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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I kind of come off as snobby about it when I do. So -
Heres the thing with tantra - FOR ME and in my opinion only, as everyone has their own opinions and everyine has their own mechanisms as to how they do things in their lives to assist them in their physical, emotional, sexual, and personal states of life and mind.
Tantra, to me, is something I try and practice daily - for myself. The breathing, the relaxation, the energy flow, the centering and the balance. For me, and in my own opinion, it assists me in how I live and in how I connect with others.
When I do massages, I am then even and balanced with myself which to me, in my opinion, is beneficial to my clients and to me as I want for them to feel pleasure and be pleasured. Orgasm is not the goal to me in tantra, in my own opinion, it is letting go of everything, it is allowing my energy and my natural state to assist someone to a heightened sense of being or a different plateau of self or awareness in their sexual, emotional, or physical state.
Yes, people can cum or orgasm. Sometimes several times. Yes, people also cry or shiver or shake or laugh or fart or burp or go into a sleeping state or even have slight body tremors arise in any region. It's all part of the process and it is something I am consistently trying to improve myself with so I can further myself and my clients on their journey.
I hope this comes off right. |