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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Until we started to swing properly we, like most of the population, didn't know a lot of people of either gender.

Looking in here it seems the majority of women are bi. (Not all) and a fair amount of men. Even the closet bi men

This may cause annoyance. But does if help to be bi. Do you get more interest?

It would be great to see what others think.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't understand the question. I'm bi. That doesn't change for Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Until we started to swing properly we, like most of the population, didn't know a lot of people of either gender.

Looking in here it seems the majority of women are bi. (Not all) and a fair amount of men. Even the closet bi men

This may cause annoyance. But does if help to be bi. Do you get more interest?

It would be great to see what others think. "

I’m not sure as I’ve always been listed as bi on my profile. I’ve always had a lot more messages from men though. I’d say for every 250 messages from men there’ll be one from a woman so for me I don’t think it makes a great deal of difference. Not sure if I get more interest from men because I’m bi or not really x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry

The questions. Are more people bi than you thought.

And if you are bi do you have more play sessions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand the question. I'm bi. That doesn't change for Fab. "

We are bi. On here and in world outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bi and this has never impacted on my fab experiences at all and my very bi friend on here had no luck/interest at all. After talking to a few ladies only interested in meeting just ladies on here it probably isn't the best/easiest place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it helps. When my profile said bi I got significantly more messages than when it said straight.

Some women lie about being bi to attract more meets. Some women lie about being bi because their man wants to watch 2 women together.

Men usually lie about being straight - bi men are often disliked.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry

The questions. Are more people bi than you thought.

And if you are bi do you have more play sessions. "

Many bi people aren't 'out' in normal life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes it helps. When my profile said bi I got significantly more messages than when it said straight.

Some women lie about being bi to attract more meets. Some women lie about being bi because their man wants to watch 2 women together.

Men usually lie about being straight - bi men are often disliked. "

Agree on the BI men point.

We enjoy the possibilities it offers. And mostly it’s not about watching

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not. "

Ah. I don’t meet couples so that could affect the interest. I imagine Id maybe get interest from couples too if I wanted that x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not.

Ah. I don’t meet couples so that could affect the interest. I imagine Id maybe get interest from couples too if I wanted that x"

I get plenty of interest, but it rarely goes anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not.

Ah. I don’t meet couples so that could affect the interest. I imagine Id maybe get interest from couples too if I wanted that x"

We imagine you get a lot of interest from couples.

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

We get the I'm bi but straight guys that's really annoying

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We get the I'm bi but straight guys that's really annoying "

It’s sometimes so obvious when the messages arrive.

Be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not.

Ah. I don’t meet couples so that could affect the interest. I imagine Id maybe get interest from couples too if I wanted that x

I get plenty of interest, but it rarely goes anywhere. "

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow?

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think it impacts on our couple profile that I'm straight,many couples seek bi fem couples or want a woman to join them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get less interest. Only, the interest I do get tends to be more rewarding, more long term, more frequent, more enjoyable.

I'm predominantly Straight, so I'm sometimes tempted to list myself as such. Only, I may end up talking to someone who would find my sexuality off putting. Nobody needs to deal with that.

Makes it easier to find my kind of woman I guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it impacts on our couple profile that I'm straight,many couples seek bi fem couples or want a woman to join them."

We think it’s ok for all or just one part to be bi. Ed ho with what people want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect I get more interest from couples, but I don't think it translates into an increase in play.

I think women are more likely to be open about their bisexuality here, or claim to be if they're not.

Ah. I don’t meet couples so that could affect the interest. I imagine Id maybe get interest from couples too if I wanted that x

I get plenty of interest, but it rarely goes anywhere.

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow? "

We discuss. But mostly go with the flow

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow? "

Both, but often times the dynamic feels wrong. For all this, oh, unicorns are so rare and special... Couples are sometimes incredibly demanding and dismissive of my needs. I'm no prima donna, but I want to feel equal, desired, and that I'm getting something out of it. Often this is where any discussion ends.

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By *tsonlysexCouple
over a year ago

bedford

For us we have had few women totally not interested as I am oral bi. But straight guys seem to be happy for a BJ from me

At the end of the day you are who you are. No point in lying in profile. Ours clearly states I bi. But get hundreds of messages from straight guys. Why can’t people read profile first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow?

Both, but often times the dynamic feels wrong. For all this, oh, unicorns are so rare and special... Couples are sometimes incredibly demanding and dismissive of my needs. I'm no prima donna, but I want to feel equal, desired, and that I'm getting something out of it. Often this is where any discussion ends. "

Exactly that. I’d just feel like an extra or a spare part. I couldn’t do it. Having said that we’d like to meet women but I would absolutely hate to make a woman feel like that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive lots of messages from couples seeking a bi lady

I wonder if they assume the majority of women on here are bi as they clearly don't read profiles first

I'm straight

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow?

Both, but often times the dynamic feels wrong. For all this, oh, unicorns are so rare and special... Couples are sometimes incredibly demanding and dismissive of my needs. I'm no prima donna, but I want to feel equal, desired, and that I'm getting something out of it. Often this is where any discussion ends.

Exactly that. I’d just feel like an extra or a spare part. I couldn’t do it. Having said that we’d like to meet women but I would absolutely hate to make a woman feel like that x"

I've had it work in clubs, either where I'm the centre of attention (in a way that clearly works for them) or it's a three person equal threesome. But on Fab, nothing.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes it helps. When my profile said bi I got significantly more messages than when it said straight.

Some women lie about being bi to attract more meets. Some women lie about being bi because their man wants to watch 2 women together.

Men usually lie about being straight - bi men are often disliked. "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit


"I receive lots of messages from couples seeking a bi lady

I wonder if they assume the majority of women on here are bi as they clearly don't read profiles first

I'm straight"

Yep have had this too

Or men chatting for a while then mentioning they have a woman they can bring to a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

It must be quite difficult as everyone has to be attracted to each other and there must be a lot to discuss before ie: boundaries etc. Or do people just tend to just go for it and go with the flow?

Both, but often times the dynamic feels wrong. For all this, oh, unicorns are so rare and special... Couples are sometimes incredibly demanding and dismissive of my needs. I'm no prima donna, but I want to feel equal, desired, and that I'm getting something out of it. Often this is where any discussion ends. "

It’s all about communication. Once agreed then everybodies needs should be fulfilled

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I'd say that I've had more interest lately (in the past year) as a result of being bi, I'm not sure if it's played any part in people being attracted to me though.

I've also had a number of people dismiss me as a result of being bi. For a guy, there is definitely a stigma.

*nervously eyes the bi banner and soap box*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a bi guy I definitely get more male interest all round.

I actually don't meet women on here. A part of it is convenience if honest.

It is a lot easier to meet men all round so I would say I probably do fare well as a bisexual where for the "genuinely heterosexual" guys it does seem they can find it quite tricky to hook up?

A woman can get sex whenever she wants and I would say the gay and bi guys aren't far behind on that score, basicay.

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