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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one).

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one). "

How do you know which is which?

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one).

How do you know which is which?

Mrs TMN x"

Sometimes, you just *know*

Maybe they’ll admit to ignoring your profile, maybe they’ll admit to not reading it. You usually use know

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'd say they are equally Disrespectful. Both show a lack of interest in the person they are contacting. Luke

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Definitely when they've read it and ignored it anyway.

Both are massively annoying, but the fact that someone will read the profile, and then just ignore everything they've read is beyond irritating.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The first is more common, so more overall irritating. The second is more disrespectful, so case by case it's worse.

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By *ark_NLMan
over a year ago

Netherlands / Merseyside

I read the profiles but do not message as I kind of chicken out!

On the other hand, I read statuses and message the person if their status is asking a question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are annoying but the second one more so. Depending on my mood some I may reply to with a sarcastic reply - they are warned but most of the time I just delete.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Probably reading it and ignoring it anyway

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By *eiaorganaWoman
over a year ago

Dundee

One guy asked a question and I replied that the answer he was seeking was in the profile. He replied "oh I wouldn't read that!"

So glad I bothered writing it then

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"One guy asked a question and I replied that the answer he was seeking was in the profile. He replied "oh I wouldn't read that!"

So glad I bothered writing it then "

My profile was longer at the time, but I used to get messages saying that this was a sex site, no one is going to read War and Piece (sic).

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one).

How do you know which is which?

Mrs TMN x

Sometimes, you just *know*

Maybe they’ll admit to ignoring your profile, maybe they’ll admit to not reading it. You usually use know "

Hmm. I'd probably say 2,then

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one). "

How can you tell the difference?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one).

How can you tell the difference?"

"I know you're not looking for X, but (offers X)"

It's an instant block from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I phone a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a problem I suffer from.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones that spend the time to read the profile and quote parts but still message

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The ones that spend the time to read the profile and quote parts but still message "

Oh yes.

Message that my profile indicates that I don't want, plus random words from my profile.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I get both but don’t give them enough head space to bother me. Not worth it, I won’t be responding to either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one). "

Great tits luv. Drain my balls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know who reads my profile.

Makes me laugh when the 'looked at me' counter says 7,394 but I only had 1 message.

Both types as per the OP annoy me. Mostly men do it (bash bash) but couples do too.

If women mail me I know it's really a man.

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"Those who don’t read your profile and message anyway, or those who do read your profile and actively choose to ignore it?

(This isn’t a man bashing post. Please don’t turn it into one).

How can you tell the difference?

"I know you're not looking for X, but (offers X)"

It's an instant block from me. "

I see.

A bit like taking the food round to the pensioners at harvest festival then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know who reads my profile.

Makes me laugh when the 'looked at me' counter says 7,394 but I only had 1 message.

Both types as per the OP annoy me. Mostly men do it (bash bash) but couples do too.

If women mail me I know it's really a man. "

I heard that you’re really a man!

And yeah it does tend to be men who do it to me. But I didn’t want everyone to bully the men!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?"

Depends which friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither really annoy me to be honest but I'll maybe reply to the second if it's 'I know you're not meeting but...' and then something actually interesting or funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?

Depends which friend "

You haven’t given me your number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?

Depends which friend

You haven’t given me your number "

Friendzoned without even being numbered

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As ours clearly says we aren’t meeting at the minute then option 1.

The messages still keep coming

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?

Depends which friend

You haven’t given me your number "

My god imagine I just sent that to the wrong person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?

Depends which friend

You haven’t given me your number

Friendzoned without even being fingered"

Happens to the best of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I phone a friend?

Depends which friend

You haven’t given me your number

Friendzoned without even being fingered"

I know, Fr F.

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