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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Talk about having your confidence knocked,

I've just been talking to a lady for the past hour getting on having a laugh and boom shes gone off the site,

I cant help but feel it's me as she said I was the only person she was talking to,

Should I let this bother me??

As it happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you talk dirty? Did she have verifications? Maybe it was a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't pay any attention to it buddy unless the is a constant thing thats happening then delete the post before fabs kicks you for losing them potential customers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you shouldn't let it bother you. It was just a bloke having a sherman tank. Nothing to worry about at all. Forget it and move on, dude

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It happens to everyone and probably has nothing to do with you. Don't let it get you down. Get your confidence from elsewhere and be a bit more detached on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry, probably a man wanking.

Yes it's happened to me. They usually delete their profile when the wife gets home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No there was no dirty talk atall It was just a chat and a laugh, she said she had a fella,

Tha k you for your support guys xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens, it's happened to me (her) when I had a single profile years ago. Don't analyse it, just forget it and carry on regardless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No there was no dirty talk atall It was just a chat and a laugh, she said she had a fella,

Tha k you for your support guys xxxxxxx"

I've had chats with 'women' like that. It's not always sexual.

Or it may really have been a she and her boyfriend came home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about having your confidence knocked,

I've just been talking to a lady for the past hour getting on having a laugh and boom shes gone off the site,

I cant help but feel it's me as she said I was the only person she was talking to,

Should I let this bother me??

As it happened to you?"
dont feel bad it was probably a guy he just couldn't keep it up

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"Talk about having your confidence knocked,

I've just been talking to a lady for the past hour getting on having a laugh and boom shes gone off the site,

I cant help but feel it's me as she said I was the only person she was talking to,

Should I let this bother me??

As it happened to you?"

You’ll bag another catch soon enough brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No there was no dirty talk atall It was just a chat and a laugh, she said she had a fella,

Tha k you for your support guys xxxxxxx"

The reality is most likley she had guilt issues and deleted it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talk about having your confidence knocked,

I've just been talking to a lady for the past hour getting on having a laugh and boom shes gone off the site,

I cant help but feel it's me as she said I was the only person she was talking to,

Should I let this bother me??

As it happened to you?"

It’s happened a few times

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

For all the ‘it was a guy theories’, as you will never know anyway, you could believe this scenario instead:

it was indeed a lady and she was indeed genuine. Perhaps she liked you, a lot, and because of the particular nature of Fab, she knew that if she continued talking to you she would almost certainly risk her relationship by meeting you, and fucking you. When she realised this, she got scared and fled. So it wasn’t because she was playing you, or deceiving you, it was because she liked you.

No idea if that makes you feel better or worse, but it’s what I would choose to believe.

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Could be a million reasons and she is well within her rights to leave, I wouldn’t take it personally or to heart, it could of easily been a guy or the guilt hitting home so better now than in a few weeks time when you had planned a meet and then he/she just vanished ( happened to me over the weekend )

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"It happens to everyone"

No it doesn't. I've been on here for about 14 years and it's never happened to me, mind you, that maybe because I don't actually speak to anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shit happens for a reason I see it as her loss, thank you again people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all the ‘it was a guy theories’, as you will never know anyway, you could believe this scenario instead:

it was indeed a lady and she was indeed genuine. Perhaps she liked you, a lot, and because of the particular nature of Fab, she knew that if she continued talking to you she would almost certainly risk her relationship by meeting you, and fucking you. When she realised this, she got scared and fled. So it wasn’t because she was playing you, or deceiving you, it was because she liked you.

No idea if that makes you feel better or worse, but it’s what I would choose to believe. "

Aww this is nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For all the ‘it was a guy theories’, as you will never know anyway, you could believe this scenario instead:

it was indeed a lady and she was indeed genuine. Perhaps she liked you, a lot, and because of the particular nature of Fab, she knew that if she continued talking to you she would almost certainly risk her relationship by meeting you, and fucking you. When she realised this, she got scared and fled. So it wasn’t because she was playing you, or deceiving you, it was because she liked you.

No idea if that makes you feel better or worse, but it’s what I would choose to believe. "

And that's the kindest way to treat yourself.

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