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Ooft you're hot... Sadie Hawkins edition

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'm in - was most interesting last time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in sounds like fun.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ll take the lead OP since I’m the first female in!

I’m definitely in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Hello ladies "

Are you calling monkey and gemini ladies?

For any about to follow, I'm all up for a good Phwoar or Ooft

The fire is lit and crumpets by the toasting fork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inbox is open ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning good forum folk I'm in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in while i eat my cornflakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in

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By *erseus1968Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

I'll be in please

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I liked this game last time, I'm in to be oofted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My box is open and unsullied..

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game! "

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

In for a penny...

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning all, im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Inn like a country pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in.... Enjoy your weekend all.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're in but we don't usually get any responses.

We're happy to take comments from ladies about us together or just one of us. Hannah definitely likes ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh yes I'm in

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Oh crikey! My oooftttometer is in over drive!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm in!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Great idea T

We are in

D.

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By *i winkersCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We are in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s see how this goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in, but I get the feeling that I'll be a wallflower.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll be in for what it’s worth. I’ll probably be able to paint the whole house before I get a pm though lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Are couples allowed to play?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

In,

Please push the tumble to one side ladies, amazing how quiet the inbox gets when you say you're not meeting.

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Are couples allowed to play?"

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S"

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me. "

No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?

Be positive, I dare you!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Are couples allowed to play?"

Yes. Couples can and are playing.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?"

Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message

D."

But you can receive one too! ooft x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I like how it's only women that can message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in! Could be interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like how it's only women that can message."

So do I...if they would

#waitingpatiently

Fuzz

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Well, we are a couple, Jo is a woman, so only she can send the message

D.

But you can receive one too! ooft x"

Thank you for your message FV a big oooft back to you

D.

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By *on779Man
over a year ago

west mersea colchester

I’m in too

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I like how it's only women that can message.

So do I...if they would

#waitingpatiently

Fuzz"

I am too!

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By *handraWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I'm in, having a perusal

Fuzz knows I think he's hot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like how it's only women that can message.

So do I...if they would

#waitingpatiently

Fuzz

I am too! "

Me three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All oooofted out, I'll be back later once my ooft batteries are replenished with food

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.

No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?

Be positive, I dare you! "

I'm going to make my own thread!

With blackjack and hookers.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'm back and I'm in!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Still in bed but I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Just jumped in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only women oouuhhh the man cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd appreciate some love....

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts "

D.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Im in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All oooofted out, I'll be back later once my ooft batteries are replenished with food "

Jaffa cakes?

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts "

I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.

After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds fun and interesting - I am in.

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.

No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?

Be positive, I dare you!

I'm going to make my own thread!

With blackjacks and fruitsalads."

Retro sweets!

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

I’m in and for those who haven’t seen me, just wink and I’ll send a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts

I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.

After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want! "

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts

I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.

After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want! "

Did someone remove your sense of humour gland today?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me. "

Only because you perceive it to be so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will join in!! I am ready for........absolutely no action what so ever lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'd appreciate some love.... "

I would, but rules is rules

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Mr Tea Monkey.

Please confirm if the men are allowed to ooft you back..... Please say no so I can administer punishment for the unacceptable ooooofts

I think that once you've oofted in one direction, it's only fair they can respond.

After all, getting a response is kind of what most people want!

Did someone remove your sense of humour gland today? "

Ooh! Someone is feeling quippy!

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Ah go on then

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I’m a 50 year/old, hairy Welsh numpty whose stuck in work.

I’m in - I await a deluge of messages on a biblical scale

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Go on, you've twisted my arm to join in then

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I’m happy to be objectified for your gratification

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Is it safe to come out again now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd appreciate some love....

I would, but rules is rules "

Oh yeah, this thread is proper homophobic innit....

.....Clem, I LOVE YOU!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I'd appreciate some love....

I would, but rules is rules

Oh yeah, this thread is proper homophobic innit....

.....Clem, I LOVE YOU! "

I know, i know..

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?"

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S

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over a year ago

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Not sure who Sadie Hawkins is!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S"

It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I didn’t have hopes but not even a nibble so far.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S

It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew. "

Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude

S

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S

It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew.

Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude

S"

I know right?!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Now this is a much better way of doing it..

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Not sure who Sadie Hawkins is!

"

I'm in, anyway!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"[Removed by poster at 09/11/19 10:42:38]"

I'm only joshing tea

But you really wouldn't know who said "Offt" would you?

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

screw it im in

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Oooft I like this idea.

Count me in x

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S

It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew.

Blimey, you've been here longer than us & only just realised the forum is awash with singletons with attitude

S"

Next time I run this thread (if) I'll rephrase the OP to detail the rules regarding couples.

I assumed that it would be clear that the female of the couple would message. I guess not, for that I apologise for my lack of clarity.

I thought it would be an interesting twist on the usual process of guys chasing.

Can we get back to the thread now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In, looks like fun, wait for to be selected by lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oooft I like this idea.

Count me in x"

Are you sure you understand the rules? Some are struggling

Fuzz

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea "

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Seems simple enough to me Tea.

I'm in.

Jo.Xx

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.

Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.

My brain retains some weird stuff!

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade! "

Missing the point there.

If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?

Or is it just mine?

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.

Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.

My brain retains some weird stuff!"

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.

Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.

My brain retains some weird stuff!"

