FabSwingers.com forum: Relationship

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lot of fabbers do.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a normal one, where you iron on sundays watching soaps whilst he sits on the sofa with hand in pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to think you can

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Of course you can. It can be beautiful or an absolute train wreck like a relationship you find anywhere.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup yup yup

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s absolutely categorically impossible!

Once you’ve had a fab meet you can never ever have a conventional relationship again. EVER!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through Fab and have the most wonderful relationship and life together

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Of course, why do people think I'm still here

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"We met through Fab and have the most wonderful relationship and life together "

Nope! No you didn’t. It’s impossible. See above!!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

God I hope so. We met as singles on Fab. We’re now married!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"It’s absolutely categorically impossible!

Once you’ve had a fab meet you can never ever have a conventional relationship again. EVER! "

Conventional relationships bore me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup yup yup

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

It depends what you mean by proper of course, but I'd have to say yes.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"It’s absolutely categorically impossible!

Once you’ve had a fab meet you can never ever have a conventional relationship again. EVER!

Conventional relationships bore me anyway

Me too...it's not in my nature to be vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, like in any part of it life is what you make it and what put in! I think many don't or won't because the grass always seems greener then return to moan about how awful here is!!

Fab is life for a lot as opposed to a great addition to a great life ... perhaps that might be a little of the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have hope I can ..... fed up of being single x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can ..if anything both know from the start what you are like and desire. I would love to fond someone who I can have fun with in every way. Weekends away, cocktails and dancing, holidays, cooking dinner..all those things but then all the filthy stuff too. Perfect . Just need to find her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes you can ..if anything both know from the start what you are like and desire. I would love to fond someone who I can have fun with in every way. Weekends away, cocktails and dancing, holidays, cooking dinner..all those things but then all the filthy stuff too. Perfect . Just need to find her "

Think I need to move to the midlands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We met through Fab and have the most wonderful relationship and life together

Nope! No you didn’t. It’s impossible. See above!! "

Oh hurumph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion."

Why do you doubt it?

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

My guess is it depends on what ur both looking for. If ur both compatible after a meet on here can't see why not.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab? "

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab? "

Others do - but sadly I’ve never managed a successful one! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time."

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion."

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?"

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

Yes. We know a great couple who are very happy together and they met on here. People meet people all the time. Sharing a healthy interest in sex is a good thing for a relationship.

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By *hesexpeopleCouple
over a year ago

s wales

We met a couple who weren’t a couple in Xtasia a few years back, they used to be regular formulites and they popped back on recently saying they got married so it does happen

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed? "

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I know of at least a dozen plus couples some are still together after years.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires."

Because you met on Fab? Why so? Why is that different from meeting anywhere else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires."

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and hubby met through fab, neither of us were looking for a relationship, in fact I'd had a conversation a few weeks prior to our first meet with a friend of mine saying that I was quite content with the thought of not sharing my life with anyone .. then hey ho along he came.. it works well for us , possibly because we spend quite a lot of time apart and in different countries. But I haven't given it that much thought. We have a great relationship and we're very lucky ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires."

Why do you think that is? Because you met on here how is it any different from meeting on dating site for instance. I’m leaning towards the fact if I meet someone on here we’re sexually compatible and open from day one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you.....?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

Because you met on Fab? Why so? Why is that different from meeting anywhere else? "

Context perhaps? We meet people on fab with a specific reason in the background as opposed to out in the "vanilla" world where that motive may not be initially in play? It's hard to explain. I think in my case, my particular life circumstances at the moment make this difficult to envisage. Again, i'm not saying this can't change with the right person, and indeed things often develop when you least expect them. Pay me no mind

Uncharacteristic waffling here on my part.

Also answers Nora.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong. "

I’m not tarring anyone, it’s just the cynical side of me. Some don’t like the site being labelled as a sex one but ultimately it is. I’ve answered the question with the term relationship being based on ‘long term’ partners. If you were to continue to use the site in the same way you did before you started a relationship then I can’t see it lasting long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires."

