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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big tits, toned ass I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Cheeky smile chemistry and lips that enjoy sucking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cheeky smile chemistry and lips that enjoy sucking "

Chemistry is definitely essential

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

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By *occerstar579Man
over a year ago

cambridge


"Cheeky smile chemistry and lips that enjoy sucking

Chemistry is definitely essential "

Never played with a fabber unless had social first. Always got to leave each other wanting more!

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By *ngels of Sin 69Couple
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??"

Easy answer

Hubby has lots of amazing qualities but above all I love the respect he shows for me and others, the care, consideration and compassion he has im our everyday life, and the fact he has the most amazing bod is the icing on the cake, im very lucky H x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??

Easy answer

Hubby has lots of amazing qualities but above all I love the respect he shows for me and others, the care, consideration and compassion he has im our everyday life, and the fact he has the most amazing bod is the icing on the cake, im very lucky H x"

Ahhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

"

I love your list

Add some more !!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Of my OH good qualities, the one I value most is his ability to read me like a book. He's able to understand what I'm thinking even when I don't want to communicate.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Must like dogs ...

That's it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest, kind, intelligent, fun, cheeky, like my dogs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of my OH good qualities, the one I value most is his ability to read me like a book. He's able to understand what I'm thinking even when I don't want to communicate."

I’d love that.

I think when you don’t “ get” someone in that way... it leads to rows and disagreements. You don’t know when to hug or leave them alone....

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

"

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must like dogs ...

That's it really. "

Definitely on my list

I actually don’t really trust people who don’t like dogs !!

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By *ocratesrocksMan
over a year ago

school of long licks

Honest, adventurous, confident, traveller, experimental, stocking wearing knicker wearing is an option

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Of my OH good qualities, the one I value most is his ability to read me like a book. He's able to understand what I'm thinking even when I don't want to communicate.

I’d love that.

I think when you don’t “ get” someone in that way... it leads to rows and disagreements. You don’t know when to hug or leave them alone...."

Totally agree with you, to understand someone leads to less bickering and rows. And gives a sense of belonging too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m going to add

A good washer upper

I don’t have a dishwasher and I can’t stand bits left on cutlery ....

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"I’m going to add

A good washer upper

I don’t have a dishwasher and I can’t stand bits left on cutlery ...."

Can't stand it when people drain spoons so the dishwasher collects in them!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

She's got to have a sense of humour.

Otherwise she's just gonna think I'm on another planet and leg it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Anyone I have sex with is "more than just a fuck" for me - how that is defined though is a little more difficult as I'm not sure I have a conscious tick list as such more about a connection and chemistry that I just *know* when it happens - it's very much about being on the same wavelength as me and a meeting of like minds.

Of course that encapsulates values like attraction, honesty, respect, trust and consideration, open mindedness etc but those in themselves aren't the defining factors more a sense of *knowing*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honest, adventurous, confident, traveller, experimental, stocking wearing knicker wearing is an option "

For me boxer shorts wearer would be optional. One gentleman I know never seems to wear them. But my dream man would definitely look good parading around in his tighty whiteys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She's got to have a sense of humour.

Otherwise she's just gonna think I'm on another planet and leg it. "

Sense of humour is massive

When you’re watching a stand up show on tv together and just crying with laughter....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

"

I’m here !!

I’m here !!

Pick me !!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I don't want perfection. It would only shine a light on my imperfection.

A few things I look for are a sense of adventure, a great smile, no secret significant other and a face I can snog all day. I'm still looking.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't want perfection. It would only shine a light on my imperfection.

A few things I look for are a sense of adventure, a great smile, no secret significant other and a face I can snog all day. I'm still looking."

Ahhhhh the secret significant other....

Yep

Would be more convenient if they were actually single.

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By *ocratesrocksMan
over a year ago

school of long licks


"Honest, adventurous, confident, traveller, experimental, stocking wearing knicker wearing is an option

For me boxer shorts wearer would be optional. One gentleman I know never seems to wear them. But my dream man would definitely look good parading around in his tighty whiteys "

I have a whole collection of different underwear, and suffice to say my FB, loves me in tighty whiteys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Must like dogs ...

That's it really.

Definitely on my list

I actually don’t really trust people who don’t like dogs !!"

Same as , let's get married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mila kunis

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!"

