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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone turns you down....

What reason could they give that you'd find the most annoying/ bother you the most?

What reason would be acceptable?

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Any once it's polite and not nasty, it's their choice after all, I hear stories of lads getting nasty when rejected , makes no sense to me,,

Making fools of themselves .

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

all reasons should be acceptable to men, women , Tvs etc as if someone don't want to fuck us then that is reason enough and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You shouldn't have to give a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need for nastiness a no thanks would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they fucked my mum

Acceptable excuse: they wanted to fuck my mum

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would accept any reason. But I'm yet to be turned down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would accept any reason. But I'm yet to be turned down."

Show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks is enough of a reason... at the end if the day we don't all have the same likes/ dislikes... so no thanks is no thanks....

The only unacceptable excuse is one that is rude or obnoxious...I won't be rude crude or obnoxious with anyone... here or otherwise and expect the same courtesy

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

A considerate & polite "No thank you" should suffice.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Everyone has a choice, if they decide I’m not for them fine, move on, their loss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would accept any reason. But I'm yet to be turned down.

Show off "

I don't message first so that's why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One turned Rea down because she was a redhead.

A second bloke firstly because Re told him she wouldn't do bareback when we did the hotel meet and his parting shot of "well you're too old anyway."

I asked if he'd bothered looking at the very recent face pics we'd sent and if he'd read our profile and it was an affirmative from him for both.

We had to laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most annoying - no message and a block. It’s incredibly rude and we’d have been chatting for a while if I’ve sent them a face pic.

Acceptable reason - any. How can there NOT be an acceptable reason not to fuck someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue. "

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would accept any reason. But I'm yet to be turned down.

Show off

I don't message first so that's why "

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all..... "

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That they fucked my mum

Acceptable excuse: they wanted to fuck my mum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would accept any reason. But I'm yet to be turned down."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol."

Oh, good!

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Nothing annoys me. If someone says they're not interested,I know that nothing I could say would make them change their mind.

Cal

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good! "

I be there are some out there that will and do say things like thst though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good! "

I’ve heard of people getting messages and then they get a reply and they are just laughing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most annoying - no message and a block. It’s incredibly rude and we’d have been chatting for a while if I’ve sent them a face pic.

..."

I agree with this.

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"That they fucked my mum

Acceptable excuse: they wanted to fuck my mum "
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing annoys me. If someone says they're not interested,I know that nothing I could say would make them change their mind.

Cal"

I find it odd when people keep replying... 'please please please ohhhh please....'

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I don’t think anything would be worse than knowing someone didn’t really want to but did anyway.. so like anything else I simply prefer the truth.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good!

I be there are some out there that will and do say things like thst though. "

Probably, I've had some vile messages in response to saying no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good!

I be there are some out there that will and do say things like thst though.

Probably, I've had some vile messages in response to saying no thanks."

Ditto. I’ve had awful messages after saying no thanks too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all reasons should be acceptable to men, women , Tvs etc as if someone don't want to fuck us then that is reason enough and move on "

Completely agree. "I don't fuck trans", "not into darker girls" is perfectly acceptable to me, even if I may not like it. I can't stand the politically correct types who claim its trans/racist/whatever-phobic. As if fucking someone you don't fancy just because they are trans /black /obese /whatever is a human rights obligation which people will be punished for not doing.

Just move on and find someone who likes you for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason would be acceptable. Everyone wants to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good!

I be there are some out there that will and do say things like thst though.

Probably, I've had some vile messages in response to saying no thanks.

Ditto. I’ve had awful messages after saying no thanks too... "

I don’t get why people have to be nasty?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"If they said 'I'm too good for you', that would piss me off but if they just said 'no thanks' or 'not my type', something polite, I wouldn't have an issue.

god do people really say stuff like that?? No need at all.....

Nobody has ever said it, I was just using it as an example lol.

Oh, good!

I be there are some out there that will and do say things like thst though.

Probably, I've had some vile messages in response to saying no thanks.

Ditto. I’ve had awful messages after saying no thanks too...

I don’t get why people have to be nasty? "

A fair few men here think women should fuck whoever asks them and that we shouldn't be allowed to choose who we fuck.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't really care what the reason might be, a no is a no, I would just move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"all reasons should be acceptable to men, women , Tvs etc as if someone don't want to fuck us then that is reason enough and move on

Completely agree. "I don't fuck trans", "not into darker girls" is perfectly acceptable to me, even if I may not like it. I can't stand the politically correct types who claim its trans/racist/whatever-phobic. As if fucking someone you don't fancy just because they are trans /black /obese /whatever is a human rights obligation which people will be punished for not doing.

