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By *ibob300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

Why is it so difficult to find a single bi female to play with the wife while I watch we have verifications we have a nice house we are ocd clean don’t know what else we need to offer for a friendly perverted meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you take out "watch" you will find it easy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet someone just because they have a clean house and verifications

I would need to be able to get on with them and be attracted to them.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I wouldn’t meet someone just because they have a clean house and verifications

I would need to be able to get on with them and be attracted to them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t want to meet a lady who’s hubby just wanted to sit there and watch.

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By *T.round2Woman
over a year ago

Darlington


"I wouldn’t want to meet a lady who’s hubby just wanted to sit there and watch. "

That would put me off too, especially first time out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult to find a single bi female to play with the wife while I watch we have verifications we have a nice house we are ocd clean don’t know what else we need to offer for a friendly perverted meet. "

From the bi female side of our couple profile (we play seperately too) I would feel that you’re just wanting me to perform for your benefit and I’m not getting a lot from it. I personally don’t like when the male doesn’t join in.

I would truly feel like a performing monkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t want to meet a lady who’s hubby just wanted to sit there and watch. "

Neither would I. I’d meet her alone if I found her attractive though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t want to meet a lady who’s hubby just wanted to sit there and watch.

Neither would I. I’d meet her alone if I found her attractive though "

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a couple, I'm bisexual, he's straight. We also play with bi-fems, but I couldn't think of anything worse than just getting a lady to our lovely clean house for me to play with while he watches!

Each to their own of course, but I think you'll struggle to find someone.

Please also consider that as clean as your house is, if there's no connection/attraction, there will be no "perverted play" or whatever you called it. Of course cleanliness is important, but a connection is more so.

Niki x

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By *ibob300 OP   Couple
over a year ago

north east

I’d be more than willing to play but it would only be oral but I see people’s POV and will take it on board

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being totally honest with you OP part of your problem will be your profile - you've not asked for profile advice so I can't give any but generically you need to make it appealing to the type of person you are trying to attract, so maybe take a look at yours and ask yourself honestly if you think it does.

You're also looking for that rarest of creatures the unicorn so it is never going to be easy and you're making it harder for yourself by making it sound like this is a fantasy scenario catering to your (the males) fantasies rather than a mutually agreeable and pleasurable experience for all involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t meet someone just because they have a clean house and verifications

I would need to be able to get on with them and be attracted to them. "

Unfortunately I agree with QL, clean house and veris don't mean your missus Is gonna get scissored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so difficult to find a single bi female to play with the wife while I watch we have verifications we have a nice house we are ocd clean don’t know what else we need to offer for a friendly perverted meet.

From the bi female side of our couple profile (we play seperately too) I would feel that you’re just wanting me to perform for your benefit and I’m not getting a lot from it. I personally don’t like when the male doesn’t join in.

I would truly feel like a performing monkey."

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I dislike being a performing seal. I like meets where everyone is expected to join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean house?

Phwoooor look at the size of his.... Hoover

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Why is it so difficult to find a single bi female to play with the wife while I watch we have verifications we have a nice house we are ocd clean don’t know what else we need to offer for a friendly perverted meet. "

As said take out the "watch" part & you might be more lucky, we tend to also ignore the ones that haven't met other single fems or couples for play.

Seems a few on here like the Bifem tag but don't seem to do the bifem thing

S

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

As pretty much everybody above has said, the meeting should be as much if not more about the joining lady as you guys. While you may think offering to watch is less invasive, we’ve played with women while a guy watches and it’s weird and uncomfortable, so to be the lady alone going into that situation can’t imagine.

Go to some socials, go to clubs, make some friends and then let the fantasies play out naturally.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I dislike being a performing seal. I like meets where everyone is expected to join in."

If you can't balance balls on your nose I'm not interested anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe because single bi fems aren't performing monkeys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I find if a couple message and it says that the lady of the couple is bi curious then I've found in the past (not saying your the same OP) that the lady is in fact just wanting to see if she really is bi and wants someone to go to town on her (so to speak) and doesn'tactually want to reciprocate.. I'm only here for my pleasure and it works both ways. So I'd say no for those reasons alone. I'm Much more likely to engage with a couple who have explained what they are looking for and what they hope will happen if we meet.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Because most couples are after the same

Also many woman don't want to put a show on for a man

Your profile also doesn't tell a lady what you offer or why they would choose you ,over all the others wanting the same.

Maybe try a club?

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

As a bi female I'm not a performing circus monkey!! I do meet couples alone on rare occasions but it would be a threesomes only!!

I don't wanna pleasure your wife whilst she lies there and takes it whilst you have a wank!!

Blunt?! Yep

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Bisexuality is just greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a bi female I'm not a performing circus monkey!! I do meet couples alone on rare occasions but it would be a threesomes only!!

I don't wanna pleasure your wife whilst she lies there and takes it whilst you have a wank!!

Blunt?! Yep"

Blunt but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be attraction someone has to be interested you have to make a good first impression otherwise you will just disappear into the swamp of other messages people get how you get their attention is down to you and your communication skills though.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"As a bi female I'm not a performing circus monkey!! I do meet couples alone on rare occasions but it would be a threesomes only!!

I don't wanna pleasure your wife whilst she lies there and takes it whilst you have a wank!!

Blunt?! Yep"

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

Because I'm not a performing monkey. If I'm guna meet a lady then it's just me and her, no one watching.

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway


"I dislike being a performing seal. I like meets where everyone is expected to join in.

If you can't balance balls on your nose I'm not interested anyway."

I'm practising Mr M!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"As a bi female I'm not a performing circus monkey!! I do meet couples alone on rare occasions but it would be a threesomes only!!

I don't wanna pleasure your wife whilst she lies there and takes it whilst you have a wank!!

Blunt?! Yep"

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Unfortunately lots of couples like this spoil it for those of us who genuinely want to play with ladies as 3!! Most single women get put of couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately lots of couples like this spoil it for those of us who genuinely want to play with ladies as 3!! Most single women get put of couples "

This

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

What are you actually offering?

A chance to hang out in a clean house???

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