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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... that I can't remember what year exactly I lost my virginity. I can narrow it down to two.

Obvs you lucky things that are still young will know exactly.

I know it was warm and it was late afternoom and the sun was streaming through the gaps in the curtains and I know I was in love with her but it wasn't particularly romantic. We were listening to Low by David Bowie ffs. Side 2. Just weird.

Do you know exactly? (Obvs don't say your age or a year. Rules on this need respecting) But is it unusual not to remember that?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

A heady haze of youth it appears, Cat. Very cool music selection, albeit yes not an obvious selection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even remember the dudes name. So no, not that unusual

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A heady haze of youth it appears, Cat. Very cool music selection, albeit yes not an obvious selection. "

You probably know the exact date I'd wager...

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"A heady haze of youth it appears, Cat. Very cool music selection, albeit yes not an obvious selection. "

And I don’t think it’s that unusual to recall exactly when, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was way to young couldn't even cum

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Yes a xmas eve party with a guy I'd been crushing on for months, an early xmas present for me

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"A heady haze of youth it appears, Cat. Very cool music selection, albeit yes not an obvious selection.

And I don’t think it’s that unusual to recall exactly when, no. "

Damn typo. To *not* recall.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't even remember the dudes name. So no, not that unusual

P"

I never believe anyone who says it was amazing...

I thought I might at least remember how old I was tho

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I remember the exact month and year. Guarded by disturbed came on in the background on shuffle though. Not exactly the height of romance .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember the exact month and year. Guarded by disturbed came on in the background on shuffle though. Not exactly the height of romance ."

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By *o_eye_deerMan
over a year ago

The South Near That London

It was the day Maradonna scored 'that' goal against England in the '86 world cup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant wait to lose mine. I'm so aroused constantly, just waiting for that right partner to connect with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the exact date and time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Summer of 2000, sand dunes with my first boyfriend. A life guard at a holiday park where my mum and dad had a static caravan. The sex wasn't great, I was too nervous but I found my love for the taste of cum in those sand dunes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... that I can't remember what year exactly I lost my virginity. I can narrow it down to two.

Obvs you lucky things that are still young will know exactly.

Do you know exactly? (Obvs don't say your age or a year. Rules on this need respecting) But is it unusual not to remember that?"

I remember the date and my age. I was legal (and damn bloody cold).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Summer of 2000, sand dunes with my first boyfriend. A life guard at a holiday park where my mum and dad had a static caravan. The sex wasn't great, I was too nervous but I found my love for the taste of cum in those sand dunes "

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1998 in a bin shed, some local girl used to blow me and some mates off then one day she let us have sex with her, me and 5 mates lost it together! Good times

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I can’t remember exactly when or where, just I was 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember the month year and where i lost mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm glad it's not just me... I'd have sworn I would have known that

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Can remember the year, the location, her name and was one of two summer months - Hazel O'Connor's Eighth Day was a huge hit at the time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can remember the year, the location, her name and was one of two summer months - Hazel O'Connor's Eighth Day was a huge hit at the time "

Great tune.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol. "

It's never great sex is it...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Can remember the year, the location, her name and was one of two summer months - Hazel O'Connor's Eighth Day was a huge hit at the time

Great tune."

A much underrated artist - Will You is probably one of my all time favourite songs

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By *ystic DWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I was 18 and then I married him !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can remember the first time I had fun, but I'm not sure exactly when I put it in I've always had a memory like a goldfish though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can remember the year, the location, her name and was one of two summer months - Hazel O'Connor's Eighth Day was a huge hit at the time

Great tune.

A much underrated artist - Will You is probably one of my all time favourite songs "

Agree. Some serious 80s sax abuse going on there. Love that tune too...

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it..."

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James "

Good music choices

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James "

Imagine if you were listening to Laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James

Good music choices "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre "

You poor love that sounds traumatic

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre "

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James "

Mine was very nearly on Valentine's day but his family came home too early!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James

Good music choices "

Not gonna lie, there was probably some bloodhound gang in there too . I've gotten better at sex playlists now, I hope!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I remember because we then had a relationship for 7 years. Still keep in contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James

Imagine if you were listening to Laid "

Erm...

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I can remember the exact date it was supposed to be but he forgot the bloody condoms! So I know it was within around a month of that, on a less memorable date. In bunk beds, and we were probably listening to The Stone Roses or James

Good music choices

Not gonna lie, there was probably some bloodhound gang in there too . I've gotten better at sex playlists now, I hope!"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out."

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask) "

I imagine he had to bin them

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them "

He should never have bought them

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them "

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't even remember the dudes name. So no, not that unusual

P"

Seems like there's only a few of us P...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first experience was with a much older lady. I met her when I was playing pool and she invited me back to her house for a drink and then invited me up stairs. I was to nervous.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans "

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things."

