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When you see an ex online or in person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you say Hi, or purposely ignore them?

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I’d say Hi. But then I’ve always ended on something approaching good terms, as far as I remember.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

On line maybe let them get in with it.

In person, always say hi

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

Ignore

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Depends on the ex.

Sometimes say hi, sometimes ignore, sometimes call the police.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm on very good terms with my ex, we keep in touch and stuff. She lives in Yorkshire though so I doubt I will see her any time soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd ignore and block if I thought they were a cunt.

Someone I parted on good terms with I'd be happy for them that they were hopefully enjoying themselves and having awesome experiences so probably just ignore them but not block, I wouldn't be messaging them or calling them old pet names like babe or snugglepuss. That shit gets dead n buried when the relationship is over and I think it's highly inappropriate especially if you were once very very close. I think you've separated for a reason and hopefully moved on, to me that's unclear boundaries and almost carrot dangling to what could maybe be again.

In the street? Hmmm. One would get laughed at, the rest I would acknowledge

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve not split up on bad terms with any ex so it’s ok, i just tend to feel awkward.

Plus you always see them when you’re looking like a bag of wank! Full up with a cold, having a bad hair day and your tooth veneer has fallen out so you’ve got a mini tooth that is the first thing they see when you smile and they look gorgeous.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Mine asked me out for a drink. Didn't recognise me!!! I bollocked him as he's now married and has a son. I think he's off of here now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you say Hi, or purposely ignore them?"

Ignore and feel sorry for the person they meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I share joint custody of a lovely golden lab with my ex so we are on good terms

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’ve not split up on bad terms with any ex so it’s ok, i just tend to feel awkward.

Plus you always see them when you’re looking like a bag of wank! Full up with a cold, having a bad hair day and your tooth veneer has fallen out so you’ve got a mini tooth that is the first thing they see when you smile and they look gorgeous. "

You have such a way with words.

Apart from one, I'm not on bad terms with my exes. They are still friends to varying degrees so I'd respond how I would with any friend.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

In person I'd probably smile hello and keep walking.

Online I'd ignore, maybe have a quick look to see if their cock has grown any in the intervening years, then blockadoodledoo.

They're an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a problem with ex s. .been good friends after. . Still are with remaining one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on good terms but it's still annoying when you get caught looking way worse than them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you say Hi, or purposely ignore them?"

If they are at the same place as them. I am polite and respectful but all but 2 exs i still speak too

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I say hello and then walk away and think thank fuck I’m still not with that

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I'm on good terms but it's still annoying when you get caught looking way worse than them."

Or when they have a new girlfriend with them! Honestly, i wish manhole covers doubled up as express elevators at times

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Ignore them.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Not seen him in about five years... I'd say hi we're on good terms now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you say Hi, or purposely ignore them?

Ignore and feel sorry for the person they meet."

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Say hi no need to be rude or ignorant after all were once lovers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most I say hi too, been a long time I can be friendly but one... if I ever see her I am running like Forrest Gump!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

The ex husband lives round the corner.. so I’d say hello yes...

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Depends on who and circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the ex. The one sme on here know then I would always say hello to and would actively seek out if we were at the same place. Theres another I've ignored completely but most fall nearer the first scenario. I'm not one for bitterness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was gonna tell a story but decided against it.

Depends on the ex and how you left things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say hello and how are you, always! I'd say that to anyone I know if I saw them tbh, it's good manners. It's sometimes not that simple in real life however. Life moves on, ppl get left behind or feel hard done by and hello is often seen as (or used as) "fuck you" or "look at how happy I am" or "look how great my life is without you". If only life were simple eh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left mine on good terms so no probs saying hello.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Would greatly depend on how things ended and ways were parted.

Generally though yes. No reason to be rude otherwise. I hate being I polite to random people on the Internet (intentionally) I wouldn't hate even more to be thst way to somebody I know, and especially somebody I was close with.

Though as I say it is greatly dependent on other factors.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Online I would ignore them, in person I would always say hello

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I have a child and a lot of history with him. I'd never ignore him despite it probably being for the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though we've moved on over time, quite alot of mine are local, there are very few I don't talk to, and most are on my Facebook along with there partners, suppose I'm lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have an "ex's" as in husband/boyfriends.

Fab friends who I no longer see? All but one I'd probably acknowledge.

One guy came into where I work a couple of weeks ago. We had a lovely chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be lucky or something..I get on with all my ex's...I still have respect for them all and would go as far as saying I still love them all..I'm not in love with them but if any of them came chapping on my door I'd invite them for a coffee.....

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I accidentally bumped into my ex once or twice. I just say hi, shake hands and a little polite small talk.

Be friendly and jovial. And then go.

Some people like to see you suffer.

Don't give them the satisfaction.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I'm civil to my ex for my youngest daughters sake. Other than that I'd have no reason to converse with him . He still annoys me probs always will

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