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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hot or a huge turn on to have a woman straight after she's just been had by another?

First man has her and leaves thinking she's not seeing anyone else. Second man visits and wants her because he knows she's just been had. Why is that such a turn on for a guy???

I understand most kinks/turn ons etc I'm just curious to what people would say on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has had her? Has had her what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would guess it's the mating instinct of he is having you 'last' so you are his

Maybe - who knows?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Good question never understand sloppy seconds

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Has had her? Has had her what?"

Had her = fucked her. I don't know why OP, I've wondered that myself before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes had her as in fucked her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really hoping a man that finds this a massive turn can enlighten us all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good question never understand sloppy seconds "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea OP, doesn’t do anything in the slightest for me. I’m sure for some though it’s a huge turn to know that the woman has just been fucking someone. Maybe these guys also like sitting down on a warm toilet seat?

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Fab question. Looking forward to the answers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cream pie? Maybe a form of reclaim sex. He's in there last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hot or a huge turn on to have a woman straight after she's just been had by another?

First man has her and leaves thinking she's not seeing anyone else. Second man visits and wants her because he knows she's just been had. Why is that such a turn on for a guy???

I understand most kinks/turn ons etc I'm just curious to what people would say on this. "
it isn't, i wouldnt enjoy it

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I ain’t stirring no mans porridge girl

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Is it any holes a hole. Who knows Op

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Why does anybody get turned on by feet ?

Same thing really its just a persons kink,

The feeling of being inside someone after they have just been fucked a mixture of fluids ? Haven't got a clue its not something I'd do

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Op you look gorgeous I'll just join the que for you don't mind what number I am

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Hot or a huge turn on to have a woman straight after she's just been had by another?

First man has her and leaves thinking she's not seeing anyone else. Second man visits and wants her because he knows she's just been had. Why is that such a turn on for a guy???

I understand most kinks/turn ons etc I'm just curious to what people would say on this. "

Kinks exist in myriad forms and some are just plain weird

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I'm guessing that maybe guy two gets off on the fact that he's been chosen over guy one.

Maybe it feels naughty doing something behind the other guys back?

Maybe they just like the physical feeling of sloppy seconds?

Or as someone else said, it's reclaim sex.

It might not be to your taste, but that doesn't necessarily make it "weird".

Just not your squelchy cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sloppy seconds, no thanks!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Gangbangs and greedy girls jump to mind. Pure animalistic act of one after another, and or claiming a partner back after shes been with another / others.

Why does sloppy seconds always get thrown around? Safe sex gang bangs / greedy girls. Although not fully safe, does not mean your dipping in porridge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it any hole's a goal. Who knows Op "

FTFY Spidey

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

If I was meeting somebody regular I think I’d enjoy meeting her after she’s had a meet and she could tell me about as we played together but obviously it would be safe sex so not really stirring porridge portions or anything like that, however meeting somebody new who has just had fun would not be a turn on in the slightest !!

So my answer is yes it’s a turn on with the right person in the right circumstances

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op you look gorgeous I'll just join the que for you don't mind what number I am"

Pmsl, nearly woke the kids laughing at that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm guessing that maybe guy two gets off on the fact that he's been chosen over guy one.

Maybe it feels naughty doing something behind the other guys back?

Maybe they just like the physical feeling of sloppy seconds?

Or as someone else said, it's reclaim sex.

It might not be to your taste, but that doesn't necessarily make it "weird".

Just not your squelchy cup of tea

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I can see the being chosen over the other and feeling naughty doing it behind the other guys back.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was meeting somebody regular I think I’d enjoy meeting her after she’s had a meet and she could tell me about as we played together but obviously it would be safe sex so not really stirring porridge portions or anything like that, however meeting somebody new who has just had fun would not be a turn on in the slightest !!

So my answer is yes it’s a turn on with the right person in the right circumstances "

I'm totally with you on how having a regular that shared their sexy experiences with you would be a big turn on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not something ive ever done but i do have male friends that het very turned on by the thought of a promiscuous woman so maybe its just that shes insatiable and needs fucked again thats the turn on

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate


"If I was meeting somebody regular I think I’d enjoy meeting her after she’s had a meet and she could tell me about as we played together but obviously it would be safe sex so not really stirring porridge portions or anything like that, however meeting somebody new who has just had fun would not be a turn on in the slightest !!

So my answer is yes it’s a turn on with the right person in the right circumstances

I'm totally with you on how having a regular that shared their sexy experiences with you would be a big turn on! "

Right person Right circumstances would be amazing maybe even helping to choose I can only imagine how intense it would be maintaining eye contact the whole time as she told me what she’s been up with him, I don’t think I’d even blink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my cup of tea but each to their own. I'd need an extra 24hrs in the day to figure some stuff out on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not something ive ever done but i do have male friends that het very turned on by the thought of a promiscuous woman so maybe its just that shes insatiable and needs fucked again thats the turn on "

Maybe, I can see that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op you look gorgeous I'll just join the que for you don't mind what number I am

Pmsl, nearly woke the kids laughing at that "

Now I'm imaging the deli counter tickets being issued

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln

This is one David Attenborough needs to explain. He does it so much better. But it has something to do with mating and how alpha you are. Which is why some men only go first some like to go second.

No idea about feet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea OP, doesn’t do anything in the slightest for me. I’m sure for some though it’s a huge turn to know that the woman has just been fucking someone. Maybe these guys also like sitting down on a warm toilet seat?"

Whoa whoa whoa right there Mr Polarbear, there's nothing wrong with a warm toilet seat! As long as it's at home!! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was meeting somebody regular I think I’d enjoy meeting her after she’s had a meet and she could tell me about as we played together but obviously it would be safe sex so not really stirring porridge portions or anything like that, however meeting somebody new who has just had fun would not be a turn on in the slightest !!

So my answer is yes it’s a turn on with the right person in the right circumstances

I'm totally with you on how having a regular that shared their sexy experiences with you would be a big turn on!

Right person Right circumstances would be amazing maybe even helping to choose I can only imagine how intense it would be maintaining eye contact the whole time as she told me what she’s been up with him, I don’t think I’d even blink "

That's quite a different scenario but a sexy one though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Op you look gorgeous I'll just join the que for you don't mind what number I am

Pmsl, nearly woke the kids laughing at that

Now I'm imaging the deli counter tickets being issued "

Oh dear god noooo!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

So how about couples swapping partners during a meet? Is that any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope , not for me..

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

Personally it would be more about the connection I had with the lady not just the fact she had just been with somebody else but more to do with the intensity we would both be feeling at the time she was back with me and telling me about it as we fucked. Something about that is a huge turn on.

But understand like everything it’s not for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So how about couples swapping partners during a meet? Is that any different?"

Just what I was thinking x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So how about couples swapping partners during a meet? Is that any different?"

Good point/question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea OP, doesn’t do anything in the slightest for me. I’m sure for some though it’s a huge turn to know that the woman has just been fucking someone. Maybe these guys also like sitting down on a warm toilet seat?

Whoa whoa whoa right there Mr Polarbear, there's nothing wrong with a warm toilet seat! As long as it's at home!! Lol."

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