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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it?" The media! Hello, Ok,Heat etc all tell women they should look like X, Y & Z and women swallow it. | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it? The media! Hello, Ok,Heat etc all tell women they should look like X, Y & Z and women swallow it. " nah i dont, i dont think i should look like women in the glossies, i have no desire to be a size zero, id just like my boobs back to where they was when i was 18 and my belly to not be covered in stretch marks, but i cant turn time back and i will never look like i did pre kids but dont stop me wishing | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it?" Society, history the media and cultural expectations. | |||
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"I used to have loads of hang ups about my body shape and size but not anymore, as i see it were all differnt and like different things, nobody is perfect, so now i couldnt careless " Good for you. | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it? The media! Hello, Ok,Heat etc all tell women they should look like X, Y & Z and women swallow it. nah i dont, i dont think i should look like women in the glossies, i have no desire to be a size zero, id just like my boobs back to where they was when i was 18 and my belly to not be covered in stretch marks, but i cant turn time back and i will never look like i did pre kids but dont stop me wishing" You may not but in general people want to fit in and conform to what they think society expects of them. Its a shame but peer pressure affects many. | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it? Society, history the media and cultural expectations." Bang on Jemima! Women are their own harshest judges. Also, I've found that it's not the opinions of men that are so negative but the opinions of other women. | |||
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"I used to have loads of hang ups about my body shape and size but not anymore, as i see it were all differnt and like different things, nobody is perfect, so now i couldnt careless " I like this answer a lot Wolf | |||
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"its a woman thing, i have many hang up and no matter how many times im told i look ok its my opinion that counts " Same here | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it?" I don't think men just get on with it. I think that they just hide it more. | |||
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"Why do women always have hang ups about their body size or shape even when they are reasured that they look great and fellas just seem to get on with it?" Fellas dont just get on with it, they are just less needy than woman in that department in my opinion | |||
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"Thanks. My Mrs is Lush and I love her to bits. When she comes out with "my bums too big" it drives me mad!! Lol" I love a big bum! | |||
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"I don't think it's just women that have hang ups and insecurites about their bodies, think that alot of men do too. " With the amount of men that worry about showing off their body at the towel clubs.. I would say I agree with this.. lol cali | |||
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"I have a hang up about my size..and it doesnt help when you see no fatties/oompah loompas on profiles! (even though we dont actually swing as such).. I appreciate most people are being nice when they try to reassure (except blokes in chat who who will say anything in order for you to get your boobs out anyway!);-) Some people have said 'oh there are loads bigger ones than you in clubs, dont worry about it, come along and you'll enjoy' I know they are only trying to be sweet..but that really isnt the issue...the issue is how you feel inside..not the fact that there are plenty of even 'larger' women at a club.. And I DONT fish for compliments either. A guy with a beer belly, knobbly knees, couple of teeth missing when faced with a golden opportunity for some 'action' will indeed, 'just get on with it' Theres the difference. Im a 20+ hubs considers himself not good looking enough (even most people, especially me, say he is totally wrong!)to bother showing an interest in someone, so we are never going to be able to 'swing' anyway, but this problem isnt confined to swinging , a lot of people have hang ups about odd things about themselves..most (unfortunately not all) accept that one ones perfect. " I've met girls over the years who won't get jiggy without the lights off. or want you to look the other way while they undress - some that won't have sex unless partially dressed (one who only did it by pulling her kecks to one side), and others that wouldn't go swimming or disrobe in a public place and I think it's an absolute CRYING shame. Given time and some positive bigging-up they relaxed a bit, but all of them never really were completely 'lost in the moment' during sex, which is an even bigger crying shame to be honest - just glimpses and then the return to self-consciousness. I don't consider myself good-looking. I don't approach others usually because I don't like knock-backs. I prefer others to make the first move of their own volition. I've a reasonable body, but it's not the best, but not the worst either. I do however get completely lost in the moment - it's only then I feel free of it all, and it's the best freedom anyone could wish for. One thing that keeps me here is the addiction to that freedom, and I love meeting others that have found the same escape Wolf | |||
