FabSwingers.com forum: Attractive Couples

By *is Bitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Are the couples that call themselves "Attractive " very confident or Big headed? To us beauty is in the eye of the beholder, One person cant possibly be attractive to Everyone??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think they are big headed. Some people are more conventionally attractive than others. It's just a fact, same as saying they are blonde or tall.

Some won't find them attractive and that's ok. Same as some will say blonde doesn't count if it's out of a bottle, or only 6ft+ is tall.

People are looking for sex and need to sell themselves. They wouldn't get many shags if their profile said they look like shit.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I find it odd when anyone on here refers to themselves as attractive as it's such a subjective thing and I often don't agree with their own assessment.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I find it odd when anyone on here refers to themselves as attractive as it's such a subjective thing and I often don't agree with their own assessment."

I agree, and I would never message someone who specified that they were looking for attractive as I personally don't consider myself to be (Anita is gorgeous though). I also find that those whom I find attractive often changes as soon as they start talking.

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By *oney to the beeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think people are more thinking probably more as attractive in general I don't think anyone would say someone is attractive to everyone that would be just stupid but people do know if they are in general attractive, average, plain or ugly unless you are lacking in a mirror or don't talk to people you in general know where you fit.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

There is a fine line between self confidence and self absorbed. Advertising that, `Were a really hot couple` epitomizes self absorbed.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

They obviously find themselves attractive, whether or not anyone else does is up to the individual.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We completely understand that we aren't attractive to most people, but there will be some that are attracted to us. Even though our name says 'yummycouple' we wouldn't want anyone to perceive that as us being cocky or big headed because its certainly not a advertisement of us bragging.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I think people are more thinking probably more as attractive in general I don't think anyone would say someone is attractive to everyone that would be just stupid but people do know if they are in general attractive, average, plain or ugly unless you are lacking in a mirror or don't talk to people you in general know where you fit. "

I don't know. I've had guys get all nervous about sending me face pictures that have turned out to be very dishy in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd when anyone on here refers to themselves as attractive as it's such a subjective thing and I often don't agree with their own assessment."

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We completely understand that we aren't attractive to most people, but there will be some that are attracted to us. Even though our name says 'yummycouple' we wouldn't want anyone to perceive that as us being cocky or big headed because its certainly not a advertisement of us bragging. "

You might taste like cherries.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ? "

Never seen that on a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile

Might add it for shits and giggles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile

Might add it for shits and giggles."

. Was just thinking that haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!"

Haha

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!"

How did she see my face pics!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do say on mine to leave me well alone

It does kind of put me off wheh people describes themselves as attractive, it sets a high barr which is not good when you have the looks and personality of a potato

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!"

Can you stop doing this to me! People who don’t realise will think I’m actually saying all this stuff!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I do say on mine to leave me well alone

It does kind of put me off wheh people describes themselves as attractive, it sets a high barr which is not good when you have the looks and personality of a potato"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!

How did she see my face pics!?

She is a hacker with nice tits

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!

How did she see my face pics!?

She is a hacker with nice tits "

*shakes head* and she wouldn't have got away with it if it wasn't for those tits *shakes fist*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do say on mine to leave me well alone

It does kind of put me off wheh people describes themselves as attractive, it sets a high barr which is not good when you have the looks and personality of a potato"

Potatoes are lush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A profile where they advertise themselves as attractive come across as a little self-absorbed to me, even more so if they state something along the lines of "only looking to meet attractive people".

What about the ones who state that they are ugly as fuck ?

Never seen that on a profile text but saw that being portrayed through their pictures

Oh the meanie!!

How did she see my face pics!?

She is a hacker with nice tits

*shakes head* and she wouldn't have got away with it if it wasn't for those tits *shakes fist* "

Tell me about it !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are the couples that call themselves "Attractive " very confident or Big headed? To us beauty is in the eye of the beholder, One person cant possibly be attractive to Everyone??"

No, I think people can write what they like on their profiles. If they feel they're attractive, let them have it, we're all going to apply our own views and judgements anyway so I don't understand why it's a talking point

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By *is Bitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Are the couples that call themselves "Attractive " very confident or Big headed? To us beauty is in the eye of the beholder, One person cant possibly be attractive to Everyone??

Why are any of the threads on here a talking point?

Because ita a public forum for people to talk about what ever they want..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most people, even if they don't agree, are able to recognise those that society in general view as attractive. Ie the conventionally attractive. So many on here spout off on one about beauty in the eye of the beholder blah blah blah. Yes. We get it. We're all wired differently and find differences in attraction, but surely most people get the idea about what a conventionally attractive person looks like!!?

I assume that's what they mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do say on mine to leave me well alone

It does kind of put me off wheh people describes themselves as attractive, it sets a high barr which is not good when you have the looks and personality of a potato

Potatoes are lush.

Sweet potatoes roasted Mavis! Ooh yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the forum does love to hate on those with confidence generally.

I'd rather meet someone who thinks they are attractive and worthy rather than the self-pitying self-deprecating brigade.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"And the forum does love to hate on those with confidence generally.

I'd rather meet someone who thinks they are attractive and worthy rather than the self-pitying self-deprecating brigade. "

Lol... I'm confident but still find it odd for the reasons I stated above. Different people like different things in profiles, like with anything.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

To me it tells me that they are confident about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the forum does love to hate on those with confidence generally.

I'd rather meet someone who thinks they are attractive and worthy rather than the self-pitying self-deprecating brigade.

