FabSwingers.com forum: Cross dress or transvestite

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

So must of you would consider them to be the same, maybe they are..

But sorry my thoughts are different

I’m a TV

I try to be as feminine as possible, it’s not just about dressing in female clothes, I’m guessing a lot of guys wear their wives outfits and hope they don’t notice!!

I have a large array of clothes, lingerie, wigs, makeup, false boobs eyelashes, loopy, handbags, coats. Everything

I try to stay as smooth as possible.

I am not a cd!

I am trans

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

My ex partner went mad and told me to get out when she caught me cross dressing.

So i gathered up all her clothes and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So must of you would consider them to be the same, maybe they are..

But sorry my thoughts are different

I’m a TV

I try to be as feminine as possible, it’s not just about dressing in female clothes, I’m guessing a lot of guys wear their wives outfits and hope they don’t notice!!

I have a large array of clothes, lingerie, wigs, makeup, false boobs eyelashes, loopy, handbags, coats. Everything

I try to stay as smooth as possible.

I am not a cd!

I am trans"

Hear hear

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By *orkshire biMan
over a year ago

elland

I told my wife earlier this year and she's been great. She even buys me clothes. Just wish I got more chance to dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think some people just need to accept that a lot of people can't dress as much or as far as they like

i'm cool with whatever someone wants to call their self

some people cant shave off body hair for certain reasons or do make up

the only thing i fend offensive is someone being described as a HPW

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I wait till she goes on holiday with her parents then wear her sexy panties to work for a whole week it's the sexist part of my year lol

Sorry I forgot the question.

I'm straight but bet all men feel a little feminine sometimes

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

What's a HPW

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"What's a HPW"

Hairy pantie wearer.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"What's a HPW

Hairy pantie wearer."

I was going to ask that too x

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By *amantha ABCTV/TS
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I just wondering but why does everything have to have a label on here.Every one is on here for more or less the same outcome sex labels dont mean anything where sex is concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference."

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Everything that the OP said

And of course it's even more complicated than that. It's sometimes said in jest that ask any ten trans people about how they see themselves, and you'll get eleven different answers.

Much like the OP, I regard myself as transgender rather than cross dresser, however I more particularly identify as bi-gender. At times I feel more masculine, at times I feel more feminine. At times I present myself in public as male, at times I present myself as female. These times do not always line up - there are occasions where for reasons I may be dressed female, but internally feeling horribly male. More often there are occasions where I am forced to appear as male, but my mind and emotions are screaming "female".

And then there's sexuality to consider... But that's another complicated story.

CD, TV, t-girl, transgender, TS... a handful of labels, for a host of differing identities. Which ones are genuine? All of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am me, you are you and they are they. Game over.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I am the walrus

Goo goo g'joob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am the walrus

Goo goo g'joob"

Just popping over to Spotify

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"So must of you would consider them to be the same, maybe they are..

But sorry my thoughts are different

I’m a TV

I try to be as feminine as possible, it’s not just about dressing in female clothes, I’m guessing a lot of guys wear their wives outfits and hope they don’t notice!!

I have a large array of clothes, lingerie, wigs, makeup, false boobs eyelashes, loopy, handbags, coats. Everything

I try to stay as smooth as possible.

I am not a cd!

I am trans"
I would have thought the difference was obvious,, live it as to delve into it from time to time ??

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Everything that the OP said

And of course it's even more complicated than that. It's sometimes said in jest that ask any ten trans people about how they see themselves, and you'll get eleven different answers.

And then there's sexuality to consider... But that's another complicated story.

CD, TV, t-girl, transgender, TS... a handful of labels, for a host of differing identities. Which ones are genuine? All of them

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I am mainly referring to FTM transsexuals.

I am a crossdresser, I do try to be feminine as possible but sadly I can't shave.

There is a big difference between me and a TV, TV have gone much further than me. They are smooth all over, also try to emulate women closer.

