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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. Whilst I understand some peoples reluctance's to meet people with out veris. It is so frustrating for the genuine guys that will do what ever it takes to get a meet ie phone,social,meet etc etc. Didn't everyone have to start with no veris. I want to enjoy this site and hopefully meet new friends with fun along the way. But getting no where because of mostly not having veris sometimes cus I'm just not there cup of tea ( I can live with that) but not getting trusted before even being given the chance is a hard pill to take... Any help would be appreciated. Cheers

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Go to a club, behave yourself, ask the staff for a veri.

Go on cam.

Go to an organised social.

Occasionally you'll see men or women offering coffee only socials for unverified people (having a drink with a man doesn't make you gay or bi).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who else thinks fab should remove this feature?

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Who else thinks fab should remove this feature? "

Nope.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Who else thinks fab should remove this feature? "

Definitely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else thinks fab should remove this feature? "

Not me

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Who else thinks fab should remove this feature? "

Absolutely not; it is one of the main reasons why fab is way better than sites that don’t verify.

I may have just been lucky, but I had a number of meets before my first verification, indeed I wasn’t even bothered to ask for one until it seemed to be the done thing to do. Is it really the reason why people can’t get a meet? Or is it being used as an excuse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else thinks fab should remove this feature?

Absolutely not; it is one of the main reasons why fab is way better than sites that don’t verify.

I may have just been lucky, but I had a number of meets before my first verification, indeed I wasn’t even bothered to ask for one until it seemed to be the done thing to do. Is it really the reason why people can’t get a meet? Or is it being used as an excuse?"

Mostly an excuse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would much rather someone say sorry u don't float my boat than lie. Were all adults and I'm big and ugly enough to know I'm not for everyone tastes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go to a club, behave yourself, ask the staff for a veri.

Go on cam.

Go to an organised social.

Occasionally you'll see men or women offering coffee only socials for unverified people (having a drink with a man doesn't make you gay or bi). "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers might be worth a shot

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


" I would much rather someone say sorry u don't float my boat than lie. Were all adults and I'm big and ugly enough to know I'm not for everyone tastes..."

You're an adult, I'm an adult, the people responding with horrific threats and abuse when you say no thanks... Maybe are not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok. I see where u coming from with that one. I didn't think how other people may act. Just know how I act

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would put most on a level playing field

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

I've got veris but still struggle to get meets, even though I never expect a purely sex meet as better to meet and see if connection in person.

Its mainly cos I'm an ugly bugger....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Would put most on a level playing field "

What, removing verifications?

I'd be less likely to meet privately without them. Gives me an indication that other women have met this person and lived to tell the tale.

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"Would put most on a level playing field "

Most of the users of this site don’t want a level playing field. Tough as it may seem, most people would prefer to meet someone with a track record, someone who has been verified as respectful, and capable of making the meets that have been organised. It may seem harsh, but it’s one of the best ways of proving yourself as reliable and sane. This is clearly especially pertinent when meeting a fella for the first time.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Would put most on a level playing field

Most of the users of this site don’t want a level playing field. Tough as it may seem, most people would prefer to meet someone with a track record, someone who has been verified as respectful, and capable of making the meets that have been organised. It may seem harsh, but it’s one of the best ways of proving yourself as reliable and sane. This is clearly especially pertinent when meeting a fella for the first time. "

Yes.

I'm not looking for a sexual performance review, but "decent human being", "turns up as expected", etc are things I kind of want to know.

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"Would put most on a level playing field

Most of the users of this site don’t want a level playing field. Tough as it may seem, most people would prefer to meet someone with a track record, someone who has been verified as respectful, and capable of making the meets that have been organised. It may seem harsh, but it’s one of the best ways of proving yourself as reliable and sane. This is clearly especially pertinent when meeting a fella for the first time.

Yes.

I'm not looking for a sexual performance review, but "decent human being", "turns up as expected", etc are things I kind of want to know. "

Exactly this. As a woman that meets alone I want to be fairly confident that he’ll turn up, and won’t be with a dozen of his mates, brandishing handcuffs. Unless I’m meeting specifically for the 12 guys and handcuffs experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would put most on a level playing field

What, removing verifications?

I'd be less likely to meet privately without them. Gives me an indication that other women have met this person and lived to tell the tale. "

Or have they, they may be captive in a dungeon being made to verify men for money just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Level playing field? Why do we want one of those? Fab is no haven for socialism comrade.

I earned mine, I love mine, I enjoy writing them.. why would I want to lose all that for a level playing field for all the unverified men?

It's easy enough to get one.. socials, webcams, private 1 on 1 chats, group socials and sex clubs. Learn the ropes, get some veris.

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