FabSwingers.com forum: Some people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little... if we chat I know what kind of person they are though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Barebackslutcumlover isn't very appealing

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm put off by so many things on here.

A username like ' 'Fuckyourfannytillitbleeds'

Is a good filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, there is just no need!!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Sometimes try to look past the innuendo in profile names, but it can be hard

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Definitely. Some are just plain worrying

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

Yes especially when it’s coupled with an equally crude profile header/status update/profile text or all of the above

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Sometimes try to look past the innuendo in profile names, but it can be hard"

Yes, usernames can put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. And 9 times out of 10 if the name has put me off, the profile text is even worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, it's a clear indication of inexperience and immaturity. Neither of which are in any way attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad it’s not just me then

I know it’s a swinging site but we can still keep it classy

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"Sometimes try to look past the innuendo in profile names, but it can be hard"

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

a user name says a lot about some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"
puts me off, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes 100%

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By *aceandHimCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

Yes definitely, a real turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have done before but then the longer I've been on here I see that some are actually really lovely and funny ppl, it's not all about initial perceptions and I think some folk deliberately put some weird shit to scare of the superficial ones....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It most certainly makes me pause briefly, usually while I make this

face, then I quickly move on!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes it does unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would have done before but then the longer I've been on here I see that some are actually really lovely and funny ppl, it's not all about initial perceptions and I think some folk deliberately put some weird shit to scare of the superficial ones...."

I get you, and can agree to an extent, but some are just SOOOO crass *puts hands over face *

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The avatar does that before the eyes scan to the name, that just confirms the gut reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Superficial? This isn’t dating R us... it’s a sex site so first impressions count especially when you are one in a shitload....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea they do, pussyhunter doesn't fill me with hope,some just sound desperate

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By *oved Up 2Couple
over a year ago

nottingham

Agreed. Wouldn't even look at a profile if the name is crude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some usernames just don’t seem appealing at all. I wonder what impression mine gives readers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious what people think of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

Barebackslutcumlover isn't very appealing "

I wouldn’t even click on the profile.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

"Yes

Barebackslutcumlover isn't very appealing

I wouldn’t even click on the profile."

Exactly, it's a very useful way of narrowing your selection down. e.g if you don't wish to have bare back sex avoid those that imply as such.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We won't consider meeting people with crude names, as they're clearly not our type

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

It does.

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I remember there was a hullabaloo on the forum a while back because someone had a username referring to the once leader of the Nazi party

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Some user names are definitely off putting but others can be intriguing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm put off by so many things on here.

A username like ' 'Fuckyourfannytillitbleeds'

Is a good filter

Yeah, exactly this.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

Every time

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes as do some of the pics xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

Massively. And close up pics of genitals too. You can look sexy without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?

Massively. And close up pics of genitals too. You can look sexy without it. "

You certainly can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really puts me off.

Some pics are far to graphic also.

I’ll be honest, I’m struggling to connect with men on here recently.....

every offer I refuse

The blocked list grows daily....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it does and those that make me cringe just get blocked, I don't wanna see it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?

Massively. And close up pics of genitals too. You can look sexy without it. "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Some people’s user names are so crude!! Be honest does it put you off?"

I quite like a subtle or amusing innuendo but anything crude just seems unintelligent. We also tend to avoid profiles names which mention Sub or Dom, it's not a dynamic that we are looking for.

Cal

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Yes, but usually only with people we wouldn't want to meet anyway.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Some put me off and some make me smile.

Have sent the odd message about their username too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anuses

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Some of them have dark connotations, gotta watch out for them

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