Just move on and find someone who likes you for you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm constantly getting your not meet varified, so I'm used to the "No" answer.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No need for rudeness either way.

Just a polite sorry not for me should suffice and the recipient should accept that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No need for rudeness either way.

Just a polite sorry not for me should suffice and the recipient should accept that. "

Exactly this

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"No need for rudeness either way.

Just a polite sorry not for me should suffice and the recipient should accept that. "

Yep, I'd only have an issue with a rude response.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd be annoyed if they said they didn't find me funny.

I mean come on. .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any reason is perfectly valid. They really don't owe me an explanation though. Just a no would suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for a fuck. They ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv become an expert at saying you cannot have my penis

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe


"That they fucked my mum

Acceptable excuse: they wanted to fuck my mum "

How old is your mum.

Asking for a friend, obviously!

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Any reason is fine Rejection is part and parcel of the swinging experience for a single male.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Nothing annoys me. If someone says they're not interested,I know that nothing I could say would make them change their mind.

Cal

I find it odd when people keep replying... 'please please please ohhhh please....'"

If they do...there's a very handy block feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t need or want to know a reason. A polite ‘no thanks’ will suffice.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

“A fat ugly munter” would probably have me reaching for the Lambrini but each to their own and all that.

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

I haven’t had many turn me down, but I have been lucky that they have also been really polite and nice about it.

On the other hand, as many other ladies on here have also said, I have had really vile messages in response to me politely turning them down. This is why I now just block and delete as my way of saying no thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't do bad at all and I get all the fun that I need to be honest, so as and when somebody isn't interested it doesn't bother me in the slightest and I move on.

I think the people who get nasty are probably very frustrated sexually and have a lot of resentment built up. It is quite sad.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"“A fat ugly munter” would probably have me reaching for the Lambrini but each to their own and all that."

Had that a few times.

I'd be a d*unk by now. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said "is it because of my body?"

She said "well yeah, you should stop dragging it around on the end of that rope it's starting to smell"

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I said "is it because of my body?"

She said "well yeah, you should stop dragging it around on the end of that rope it's starting to smell""

*shakes head but stifles a mini snort*

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire


"I'd be annoyed if they said they didn't find me funny.

I mean come on. ....... "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'd be annoyed if they said they didn't find me funny.

I mean come on. .......

"

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south


"Everyone has a choice, if they decide I’m not for them fine, move on, their loss "

Might you except a yes please Emms ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no is a no. There's no need to give a reason. Hate it when people start asking "but why not".

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We don't need or expect an explanation - we take no thanks or any permutations of this in a polite manner - wish people well & move on. No need for nastiness on anyone's part really.

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By *leasure4leisureMan
over a year ago

south

Always reply to a no with a thank you and have fun type of a message. Can not understand doing differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the Ali G excuse for not going down:

"I have just had some red wine and you don't have to be Jamie Oliver to know red win and fish don't mix."

Aiiiiii

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the Ali G excuse for not going down:

"I have just had some red wine and you don't have to be Jamie Oliver to know red win and fish don't mix."

Aiiiiii

"

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess ‘God no, you look like my mum’ would sting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually say that I have discovered that I am gay to heterosexual woman

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

I don’t get offended easy . I understand we are not everyone’s fancy . And I don’t message every single lady or couple I see on here , if I message someone or a couple it’s genuine interest. However I’ve made the mistake before of only reading part of a profile and never put a key word in the box and it’s been deleted as they stated , and when I’ve realised my mistake I’ve sent another trying to explain with the keyword they ask for my mistake I live and learn haha . I don’t make a habit of pesting but if it’s a fantasy I’m looking for I try my luck again sorry if anyone on here lol. End of the day I appreciate the knock back replies with honesty I’m lucky upto now I’ve not had anyone rude or disrespectful yet . Only one was a lady who accused me of copy and pasting when I don’t . I’m not a pest but I open up peoples profiles if I want a decent Wank and I’ve messaged them before but they’ve declined my interest. Naughty me. no shame here apart from that I move on .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't do bad at all and I get all the fun that I need to be honest, so as and when somebody isn't interested it doesn't bother me in the slightest and I move on.