Destroyed with your foof!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof! "

I've done that to many a man since then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember mine, was 20 years ago, and watched by a few of her mates haha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then "

You started as you meant to go on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can remember the first. No idea who the second was.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then

You started as you meant to go on! "

Exactly!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then

You started as you meant to go on!

Exactly! "

*high five!*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Parents in the house is a theme. I guess that's another "of course" I hadn't considered.

I've often wondered if people who experienced this in the formative years tend to be less noisy in bed...

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Parents in the house is a theme. I guess that's another "of course" I hadn't considered.

I've often wondered if people who experienced this in the formative years tend to be less noisy in bed..."

Were there parents in the house during your big moment?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Parents in the house is a theme. I guess that's another "of course" I hadn't considered.

I've often wondered if people who experienced this in the formative years tend to be less noisy in bed...

Were there parents in the house during your big moment? "

Yep, and the next god knows how many other times. They were always there and bloody amazing people. But when mum says discreetly "I know you've been having sex with my daughter for some months now and it's fine but if you're not being careful my fury will be unending do you understand"

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Parents in the house is a theme. I guess that's another "of course" I hadn't considered.

I've often wondered if people who experienced this in the formative years tend to be less noisy in bed...

Were there parents in the house during your big moment?

Yep, and the next god knows how many other times. They were always there and bloody amazing people. But when mum says discreetly "I know you've been having sex with my daughter for some months now and it's fine but if you're not being careful my fury will be unending do you understand" "

I was just researching an answer to your theory.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then

You started as you meant to go on!

Exactly!

*high five!*"

Back at ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then

You started as you meant to go on!

Exactly!

*high five!*

Back at ya! "

I love how this conversation turned into humour and power and I love the word foof. Don't think I've heard it before...

Bet the guy was a Depeche Mode fan tho. They love a pair of white jeans.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yeah, I remember, it was awful lol.

It's never great sex is it...

It was really bad, I bled everywhere, it was like a massacre

Oh god. Fortunately with me he broke my hymen with his fingers a few months prior. Was quite a mess and the poor guy was rather freaked out.

Yeah it was vile and he had white jeans on (don't ask)

I imagine he had to bin them

He should never have bought them

That's a rather extreme way of telling him you don't like his jeans

Hinting wasn't working so I went all out and destroyed the ugly things.

Destroyed with your foof!

I've done that to many a man since then

You started as you meant to go on!

Exactly!

*high five!*

Back at ya!

I love how this conversation turned into humour and power and I love the word foof. Don't think I've heard it before...

Bet the guy was a Depeche Mode fan tho. They love a pair of white jeans."

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Actually I can't remember the exact year either but then I'm ancient. I know it was with a Chinese girl I met on a bus but the year escapes me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually I can't remember the exact year either but then I'm ancient. I know it was with a Chinese girl I met on a bus but the year escapes me "

Was it the same day you met her on the bus? Or took a number and went on a date?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Actually I can't remember the exact year either but then I'm ancient. I know it was with a Chinese girl I met on a bus but the year escapes me

Was it the same day you met her on the bus? Or took a number and went on a date?"

No we went on a date a few weeks later, mobiles didn't exist then , she was into smoking certain substances which I was very innocent about, maybe why I don't remember the year! Mid 80s I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Actually I can't remember the exact year either but then I'm ancient. I know it was with a Chinese girl I met on a bus but the year escapes me

Was it the same day you met her on the bus? Or took a number and went on a date?

No we went on a date a few weeks later, mobiles didn't exist then , she was into smoking certain substances which I was very innocent about, maybe why I don't remember the year! Mid 80s I guess "

Still must have taken her number tho. Cool story. Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember every detail as if it was yesterday.....

The honest version, was a long time ago with someone I must have mildly fancied at the time and decided to go for it after way too much alcohol.

I do remember meeting C, was similar to above but was somehow addictive so got a connection with her and wd are still together coming up to 20 years.

We still like to fuck others though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my virginity to my then-boyfriend-now-husband

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

No cant remember, but I bought an online course to improve my memory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember every detail as if it was yesterday.....

The honest version, was a long time ago with someone I must have mildly fancied at the time and decided to go for it after way too much alcohol.

I do remember meeting C, was similar to above but was somehow addictive so got a connection with her and wd are still together coming up to 20 years.

We still like to fuck others though "

Addictive was the chemistry I guess. Sounds great who doesn't love a bit of romance.

I can remember every detail too except the bloody date!!

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By *xelf787Man
over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

Def 1988 had to be April I think!!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

November 2004

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my virginity to my then-boyfriend-now-husband "

More romance. Bring it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"No cant remember, but I bought an online course to improve my memory."

