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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer

Told you that your profile is written wrong?

I got a message the other day from someone telling me my profile was too negative and I should take out the part where I mention I'm overweight.

I was told I would have more luck if I took that out and he even sent me a revised profile to put up!

I think it's important to be upfront and honest in your profile and I wouldn't want someone thinking I was something I'm not!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like a wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not with the current version, no.

Must love unsolicited advice.

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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?"

That's what I thought!

Maybe he was trying to be helpful

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?

That's what I thought!

Maybe he was trying to be helpful "

Or by being "helpful" could expect a meet etc ...

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

That's not on unless you have specifically asked for advice!

You certainly have the right to say or not say anything you want about yourself.

I've only just written my profile as a quick one for now... But it's written by me and about me ... It may not appeal to everyone... But isn't that the whole point... To help people see if you are someone that might be compatible with them

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?

That's what I thought!

Maybe he was trying to be helpful "

Most Men are clumsy at chatting to women so I bet he thought he was being helpful in his mind

Either that or he was a knob

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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?

That's what I thought!

Maybe he was trying to be helpful

Or by being "helpful" could expect a meet etc ..."

Absolutely no mention of wanting to meet and no follow up,just the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did once get threatened to change my profile to suit this person's requirements. That was really weird and was on another site. There are some proper weirdos about who are very confident behind a computer

However, on here, I've actually had people comment positively on my profile. Apparently it doesn't come across as 'desperate' - just a normal, genuine bloke

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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"That's not on unless you have specifically asked for advice!

You certainly have the right to say or not say anything you want about yourself.

I've only just written my profile as a quick one for now... But it's written by me and about me ... It may not appeal to everyone... But isn't that the whole point... To help people see if you are someone that might be compatible with them

"

Exactly this

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Quite often I get messages were it's blatantly obvious the sender hasn't read my profile

My phone actually auto types 'You obviously didn't bother to read my profile'

I've been told in numerous (I assume sarcastic) replies.

It's too long, they couldn't be bothered.

They got bored halfway.

That it's ranty & negative

Always wonder why they'd then bother to contact a boring, negative, ranty person in the first place

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Hehe. Yes. It happens op. A few people have messaged over the years to say they can write my profile better but I don't think I want it any other way.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Quite often I get messages were it's blatantly obvious the sender hasn't read my profile

My phone actually auto types 'You obviously didn't bother to read my profile'

I've been told in numerous (I assume sarcastic) replies.

It's too long, they couldn't be bothered.

They got bored halfway.

That it's ranty & negative

Always wonder why they'd then bother to contact a boring, negative, ranty person in the first place "

Cos you have tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Told you that your profile is written wrong?

I got a message the other day from someone telling me my profile was too negative and I should take out the part where I mention I'm overweight.

I was told I would have more luck if I took that out and he even sent me a revised profile to put up!

I think it's important to be upfront and honest in your profile and I wouldn't want someone thinking I was something I'm not!"

Tell them to read mine

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I get compliments on my profile text.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

I’ve just read your profile (this is George) and I think it’s great. You come across as a real person, an actual human being seeking a genuine connection. Changing your words to ‘get more meets’ is perhaps missing the point for you, and I would suggest the person who commented simply didn’t read you with enough care.

Most people have some form of insecurity. It is not for others to judge whether you should or shouldn’t be upfront about them. It is also not for anyone else to judge whether you ought to have them in the first place.

It is true that a lot of men struggle to find a way to engage. That opening sentence is can be tricky. But this guy has no excuses for this. There is plenty of information on your profile for someone to be able to make a considered introduction. I would suggest the guy is either clueless or mean. Either way, you’re better off ignoring him.

I hope this doesn’t make you doubt what you have written. You are exactly the kind of person both Ailsa and I would connect with. Xx

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It's someone else's words that (in the most part) have taken careful consideration to compose. Who am I to tell them it's wrong, especially if I don't know the person.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol I shouldn't worry, you know how you want to be seen. I get told I'm too agressive (which I am), but that's for me, and me only to worry about!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old account I Had the female half of a couple message me because she was offended that i had a lady in one of my photos? The face was blurred but she said because I'm single I shouldn't have any ladies in my photos? Wtf was that all about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my old account I Had the female half of a couple message me because she was offended that i had a lady in one of my photos? The face was blurred but she said because I'm single I shouldn't have any ladies in my photos? Wtf was that all about?"

People should mind there own business.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"Quite often I get messages were it's blatantly obvious the sender hasn't read my profile

My phone actually auto types 'You obviously didn't bother to read my profile'

I've been told in numerous (I assume sarcastic) replies.

It's too long, they couldn't be bothered.

They got bored halfway.

That it's ranty & negative

Always wonder why they'd then bother to contact a boring, negative, ranty person in the first place

Cos you have tits "

I do have great tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Told you that your profile is written wrong?

I got a message the other day from someone telling me my profile was too negative and I should take out the part where I mention I'm overweight.

I was told I would have more luck if I took that out and he even sent me a revised profile to put up!

I think it's important to be upfront and honest in your profile and I wouldn't want someone thinking I was something I'm not!"

A bit cheeky of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to F off. You can write whatever you want about yourself....albeit it truths.

I dont put on my profile I had breast cancer and my left boob was completely removed and replaced with muscle from my back and it has no nipple. No....but I could if I wanted to. My body...I can say what I want about it xx

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Never been told it’s written wrong but told many many times it’s just all wrong in so many ways

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I had a guy on Sunday compliment me on my profile, I asked which bit... actually I haven't read your profile just looked at the pictures

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

A long time ago I had a guy message me offering me a good time, after I declined he messaged back saying my pictures were shit anyway.

After a nanosecond, I thought nevermind, but nobody's ever dissected the profile OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re one of the nicest people I’ve chatted to on here, your profile is just fine

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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"You’re one of the nicest people I’ve chatted to on here, your profile is just fine "

Thank you,means alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes all the time. Mainly women on menopause who are trying to shag me senseless behind meccabingo

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By *az080378 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Cromer


"Yes all the time. Mainly women on menopause who are trying to shag me senseless behind meccabingo"

Just the menopausal ones?

I thought they'd all be at it!!

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Sounds a bloody cheek to me

I mean, whose profile is it ultimately?

That's what I thought!

Maybe he was trying to be helpful

Or by being "helpful" could expect a meet etc ...

Absolutely no mention of wanting to meet and no follow up,just the advice "

I bet if you changed it he'd be on you with a follow up message though "Glad to see you took my advice" etc..

& then haven't you just played straight into a control freaks hands?

Anyway ignore it..look fine to us..

S&H

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes all the time. Mainly women on menopause who are trying to shag me senseless behind meccabingo

Just the menopausal ones?

I thought they'd all be at it!!"

Nope I don't seem to attract young women anymore since I lost my right leg in a roundabout

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Yes all the time. Mainly women on menopause who are trying to shag me senseless behind meccabingo

Just the menopausal ones?

I thought they'd all be at it!!

Nope I don't seem to attract young women anymore since I lost my right leg in a roundabout "

Many unhappy returns mate

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes all the time. Mainly women on menopause who are trying to shag me senseless behind meccabingo

Just the menopausal ones?

I thought they'd all be at it!!

Nope I don't seem to attract young women anymore since I lost my right leg in a roundabout

Many unhappy returns mate

S"

Hmmmmmmaybe

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