I think the people who get nasty are probably very frustrated sexually and have a lot of resentment built up. It is quite sad. "

x

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Just a simple ‘no thank you’ is fine by me.

I don’t see any excuse for any nastiness, not that I’ve experienced any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would bother me more to find out someone sleep with me rather than just saying they didn't won't to, for what ever the reason it's a reason end off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t get offended easy . I understand we are not everyone’s fancy . And I don’t message every single lady or couple I see on here , if I message someone or a couple it’s genuine interest. However I’ve made the mistake before of only reading part of a profile and never put a key word in the box and it’s been deleted as they stated , and when I’ve realised my mistake I’ve sent another trying to explain with the keyword they ask for my mistake I live and learn haha . I don’t make a habit of pesting but if it’s a fantasy I’m looking for I try my luck again sorry if anyone on here lol. End of the day I appreciate the knock back replies with honesty I’m lucky upto now I’ve not had anyone rude or disrespectful yet . Only one was a lady who accused me of copy and pasting when I don’t . I’m not a pest but I open up peoples profiles if I want a decent Wank and I’ve messaged them before but they’ve declined my interest. Naughty me. no shame here apart from that I move on . "

If they have public pics then why not. That's why they post them, for people to wank over.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

My fave one was the other week, I message a chap on here, got a reply saying sorry but he is currently exploring his bi side atm.

I was like ok far enough how ever if you want to go back to pussy let me know..

He then said he'd like to see mine.. I asked in person or a photo..

Of course he replied a photo... I just laughed didn't respond... complete picture collector!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not put myself out there enough to be rejected . I'm a bit of a wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've every had an unreasonable turn down. They've normally been a height or sexuality thing or just a good plain "sorry but I'm not attracted to you". You can't be everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be rejected before fucking rather than after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather be rejected before fucking rather than after

"

Better before at least you won't be thinking well I must be a shit shag lol

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'd rather be rejected before fucking rather than after

"

I couldn't ever imagine doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I live in France Christine"

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Apparently when I say "I'm not attracted to you"

That seems to be a massive insult...

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Someone turns you down....

What reason could they give that you'd find the most annoying/ bother you the most?

What reason would be acceptable?"

I wouldnt look for a reason. Its their choice. If they are interested in me then great and if they are not interested in me thats also great.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

I was DJing at Cupids Escapades party last night, sneaked out for a quick fag during a long tune. There was a couple outside.

He said, "If you play such and such a tune she will suck your cock for you"

She replied

"It's not THAT good a tune"

I had to laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly not everyone is truthful and has an agenda.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Apparently when I say "I'm not attracted to you"

That seems to be a massive insult..."

I got used to it after the first few hundred times. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice to be told, not just ignored,

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Mavis I’ve just read your verification s lmfao outstanding read haha haha haha . Shame no wanking pics for later haha

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

Haha he deffo trying the not interested route . In the hope most woman know most guys will jump into bed with anything and there pet dog if she asked right . And on the hope on Averages some women will then be more keen on the chase when a guy rejects her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was DJing at Cupids Escapades party last night, sneaked out for a quick fag during a long tune. There was a couple outside.

He said, "If you play such and such a tune she will suck your cock for you"

She replied

"It's not THAT good a tune"

I had to laugh "

Aww!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly not everyone is truthful and has an agenda."

What agenda?

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"Someone turns you down....

What reason could they give that you'd find the most annoying/ bother you the most?

What reason would be acceptable?"

An honest one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I have been turned down...purely because I don’t go outside and only speak to dogs and a few other animals

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mavis I’ve just read your verification s lmfao outstanding read haha haha haha . Shame no wanking pics for later haha "

I'm sad that you're not going to wank over my Dyson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly not everyone is truthful and has an agenda.

What is an agenda?"

It is a smallish book (with days) where you can write stuff on it Marcus

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly not everyone is truthful and has an agenda.

What is an agenda?

It is a smallish book (with days) where you can write stuff on it Marcus "

Isn't that a diary Donald?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly not everyone is truthful and has an agenda.

What is an agenda?

It is a smallish book (with days) where you can write stuff on it Marcus

Isn't that a diary Donald?"

White hat, hat white Karen

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

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