FabSwingers.com forum: Time wasters

By *irkgently OP Man
over a year ago

Oldham

Is it time to name and shame them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a short forum life, sure.....

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Boris Johnson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it time to name and shame them?"

You mean people who don't turn up for meets? You can report them ...

Naming and shaming is open to abuse unfortunately

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

This would rely on everyone being honest. So, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half of the arseholes I work with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boris Johnson "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Nooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it time to name and shame them?"

Why are they a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how you define time wasting

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Is it time to name and shame them?"

No it isn't. In what way was your time wasted?

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

"Is it time to name and shame them?"
yes and maybe birch them

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Is it time to name and shame them? yes and maybe birch them

Mememe!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is it time to name and shame them?"

No, because:

1. It's against Fab rules

2. It would be abused

3. Everyone has different opinion as to what constitutes a time waster

4. You ca already report no shows and fakes

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Just use your noggin OP & just keep in the back of your head probably only 25% of this total site are here for the meets (outside of clubs).

The rest for a huuuge variety of reasons..

So first you got to find that 20% then only a small % will like you, then only a small % of them will be within reach & then only a small % of them won't change their mind or blow out.

Piece of piss really

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By *irkgently OP Man
over a year ago

Oldham

2 hours of messaging to and fro, meet set up, then blocked! Taking the piss, in other words!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"2 hours of messaging to and fro, meet set up, then blocked! Taking the piss, in other words!"

They changed their mind, at least you didn't travel to meet and they didn't turn up.

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By *irkgently OP Man
over a year ago

Oldham

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 hours of messaging to and fro, meet set up, then blocked! Taking the piss, in other words!"

Perhaps you said something that put them off. They could report you for wasting their time.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"True!"

It happens a lot on here, people get cold feet, it's not ideal but it's the nature of the site, unfortunately.

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By *irkgently OP Man
over a year ago

Oldham

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found most of the time it’s actually not a real profile and a fake most time wasters are fakes and if it seems to good to be true I hate to say it then it is 99.99% most likely to untrue and a fake sorry been here years and years and have seen it all really

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"True!"

OP, we arranged to meet.

You didn't turn up.

You are a time-waster.

See how easy it would be to abuse the 'name & shame' thing?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

"Is it time to name and shame them?"

No it’s not. More often than not, people’s definition of “timewasting” is pretty wide of the mark.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"We have found most of the time it’s actually not a real profile and a fake most time wasters are fakes and if it seems to good to be true I hate to say it then it is 99.99% most likely to untrue and a fake sorry been here years and years and have seen it all really "

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By *wholeLotOfRosieWoman
over a year ago

Pontypridd

The biggest problem is how people define time wasting. To me it’s a no show at a meet. To some guys on here it’s not responding to their message (they swing between calling non responders time wasters or fakes). If those asshats set the rules all the women would be kicked off fab for being time wasters.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Boris Johnson "

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I do. In my private notes. Chalk em up and move on

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