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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever? "An interesting take i'd never considered. I always assumed both terms were one and the same. | |||
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"I'd agree with this! I'm a total slut but would deck someone if they called me a slag! The two are so different in my opinion! My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever? " | |||
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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever? "A woman who is sexual liberated and likes multiple partners is not a slut or a slag. Nither should be used to describe any woman unless she asks you to. So the definition is irrelevant. | |||
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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever?
A woman who is sexual liberated and likes multiple partners is not a slut or a slag. Nither should be used to describe any woman unless she asks you to. So the definition is irrelevant. "No but the opinion of others is very relevant to myself... thank you for your input though ofcourse  | |||
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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever?
A woman who is sexual liberated and likes multiple partners is not a slut or a slag. Nither should be used to describe any woman unless she asks you to. So the definition is irrelevant.
No but the opinion of others is very relevant to myself... thank you for your input though ofcourse "Well that what I gave you... My opinion! | |||
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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever?
A woman who is sexual liberated and likes multiple partners is not a slut or a slag. Nither should be used to describe any woman unless she asks you to. So the definition is irrelevant.
No but the opinion of others is very relevant to myself... thank you for your input though ofcourse
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"My opinion... A slut has a standard to maintain she has self respect and doesn’t put it about she can be filthy behind closed doors but is very selective about who with... We’re as a slag doesn’t have self respect an fucks anythin William to show her abit of attention.. no standards what so ever? "Aye that | |||
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"I don’t like either term. " And that too  | |||
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"A Slag is; “A South London Aggro Girl” well that’s what we used to say as kids. Lol " Awkward, I'm from South London | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... " But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. | |||
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"I see slag as an insult but slut as more of a mid shag kinda word " Precisely am not offended when called a slut but the word slag has me wanting to punch someone?? | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. " And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... | |||
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"I love being called a dirty slut but would not be happy if called a slag at all x" Thank you haha!! | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... " Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. | |||
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"A Slag is; “A South London Aggro Girl” well that’s what we used to say as kids. Lol Awkward, I'm from South London "Lol, I’m from North London so that’s why we probably said it.  | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. " Simply saying?.. if you ram it any harder ile heave why so defensive as you pointed out it’s a discussion | |||
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"I'm not sure but I find being called a slut in bed hot but not slag." Same makes me so horny when I wear my slut collar | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. Simply saying?.. if you ram it any harder ile heave why so defensive as you pointed out it’s a discussion "I'm not being defensive. You only seem interested in people that agree with you. | |||
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"So i asked this question on my status a few days ago quite colourful replies i got aswell... What is the diffrence.. is there one.. Between a slag and a slut? I think there is personally but what does everyone else think? "Slag - a woman who will fuck anyone. Slut - a woman who owns her sexuality, loves cock, is fussy. | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P" OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. Simply saying?.. if you ram it any harder ile heave why so defensive as you pointed out it’s a discussion
I'm not being defensive. You only seem interested in people that agree with you. "Far from it am interested in people that have constructive opinions wether they be the same or polar opposite to my own not people who jump on and tell me the diffrence is irrelevant as you did in ur 1st comment | |||
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"Are we shaming......? It appears so and seems that people think its acceptable. " Some women choose to own the word and therefore it loses its negativity. | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. " I thought it was a unisex thing. A behaviour not a gender. Of course I'm aware of the sexual divide in so much as chaps would get called a ladies man or the such if he slept about and was somewhat revered (normally by other blokes) but I was of the impression things were changing. I personally don't see a difference regardless of gender. P P | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. Simply saying?.. if you ram it any harder ile heave why so defensive as you pointed out it’s a discussion
I'm not being defensive. You only seem interested in people that agree with you.
Far from it am interested in people that have constructive opinions wether they be the same or polar opposite to my own not people who jump on and tell me the diffrence is irrelevant as you did in ur 1st comment"I do did have something constructive to say and I feel it is irrelevant so therefore a valid opinion no need to take it personally. | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. " I didn't either word was gender specific - I've heard women called and sluts and slags and men being called sluts and slags, except the latter was usually by Ray Winstone or Gary Oldman. | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. " I think it's acceptable to call men sluts/slags. | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. Simply saying?.. if you ram it any harder ile heave why so defensive as you pointed out it’s a discussion
I'm not being defensive. You only seem interested in people that agree with you.
