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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope this doesnt offend anyone. But i like fat women, not a fetish, but a genuine like.

How would you women feel if you read a profile, and the man used the word 'fat women'. Would you be offended?

What term, would be better, i think bbw, sounds like a label, curvy can be miss interpretated, larger lady, i think doesnt sound right. Bit off a loss here, as i wanna be truthful in what im looking for, but not be offensive. Ladies views, and gents if you feel the same in what your looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although i call myself fat i would prefer men to say larger lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended. "

True. Although larger lady is probably the best bet. Surely nobody can get offended at that!

Oh wait it’s fab

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Your profile OP so post what you like. You only need to read the demands of others to understand what your looking for ain’t so bad after all

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You're never going to please everyone on this one, unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended. "

That's true.

Although I think sometimes it might make people more confident talking to you if they know you genuinely like bigger ladies. Could you maybe use size rather than a label as different people like/don't like BBW/larger as you say. Something like 'I have a thing for ladies who are size 16+'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m fat but it really hurts when someone calls me fat!

I prefer Bbw although that also doesn’t fit because I don’t consider myself beautiful.

Thick is being batted around a lot but that sounds like you are stupid!

Chubby is cute, still mildly offensive but better than fat.

I’m at a loss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

That's true.

Although I think sometimes it might make people more confident talking to you if they know you genuinely like bigger ladies. Could you maybe use size rather than a label as different people like/don't like BBW/larger as you say. Something like 'I have a thing for ladies who are size 16+'?"

And yeah I only talk to people who are genuinely interested in larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

That's true.

Although I think sometimes it might make people more confident talking to you if they know you genuinely like bigger ladies. Could you maybe use size rather than a label as different people like/don't like BBW/larger as you say. Something like 'I have a thing for ladies who are size 16+'?

And yeah I only talk to people who are genuinely interested in larger ladies"

Nice to know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

That's true.

Although I think sometimes it might make people more confident talking to you if they know you genuinely like bigger ladies. Could you maybe use size rather than a label as different people like/don't like BBW/larger as you say. Something like 'I have a thing for ladies who are size 16+'?"

Thankyou. I mite try that in my profile.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"I’m fat but it really hurts when someone calls me fat!

I prefer Bbw although that also doesn’t fit because I don’t consider myself beautiful.

Thick is being batted around a lot but that sounds like you are stupid!

Chubby is cute, still mildly offensive but better than fat.

I’m at a loss!"

This is why I use Ample

And you are beautiful

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

OP setting himself up to fail here, but all the ladies who commented are just fine, and I don’t see any issues here.

You look like women. Sexy grown women.

BBW is a whole other niche fetish ball game imo.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think specifying a size and above is a good idea. Personally, I call myself fat. I'm not a bbw or anything of the sort, just fat. And I'd probably be a bit turned off if someone messaged me who fetishisized my fat. Women are complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would saying 'my preference is not for Ladies who are slim to average shapeliness' be less controversial?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It doesn't matter. A woman is very very unlikely to message you first. So keep your profile non body shape specific, and message women you like the look of. They don't need to know you're only after fat girls, so don't tell them! It's not rocket science....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a controversial one.

I call myself fat, but not sure if I’d like to be referred to in that way.

I’m still very curvy.... waist to hip/ boobs ratio, but definitely fat.

I don’t mind BBW. I’m big, I do consider myself to be beautiful, and I’m a woman. I don’t really see BBW as a fetish term...

Personally I would say on your profile that you love fleshy, beautiful, big, bouncy women. Talk about what qualities you like.... I’m often told by men who love big girls that it’s our softness and almost an extreme femininity....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

You may as well call a spade a spade.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"It doesn't matter. A woman is very very unlikely to message you first. So keep your profile non body shape specific, and message women you like the look of. They don't need to know you're only after fat girls, so don't tell them! It's not rocket science.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't matter. A woman is very very unlikely to message you first. So keep your profile non body shape specific, and message women you like the look of. They don't need to know you're only after fat girls, so don't tell them! It's not rocket science.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus size is so much less offensive than fat

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By *edonist 2Couple
over a year ago

Fylde Coast.