Your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost my virginity to my then-boyfriend-now-husband

More romance. Bring it. "

He lost his to me as well. Proper romantic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"November 2004 "

Power of youth... memory... among many othet things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my virginity to my then-boyfriend-now-husband

More romance. Bring it.

He lost his to me as well. Proper romantic "

Yeah we were both virgins too. Lovely...

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

Remember the year and month I was staying at a friends house we were supposed to be going to school friends birthday but ended up getting pissed then sleeping with my mates sister

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remember the year and month I was staying at a friends house we were supposed to be going to school friends birthday but ended up getting pissed then sleeping with my mates sister "

Ha, imagine awkward with your mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I remember every detail as if it was yesterday.....

The honest version, was a long time ago with someone I must have mildly fancied at the time and decided to go for it after way too much alcohol.

I do remember meeting C, was similar to above but was somehow addictive so got a connection with her and wd are still together coming up to 20 years.

We still like to fuck others though

Addictive was the chemistry I guess. Sounds great who doesn't love a bit of romance.

I can remember every detail too except the bloody date!!"

In case I didn't explain this properly and I wasn't exactly clear, as I don't want to make this a Cheesy Love Story. C wasn't my first (not going to guess but was definitely a triple figure no.).

Honestly it took a while for us to have good sex, we'd both had better before, but once we got in sync and learned about each other things improved exponentionaly.

We still find others that do things 'better' or more as 'I like' but that's surely what swinging is all about. Have fun and experience things you won't get in a just Vanilla relationship?

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield


"Remember the year and month I was staying at a friends house we were supposed to be going to school friends birthday but ended up getting pissed then sleeping with my mates sister

Ha, imagine awkward with your mate. "

He couldn't handle the drink and was flat out in bed as far as I'm aware he never found out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep..1993

A lad from high school..we always felt we had a connection as we were born on the same day..same year ...turned out to be a very crap first time for us both...

Recently met up with him after separating from my hubby...that time was even worse than the first. Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remember every detail as if it was yesterday.....

The honest version, was a long time ago with someone I must have mildly fancied at the time and decided to go for it after way too much alcohol.

I do remember meeting C, was similar to above but was somehow addictive so got a connection with her and wd are still together coming up to 20 years.

We still like to fuck others though

Addictive was the chemistry I guess. Sounds great who doesn't love a bit of romance.

I can remember every detail too except the bloody date!!

In case I didn't explain this properly and I wasn't exactly clear, as I don't want to make this a Cheesy Love Story. C wasn't my first (not going to guess but was definitely a triple figure no.).

Honestly it took a while for us to have good sex, we'd both had better before, but once we got in sync and learned about each other things improved exponentionaly.

We still find others that do things 'better' or more as 'I like' but that's surely what swinging is all about. Have fun and experience things you won't get in a just Vanilla relationship? "

Yeah I got C wasn't your first.

Fully agree about the non vanilla comments...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yep..1993

A lad from high school..we always felt we had a connection as we were born on the same day..same year ...turned out to be a very crap first time for us both...

Recently met up with him after separating from my hubby...that time was even worse than the first. Hahaha "

Haha. Sometimes it just never works...

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Mine was just after high school, came back to mine. Messed around for a bit fumbled around with the bra next min I hear the door go and have to hide her under my bed out of sheer panic haha! Still speaking almost 13 years later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this may be a weird way to find you have early onset or any other form of Altzheimsrz, but you are not alone.

I can't remember the name of the girl I lost my virginity to. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of life.

Enjoy, be you as long as you can and when you no longer can remember give everyone hell!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this may be a weird way to find you have early onset or any other form of Altzheimsrz, but you are not alone.

I can't remember the name of the girl I lost my virginity to. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of life.

Enjoy, be you as long as you can and when you no longer can remember give everyone hell! "

Oh shit is this the beginning of the end for me now?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mine was just after high school, came back to mine. Messed around for a bit fumbled around with the bra next min I hear the door go and have to hide her under my bed out of sheer panic haha! Still speaking almost 13 years later."

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this may be a weird way to find you have early onset or any other form of Altzheimsrz, but you are not alone.

I can't remember the name of the girl I lost my virginity to. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of life.

Enjoy, be you as long as you can and when you no longer can remember give everyone hell!

Oh shit is this the beginning of the end for me now? "

At least I'll forget this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well this may be a weird way to find you have early onset or any other form of Altzheimsrz, but you are not alone.

I can't remember the name of the girl I lost my virginity to. Not a big deal in the grand scheme of life.

Enjoy, be you as long as you can and when you no longer can remember give everyone hell!

Oh shit is this the beginning of the end for me now?

At least I'll forget this thread "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t remember the exact date but it was February 1999

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost all 3 of my Virginities when I was %;&%^#%&^$ years old.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I had to think then!

