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By *irlwithcurves40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

One for the ladies.

So I've had some abuse from a wanker today just because I said he wasnt my type. I always try to be nice and reply if they have attached a face picture, with sorry not my type, I personally have to find some physically attracted to them.

So just wondered what others do. Tia. Xx

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Report, block, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just report and block!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just checking it wasn't me...

No, I'm fine.

Block and report.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Block them and forget about it. Some people just can't handle rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here I come

You can't hide

Gonnnnnna find you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here I come

You can't hide

Gonnnnnna find you.... "

I fucking read 'ready or not' ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go out with them even if i dont fancy them but they pay i never block unless they insist on anal

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire


"One for the ladies.

So I've had some abuse from a wanker today just because I said he wasnt my type. I always try to be nice and reply if they have attached a face picture, with sorry not my type, I personally have to find some physically attracted to them.

So just wondered what others do.

Tia. Xx"

Thats terrible no need for them to be rude. But i agree with what u have wrote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad that they turn to abuse because they can’t handle said rejection.

We all have or likes and it’s a disturbed person and narcissistic p..ck that thinks everyone wants to fuck him.

I respect the fact that a lot on here are honest so why waste time.

I’ve had many rejection but I’ll always say thanks for the reply and wish them well on there naughty adventures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending you a face pic now just to check my inbox is working

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them and delete them if they get arsey. If they carry on being a fucktard, I block. Zero tolerance for morons, and you won't go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them a compliment as you say no.

If they are abusive back report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suffered the same earlier today from some old guy. Called me a fag and time waster when I rejected him even though my profile clearly states I don't do men. Just report, block, move on, there's always going to be people like that around.

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By *irlwithcurves40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Thanks guys. I dont feel so bad about it now! X

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland

You have had a narrow escape from an arse hole methinks ,chin up move on ..

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By *ora 123Man
over a year ago

Basildon


"One for the ladies.

So I've had some abuse from a wanker today just because I said he wasnt my type. I always try to be nice and reply if they have attached a face picture, with sorry not my type, I personally have to find some physically attracted to them.

So just wondered what others do. Tia. Xx"

Am I your type?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

After a "Nice but not for me" message I don't enter into anymore convo.

I very very rarely get any issues, and if I do I block.

Think I've only had to do that maybe a handful of times in two years.

If you're not interested then don't communicate unnecessarily, don't give the conversation oxygen.

Works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a "Nice but not for me" message I don't enter into anymore convo.

I very very rarely get any issues, and if I do I block.

Think I've only had to do that maybe a handful of times in two years.

If you're not interested then don't communicate unnecessarily, don't give the conversation oxygen.

Works for me.

"
no smoke without fire

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Delete and block. Not worth giving it a second thought.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't even reply, that is the safest option!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried the being nice and polite replies of no thanks but was met with 'fuck you' and 'fat cow' so now I just delete and block. ...but I did try

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"One for the ladies.

So I've had some abuse from a wanker today just because I said he wasnt my type. I always try to be nice and reply if they have attached a face picture, with sorry not my type, I personally have to find some physically attracted to them.

So just wondered what others do. Tia. Xx"
. Block report and ignore. Some folk just can't take rejection. Pathetic. Take no notice there's loads of nice people dont let him get to u. Idiots hey. We had some and blocked them.moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block him.

I send nice messages and don’t get a reply so wouldn’t expect a reply if I was abusive...

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"I tried the being nice and polite replies of no thanks but was met with 'fuck you' and 'fat cow' so now I just delete and block. ...but I did try "
. Polite is nice. It's a shame everyone isn't like that. I think it's best to be honest if that person isn't ur type it's best to let them know so that are not wasting their time. There's never an excuse for abuse

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Ignore, delete and block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One for the ladies.

So I've had some abuse from a wanker today just because I said he wasnt my type. I always try to be nice and reply if they have attached a face picture, with sorry not my type, I personally have to find some physically attracted to them.

So just wondered what others do. Tia. Xx. Block report and ignore. Some folk just can't take rejection. Pathetic. Take no notice there's loads of nice people dont let him get to u. Idiots hey. We had some and blocked them.moved on "
hi can i just say you have a great figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried the being nice and polite replies of no thanks but was met with 'fuck you' and 'fat cow' so now I just delete and block. ...but I did try . Polite is nice. It's a shame everyone isn't like that. I think it's best to be honest if that person isn't ur type it's best to let them know so that are not wasting their time. There's never an excuse for abuse "

Fat???? huh you have a great figure.

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By *reaming of pleasingMan
over a year ago

somewhere only we know

As a single guy on here I expect most of the messages I send won’t get a reply, just because of the sheer number or messages singles girls must get! Let alone if I’m their type or not!

It’s a shame some guys have to ruin it for others behaving like that.

If you’re not someone’s type just move on! x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I tried the being nice and polite replies of no thanks but was met with 'fuck you' and 'fat cow' so now I just delete and block. ...but I did try "

Jeez if they class you as fat then I'd be a whale to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You described him precisely, OP. He's a wanker. If he wasn't and treated women with a respect, he could be having some sex instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are abusive I usually say yeah and you have a small dick but hey ho..then block

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