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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do people add you as friends when they say on there profiles they will not add friends when they havent spoken to you ...

ive just had this happen and added them and sent a polite message to see if it was someone i had spoken to previously,

got no reply and also got blocked .

thats just so rude and bad mannered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get requests all the time from those who say they will block if they get a request without a previous chat.

We don't except friend invites from people we havnt spoken too so it doesnt effect us xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's very easy to press buttons accidentally.

No big deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive accidentally added people by mistake,maybe they just blocked to avoid the ping pong -agree with granny no big deal !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never add random friendship requests, I only add people I have chatted to or met at socials, clubs and parties. Random friendship requesters are normally horny blokes wanting to get their rocks off and think you have other pictures that they can jack off to

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By *obinhood-maidmarionCouple
over a year ago

Yorkshire area

just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point , i added the lady to see if there was a face pic or anything so i could see if she was anyone i knew but within 10 mins of adding her i find my self blocked .

not the end of the world i guess and plenty more lovely ladys on the site that i would be more then happy to entertain but im not after sleeping with the whole site and i have to be honest i am quite picky but at the end of the day is someone doesnt make my dick hard enough then theres no point in meeting really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why,because there nosy and want to see what pics you have on!! If you got a face ic on thet dont like thats what they doo....instead of saying how it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them "

love it and thanks for the advice its very much appreciated

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Don't add people without talking to them... kinda sorts that one out don't it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well my face is the only one i have and i dont think i look like a robbers dog although not everybodys cup of tea.

ive just updated my profile but not very good at expressing my self till it comes to the face to face fun so any pointers would help .

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I sometimes send a quick friend request or a wink when I am short of time and don't want to let someone pass without sying a quick hi! I take friend requests and winks from other people in the same way. Don't have to pursue any further if you don't want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point ,

its just the fact that someone rants on there profile about adding them without a message first and think they should practice what they preach .

ah well im sure it wont be the last and certainly not the first

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

everybody has total control over who is,and who is not on their friends list.

people cannot add them selves to that list,unless you accept their friends invite.

so it kinda puzzles me,as to why people seem to get annoyed,about a situation in which they have total control ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them "

Seriously, that makes you sound quite pathetic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people add you as friends when they say on there profiles they will not add friends when they havent spoken to you ...

ive just had this happen and added them and sent a polite message to see if it was someone i had spoken to previously,

got no reply and also got blocked .

thats just so rude and bad mannered "

People say it because they don't want requests.

just a thought though, was it a single female or a couple adding you? If so surely instead of challenging their double standard the sensible thing would have been to engage with them via a message as they werte clearly potentially interested in you. Better than getting blocked for being on the face of it a little petulent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everybody has total control over who is,and who is not on their friends list.

people cannot add them selves to that list,unless you accept their friends invite.

so it kinda puzzles me,as to why people seem to get annoyed,about a situation in which they have total control ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well my face is the only one i have and i dont think i look like a robbers dog although not everybodys cup of tea.

ive just updated my profile but not very good at expressing my self till it comes to the face to face fun so any pointers would help ."

Profile is fine, just get rid of the warning notice as it is absolute rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them "

Why be so nasty. What do you get out of sending insulting messages to people just because they haven't read your profile.

I just delete the friends requests, I do not feel the need to message each other sending insulting messages. I don't get any enjoyment out of playing those type of games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them "

Surprised you make so much effort to be vindictive. This is another reason I enjoy the forums, a single post can tell you more about a person than a detailed profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people add you as friends when they say on there profiles they will not add friends when they havent spoken to you ...

ive just had this happen and added them and sent a polite message to see if it was someone i had spoken to previously,

got no reply and also got blocked .

thats just so rude and bad mannered "

They wanted to perv ya photos. Get over it, you approved their friends request after all, even when you knew they didn't add people they didn't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why even set up a thread in the forum about this? Just move on and don't dwell on it, it doesn't always mean it was done on purpose but hey ho, just tell yourself it's their loss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them "

That's just plain rude and ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sometimes send a quick friend request or a wink when I am short of time and don't want to let someone pass without saying a quick hi! "

I used to do that...;-)

Now I pop them onto my hotlist until I have more time....;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them

Why be so nasty. What do you get out of sending insulting messages to people just because they haven't read your profile.

I just delete the friends requests, I do not feel the need to message each other sending insulting messages. I don't get any enjoyment out of playing those type of games. "
I think your right iconic there just no need ..why some like to god only know.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"just do what we do, dont accept till they are offline, then when they have logged off accept the invatation, look at the pictures and then send them a message sarcastically!

we usually send a message along the lines of, "which part of our profile did you like? the part where we specifically ask not to be added without chatting or our pictures? We then usually go on to say that we have seen thier pictures and they are (insert excuse) a little overweight, too old, bald, etc etc.

We then say finally that there is simply no chance of getting into my knickers when they cant spend 2 mins reading our profile.

We then delete them

Why be so nasty. What do you get out of sending insulting messages to people just because they haven't read your profile.

I just delete the friends requests, I do not feel the need to message each other sending insulting messages. I don't get any enjoyment out of playing those type of games. I think your right iconic there just no need ..why some like to god only know. "

i agree...i check my friends request,accept any of people we know then mass delete...it takes 2 seconds.

Being rude to people takes more effort and emotionally energy on your part...swinging is meant to be fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to do that...;-)

Now I pop them onto my hotlist until I have more time....;-);-)"

My first thought was missed the add to hotlist button, and sent friend request instead. Wrong buttons are an easy mistake especially if using a smartphone, Tolerance is the key to a less stressful life, let them go, move on to the next one…

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