I’m not fat, I have fat

Maybe voluptuous? Or I like the size 16+ Comment. Mrs H x

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry

Would saying fatty fatty boom boom be ok or is that only acceptable after meeting up?

Before the police do me for bad mouthing its a joke...

I dont mean it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would saying fatty fatty boom boom be ok or is that only acceptable after meeting up?

Before the police do me for bad mouthing its a joke...

I dont mean it...

"
I love the police doing me.

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By *northodoxmeMan
over a year ago

Hampshire/Sheffield

I call myself a fat bird but would be less happy if a guy called me fat. When Mr U created our profile and described me as ‘fabulous’ it definitely felt like a euphemism for fat but I didn’t feel large or curvy summed me up any better. It’s tricky. Although I’m not massively fond of BBW I do recognise it’s used widely and it’s nicer than some expressions. Larger lady I can live with. Hate plus size!

Mrs U.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

True. Although larger lady is probably the best bet. Surely nobody can get offended at that!

Oh wait it’s fab "

Whales are large. I'm offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why say anything at all? Just mail the ladies you fancy.

No matter what words you use, some will be offended.

That's true.

Although I think sometimes it might make people more confident talking to you if they know you genuinely like bigger ladies. Could you maybe use size rather than a label as different people like/don't like BBW/larger as you say. Something like 'I have a thing for ladies who are size 16+'?"

I like this.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

He went with curvaceous

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By *hechapMan
over a year ago

Derry


"Would saying fatty fatty boom boom be ok or is that only acceptable after meeting up?

Before the police do me for bad mouthing its a joke...

I dont mean it...

I love the police doing me. "

Would it be a crime to call a police woman fatty fatty boom boom if she was thin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I read your profile I would be tee'd off if you texted me

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By *T.round2Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

Chubster over here!

I’m extreeeemely frank about my bod on my profile. I don’t mind it being mentioned. But I do get a bit funny about the term BBW, mainly because I’m never sure I’m actually large enough to meet the requirements.

What bugs me more are comments that diss the slim lasses, especially when they say they like ‘real women’.

All. Women. Are. Real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddly, chubby, voluptuous, rubenesque. Don't sound quite so harsh as fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im naturally magnatised towards a fuller figured lady, i wouldnt dream of calling them fat, nor would ever refer to them as "real women" because thats offensive to slim ladies

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Chubster over here!

I’m extreeeemely frank about my bod on my profile. I don’t mind it being mentioned. But I do get a bit funny about the term BBW, mainly because I’m never sure I’m actually large enough to meet the requirements.

What bugs me more are comments that diss the slim lasses, especially when they say they like ‘real women’.

All. Women. Are. Real. "

I'm fat af and I'm very open about it, but I'm also not a fan of BBW.

I'm with you on the negging of slim women, no need for it and it demeans us all.

No matter your personal preference, we are all real women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though technically fat, I wouldn't appreciate the term in an opening message lol. I hate the term bbw, especially seeing as there's plenty of fat women with small breasticles.

I use the term chunky for myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember in personal ads when I was a kid that the term commonly used was either Cuddley or Bubbly.. definitely doesn't help you though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am fat but prefer to be referred to as voluptuous

Ms D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although i call myself fat i would prefer men to say larger lady"

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London


"Hope this doesnt offend anyone. But i like fat women, not a fetish, but a genuine like.

How would you women feel if you read a profile, and the man used the word 'fat women'. Would you be offended?

What term, would be better, i think bbw, sounds like a label, curvy can be miss interpretated, larger lady, i think doesnt sound right. Bit off a loss here, as i wanna be truthful in what im looking for, but not be offensive. Ladies views, and gents if you feel the same in what your looking for. "

Big women live longer than the guys that mention it

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By * WillisMan
over a year ago

London

Are some not short for their weight?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Chubster over here!

I’m extreeeemely frank about my bod on my profile. I don’t mind it being mentioned. But I do get a bit funny about the term BBW, mainly because I’m never sure I’m actually large enough to meet the requirements.

What bugs me more are comments that diss the slim lasses, especially when they say they like ‘real women’.

All. Women. Are. Real. "

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