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" I've met girls over the years who won't get jiggy without the lights off. or want you to look the other way while they undress - some that won't have sex unless partially dressed (one who only did it by pulling her kecks to one side), and others that wouldn't go swimming or disrobe in a public place and I think it's an absolute CRYING shame. Given time and some positive bigging-up they relaxed a bit, but all of them never really were completely 'lost in the moment' during sex, which is an even bigger crying shame to be honest - just glimpses and then the return to self-consciousness. I don't consider myself good-looking. I don't approach others usually because I don't like knock-backs. I prefer others to make the first move of their own volition. I've a reasonable body, but it's not the best, but not the worst either. I do however get completely lost in the moment - it's only then I feel free of it all, and it's the best freedom anyone could wish for. One thing that keeps me here is the addiction to that freedom, and I love meeting others that have found the same escape Wolf " 3 years ago I was one of those girls that only in the heat of the moment would be seen naked etc... Yet I didnt want ment to see me.. Yet because I have a man that makes me feel so sexy.. I am now often out taking naughty photos out side.. happy to wander around the club in my underwear... Now I do like to keep something on.. but thats because I feel sexier in my underwear than out of it.. Your post was lovely... and its true.. and I now find myself telling women to love themselves.. Now I dont think for one minute I am the sexiest woman alive.. but to the one person that matters I am.. and that rubs off on me and I feel good about myself. If someone had told me 3 years ago that I would have naughty videos and photos of myself for all to see.. I would have blushed and said no one wants to see them... I enjoy life now.. and its good.. cali | |||
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"W... id just like my boobs back to where they was when i was 18 and my belly to not be covered in stretch marks, but i cant turn time back and i will never look like i did pre kids but dont stop me wishing" Stretch marks means that you're no pussy - you're a tiger who's earned her stripes! (saw that on basefook and liked it) | |||
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"I don't think it's just women that have hang ups and insecurites about their bodies, think that alot of men do too. With the amount of men that worry about showing off their body at the towel clubs.. I would say I agree with this.. lol cali " If you look at profiles on here, a lot of ladies describe themselves as BBW when I'd call them average, on the other hand, you'll also see fat blokes who see themselves as athletic or muscular. Ladies are far too critical when they look in the mirror | |||
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"I don't think it's just women that have hang ups and insecurites about their bodies, think that alot of men do too. " Very true. Im a skiny bloke with a belly and lots of people take the mick out of me calling me fat bastard but its their prob not mine. Im happy with who i am xx Him xx | |||
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" I've met girls over the years who won't get jiggy without the lights off. or want you to look the other way while they undress - some that won't have sex unless partially dressed (one who only did it by pulling her kecks to one side), and others that wouldn't go swimming or disrobe in a public place and I think it's an absolute CRYING shame. Given time and some positive bigging-up they relaxed a bit, but all of them never really were completely 'lost in the moment' during sex, which is an even bigger crying shame to be honest - just glimpses and then the return to self-consciousness. I don't consider myself good-looking. I don't approach others usually because I don't like knock-backs. I prefer others to make the first move of their own volition. I've a reasonable body, but it's not the best, but not the worst either. I do however get completely lost in the moment - it's only then I feel free of it all, and it's the best freedom anyone could wish for. One thing that keeps me here is the addiction to that freedom, and I love meeting others that have found the same escape Wolf 3 years ago I was one of those girls that only in the heat of the moment would be seen naked etc... Yet I didnt want ment to see me.. Yet because I have a man that makes me feel so sexy.. I am now often out taking naughty photos out side.. happy to wander around the club in my underwear... Now I do like to keep something on.. but thats because I feel sexier in my underwear than out of it.. Your post was lovely... and its true.. and I now find myself telling women to love themselves.. Now I dont think for one minute I am the sexiest woman alive.. but to the one person that matters I am.. and that rubs off on me and I feel good about myself. If someone had told me 3 years ago that I would have naughty videos and photos of myself for all to see.. I would have blushed and said no one wants to see them... I enjoy life now.. and its good.. cali " It's great to enjoy life as you want it, not as others expect nor at the mercy of the self-imagined ficticious expectations of others. These things are only our own fictions of doubt which hold us back from being the person we want to be Wolf | |||
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