Then you have TS, they are for all intense purposes a woman. Most of them have done a lot of issues to finally come to terms with what they are.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I am who I am and I don’t really care if I’m labelled. O do what I want when I want and if I get away with stealing the next door neighbours lingerie off the line and he doesn’t notice. So be it

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Just commenting to bookmark as I'm interested in the comments but I'm not really arsed what label anyone wants to give me. I'm me. That's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be CD I guess as it never leaves the house just a little fun for me and me

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Just do whatever makes you comfortable or happy, and let others worry about a label.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do whatever makes you comfortable or happy, and let others worry about a label.

I’d be comfier with a bigger lock on the bathroom door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not got a clue what I am gave that up years ago. Now I am me. I enjoy life as best as I can. Label free x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Transvestite is the closest term for me, although if my circumstances were different I may have considered the TG route. They weren't so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think some people just need to accept that a lot of people can't dress as much or as far as they like

i'm cool with whatever someone wants to call their self

some people cant shave off body hair for certain reasons or do make up

the only thing i fend offensive is someone being described as a HPW"

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I wouldn't refer to myself as a cross dresser.I'm a bit more than that..

I'm a fuckin angry bastard dresser..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't refer to myself as a cross dresser.I'm a bit more than that..

I'm a fuckin angry bastard dresser..

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"Everything that the OP said

And of course it's even more complicated than that. It's sometimes said in jest that ask any ten trans people about how they see themselves, and you'll get eleven different answers.

And then there's sexuality to consider... But that's another complicated story.

CD, TV, t-girl, transgender, TS... a handful of labels, for a host of differing identities. Which ones are genuine? All of them

I think of all the explanations I've ever read here on the forums, this is the one that has both illuminated and touched me. Beautifully put and thank you for sharing!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I have my own girly clothes, and wigs, i shave everywhere, and most of my meets are with guys where i roleplay girls. Im not trans, I'm a perv

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Just do whatever makes you comfortable or happy, and let others worry about a label.

I’d be comfier with a bigger lock on the bathroom door

To keep you in, or others out?

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference."

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest"

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit.

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By *he James gangCouple
over a year ago

NEWTOWNABBEY

Far to many tla's on here. Three letter acronyms! Boom boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit. "

I fail to see how it's offensive or "hierarchal bullshit", I'm simply explaining the difference and giving an example because everyone throws them in the same pot, which IS bullshit.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit.

I fail to see how it's offensive or "hierarchal bullshit", I'm simply explaining the difference and giving an example because everyone throws them in the same pot, which IS bullshit."

Yes throwing them in the same pot is bullshit, but rather than use something simple like black and white. You referred to the first group as essentially cheap shit and the latter as high end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit.

I fail to see how it's offensive or "hierarchal bullshit", I'm simply explaining the difference and giving an example because everyone throws them in the same pot, which IS bullshit."

Are a Kia and a Lamborghini the same type/ level of car?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit.

I fail to see how it's offensive or "hierarchal bullshit", I'm simply explaining the difference and giving an example because everyone throws them in the same pot, which IS bullshit.

Yes throwing them in the same pot is bullshit, but rather than use something simple like black and white. You referred to the first group as essentially cheap shit and the latter as high end"

That wasn't the intention, im just trying to convey to people the difference.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Transvestite is the closest term for me, although if my circumstances were different I may have considered the TG route. They weren't so..."

I think you look fantastic

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"CD-Man that dresses up in female clothing.

TV-Person that sees themselves as a man and dresses up in female clothing

TG-Person that sees themselves as female and dresses either make or female. We have a condition known as gender dysphoria.

The differences between CD/TVs and TGs are like that of comparing a Kia Picanto and a Lamborghini Veneno, very big difference.

That ending comparison is pretty offensive to be honest

I thought so too.

Hierarchy bullshit.

I fail to see how it's offensive or "hierarchal bullshit", I'm simply explaining the difference and giving an example because everyone throws them in the same pot, which IS bullshit."

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Well, I've been called a banger more than once - and I never thought I was cheap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do whatever makes you comfortable or happy, and let others worry about a label.

I’d be comfier with a bigger lock on the bathroom door

To keep you in, or others out?

Call it a little of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I've been called a banger more than once - and I never thought I was cheap!

Maybe they said banging. That means hot innit...?!

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