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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just because something has been said for years, does it make it ok?

The saying "young, dumb and full of cum" made me a little prickly last night.

Well, moreso the demanding/expectation of respect from said "dumb" lads!

Could easily change dumb to fun.

Thought it was proper fucking rude to be fair, but that could be me being over sensitive. I can't stand being called stupid, dumb etc as I think it's really disrespectful. People may do stupid things, but in general aren't stupid.

I may be silly, but I'm not dumb.

What words or phrases make you prickly, if seemingly innocent?

P

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No it totally isn't, there's words that my grandparents would commonly used that would be severely looked down upon these days.

For me personally it's being called thick or any suggestion that I'm dumb, just because I flash my boobs. My intelligence cannot be assessed by my pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish "
Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No it totally isn't, there's words that my grandparents would commonly used that would be severely looked down upon these days.

For me personally it's being called thick or any suggestion that I'm dumb, just because I flash my boobs. My intelligence cannot be assessed by my pictures."

Agreed.

Intelligence insulting is something that really boils my piss.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

[Removed by poster at 13/11/19 11:23:13]

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish "

Definitely agree with that, or "no offense but" which is exactly what they mean

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish

Definitely agree with that, or "no offense but" which is exactly what they mean "

Ah, exactly what I said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said "

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

“I’m sorry you feel that way”

When someone has been a turd and you call them out on it but they try and pass it off as you being sensitive.

I’m not sensitive. I’m good at reading arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ...""

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P"

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P"

I mean I'll say that I don't understand, not "no offence but"

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just saying" really winds me up, passive aggressive comment that can be translated as 'I'm giving my opinion, you won't like it but I don't want to hear your response

"Rant over" can have a similar effect, particularly when it's following something so petty or as poor a rant as possible. I have genuinely seen the following "the photocopier repair man is coming this afternoon. The copier is broken! Again! Rant over!"

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I really hate the word “idiot”

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did. "

You may as well replace "just saying" with "mic drop" like I do.

P

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Being called guys...one of us isnt one.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did.

You may as well replace "just saying" with "mic drop" like I do.

P"

Or boom

Or burn

Or other word to sound down wit me homies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Just saying" really winds me up, passive aggressive comment that can be translated as 'I'm giving my opinion, you won't like it but I don't want to hear your response

"Rant over" can have a similar effect, particularly when it's following something so petty or as poor a rant as possible. I have genuinely seen the following "the photocopier repair man is coming this afternoon. The copier is broken! Again! Rant over!" "

See "rant over" doesn't bother me, I just see it as someone getting something off their chest and "rant over" as them taking a deep breath

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did.

You may as well replace "just saying" with "mic drop" like I do.

P

Or boom

Or burn

Or other word to sound down wit me homies "

I'm a "boomer"

I'm cool tho, I'm allowed.

P

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did.

You may as well replace "just saying" with "mic drop" like I do.

P

Or boom

Or burn

Or other word to sound down wit me homies "

Lol oh I'm doomed then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being called guys...one of us isnt one."

Guilty of this one. I'll try to bare that in mind in the future

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""Just saying" has got my back up today.

Writing something cuntish and following it up with just saying,does not make it less cuntish Well said

Indeed.

If you're being cuntish... own it!

P

Exactly but these people hide behind these phrases as they're too scared to voice their opinions. So they have a get out of jail card in their minds, oh but you took it the wrong way etc like hell I did.

You may as well replace "just saying" with "mic drop" like I do.

P

Or boom

Or burn

Or other word to sound down wit me homies

Lol oh I'm doomed then "

Kapow

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P"

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig "

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P"

We concur

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P

We concur "

I'll bake mine and cover them in nail varnish

P

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P

We concur

I'll bake mine and cover them in nail varnish

P"

Ah yes, the eagle flies on Thursday but the Chinese watch needs winding

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P"

Agree wholeheartedly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


""No offence, but .."

Bullshit!! What is about to be said is likely to cause offence and you're just trying to detract from it

Similar to "not being funny, but ..."

If I think I might be about to offend someone and I genuinely don't mean to, I'll say that. There's no shame in admitting you may not understand why someone thinks or feels a certain way about something and wanting to learn more is never a bad thing surely?

P

It just makes me bristle because my ex-wife used to use it, a lot, and it was a veiled way of having a real dig

As did mine.

I think if you explain you don't quite get it but want to learn more instead of believing that yours is the only way of thinking then it doesn't bother me. When it's clearly a dig, fuck it, own the dig.

P

We concur

I'll bake mine and cover them in nail varnish

P

Ah yes, the eagle flies on Thursday but the Chinese watch needs winding "

Ahhhh I don't know those moves, I'm outta my depth

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not being funny but.....

That made me totally lose my shit today with a torrent of words that would make the most foul mouthed person blush.

Just fuck the fuck off with passive aggressive, say what you want to say, don't veil it in trying patronise me....

Grrr!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not being funny but.....

That made me totally lose my shit today with a torrent of words that would make the most foul mouthed person blush.

Just fuck the fuck off with passive aggressive, say what you want to say, don't veil it in trying patronise me....

Grrr! "

Would it have made me blush? That's some strong wordage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bones are for dogs.

That's another that fucks me right off.

I'm not slender, far from it but that one makes the hair on my neck stand up

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By *iltonhayesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Being called guys...one of us isnt one."

I dislike how "guys" has become a collective term for "people" too.

I'm currently trying to replace it with "cats" because its gender neutral , has a kinda 1920s jazz vibe about it and... Cats are cool !!!

Why don't you cats join me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old manager used to say 'I hear what you're saying, but....' and then would proceed to tell us why we we were wrong even though we clearly weren't. Prat.

Seriously wanted to throat punch him every meeting.

Sin.

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

I get pissed off when i hear people saying

"i dont mind paying tax but........."

Then they justify their reason.

I usually reply with really???

You must be the only person alive that dosent mind paying tax because anyone i know wouldnt pay a fukin penny of tax if they could avoid it and thats the truth!!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"Polite notice"

I'll decide if it's polite!

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By *iltonhayesMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Every time I hear someone say " 110% " it makes me want to scream ... By sheer definition of the term it is impossible to give more than 100% !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not being funny but.....

That made me totally lose my shit today with a torrent of words that would make the most foul mouthed person blush.

Just fuck the fuck off with passive aggressive, say what you want to say, don't veil it in trying patronise me....

Grrr!

Would it have made me blush? That's some strong wordage

P"

I think you'd have laughed and hi fived me and matched it

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Just my opinion"

Usually translates as "I'm spouting a bunch of crap but I'm hiding behind it being an opinion"

Ugh.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god there are too many.... I’d be here all night. And I’ve already got a reputation on here for “rambling” so best not say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being called guys...one of us isnt one.

I dislike how "guys" has become a collective term for "people" too.

I'm currently trying to replace it with "cats" because its gender neutral , has a kinda 1920s jazz vibe about it and... Cats are cool !!!

Why don't you cats join me. "

Aye, best to go with cats. Dogs might give totally the wrong impression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not racist/homophobic but....

Straight away you know something derogatory or offensive is coming.

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