That's a conversation for date number 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

I’m here !!

I’m here !!

Pick me !!"

I did still waiting for you to reply x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Anyone I have sex with is "more than just a fuck" for me - how that is defined though is a little more difficult as I'm not sure I have a conscious tick list as such more about a connection and chemistry that I just *know* when it happens - it's very much about being on the same wavelength as me and a meeting of like minds.

Of course that encapsulates values like attraction, honesty, respect, trust and consideration, open mindedness etc but those in themselves aren't the defining factors more a sense of *knowing*"

^ This (worded much more eloquently than I could have put it )

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I dont believe that anybody is "perfect". All relationships take time and effort to make them work in some capacity at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mila kunis"

I would

And I’m not into girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!

That's a conversation for date number 3. "

So.... are you loaded ?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mila kunis

I would

And I’m not into girls "

I'll share

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By *urplequeenWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

"

Pretty much my list too..

Think id add a few things though

Be a man who isnt afraid to be a man

Have no dramas

Have an actual personality ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rich and very ill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rich and very ill."

FFS I shouldn't laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rich and very ill."

Hahahaha

I like your style Mavis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rich and very ill.

FFS I shouldn't laugh"

Made me laugh out loud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

Pretty much my list too..

Think id add a few things though

Be a man who isnt afraid to be a man

Have no dramas

Have an actual personality ????"

No dramas !!!

Wow that would be wonderful

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list"

Can’t you do that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list

Can’t you do that?"

Yes, but the point is, I don’t want to !

My perfect partner would definitely offer to do it for me..... this would result in extra blow jobs for said perfect partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list

Can’t you do that?

Yes, but the point is, I don’t want to !

My perfect partner would definitely offer to do it for me..... this would result in extra blow jobs for said perfect partner."

Id be collecting other peoples dogs poo all day for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want me as much as i want them, a lot of mental engagement + stimulation... BDSM sex... A big space for my shoe collection and a mutual appreciation of my lingerie collection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rich and very ill.

Hahahaha

I like your style Mavis

"

And with a cute guide dog.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They want me as much as i want them, a lot of mental engagement + stimulation... BDSM sex... A big space for my shoe collection and a mutual appreciation of my lingerie collection "

They want me as much as I want them.

I love it.

I think it’s human nature to be even more attracted to someone when you know that they’re crazy about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8n no particular order

Good teeth

Good body

Big cock (6"+)

Own car

Own house

Hair on his head more than his face

Respectful

Fun

Active

Spontaneous

Loving

Honest

Loyal

Romantic

Mature (in mind not age)

The list is endless.... hence why I am single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list

Can’t you do that?

Yes, but the point is, I don’t want to !

My perfect partner would definitely offer to do it for me..... this would result in extra blow jobs for said perfect partner.

Id be collecting other peoples dogs poo all day for that"

Ew

Seems drastic

How about I make you a chores list and you get gold stars and ahem other rewards ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

"

That's why you havent found her yet... she is all the way down in southampton....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"8n no particular order

Good teeth

Good body

Big cock (6"+)

Own car

Own house

Hair on his head more than his face

Respectful

Fun

Active

Spontaneous

Loving

Honest

Loyal

Romantic

Mature (in mind not age)

The list is endless.... hence why I am single. "

I love that you were honest and said

Own house

Own car

Yes. It matters. In a relationship. In a partner. Does for me anyway. I’ve had guys try and sponge off me.... never gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

That's why you havent found her yet... she is all the way down in southampton.... "

Ha but sadly im outside her age range

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this is a swingers site....

Would your perfect partner be into this lifestyle ? Swopping ??

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!

That's a conversation for date number 3.

So.... are you loaded ?!?!?!

"

Errrrm. I do ok.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I tend to avoid list makers x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!

That's a conversation for date number 3.

So.... are you loaded ?!?!?!

Errrrm. I do ok. "

Influx of messages !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tend to avoid list makers x"

Ok, don’t think of it as a list....

Don’t you have qualities that you’d like your dream girl to possess ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

That's why you havent found her yet... she is all the way down in southampton....

Ha but sadly im outside her age range "

Not anymore

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

[Removed by poster at 11/11/19 12:35:50]

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I tend to avoid list makers x

Ok, don’t think of it as a list....

