been slated asking for advice, so far as to suggest the OP is not successful cos they need a decent hair cut. Really?! Are these people that vile in real life or is it the keyboard warrior mentality taking over?

No wonder people are scared of posting. Spread some love people."

I find it difficult to say what I mean via the written word. Sometimes I think others are the same and are misunderstood. Also threads fill so quickly, responses are typed quickly rather than thought about.

Some people are just having a bad day and take it out on others.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I seen afew men post about their struggles to connect because of the competition etc or lack of profile writing skills... But I got my friend to do an experiment and he signed up laat night. He has two dates lined up and chatting to many of women. He lives in a rural area... So surely it's the delivery of the chat that helps men be successful? I stopped posting in these forums as I seem to get trolled alot for being honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stood up for an OP who was looking for advice and was bombarded with abuse I was dubbed a rat and had abuse thrown at myself doesn’t phase me being mocked but it’s not right to jump on people who looking for genuine advice

Agreed. Or if it's a woman men are called "white knights"

I can’t stand this phrase! Men are just not allowed to be genuinely nice people on here - they must always be saying nice things for sex. People are so narrow minded ...

Is that what white knights mean ! Oh wow this is embarrassing and I’ve learned something new

Yes it’s a revelation isn’t it. So remember - don’t be nice to females on here. You will be considered manipulative because you’re only doing it for sex. Nothing else

Ooo that’s it from now on I’ll be mean to all females ! I’ll huff and I’ll puff and I’ll blow your house down ! Grrrrr rawrrrrr, how was that for not being nice ? For my first time thought it was pretty good lots growls

You tried little puppy *pats head*

Awww. That was quite cute.

oh wait- he’s trying to be cute. Shit, get away immediately. Must be a white knight situation ......

I’m really actually just super happy being called a puppy and pretend head pats. I’m fairly easy to amuse

Who's a good boy? *tummy rub*

Pitter patter and scuffle of feet’s as I run too the treats jar for being bestest pupper ‘pwease’ ruff ruff

Only if you sit and give me your paw.

I can do that one ! I can also lay down, kinda roll over and I know when there is a bird in the trees.

Are you pretending to be a puppy to get laid?

White Puppy

"

So I have been rumbled time to think of another diabolical scheme muhahahh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen afew men post about their struggles to connect because of the competition etc or lack of profile writing skills... But I got my friend to do an experiment and he signed up laat night. He has two dates lined up and chatting to many of women. He lives in a rural area... So surely it's the delivery of the chat that helps men be successful? I stopped posting in these forums as I seem to get trolled alot for being honest. "

I think it depends on how they approach people. Some people will never reply no matter what. But many get so fed up of a certain type of message, anything decent really stands out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen afew men post about their struggles to connect because of the competition etc or lack of profile writing skills... But I got my friend to do an experiment and he signed up laat night. He has two dates lined up and chatting to many of women. He lives in a rural area... So surely it's the delivery of the chat that helps men be successful? I stopped posting in these forums as I seem to get trolled alot for being honest.

I think it depends on how they approach people. Some people will never reply no matter what. But many get so fed up of a certain type of message, anything decent really stands out. "

That's so true.

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