Far from it am interested in people that have constructive opinions wether they be the same or polar opposite to my own not people who jump on and tell me the diffrence is irrelevant as you did in ur 1st comment
I do did have something constructive to say and I feel it is irrelevant so therefore a valid opinion no need to take it personally. "Am you’ve said it... quoted it to the majority of people that have commented am not explaining my reason for asking all over again we’ve heard you loud an clear... your the only person commenting on this causing it to sound worse than it is.... get yourself a chamomile tea an chill out.. we e all heard your opinion now don’t worry... | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. I thought it was a unisex thing. A behaviour not a gender. Of course I'm aware of the sexual divide in so much as chaps would get called a ladies man or the such if he slept about and was somewhat revered (normally by other blokes) but I was of the impression things were changing. I personally don't see a difference regardless of gender. P P" I agree and that's my point. As many have said, some love being called it by someone that had earn the right. I just don't think it's ever OK to call a woman a slag just because her standards don't meet yours. I asls agree with what you said about the gender thing but it's mainly used towards women. | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. " I think she's just defining the meaning of the words to her and therefore why she is fine with one herself but thinks the other isn't a nice word to call someone rather than using it in reference to any women. Offensive words exist and explaining their definition doesn't mean you agree with them being used. | |||
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"I don't see any shaming, just garnering of descriptive opinion. I have a collar with "slut" on it, for when I'm feeling slutty. I'm not ashamed that I feel that way at times....I own it, hence labelling myself that when the mood takes me. I agree with the OPs definition as to what the words mean to me and how I interpret them. The difference to me is the WHY they're opening their legs. One enjoys it and is selective, has self esteem and self respect. The other is almost a cry for help and attention and will get it however they can, lacking self respect and self worth, searching for it in the wrong places and placing their value on other people wanting them. Our interpretation comes from what we've heard growing up etc and our own experiences. P OK but if its not shaming women, why isn't there a male equivalent. I thought it was a unisex thing. A behaviour not a gender. Of course I'm aware of the sexual divide in so much as chaps would get called a ladies man or the such if he slept about and was somewhat revered (normally by other blokes) but I was of the impression things were changing. I personally don't see a difference regardless of gender. P P I agree and that's my point. As many have said, some love being called it by someone that had earn the right. I just don't think it's ever OK to call a woman a slag just because her standards don't meet yours. I asls agree with what you said about the gender thing but it's mainly used towards women. " One thing I've learned on social media is that no-one can insult me without my acceptance of it. I therefore stay empowered. | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. I think she's just defining the meaning of the words to her and therefore why she is fine with one herself but thinks the other isn't a nice word to call someone rather than using it in reference to any women. Offensive words exist and explaining their definition doesn't mean you agree with them being used." Fully agree with you.. was my personal opinion what either ment not once did i label anybody a slag just what i thought the diffrence was thank you | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. I think she's just defining the meaning of the words to her and therefore why she is fine with one herself but thinks the other isn't a nice word to call someone rather than using it in reference to any women. Offensive words exist and explaining their definition doesn't mean you agree with them being used. Fully agree with you.. was my personal opinion what either ment not once did i label anybody a slag just what i thought the diffrence was thank you " Yes but there was absolutely no need to patronise me and be derogatory. Not everyone finds it easy to read between the lines. | |||
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"And therefore i conclude... am not the only person on the land to think the 2 differ and greatly for that matter but there is always one isn’t there.... Enjoy guys ( an girls )
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"And therefore i conclude... am not the only person on the land to think the 2 differ and greatly for that matter but there is always one isn’t there.... Enjoy guys ( an girls )
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"Being a reet posh bastard, I prefer the terms wench and hussie "Now av never even heard them words used ever a don’t think  | |||
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"From a non native english speaker: Using the word slut during height of passion is encouraged and rewarded - using the word slag instead is a no cum and lot of pain experience (the perks of learning a different language...used the word cow innocently on different occasion....not the best idea) sorry not very scientific " But appreciated thank you | |||
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"Am not shaming anybody... The question stems from me politely declining an offer a few days ago and him then telling me i was a little slag really?? Therefore it had my mind thinking about the diffrence... But saying someone that you think doesn't have standards is a slag is shaming. You didn't like it so why say that you would difine a certain type of woman as a slag is shaming. And like av just said am not trying to shame anybody it was a genuine question that myself had bin thinking about and where as you have your opinion I also have my own... Yes but I disagree with you and that's fine as its a discussion. I was simply saying if its a term you find offensive being called than its not right to define any woman as a slag. I think she's just defining the meaning of the words to her and therefore why she is fine with one herself but thinks the other isn't a nice word to call someone rather than using it in reference to any women. Offensive words exist and explaining their definition doesn't mean you agree with them being used."  | |||
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"So i asked this question on my status a few days ago quite colourful replies i got aswell... What is the diffrence.. is there one.. Between a slag and a slut? I think there is personally but what does everyone else think? "I suppose it's all to do with context and who and why someone is using each term. Generally both are derogatory terms used negativity to describe woman. As with all derogatory statements, the user has usually has nothing meaningful to say so results to personal insults. However, between to consenting individuals, phrases and words can be used to heighten and add fun to their sex lives. | |||
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