Don’t you have qualities that you’d like your dream girl to possess ? "

Yes not be a list maker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to avoid list makers x

Ok, don’t think of it as a list....

Don’t you have qualities that you’d like your dream girl to possess ?

Yes not be a list maker "

Lol

Is that a list in itself

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I tend to avoid list makers x

Ok, don’t think of it as a list....

Don’t you have qualities that you’d like your dream girl to possess ?

Yes not be a list maker

Lol

Is that a list in itself "

To avoid irony I have only one

Not sure one item can be classed as a list x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"It’s interesting that nobody so far has said that they’ve got to have a few quid.

Maybe we’re not a shallow lot after all !!

That's a conversation for date number 3.

So.... are you loaded ?!?!?!

Errrrm. I do ok.

Influx of messages !!"

Yeah right. I avoid gold diggers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate fucking loud eaters.

And Oilers fans.

After that, I'm negotiable on anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate fucking loud eaters.

And Oilers fans.

After that, I'm negotiable on anything. "

Oilers ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate fucking loud eaters.

And Oilers fans.

After that, I'm negotiable on anything.

Oilers ??"

ice hockey team if I remember correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate fucking loud eaters.

And Oilers fans.

After that, I'm negotiable on anything.

Oilers ??"

Mmmm I'd like to be oiled. Is that the same thing? Might add it to my list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate fucking loud eaters.

And Oilers fans.

After that, I'm negotiable on anything.

Oilers ??ice hockey team if I remember correctly "

Ahhhhhh

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Very short list: a good communicator, a high sex drive, a bit of chemistry between us, an ability to laugh at himself, a massive love of sarcastic lardarses.

Happy days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is only one, so it's less about properties, more about the person..... (imho)...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For anyone who might be interested

In no particular order

These are a few of the qualities I’d love to find....

Kind

Warm

Loving

Sexual

Sensual

Cheeky

Flirty

Charismatic

Old fashioned charming

Flamboyant

Snappy dresser

Well spoken

Big hearted

Attentive

Affectionate

Trustworthy

Honest

Family orientated

In love with me

Filthy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very short list: a good communicator, a high sex drive, a bit of chemistry between us, an ability to laugh at himself, a massive love of sarcastic lardarses.

Happy days."

Oooooo

Good communicator

Add that to mine

Excellent

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By *ourneblondeWoman
over a year ago

Bourne

Must have a bigger house than me...

Must own a more expensive car than me..

And must spoil me with everything I want..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest

Articulate

Funny

Open minded

Smart

Reliable

Emotionally intelligent

Quirky

Tactile

Sensual

Laid back

Music lover

Curvy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must have a bigger house than me...

Must own a more expensive car than me..

And must spoil me with everything I want..

"

Like your style blondie

For me, having been married to a wealthy man, I appreciate these things, but they’re less important these days.

As long as there’s enough money between us to enjoy life, I don’t really care about the house or the car.

As long as he keeps me in Jo Malone, I don’t care about other gifts either.

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By *ourneblondeWoman
over a year ago

Bourne


"Must have a bigger house than me...

Must own a more expensive car than me..

And must spoil me with everything I want..

Like your style blondie

For me, having been married to a wealthy man, I appreciate these things, but they’re less important these days.

As long as there’s enough money between us to enjoy life, I don’t really care about the house or the car.

As long as he keeps me in Jo Malone, I don’t care about other gifts either."

It all helps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a woman who would support me as much as I support her, physically and emotionally above all else. Relationships are a two way street

And must have a banging sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For anyone who might be interested

In no particular order

These are a few of the qualities I’d love to find....

Kind

Warm

Loving

Sexual

Sensual

Cheeky

Flirty

Charismatic

Old fashioned charming

Flamboyant

Snappy dresser

Well spoken

Big hearted

Attentive

Affectionate

Trustworthy

Honest

Family orientated

In love with me

Filthy "

Youve just spoken with me on the phone and now are describing me arent you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an ideal world, she'd be very down to eath, girl next door type.

Being able to communicate and talk about anything would be great.

Same sense of humour, a bit on the cheeky side.

A quieter type rather than a very loud person.

I like creative and quirky people too.

Just someone on my level that I can be myself with pretty much sums it up.

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Honesty & integrity, But never perfect or predictable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For anyone who might be interested

In no particular order

These are a few of the qualities I’d love to find....

