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"Being open, honest, respectful and considerate - having low expectations, and not a sense of entitlement, able to communicate and articulate and treat people not only as equals but as humans not pieces of meat. It also never ceases to amaze me how people lose sight of real world values and norms on here - things like attraction, where in the real world people wouldn't be attracted to all but a small percentage you encounter, yet on here *some* expect that percentage to somehow magnify and multiply. Or the thing of how some speak to others on here, yet wouldn't do the same in the real world." I agree with you, but would not say low expectations, just not to have expectations. If it happens it happens. Also be prepared that not everyone is here with honourable intensions and people lie... a Lot! | |||
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"Perspective. Not placing too much importance on it and allowing Fab to be only a small part of your life; not the be all and end all. "You're taking to forumites.... .....fab is EVERYTHING.....  | |||
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"Being open, honest, respectful and considerate - having low expectations, and not a sense of entitlement, able to communicate and articulate and treat people not only as equals but as humans not pieces of meat. It also never ceases to amaze me how people lose sight of real world values and norms on here - things like attraction, where in the real world people wouldn't be attracted to all but a small percentage you encounter, yet on here *some* expect that percentage to somehow magnify and multiply. Or the thing of how some speak to others on here, yet wouldn't do the same in the real world." You missed off the bit about 'monkey' | |||
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"Being open, honest, respectful and considerate - having low expectations, and not a sense of entitlement, able to communicate and articulate and treat people not only as equals but as humans not pieces of meat. It also never ceases to amaze me how people lose sight of real world values and norms on here - things like attraction, where in the real world people wouldn't be attracted to all but a small percentage you encounter, yet on here *some* expect that percentage to somehow magnify and multiply. Or the thing of how some speak to others on here, yet wouldn't do the same in the real world. I agree with you, but would not say low expectations, just not to have expectations. If it happens it happens. Also be prepared that not everyone is here with honourable intensions and people lie... a Lot!" Yes you're right "low expectations" could suggest something different entirely and was not the intent - but yep "if it happens it happens" is a good mantra to have for sure. People lie on here? Well I never 
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself." Conversely if you're a man looking for women, search for them yourself
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself." I think that advice stretches across everyone. I'd also say, don't rely on cold messages to make first contact with people. In my experience fab works best in tandem with actually getting out and meeting people face to face. Use it as a way to keep up with people, not for making first contact. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself." I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend.... | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend.... "Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. Conversely if you're a man looking for women, search for them yourself
Funny eh?"Haha yes, but often the men don't need telling  . | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend.... "Ffs this is where I’m going wrong .... | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Ffs this is where I’m going wrong .... "Actually I stopped doing that because I would ended up having to say oops sorry not my type... 
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard. "I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions."I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.  | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary. "That's how to improve your experience! Hire a fab secretary! There must be a sub around who'd do the job for free! | |||
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"...I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions." So weird. Why would you want to talk to forumites? | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
That's how to improve your experience! Hire a fab secretary! There must be a sub around who'd do the job for free! " | |||
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"...I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions. So weird. Why would you want to talk to forumites? " | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary. "The poor sod who had that as a job. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job."I'll do it! What's the pay? | |||
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"What are your tips and tricks for making the best out of Fab and getting what you're looking for? " Find a site where 90% of the members meet rather than 9% of the members | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay? "One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay? "You want to look at dicks and abuse and read random men's weird fantasies all day? | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within "You're joking, but I bet you'll get serious applicants now. Resulting in even more messages to delete lol. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within "Room. For negotiating? | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within
You're joking, but I bet you'll get serious applicants now. Resulting in even more messages to delete lol."Fecking hell. Didn’t think that one though did I .... | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within
You're joking, but I bet you'll get serious applicants now. Resulting in even more messages to delete lol.
Fecking hell. Didn’t think that one though did I .... "Nooooooooooooooooooope lol | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
You want to look at dicks and abuse and read random men's weird fantasies all day?"Want to? Not at all. If the pay is good, it would not bother me. I'm "numb" to seeing dicks at this point anyway with all the messages from guys, and just seeing them on avatar pics from the forum. | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
One blow job per every 10 read and responded to / deleted messages. Apply within
Room. For negotiating? "Depends on the negotiation...  | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
You want to look at dicks and abuse and read random men's weird fantasies all day?
Want to? Not at all.
If the pay is good, it would not bother me. I'm "numb" to seeing dicks at this point anyway with all the messages from guys, and just seeing them on avatar pics from the forum. "We'll if I ever become minted I'll give you a shout | |||
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"Be yourself, not what you think people want you to be." Spot on | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
You want to look at dicks and abuse and read random men's weird fantasies all day?
Want to? Not at all.
If the pay is good, it would not bother me. I'm "numb" to seeing dicks at this point anyway with all the messages from guys, and just seeing them on avatar pics from the forum.
We'll if I ever become minted I'll give you a shout "Unless you pay in blow jobs. I’ve just thought of a loop hole that could be exploited here though... What if he sends me 10 messages himself and reads and deletes them, to earn a blow job? | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself. I think that's SUCH good advice! I see a lot of girls here who go on about waiting for dudes to message and them first etc and then complaining they've picked up a bellend....