Lol... I'm confident but still find it odd for the reasons I stated above. Different people like different things in profiles, like with anything."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it odd when anyone on here refers to themselves as attractive as it's such a subjective thing and I often don't agree with their own assessment."

I think in genetics there are some very attractive people but not necessarily everyones cup of tea. I know when I see a beautiful man and can appreciate it but I’m not attracted to every beautiful person as I have a certain type.

In general i think they mean they are well presented and not unattractive, that’s how I read it anyway

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"And the forum does love to hate on those with confidence generally.

I'd rather meet someone who thinks they are attractive and worthy rather than the self-pitying self-deprecating brigade. "

I'm very happy being me and don't lack confidence. I also think I'm reasonably attractive.

However, I wouldn't say on my profile that I'm attractive as attraction is very personal.

Stating in their profile that they're attractive or only looking for attractive people wouldn't necessarily itself put me off. However, it can come across as self indulgent, so it would very much depend on the profile overall.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

We have mentioned that we told are an attractive couple, but leave that for others to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually find this a turn off and think they must be up their own arses! I usually steer clear of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractiveness is such a subjective thing and a personal choice. Whats for one, is not for the other.

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By *is Bitch OP Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"We have mentioned that we told are an attractive couple, but leave that for others to decide. "

Agreed, but no one would tell anyone are Ugly

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By *omesticated_VixenWoman
over a year ago

sw London

I had this conversation earlier, everyone is attractive to some and not to others. I think it is more confidence than being big headed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this conversation earlier, everyone is attractive to some and not to others. I think it is more confidence than being big headed"

Yes attractiveness is subjective however I do think universally everyone can recognise a physically beautiful person regardless if they are your type.

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By *tsonlysexCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We have met few guys and all say Maria really fit. But again what one person sees as stunning another does not like

I think she fit as f@@@ but that’s my opinion

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up."

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im attractive... i attract weirdos in public, i attract wasps and the occational abuse because of how i look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a couple kinda in our area who say they are “extremely attractive” on the profile if they mean they are extremely attractive because he looks like he has a steroid usage problem and she’s has lips like a sturgeon and fake tits then we guess that’s for them to say.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is a fine line between self confidence and self absorbed. Advertising that, `Were a really hot couple` epitomizes self absorbed. "

Yep, plenty of them about. Had met couples like that on a previous profile and found that they were the ‘ugliest’ people to get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never presume to call us good looking or attractive.....i like people! If i like the person they will always be beautiful.

Obvs first impression and all that but i like to get to know ppl.

It doesn't read well when people call themselves attractive lol...a bit like when people say they are looking for attractive couples!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!? "

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

You have the loveliest eye's....they look like they have lived a thousand life times

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

Just a yes would suffice!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

Just a yes would suffice!"

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

You have the loveliest eye's....they look like they have lived a thousand life times "

Thank you that's really nice, unfortunately it feels like they have sometimes!

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I had this conversation earlier, everyone is attractive to some and not to others. I think it is more confidence than being big headed

Yes attractiveness is subjective however I do think universally everyone can recognise a physically beautiful person regardless if they are your type. "

Yes id have to agree some people fall into the catergory of "attractive" in a conventionally accepted way - this is nothing new or controversial, Hollywood,men's magazines,beauty magazines, adult entertainment via many media and forms have all shown this to be true for a long time.

Now,not everyone likes the conventionally attractive types, i.e. Some girls are not fans of Jason Mormoa, but a lot are.

He can be considered attractive, as well as not being everyone's cup of tea

Personally Ariana Grande does nothing for me, but I'd still class her as attractive - just not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had this conversation earlier, everyone is attractive to some and not to others. I think it is more confidence than being big headed

Yes attractiveness is subjective however I do think universally everyone can recognise a physically beautiful person regardless if they are your type.

Now,not everyone likes the conventionally attractive types, i.e. Some girls are not fans of Jason Mormoa, but a lot are.

He can be considered attractive, as well as not being everyone's cup of tea

Personally Ariana Grande does nothing for me, but I'd still class her as attractive - just not my type."

Yes exactly what I was trying to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't describe myself as attractive

I do like to watch myself in the mirror when I knock one out.

Make your own mind up.

Reds beautiful.. are you her other half?!?

If you think she's beautiful now you should see her with me inside her

You have the loveliest eye's....they look like they have lived a thousand life times

Thank you that's really nice, unfortunately it feels like they have sometimes!"

Ah bless you, well you are beautiful ,scars and all....xx

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By *otfabcouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Are the couples that call themselves "Attractive " very confident or Big headed? To us beauty is in the eye of the beholder, One person cant possibly be attractive to Everyone??"

Theres elements of all I think

There's definately going to be some "big headed" people out there,without a doubt, the same for confident people.

One person attractive to all - I'd say not a chance!

But there are some that are "conventionally attractive"

This is not debatable, there are entire businesses/industries created around and utilising these people. Movies,Magazines,TV shows,TV ads,Fashion,Modelling etc..

"Conventionally attractive" people might not be attractive to ALL people, but that doesn't mean they aren't conventially attractive.

Personally i consider my partner and I to be attractive - whether it's considered conventional or not - I guess it's in the eye of the beholder to decide which they would consider us to be.

With regards to profiles looking for meets with attractive people, i would find it odd if anyone stated they wanted to meet people they found unattractive.

Surely it would be bad for your confidence it someone looking for unattractive people messages you lol (j/k)

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