Kind

Warm

Loving

Sexual

Sensual

Cheeky

Flirty

Charismatic

Old fashioned charming

Flamboyant

Snappy dresser

Well spoken

Big hearted

Attentive

Affectionate

Trustworthy

Honest

Family orientated

In love with me

Filthy

Youve just spoken with me on the phone and now are describing me arent you?? "

Well this was my honest list ....

I’ll add dog lover

Are you in love with me ?

I know I’m awesome but it was only one phone call....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a woman who would support me as much as I support her, physically and emotionally above all else. Relationships are a two way street

And must have a banging sense of humour"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m going to add to my list....

Fancies me more than he fancies himself

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I like a woman who would support me as much as I support her, physically and emotionally above all else. Relationships are a two way street

And must have a banging sense of humour"

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"For me.... willingness to pick up my dogs poo is pretty high on the list"

I just cant, makes me heave, sorry

Mr M

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x"

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No list as such, you just know when it’s right, but they do have to be open and honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x"

And willing to accept 1st dec as official start of xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure it's entirely definable; I know when it's not right: the lack of chemistry or common ground is palpable.

I guess it's a certain je ne sais quoi that gives me a physical, as well as emotional, reaction.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I don't have a list really. What I have found is someone who brings out the best in me and I in him, who gives me unconditional love and I easily do that back with him. We bicker yes, nothing is perfect. But with him I can be me, for all my flaws and follies.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x

And willing to accept 1st dec as official start of xmas "

Dont push it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm....

My perfect partner is someone who doesn't live with me.

We meet for sex, nights out, holidays etc .. the fun stuff.

No domestic drudgery.

He will be kind and funny and hopefully adores me.

Too much to ask?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm....

My perfect partner is someone who doesn't live with me.

We meet for sex, nights out, holidays etc .. the fun stuff.

No domestic drudgery.

He will be kind and funny and hopefully adores me.

Too much to ask?

"

You know what ?

I’d really love that too. I treasure my own space/time/independence.

But is it possible or even fair to get the good stuff without the bad ?

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Fun, honest and down right sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x

And willing to accept 1st dec as official start of xmas

Dont push it "

Scrooge

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Someone with passion, who has some depth to them, means what they say, makes me feel butterflies when I hear their voice, the simple things can be the most rewarding.

Someone who wants me as much as I want them, that feeling of excitement when you know their on there way.

Needs to be athletic, toned in great shape maybe someone that enjoys some of the sports that I do or for me to embrace their hobbies. A get up and go attitude.

Honest with integrity and longevity amen. dominant gentleman x

And willing to accept 1st dec as official start of xmas

Dont push it

Scrooge"

I'm not the dominant type but you deserve a spanking for that

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By *agnumsrnniceMan
over a year ago

Town


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

Sounds idyllic, bonus I love wales

"

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

A sense of humour...I am so lucky in that my husband makes me laugh every single day. Even if I am sad he has a kind and special way of finding something to make me smile.

That and his patience and understanding.

I'm a very lucky lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??"

wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A sense of humour...I am so lucky in that my husband makes me laugh every single day. Even if I am sad he has a kind and special way of finding something to make me smile.

That and his patience and understanding.

I'm a very lucky lady."

Yes

You are

I’d just love to find a man that I don’t want to kick in the balls

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"A sense of humour...I am so lucky in that my husband makes me laugh every single day. Even if I am sad he has a kind and special way of finding something to make me smile.

That and his patience and understanding.

I'm a very lucky lady.

Yes

You are

I’d just love to find a man that I don’t want to kick in the balls "

one day you will meet a man that is everything you hoped for. Well....maybe everything is being too hopeful, but nearly everything would be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do "

Pineapple??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do

Pineapple?? "

yes if you eat a whole pineapple the night before you taste devine can we try it please to prove the theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do

Pineapple?? yes if you eat a whole pineapple the night before you taste devine can we try it please to prove the theory "

in the name of science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do

Pineapple?? yes if you eat a whole pineapple the night before you taste devine can we try it please to prove the theory in the name of science "

... that's a lot of pineapple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A gentleman has just asked me a very interesting question... “ What does it take to be more than just a fuck for you? What qualities do you look for in a perfect partner?”

This got me thinking.....

I have a tick list, if they’re honest, all single women do, but what would be on yours??