Or moaning about the messages they receive, the volume of them blah blah blah. Take control of your experience! It's not that hard.
I still do that. Mostly because I'm lazy and neglect my inbox. I currently have about 1200 messages. I don't want to use message filters though because I like for anyone to be able to message me, especially from forum discussions.
I had 1400 the other day and just decided enough was enough. I did a mass delete and I promptly received a few angry “you could just said you weren’t interested” type messages. I could have, yes. But for that I would have had to hire a Fab secretary.
The poor sod who had that as a job.
I'll do it! What's the pay?
You want to look at dicks and abuse and read random men's weird fantasies all day?
Want to? Not at all.
If the pay is good, it would not bother me. I'm "numb" to seeing dicks at this point anyway with all the messages from guys, and just seeing them on avatar pics from the forum.
We'll if I ever become minted I'll give you a shout
Unless you pay in blow jobs. I’ve just thought of a loop hole that could be exploited here though... What if he sends me 10 messages himself and reads and deletes them, to earn a blow job? "I'm far too honest for that... | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing" What did you do in the end? | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? " Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details" | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details" very clever. I bloody almost did too | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details very clever. I bloody almost did too "Go onnnnn .you know you want to. Make his day. | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details very clever. I bloody almost did too
Go onnnnn .you know you want to.
Make his day. "I’ve never once sent a first message. Not sure how I feel about breaking that tradition? | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details very clever. I bloody almost did too
Go onnnnn .you know you want to.
Make his day.
I’ve never once sent a first message. Not sure how I feel about breaking that tradition? "It could be a pure innocent one. I'm sure he'd like it anyway. | |||
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"Being open, honest, respectful and considerate - having low expectations, and not a sense of entitlement, able to communicate and articulate and treat people not only as equals but as humans not pieces of meat. It also never ceases to amaze me how people lose sight of real world values and norms on here - things like attraction, where in the real world people wouldn't be attracted to all but a small percentage you encounter, yet on here *some* expect that percentage to somehow magnify and multiply. Or the thing of how some speak to others on here, yet wouldn't do the same in the real world." | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details very clever. I bloody almost did too
Go onnnnn .you know you want to.
Make his day.
I’ve never once sent a first message. Not sure how I feel about breaking that tradition? "Lies..... | |||
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"I once had 3 messages in my inbox had to decide whether to mass delete or just let the number keep growing What did you do in the end? Can't discuss such info on the forums DM me for details very clever. I bloody almost did too
Go onnnnn .you know you want to.
Make his day.
I’ve never once sent a first message. Not sure how I feel about breaking that tradition? "Live dangerously there is always the block button !! | |||
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"There is plenty of life beyond the forums" My whole life is a lie!!! | |||
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"There is plenty of life beyond the forums My whole life is a lie!!!" Haha | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself." I very much like this
I put filters on incoming messages as can't handle the bombardment. So i'm the first to message. The filter works for me but the downside is that it stops the potential of a wonderful other getting in touch. (I sometimes turn it off but then realise again why it's on haha) | |||
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"Be sure in your mind about what you are actually looking for. When you’ve done that, ask yourself if this is the site that will help you find it. If in doubt, try it out, but if you have no joy don’t blame the site or the people on here." very true ... know your mind and what you seek to meet which need and why. Took me some time and it can change and be fluid. | |||
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"Think about what you want from the site, and write it on your profile. Set yourself boundaries, some flexible and some hard, to keep yourself safe. Be open, and honest, whilst also maintaining an element of discretion. Don't engage with anyone who doesn't fit in with or respect the previous points." | |||
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"Patience "And a bag of haribos (other confectionery is available) | |||
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"What are your tips and tricks for making the best out of Fab and getting what you're looking for? " Lower your expectations Don't put all your eggs in one basket(women outside of fab like fun as well) Remember to live a life outside of fab as it's easy to get addicted Keep a good Fab/Life balance Learn to debate in the forums rather than be nasty If you read something in a forum you disagree with, be polite or ignore it. If you wouldn't say something to a woman you met in a bar, don't say it in an opening message But most of all be Happy, life's short ! * Disclaimer * I'm not successful on fab so it's probably best not to take my advice  | |||
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"If you are a woman looking for men, search for them yourself." this
Use your filters
Clear and recent face photos
Assume they lie
Be clear what you want
*go with your gut*
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"Be yourself, not what you think people want you to be." Yes this
When I first joined I had a few bad experiences because I was pretending to be someone else.
I know what I want now - so I rarely meet anyone 
It's better than shit sex for the sake of not being alone! | |||
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"Be yourself, not what you think people want you to be. Yes this
When I first joined I had a few bad experiences because I was pretending to be someone else.
I know what I want now - so I rarely meet anyone
It's better than shit sex for the sake of not being alone!"Absolutely agree. | |||
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"Don’t take it all so seriously. It’s just sex. And sex should be fun, exploratory, intense, passionate and not the be all and end all. " | |||
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