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What makes good sex?

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place

It’s a simple question, what are your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vagina helps....

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Passion for each other. Whether it’s sensual passion or animalistic passion. That need and hunger for the other is the driving force.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved. "

Can't really say it any better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

Can't really say it any better myself!"

Awww shucks, thanks

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A good connection, trust and chemistry

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By *osieposieblue No 1 FanMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

Sometimes slowing things down and getting the deeper feelings of being together as one

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By *Vine OP   Man
over a year ago

The right place


"Passion for each other. Whether it’s sensual passion or animalistic passion. That need and hunger for the other is the driving force.

"

Yes, this for me too. It’s not really anything to do with positions or techniques. It’s about being with someone that I desire and that I know desires me passionately too.

It’s all about who the sex is with and the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved. "

This

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

Can't really say it any better myself!

Awww shucks, thanks "

You're such a twat

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Sexual tension

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good connection, trust and chemistry "

Exactly this !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

This "

Another vote for this, and also chemistry and a build up of teasing / sexual tension beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vagina helps...."

Very deep...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

Can't really say it any better myself!

Awww shucks, thanks

You're such a twat "

I'll take it as a compliment

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I think it varies for different people in different situations so there is mo absolute answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok being serious now. For me the more times you see someone the better it gets each time. The I want you as much as you want me feeling. The Grrrrrrrrrr, gotta have the grrrrrrrr. Trust, definitely and being able to feel totally relaxed in their company. If you are self conscious or nervous it’s not going to be good. Being able to tell each other what you like and don’t like.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Wanting someone, as much as they want you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting someone, as much as they want you "

For me that’s the main thing.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Passion for each other. Whether it’s sensual passion or animalistic passion. That need and hunger for the other is the driving force.

Yes, this for me too. It’s not really anything to do with positions or techniques. It’s about being with someone that I desire and that I know desires me passionately too.

It’s all about who the sex is with and the connection. "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone to share it with as I recall..

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting someone, as much as they want you

For me that’s the main thing. "

This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a simple question, what are your thoughts? "

Both being wet for starts

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

About fifty quid?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Compatibility, Morningstar communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

Can't really say it any better myself!

Awww shucks, thanks

You're such a twat

I'll take it as a compliment "

Loveable twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting someone, as much as they want you

For me that’s the main thing.

This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me... "

Guess that’s the difference between making love and having sex perhaps

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

This

Another vote for this, and also chemistry and a build up of teasing / sexual tension beforehand "

Oh yes! When by the time you finally get your hands on each other you're worked up like crazy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a simple question, what are your thoughts? "

Mutual respect, communication and trust

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

An intellectual connection with a good old fashioned dose of animal lust.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Wanting someone, as much as they want you "

So much yes to this. It's the main thing for me; there's nothing hotter than reciprocated desire and seeing your lust for someone mirrored in their eyes and how their body responds almost instantly to you. Mutual desire is hot. As is openness and the ability to just go with things. And enjoy it! Sex is fun, I like people who can enjoy it for how fun it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman who wants to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanting someone, as much as they want you

For me that’s the main thing.

This is probably a bit corny but I don’t really care... Being in love with someone has always made sex better for me. It means I’m pretty much always having to settle for “less than amazing” during a casual encounter, but so be it. It doesn’t make the causal ones any less hot or fun, it’s just a whole different level to with my partner who I feel deeply for. Not sure if that makes any sense but that’s definitely how it works for me...

Guess that’s the difference between making love and having sex perhaps "

Partly yes. Although there are times when me and my OH fuck like animals rather than your typical tender ‘love making’ - and it’s still hands down the best sex. But that’s probably about familiarly, trust and respect etc too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s all down to chemistry and the slow build up, making your partner want to rip your clothes off through teasing over time, not just a wan bam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passion, kissing, mental connection as well as physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% down to how I interact with the other person and how good they are at mental stimulation.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?


"Wanting someone, as much as they want you

So much yes to this. It's the main thing for me; there's nothing hotter than reciprocated desire and seeing your lust for someone mirrored in their eyes and how their body responds almost instantly to you. Mutual desire is hot. As is openness and the ability to just go with things. And enjoy it! Sex is fun, I like people who can enjoy it for how fun it is. "

Absolutely this! That mutual passion and want is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An intellectual connection with a good old fashioned dose of animal lust."

I'll throw a vote here

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Attraction, Passion and chemistry from the first kiss onwards. The more you get to know each other the better you get to know what turns each other on. The teasing and anticipation of knowing what is about to happen when you do meet each other and click. Usually I find of the first kiss works then the sex is good. If the first kiss makes you get those butterflies then the sex is amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anticipation.. Blindfolds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me being involved normally leads to great sex. But don’t take my word for it. Read all of my unpublished veris

Or come and find out for yourself.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Lots of lube.

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By *rMrs322Couple
over a year ago

Sandy


"Compatibility, communication. Mutual pleasure at a pace and of a style that works for all involved.

Can't really say it any better myself!"

Respect is a great trait

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Desire to please each other, a bit of knowledge, and communication.

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By *JsandstockingsCouple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"A good connection, trust and chemistry "

Absolutely agree

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