Actually quite an interesting bit of random knowledge tbf

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By *ea monkey OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back? "

Yep, exactly that!

Basically what a guy does every other time

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back? "

Guess so, boot on other foot for many so to speak

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back?

Yep, exactly that!

Basically what a guy does every other time "

So I would experience how guys feel.. what if I get rejected and cannot handle it?! Can I start a new ranty thread about it?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!

Missing the point there.

If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?

Or is it just mine? "

Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"So I'm meant to privately message a guy if I fancy him? Hoping I would get a reply back?

Yep, exactly that!

Basically what a guy does every other time

So I would experience how guys feel.. what if I get rejected and cannot handle it?! Can I start a new ranty thread about it? "

That's a given

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By *ik MMan
over a year ago

Lancashire

Let’s see how this goes

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Yip I’m in

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ohhh let's have a look....

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!

Missing the point there.

If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?

Or is it just mine?

Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men. "

I think in the spirit of the game, if you see another gay or bisexual male you think oooft to send em a message, I’m sure they won’t mind

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alright then... I'm gonna have a closer look if I fancy anyone on this thread.. Brace yourselves, guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Alright then... I'm gonna have a closer look if I fancy anyone on this thread.. Brace yourselves, guys! "

I've been braced for hours, it's starting to get painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on then I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good call, Tea. Late but in.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Those here already know..... ooofft

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By *atebanksMan
over a year ago

North London

Ohh I'm a little late to the party, I'm in!

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By *r AmbassadorMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Interesting, I'm in

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

I'm back to the fireplace, currently thawing out after watching footy in the snow

Would love someone to warm me up

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol

In for a penny... hopefully a pound

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade!

Missing the point there.

If you feel that you're not included in this thread, why don't you start your own? Or are you going to go through every thread that doesn't cater directly for what you want and complain?

Or is it just mine?

Im surprised you think it's ok to exclude bisexual and homosexual men. "

Jeez just about every thread excludes someone or other somehow - is it really necessary to nitpick the value? If you want a more inclusive thread start one rather than just trying to stir the pot unnecessarily every time!!

For what it's worth as a bisexual man I don't feel excluded, if I want to cater to my bisexual side I find a thread aimed at that or start one.

I think this is a great twist on the "usual" threads that encourage men to flock to message women and see them fighting each other to skip back to the "hot one" so well done OP

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By *heekytradesman46Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, it's Americanised but I needed something snappy for the title.

In America the Sadie Hawkins dance (I don't know why it is), is the event where the girls ask the boys to go with them, taking this as the cue, this is a ladies PM only thread...

Any gender can post that they're in but it's only the ladies that message the others to let them know that; 'ooft, they're hot!'

I doubt that filters will be an issue but please respect them anyway!

Away you go folks...

P.S. Not a game!

So no good for guys seeking guys then? The exclusion on here amazes me.

No, this thread has this purpose. Rather than poking holes in others and stating what you think they're doing wrong, why don't you get creative?

Be positive, I dare you!

I'm going to make my own thread!

With blackjacks and fruitsalads.

Retro sweets! "

Tina Titz always had a pocket full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are couples allowed to play?

Can you not have a hot couple then?

S

I just don't know how it works if only women can message men first you see?

Agreed, You wouldn't know if it was the guy would you, except us as it's always me on the forums. But then i'd play by the rules & not message anyone.. I guess some might not..

Perhaps it should be singles only that are allowed to message?

S

It's a minefield! I used our profile to message a guy, then realised that wasn't within the rules either!!! Maybe the lounge forum really is just for straight singletons after all. Who knew. "

If you don't like the site why be on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't the people who perceive this thread to be non inclusive start a thread that isn't perceived so?

I'm a bbw, I don't have a hissy because a thread about slim girls excludes me, I pass by, or start a thread I can be part of

Thanks for this thread Tea

I get your point, but that's a terrible example! I don't think I've ever seen a slim women thread that hasn't degenerated into a slanging match between a couple of slim women and the "not real women" brigade! "

So take the point, ignore the example and stop splitting hairs. If you don't feel included, make a post that includes everyone. And good luck, there's always that one person who finds a reason to pick.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm in and sending a few.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Oh, hello, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just some random knowledge, Sadie was a comic book character I believe. Supposedly unattractive and al most past marriagable age.

Her father arranged a race of all the single men in town. Who ever she caught she was to marry.

My brain retains some weird stuff!"

I need to have a chat with my dad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll try again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in and sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmmm I’m in "

Ooofft x6 that suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im in ........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:21:58]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:22:03]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a nice time playing. Thank you and out now x

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"participation repeatedly removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:22:03]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"participation repeatedly removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:22:03]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"participation repeatedly removed by poster at 09/11/19 13:22:03]"

Dont be shy, ooofftt

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I'm in. Now let's see if I can find any victims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving this thread!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish guys were younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in

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By *ardyBumMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m in x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish guys were younger "

How younger?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Back in again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In xx

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By *ulldog_71Man
over a year ago

Sedgefield

I'm in

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

[Removed by poster at 09/11/19 15:22:01]

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’m in "

Cheeky - you're alright. Actually you're very nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in from sunbathing, let's go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in - could do with a smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intrigued. Hello, I'm in.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Back in again "

Just delicious you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, yes please... I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even the crisps worked. Maybe wotsits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're in"

Holy moly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll put my name down. Well, my online one, anyway.

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