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"Usually to socialise but I'd do it now to stop feeling crappy " I drink for both reasons but does it really help us stop feeling crappy? After it's worn off, we still feel crappy! I lost my dog a few weeks ago and I've been drinking to try and control my emotional state. I still feel crappy and the hangovers make me feel awful. Sorry you are not feeling so good btw x | |||
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"Usually to socialise but I'd do it now to stop feeling crappy I drink for both reasons but does it really help us stop feeling crappy? After it's worn off, we still feel crappy! I lost my dog a few weeks ago and I've been drinking to try and control my emotional state. I still feel crappy and the hangovers make me feel awful. Sorry you are not feeling so good btw x" Lost one dog in November and my other in July I’ve been drinking every night since. | |||
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"I rarely drink. I don't like how it makes me feel and it interacts badly with a medication I take. I choose to drink very occasionally to try something or for a special occasion, but even more occasionally to excess. Those who judge me for getting a lemonade in the pub are generally not people I find myself enjoying spending time with. My body, my life, my choice. " People should never judge you for not wanting alcohol, they should totally respect your choices. When I tell my friends I will drive on a night out, they try to persuade me to get a taxi and drink but I don't always want to and I get a bit miffed when they try to pressure me into a boozy night. | |||
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"I haven't drank alcohol for 7 years now. I had a bit of a problem so took myself off to rehab for 4 months. I guess I drank to suppress feelings/emotions that I didn't want to deal with at the time. It doesn't bother me not drinking. It seems to bother some people that I don't drink. I tend just to distance myself from those people x" I really admire you for doing that and sorting out your problems. Respect x | |||
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"I haven't drank alcohol for 7 years now. I had a bit of a problem so took myself off to rehab for 4 months. I guess I drank to suppress feelings/emotions that I didn't want to deal with at the time. It doesn't bother me not drinking. It seems to bother some people that I don't drink. I tend just to distance myself from those people x" Its odd that isnt it, when you say you don't drink and people either don't believe or try to get you to have a drink, a few times I've had people try to push me to have a drink and I'm like "I'm a alcoholic who has been sober since 2004, why are you trying to make me fall of the wagon, kindly fuck off" But some people just generally don't know how to react, like when I first met my partner, he wouldn't have a drink coz I don't drink, I was like I'm far enough in to recovery (your always recovering never recovered) not to want or need any, I can sit surrounded by it and I don't want any | |||
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"Rehydration from wanking " Well that's a new one. Alternative | |||
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"Rehydration from wanking Well that's a new one. Alternative " It’s good to be unique | |||
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"Rehydration from wanking Well that's a new one. Alternative It’s good to be unique " Or Nuts!! | |||
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"Rehydration from wanking Well that's a new one. Alternative It’s good to be unique Or Nuts!!" Probably both tbf | |||
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"...or NOT as the case may be. I know alcohol typically elevates mood because with fewer associations to bother us, we start living less in our heads, and more in the here and now. It's a way to relax after a hard day at work. It's a social or cultural thing to do and we do it because we like the taste. I'm curious to know the reason why you drink (or don't). What do you get out of it? What's the reason (if any)? If you've quit or tried to stop but can't, then why? " I don't drink anymore. I've had nothing so far this year, or last. The year before I had 3 glasses of wine all year. Prior to that dry for around 15 years. I used to drink way too much and it took me down a destructive path and things much more harmfull. No more. | |||
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"I've been completely sober 6 months now. I didn't drink everyday but when I did I never wanted to stop until I was in a mess. Changed my life completely. If anyone is struggling then my inbox is open for advice and no swinging has to be discussed Ill just tell you how I did it That goes for female, male, couple, TV anyone We all" That’s very open and honest of you. Glad you seemed to have turned it around | |||
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"It seems the number of units people are drinking is declining. May be consuming less or stopping will become a badge of honour in the same way not smoking or not eating meat have become?? " I hope your stats don't come from those surveys that medical professionals do Does anyone answer honestly? Someone told me you only have a problem if you drink more units than your doctor | |||
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"It seems the number of units people are drinking is declining. May be consuming less or stopping will become a badge of honour in the same way not smoking or not eating meat have become?? I hope your stats don't come from those surveys that medical professionals do Does anyone answer honestly? Someone told me you only have a problem if you drink more units than your doctor " I would hope people are honest. My stats are from what I read and observe and I do believe people are drinking less. | |||
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"I quite enjoy drinking, I don't do it often (a couple of times a month/two months) - I like how it makes me a bit less stick up my arse and I enjoy having a good one with a friend. I have before had a bit too much to drink and the next day the hangxiety is fucking awful so I'm curbing that now. " Hangxiety! Love that word Meli | |||
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"None of your fucking business. " Well aren't you a fun filled gentleman. | |||
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"It seems the number of units people are drinking is declining. May be consuming less or stopping will become a badge of honour in the same way not smoking or not eating meat have become?? I hope your stats don't come from those surveys that medical professionals do Does anyone answer honestly? Someone told me you only have a problem if you drink more units than your doctor I would hope people are honest. My stats are from what I read and observe and I do believe people are drinking less. " . Are you believing the fab forum again?? It's full of saints if you believe half of it!!! | |||
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"It seems the number of units people are drinking is declining. May be consuming less or stopping will become a badge of honour in the same way not smoking or not eating meat have become?? I hope your stats don't come from those surveys that medical professionals do Does anyone answer honestly? Someone told me you only have a problem if you drink more units than your doctor I would hope people are honest. My stats are from what I read and observe and I do believe people are drinking less. . Are you believing the fab forum again?? It's full of saints if you believe half of it!!! " Does anyone really tell their doctor the truth? I know I bloody don't | |||
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"It seems the number of units people are drinking is declining. May be consuming less or stopping will become a badge of honour in the same way not smoking or not eating meat have become?? I hope your stats don't come from those surveys that medical professionals do Does anyone answer honestly? Someone told me you only have a problem if you drink more units than your doctor I would hope people are honest. My stats are from what I read and observe and I do believe people are drinking less. . Are you believing the fab forum again?? It's full of saints if you believe half of it!!! " Oh, don't worry I'm not basing my research on the little fibbers of the Fora | |||
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