FabSwingers.com forum: I wonder?

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

You need a thick skin to be on here (especially as a single male)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

I think I’ve blocked far more than have blocked me! Does it bother me.... not in the slightest! Those I connect with I chat with....

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

No, I don’t wonder and no, it doesn’t bother me. I don’t need to interact with someone who doesn’t want to interact with me.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

I don't really think about it. I once went to check out a profile because of a post made and was surprised to see me blocked.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not really. Clearly we're just not compatible. If changed to suit those who didn't like me I would probably end up with others not liking me anymore as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really think about it. I once went to check out a profile because of a post made and was surprised to see me blocked.

Same with me recently. First one where I noticed i’d been blocked. Obviously due to differing opinions on a recent thread. I can still be friends with someone or converse with them if I have a different opinion. It amused me a bit to be honest.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no doesnt bother me i have thousands on my block list

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've probably pissed off, and been blocked by dozens of people

Does it bother me? No. They have their reasons

Only 1 person, I've ever wondered about.

We met at a group social, chatted for ages, had a good laugh

Went to write a veri the next day, and found I was blocked.

This person still interacts with me on the forums, so I really have no idea why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually... it does bother me a little bit sometimes and makes me feel paranoid and doubtful about myself... considering that I’ve been on here for years...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Does bother me, block away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I’m not fussed. Sometimes I’ll click on a formite’s profile and realised I’m blocked. I’ll think ‘huh wonder why.’, counter block and never think about it again

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Nope.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Considering how long I've been here, it's actually only a small handful. I've wondered about it before if we were friends at some point but then you don't know someone else's mind and life happens. The other few? No, not really. We're not compatible in some way and it's a tool to be used.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’m only aware of people I actively don’t get on with and that’s fine. If it was someone random I’d not really interacted with yes it would probably make me wonder.. I’m pretty soft and an over thinker so wouldn’t like the thought I’d offended someone without intending to.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I don't really think about it. I once went to check out a profile because of a post made and was surprised to see me blocked.

I've never understood the point of that as it doesn't stop people interacting with you in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've probably pissed off, and been blocked by dozens of people

Does it bother me? No. They have their reasons

Only 1 person, I've ever wondered about.

We met at a group social, chatted for ages, had a good laugh

Went to write a veri the next day, and found I was blocked.

This person still interacts with me on the forums, so I really have no idea why

I’ve had that before. Puzzled me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my point of view...

I came on here originally as part of a couple and meeting other couples...

Since being single, the responses have been very negative and not nearly as frequent

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By *adboy1Man
over a year ago

Torquay

It annoys me when people read my message but then don’t reply or delete it. At least if they delete my message I know they’re not interested

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Nope. Couldn’t care less.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am me cant be anyone else I will piss some off some Will ole me hopefully

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I honestly don’t care how many people block me. They have their own legitimate reasons I am sure that will not affect my life in the slightest.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

Not at all, if they block me for having a difference of opinion then they probably aren't someone I'd want to converse with anyway.

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By *uzy swallowTV/TS
over a year ago

Warminster

I’ve been blocked by a few people but it’s there loss I’m still meeting new people and enjoying myself. I’ve. Also had people block me and start a new profile and try to add me again as a friend but I’ve sussed them out and then blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I’ve ever been blocked and I’ve never had to block anyone on here

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I honestly couldn't careless. Dont sweat the small stuff

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I've probably pissed off, and been blocked by dozens of people

Does it bother me? No. They have their reasons

Only 1 person, I've ever wondered about.

We met at a group social, chatted for ages, had a good laugh

Went to write a veri the next day, and found I was blocked.

This person still interacts with me on the forums, so I really have no idea why

That is really curious

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Not bothered in the least. I won't change my opinions or behaviour for fear of putting off people. If they've blocked me in all likelihood i've lost out on nothing anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me "

Its all about the destiny..I actually like that

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

No couldn't care less

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I've probably pissed off, and been blocked by dozens of people

Does it bother me? No. They have their reasons

Only 1 person, I've ever wondered about.

We met at a group social, chatted for ages, had a good laugh

Went to write a veri the next day, and found I was blocked.

This person still interacts with me on the forums, so I really have no idea why

Ditto. It's the only one I have wondered what I did.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Sometimes I wonder.

Does it bother me....nope, no reason why it would bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock"

Yes I know you do x

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

There’s a few regular forumites who’ve blocked me

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x"

What

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x

What

It was destiny

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"There’s a few regular forumites who’ve blocked me

Not me

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x

What

It was destiny "

Ffs, I've lost you already, you filthy mcnasty!

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x

What

It was destiny "

Destiny to meet such a great cock..yeah I think so x

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

I’ve pissed a few off an been blocked oops

But when I block it’s mainly to keep my inbox down. Well there’s loads of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x

What

It was destiny

Destiny to meet such a great cock..yeah I think so x"

That is true that it is a great cock *says the owner*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would only bother me if they'd been hurt by something I'd said, and it had been taken out of context.

I've no idea who's blocked me. Dry humour can offend I guess.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Honestly it doesn't.

I guess it wasn't my destiny to be fab bff with the ones you blocked me

Its all about the destiny..I actually like your cock

Yes I know you do x

What

It was destiny

Destiny to meet such a great cock..yeah I think so x

That is true that it is a great cock *says the owner*"

The cock too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I probably wouldn't notice. I've never clicked on a random profile and found I've been blocked. I guess it's less likely to happen as those I am interested in interacting with don't use the forum.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

When I started this profile I made a conscious decision not to block anyone. It doesn't really achieve anything as if someone wanted to see my profile they can do it via another easily achievable login.