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??wealth, 38DD, a Julia Roberts smile, a willingness to always travel to me and if not pay for accom chip in 70-30, legs as long as the thames, a pineapple lover and the ability to compliment everything i do

Pineapple?? yes if you eat a whole pineapple the night before you taste devine can we try it please to prove the theory in the name of science

... that's a lot of pineapple"

I'll help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I love pineapple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love pineapple "
omg i love you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love pineapple omg i love you "

Yey !!!

My perfect partner

Let’s gets married !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love pineapple omg i love you

Yey !!!

My perfect partner

Let’s gets married !!!!!"

ok can it be a nudist beach wedding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty

Loyalty

Chemistry

Passionate

Sexual

Caring

To name a few lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love pineapple omg i love you

Yey !!!

My perfect partner

Let’s gets married !!!!!ok can it be a nudist beach wedding? "

I would accept nothing else

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??"

That we are best friends and make each other laugh, simple as that. We've been together since our teenage years and are 'as one'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??

That we are best friends and make each other laugh, simple as that. We've been together since our teenage years and are 'as one'."

Ahhhhhhhhhh

I genuinely just melted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

change your username to 'oneofmyfiveaday'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If you’re attached, what qualities in your partner do you like the most ??

That we are best friends and make each other laugh, simple as that. We've been together since our teenage years and are 'as one'."

wow young lad hot as

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"change your username to 'oneofmyfiveaday' "

I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love pineapple omg i love you

Yey !!!

My perfect partner

Let’s gets married !!!!!ok can it be a nudist beach wedding?

I would accept nothing else "

ttl hey lets face it no probs picking a wedding dress and nowhere to pin flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"change your username to 'oneofmyfiveaday'

I like it"

i'mwhistles

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Someone I can laugh and cry with. Someone I don't have to shave and make a massive effort for..but I do just because i want to.

Someone who has my back.

Ooo and is non judgemental has a good heart and is easy on the eye.

And knows my favourite perfume without asking

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"In no particular order:

Honest

Loyal

Passionate

Sexual

Loving

Caring

Considerate

Active

Fun

Kind

Laidback

Adventurous (in life)

Go getting

Humourous

"

This x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is a swingers site....

Would your perfect partner be into this lifestyle ? Swopping ??"

I wouldn't date anyone off here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking through the long lists of 'perfect attributes', I find it quite sad that most are things that simply make someone a decent human being.

How did the bar get so low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The love of all the same things which is hard to come by but also she understands and deals with my issues such as flashbacks in a most bootiful way and accepts me totally for who I am

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Hubby is perfect for me.

The main things I love about him are:

His desire and willingness to help others, without expecting anything in return.

Doesn't want to change me in any way

Laidback

Intelligent

Spontaneous

Loving

Protective but non-agressive

He is also a great lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect partner for xmas please

Kind

Funny

Caring

Passionate

Interesting

Funny

Dresses well

Intelligent

Thoughful

Decent

Filthy

Spontaneous

Social

Considerate

Great boobs and ass

Pretty face

Great kisser

Puts up with my terrible humour

Kinky

Trusting

Uninhibited

Loves great food

Dancing

Travel

Music

Wtf is she

"

You need to ask that...lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"For anyone who might be interested

In no particular order

These are a few of the qualities I’d love to find....

Kind

Warm

Loving

Sexual

Sensual

Cheeky

Flirty

Charismatic

Old fashioned charming

Flamboyant

Snappy dresser

Well spoken

Big hearted

Attentive

Affectionate

Trustworthy

Honest

Family orientated

In love with me

Filthy "

16

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Not a cheat is a good start for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH is the most amazing human being, but the way he truly understands me, really gets who I am and loves me all the more for it is absolutely amazing, I spent so much of my life thinking I needed to be what others thought I should be that it wasn't until I met him that I realised all I needed to be was me!

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By *969BewitchedWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Mine is too long, hence I stay single!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is too long, hence I stay single!"

Come on lets hear it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not psycho and doesnt try to kill me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One that lives in a separate house and hates pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that lives in a separate house and hates pizza.

"

What...pizza...hmm never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One that lives in a separate house and hates pizza.

What...pizza...hmm never"

Good answer... Do you have a separate house in a separate city?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Comfortable silence, random chat, sexual tension and honesty. That’s perfection

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