I remember the rough date, year and where. It was my first girlfriend, after we'd watched citizen kane. I was 19, she was 21.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1984,

I'd be more concerned about the 35 year old after a 17 year old "

I agree with you on that one, I'm 49, so for me 35 to 65, any younger or older would be wrong but each to there own preferences

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I consider myself a born again virgin...for each guy...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I think it was 1992 , or 93 , not sure tbh but I remember her name and that I lasted approximately 20 seconds

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I was 19.

She was married.

I was asked by my mother to walk her home from the pub to make sure she got home safe.

We were both reasonably d*unk.

She fucked my silly on a park bench.

After a couple of hours I still hadn't cum.

I walked her home from the pub a few times after that.

Not exactly romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can remember the day , I can still remember how much it hurt, how cold the bed was and the smell of condoms. Marvin Gaye was in the charts with sexual healing and I remember we'd listened to the top 40 on the radio earlier.

The actual event was a massive anticlimax as I had to rush off to catch my bus.. I had been seeing him for months and we carried on for about another year. It was always fairly anticlimactic for me as until I bought the joy of sex from the book club a couple of years later I didn't know I had a clitoris, he definately didn't. ! I made up for it after that though !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm loving reading everyone's memories. Thanks for sharing It's such a big deal in your life especially at the time, but really not that big a deal in the grand scheme of your sex life.

I can see me watching a whole bunch of coming of age movies soon...

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I can't remember when I lost my virginity, but I know I found it again when I got married

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cant remember date etc. But I was very young! Too young! He was 17. He lived with his sister and brother in law; it was at their house. I was so naive and so in love - or so I thought. Looking back I didn't know what love was. I would have done anything for him. It was a Friday night. A tad painful. Started my period on the Saturday morning. He dumped me that same day. I was a notch on his bed post. If I could go back in my life and change anything... that would be it. I remember Siouxsie and the Banshees was in the charts with Dear Prudence. I was a neglected, unwanted child who wanted someone to love her.. and my mum and step dad didn't care where I was. "

I hope you're surrounded by lovelier people now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost my virginity when I was 25 !! I know it's late but that's how I brought up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I lost my virginity when I was 25 !! I know it's late but that's how I brought up.

"

I had a pal who was around the same age. Nothing wrong with that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can narrow it down to sometime in the fairly early/mid seventies...

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"I cant remember date etc. But I was very young! Too young! He was 17. He lived with his sister and brother in law; it was at their house. I was so naive and so in love - or so I thought. Looking back I didn't know what love was. I would have done anything for him. It was a Friday night. A tad painful. Started my period on the Saturday morning. He dumped me that same day. I was a notch on his bed post. If I could go back in my life and change anything... that would be it. I remember Siouxsie and the Banshees was in the charts with Dear Prudence. I was a neglected, unwanted child who wanted someone to love her.. and my mum and step dad didn't care where I was.

I hope you're surrounded by lovelier people now.

"

I am. Thank you. I'm alot wiser too. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember the first couple of times...

my 1st was a older woman who stayed round the corner where i grew up..i had just got my 1st car and i saw her walking home in the rain...i stopped to offer a lift..she had been out with her sister to the pub and she was a bit d*unk....she got in the car .after and bit of small chat she , out of the blue, raised up her skirt to reveal no pants and suspenders...i thought i had died and gone to heaven..she told me to pull over and she got on top and went to town..ill never forget it...

the 2nd time was with the same woman but there was a twist..i was out with a few of my pals and we all took magic mushrooms...i got seperated from the group at some point in the evening and bumped into her..she took me back to her place and gave me the most memorable night ever..i can only describe the foreplay as a scary experiance though.when we were kissing and i closed my eyes all i could see was her biting my head off(twas a bit freaky)..the sex was amazing though.i remember it like it was yesterday..i lasted all night(something that dosnt happen now)...never came once but was rock hard all night

never did get a 3rd night with her,despite all my efforts

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By *punkyMcFuckKnuckleMan
over a year ago

Glasvegas/Kilmarnock

Scotland Brazil France 98.

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I don't remember the exact date (although I could probably work it out if I really wanted to) but it was summer 94. Probably July.

I was 21, and kind of sick of waiting for it to happen. She was 46, and my mate was renting her spare room as student digs, which is how we met.

The first time wasn't great, and the thing I was guilty about (and more so the more time passes) is that I blew my grandad off to be there.... (My nan was an invalid and he was her full time carer, despite being disabled himself, and I took him out once a month for a few hours respite)

Kept seeing the woman for a good 6 months or more, and still got Xmas cards from her until recently

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Keep it 18+ please guys.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I remember the year and how old i was. No idea as to the date but the corn had just been cut so late august id say. Sadly the guy i lost it to died at 49 from cancer but i used to still see him around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have been 1987, late spring possibly! I had a cabin bed that swayed horrendously so not the most romantic or defining moment that Jackie magazine had alluded to

Peach x

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