Would you say anyone you meet on here would not be relationship material as such ? As there’s a stigma and you wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s been on here but casual sex is ok? Just curious

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

3 and a half years and counting

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab? "

We met in fab & now very happily married

J x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve had several relationships here over the last 6 years. Some great.. others not. It depends on the two people involved. I wouldn’t rule someone out because we met or hooked up from here. Most of the people I’ve come across have been absolutely lovely!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

Would you say anyone you meet on here would not be relationship material as such ? As there’s a stigma and you wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s been on here but casual sex is ok? Just curious "

Not at all. I've met some remarkable people here who, under different circumstances, would most certainly be relationship material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

Would you say anyone you meet on here would not be relationship material as such ? As there’s a stigma and you wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s been on here but casual sex is ok? Just curious

Not at all. I've met some remarkable people here who, under different circumstances, would most certainly be relationship material."

Different circumstances bring not met on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

Would you say anyone you meet on here would not be relationship material as such ? As there’s a stigma and you wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s been on here but casual sex is ok? Just curious

Not at all. I've met some remarkable people here who, under different circumstances, would most certainly be relationship material.

Different circumstances bring not met on a sex site

*being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess what? Many of us have a proper relationship whilst on fab. Jeez you singletons need to realise what site you're on ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab?

I'd like to think so, but I often can't help feeling a threshold has been crossed I can't come back from...

Perhaps it's just my current mindset and perspectives can change with time.

What do you mean a threshold has been crossed?

That I won't be able to engage in that deep seated emotional commitment that a proper relationship requires.

Would you say anyone you meet on here would not be relationship material as such ? As there’s a stigma and you wouldn’t want to date anyone who’s been on here but casual sex is ok? Just curious

Not at all. I've met some remarkable people here who, under different circumstances, would most certainly be relationship material.

Different circumstances bring not met on a sex site

No. Different life circumstances in my case. I'm one of the least judgemental people you'd come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship. "

I agree. If I met someone who I had great sex with I’d no longer be on here. I’m single and don’t meet men conventionally so I use this site. I’m not a swinger.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship. "

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

You can have a relationship meeting anywhere, really about the individual involve mind set. All about communicating and understanding each other.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I think it depends on the emotional baggage you carry.

I have trust issues, so meeting someone here would make me angsty, although the realistic side of me knows that a fella in the vanilla world has just as much opportunity to cheat if he wanted to, and not every fella here would cheat if he met someone he really liked and it got romantic.

But you hear so many tales on here of things going tits up that you forget those stories that have a happy ending, of which there are many.

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

No it’ll never work, honest

We met on here as singles 6 years ago. I moved in after 6 months after we met and we’ve been married 4.5 years. You can meet a life partner anywhere!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think. "

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

Cheaters exist everywhere not just on this site. In fact I think I have met more of them on conventional dating sites. Well more of the ones that don’t even admit they are married, but strangely can only meet just after work etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I need to move to the midlands

Ooh yes please x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've known people meet here and on fetish sites and get married. My bf and I met on a spanking website and we've been together almost seven years.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm sure it's possible

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"No it’ll never work, honest

We met on here as singles 6 years ago. I moved in after 6 months after we met and we’ve been married 4.5 years. You can meet a life partner anywhere!"

Heapsies

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't think I believe in monogamy. I think it's just a nice idea. I know the difference between love and sex and friendship. Some of my fwbs have treated me better than most people in my life have, I love them as friends. But I love my bf like a boyfriend. And whoever either of us has sex with either together or apart isn't going to change that. There's still a big stigma around having sex outside of a monogamous relationship. Especially for a woman. But I'd rather be me and get called a few names than be someone who has no idea what her husbands gets up to.

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook

Hi Def I've been in a open swinging relationship for 2 years now , we met here and it works . You just have to be honest and be upfront about everything.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

You had me at cocktails and dancing - where do I sign up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So it leads to, should there be a looking for relationship section on here??!