If I notice someone has blocked me I don't get butthurt. People have their reasons and that is fine by me. Just another Fab day.

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

Nope not at all, most of mine get pissed off with me having long conversations first and I am enjoying fun with the ones I actually have connected with from those conversations, it is a good screening process for me though, the ones I want to meet will persist through my barriers to play

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

My happiness is not quantified by likes on the internet.

I saw a documentary fairly recently about somebody who was in a girl band. I can’t remember the name of her or the band but they made their name on X factor/some other talent show. She had issues with her body and it was near distressing to see how much both positive and negative comments from total strangers affected her.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?

My happiness is not quantified by likes on the internet.

I really feel for her and for anyone who is hurting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I really couldn't care less. I think being blocked would only bother me if I liked them and thought we were on good terms!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm most interested in those who are interested in or value me.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can honestly say it has never occurred to me to wonder about how many, or who has blocked me, occasionally I'll come across a profile that has done so, but don't give it more than a moments thought - some block because they want to rule you out of searches, some because they don't think you're a good match and some because they think I'm an arse - whatever the reason it doesn't bother me at all.

In fact the only time it would bother me would be if it were someone I had talked to and they did so without an obvious reason why, but that would be because I'd fear I had caused upset inadvertently and wouldn't be happy if I had.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No, I really couldn't care less. I think being blocked would only bother me if I liked them and thought we were on good terms! "

Your pic makes me smile everytime I've seen it..it's really cool

and yes I hear what you're saying..for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?

My happiness is not quantified by likes on the internet.

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone wants to block me, that's their choice. Do I care ? Like hell I do. It's only a website for god sake. People get too drawn in on here and take things personally. And as for having to be thick skinned to be on here, bollocks. Why get all uptight just because some stranger, you've never met and probably never will has blocked you ?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

*I* didn't do anything to get blocked by the ones I know about, so for that reason no it doesn't bother me

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’ve only blocked a few and that’s only because they don’t understand the word no. Have no idea if anyone has blocked me so it shows it hasn’t effected my fun time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it bother me? Nope. And others have said it's a tool to be used... and let's face it guys... some folk are so aggressive/persistent, it's not surprising that the block tool is used by some to simply indicate not interested

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Oh come on.

Doesn't everybody like me? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me at all I've never been disrespectful or over stepped the line so know it wouldn't be anything personal and after having repeat friends requests and winks I can understand why someone just hit the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope it really don't bother me my life is no worse or no richer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah - doesn't bother me. I just keep my head down, stay true to myself an do my own thing.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’m just being me and also I’ve been rejected so many times on here. it’s become normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"
pissed off probably half of fab I'm my years being here

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Welsh Lass

Not really. You don’t have to like all of the people all of the time.

I’d much prefer someone blocking me than not and just being a dick.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we first joined fab some nine years ago we would be quite upset if we got blocked.

Naive I know, but we weren’t familiar with how it all worked, and we were both active on the forum.

Anyway fast forward five years or so and my wife was way past caring about coming into the forum, and I was patently aware that we weren’t the type to meet forum folk, so I became somewhat feisty at times.

This of course meant we got blocked by a fair few people, but I would only know if I clicked on their profile. Something I did now and again, and I counter blocked and rarely even gave it a second thought.

In the last year or so I wouldn’t know if we have been blocked as I don’t click on profiles any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"

I hope I've not pissed people off unless it's someone I've intended on pissing off, in which case I couldn't give a flying one if they've blocked me.

If I HAVE pissed someone off unintentionally and they've blocked me, well, they obviously had good reason to in their eyes and we aren't compatible. No harm done.

If they don't like my style, well, not compatible so again, no harm done, however I'd not block from not liking someones style as such (assuming you're meaning posting style) as I'd still talk to someone even if I'd have no intention of meeting them.

Does it bother me? Not really, they have their reasons, however it would miff me if I was blocked by someone I thought was pretty cool and I may wonder why.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In the grand scheme of things being blocked on here is way, way down on my list of things in life to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think it would only bother me if they'd been hurt by something I'd said, and it had been taken out of context.

I've no idea who's blocked me. Dry humour can offend I guess."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'd only be bothered if I knew I'd done something wrong deliberately and regretted it, and that's very rare and if/when it happens I'll usually own up and attempt to fix it if possible.

Ppl see what suits.... .....and if it suits them to be pissed off for no good reason then good luck with that attitude, innit.... ....stay happy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I'd only be bothered if I knew I'd done something wrong deliberately and regretted it, and that's very rare and if/when it happens I'll usually own up and attempt to fix it if possible.

Ppl see what suits.... .....and if it suits them to be pissed off for no good reason then good luck with that attitude, innit.... ....stay happy!

Good answer...

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

There are a few here that i would never block no matter how rude or cruel they were to me... their photos are way too hot not to perve every now an then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one, because she lost the debate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know, don't care.

Live and let others live.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

I've checked the thread...I know who you are

Just kidding...If I've ever pissed anyone off unintentionally then I'd be sorry.

but intentionally not so mucch

Live and let live eh...wise words from above x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?"
doesn't bother me you just can't appeal to everyone, i enjoy myself and make a few others smile job done

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A thought from Mickys thread.

Well you can't please all the people all the time.

Do ever wonder how many you've pissed off and been blocked by.

Or they just don't like your style.

Does it bother you?doesn't bother me you just can't appeal to everyone, i enjoy myself and make a few others smile job done

Enjoying yourself is what it's all about and great someone smile along the way

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"There are a few here that i would never block no matter how rude or cruel they were to me... their photos are way too hot not to perve every now an then

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