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Of course you bloody can. Whatever a ‘normal’ relationship is once you’re an adult with a real life, a history and a future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you can. Everyone at the end of the day is just a 'normal'??? Person, whether they've been on fab or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think. "

If you have that element of doubt then maybe you shouldn't be in that relationship? Whatever the type of relationship it should be built on trust and respect.

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab? "
of course....... fab is just that....... a meeting point...... we're all real people living in the real world, we are just a lil more upfront about the sexy things in life is all

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way."

Well I would hope that if I was in a relationship and things weren’t going smoothly we would both be adult enough to talk it through and work it out rather than cheat. After all, they would be able to have sex with others with my knowledge anyway. If I was doubting my partner to the extent I felt I needed to check up on them I would end it. I don’t need that craziness in my life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think. "

No way I'd date anyone off here.

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By *uto564Man
over a year ago

Widnes

Yes you can

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I hope so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess what? Many of us have a proper relationship whilst on fab. Jeez you singletons need to realise what site you're on ffs!"

Depends on what people think a proper relationship is.

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Yes it's possible, I met my partner on here and we have been together 5 years now. I moved Cities and we live together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had me at cocktails and dancing - where do I sign up?

We keep trying dont we x

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

I know a few that have

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

You had me at cocktails and dancing - where do I sign up?

We keep trying dont we x"

Indeed we do - must try harder

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

Your not in a committed relationship then if your having sex with multiple people even with your partner’s consent!

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over a year ago

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

Your not in a committed relationship then if your having sex with multiple people even with your partner’s consent! "

That's swinging.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

Your not in a committed relationship then if your having sex with multiple people even with your partner’s consent!

That's swinging.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

Your not in a committed relationship then if your having sex with multiple people even with your partner’s consent! "

Oh I am sorry. I wasn’t aware that the words commitment and monogamy meant the same thing!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I doubt it, but that’s just my opinion.

Why not?

Tarring everyone with the same brush comes to mind with some of these comments. Although I could be wrong.

Firstly. Not everyone is a swinger on here and don’t use it as a sex site, but I think you actually know that anyway.

Secondly. Those who aren’t swingers would be unlikely to carry on using the site once in a relationship.

I’m with you all the way. But wouldn’t there always be an element of doubt in the back of your head? Like I said its only my opinion and not the consensus of what people think.

By doubt do you mean a lack of trust?

No, not a lack of trust but sometime down the line and things aren’t going smoothly wouldn’t you begin to doubt and question your partner.

I am a professor in this subject by the way.

Your not in a committed relationship then if your having sex with multiple people even with your partner’s consent! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Describe proper as each ones different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to find one...im waiting ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - four and a half years later and were still going strong x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes. I’ve done it. Now she’s my best friend.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Is this a case of the men on here who see ladies as “tarred or damaged goods” because of the type of site it is. They don’t or won’t take the good ladies of Fab seriously as potential longer term partners?

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over a year ago

"Is this a case of the men on here who see ladies as “tarred or damaged goods” because of the type of site it is. They don’t or won’t take the good ladies of Fab seriously as potential longer term partners? "

That’s my interpretation yes.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not necessarily. Some may want a monogamous relationship so looking on here would be pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s my interpretation yes. "

Yep me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know loads of people that met on fab and now have loving relationships. I wouldn't dismiss the idea of meeting someone on here myself if it felt right.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I still don't understand the judgement of singles on here as not relationship material. I wonder what these people think of couples on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything in this world is possible if two people want it enough...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still don't understand the judgement of singles on here as not relationship material. I wonder what these people think of couples on here."

Exactly

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure two high sex drives with confidence would be good relationship doesn’t get boring does it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a normal one, where you iron on sundays watching soaps whilst he sits on the sofa with hand in pants.

Sounds like every night at mine

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

A relationship can happen between 2 people almost anywhere. Work, friends, internet platforms. Some will work, some won't, it all depends on the 2 that connect. Surely if someone wanted a relationship, then why not look on here for someone who has the same interests in the scene x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

Well, I live in hope....

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

Some members have profiles on dating sites as well.

It would be funny to meet someone for a date & realise that you recognise them from fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can u actually have a proper relationship after meeting through fab? "

We have

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