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How long should sex take?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You all know the score, sometimes you have a busy day; a dentist appointment, getting a new dungeon installed etc.

So life gets busy right?

When you do have that precious free time to get your mango moist, how long do you dedicate to sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it’s with to be honest

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Depends on the couple I guess. Anywhere between 3-10 mins I'd say.

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m usually pretty organised and once I’ve prepared and dolled myself up for the ladie it’s usually over in about 2 minutes and then she can get on with the cleaning

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We never have that issue as we both work from home, been like that now for six years so if we both want a daytime sesh we just have one.

It's good as there's no "Fuck off i'm too tired" type of forcing (for want of a better word) .

Although either of us can be a little persistent while in bed watching a film (usually H, she has wandering hand syndrome).

S

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By *ikeandmollyCouple
over a year ago

swindon

Time? we don’t really do time, it takes as long as it takes. As long as everyone has had fun and is fully satisfied then we stop.

Molly

XX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Time? we don’t really do time, it takes as long as it takes. As long as everyone has had fun and is fully satisfied then we stop.

Molly

XX"

Nice answer! I feel the same, either we both have fun and it finishes sooner or we both have more fun and it lasts longer

I like to aim for about 30 mins to an hour which takes some careful edging.

The orgasm is amazing afterwards,

lile a cannon firing, I could probably break a window with my cum shot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 minutes and 35 seconds

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Time? we don’t really do time, it takes as long as it takes. As long as everyone has had fun and is fully satisfied then we stop.

Molly

XX"

Exactly this ... sometimes it's 15-20 minutes ... sometimes it's a whole lot more

If you're watching the clock you're not getting the most from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time? we don’t really do time, it takes as long as it takes. As long as everyone has had fun and is fully satisfied then we stop.

Molly

XX"

Couldn't have said it better!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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My mango moist.

There's not a set time. Sometimes it's a quick fuck over the sofa, knickers pulled to one side. Other times it's a feeling his erection pressed against my arse lazy slow morning sex type thing. I like both a lot and get cranky if it's too long without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is a piece of string....a quicky.....20mins

Sex at leisure.....????? I don't know s couple of hours maybe

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By *olymalelincsMan
over a year ago

southend

If a quickie is all you have time for that's all you get but if I can make the time it's as long as possible and multiple times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 minutes and 35 seconds "

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By *unseekers87Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow ish


"12 minutes and 35 seconds "

Is the 12 minutes for a heart to heart after ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 minutes and 35 seconds

Is the 12 minutes for a heart to heart after ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 minutes and 35 seconds

Is the 12 minutes for a heart to heart after ?"

No you have to factor in extra time for that.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

As others have said , It takes what it takes as long as we are all enjoying it.

We have never ever been the fuck & go types so really couldn't get into the club side of things at all.

Would much rather all nighters in hotels or home. last time the gf was here I think it was about 5-6 hours.

We are both still recovering

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"12 minutes and 35 seconds

Is the 12 minutes for a heart to heart after ?"

35 seconds...sounds about right give or take one or two. Ooo you lucky lucky ladies hahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any more than 20 mins with person and iv left the building...put me in a group and we can play for hours

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By *rank40Man
over a year ago

London

30mins or all night

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"12 minutes and 35 seconds "

Talk about put a guy under pressure to last!!

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends entirely on circumstances

At home, many quickies and orgasms throughout the day or evening and longer on date days where we can just commit many hours to being in bed

Visiting my gf... We might get out of bed to have some food but generally we don't and that's 12 hours minimum of just making out and making love at a time

Fab dates? Whatever time we have is for dedicating entirely to kissing, playing and cuddling. As long as possible!

Is all good and wonderful and if you're happy then I don't believe it makes a difference whether you're sated by five minutes or three days.

S'all good xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone seems to be using minutes as examples. Does no one have marathon sex lasting hours on here ?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"As others have said , It takes what it takes as long as we are all enjoying it.

We have never ever been the fuck & go types so really couldn't get into the club side of things at all.

Would much rather all nighters in hotels or home. last time the gf was here I think it was about 5-6 hours.

We are both still recovering

S

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Awww you have a gf! This is lovely to read. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 minutes with me is all a lady can take! It's been scientifically proven!

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By *Jones19Man
over a year ago

Evesham, Worcester, Pershore

Whatever you've got time for. Had a great 2 hour session a couple of weeks ago cause we both had the time. Then last week, had a just as good quickie before we were going to be disturbed that was amazingly sexy. Play with the time you have and make the most of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One man's (or woman's) too long is another man's (or woman's) not long enough... horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to be using minutes as examples. Does no one have marathon sex lasting hours on here ? "

God yes. When life and time permits. My and my OH once stayed in bed for most of the weekend apart from food, loo and Netflix breaks. Still my favourite weekend ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I met my ex gf she said I don’t sleep with guys on first dates I said okay, she came back to mine Friday and night and I drove her home Sunday tea time, we didn’t leave the house just bed, sex, Pizza Hut and films. Best first date ever

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

When I’m lucky enough to meet a lovely lady I like to take my time but the norm is an hour and a half to two hours.. and if it’s an evening meet we’ll drink and play during so it would be longer ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can have as much fun in a ten minute quickie as a marathon 4-5 hour session. Depends on the mood. Sometimes the intensity of a quickie can be amazing. Sometimes we want it long and drawn out. Just depends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to be using minutes as examples. Does no one have marathon sex lasting hours on here ?

God yes. When life and time permits. My and my OH once stayed in bed for most of the weekend apart from food, loo and Netflix breaks. Still my favourite weekend ever "

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

15 minutes. From when the half time whistle goes to when the second half starts

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I don't 'dedicate' any amount of time to sex.

It lasts as long as it lasts

Bit of a passion killer, setting an alarm clock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long the Viagra lasts in my blood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quickly as possible, awful thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other weekend I had sex for an hour an 2 minutes......... then realised the clocks went back !!

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

As long as we both need to take

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to cum usualy takes 1hr trust issues from been a kid but giv me a wiling partner an i can go for 5 hrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The other weekend I had sex for an hour an 2 minutes......... then realised the clocks went back !! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes a quicky, sometimes an all day or all night session. With little breaks inbetween to recover and cwtch of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twelve minutes. And that includes the time it took to eat the pizza."

- Arnold J Rimmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long is a piece of string....a quicky.....20mins

Sex at leisure.....????? I don't know s couple of hours maybe"

This. I kept scrolling as I was sure someone else immediately thought how long is the string?

For me it's usual 2-4 hrs as it takes time to arrange ahead of time. Unfortunately I now no longer have the luxury of being spoilt with a fwb only mile away. Then it was stop on passing the house and could have been a quickie a couple times a day, sometimes never got in the back door (of her house ).

She's married now, still acknowledge each other if we bump into one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, I'm always asleep before they've finished.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"No idea, I'm always asleep before they've finished. "

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Depends on the mood sometimes I love it to be quick and steamy 15-20mins other times can go for 1-2 hours ..

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I like time to slide off somewhere else and just get lost in the moment.

I like to put aside plenty time, no time constraints. I like my men to last or to rise again!

I want my sex muscles to ache the next day ha!

But I do love those morning wake up quickies that hardly last at all cos were so aroused.

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By *ubbermaidbabyCouple
over a year ago

clwyd


"Everyone seems to be using minutes as examples. Does no one have marathon sex lasting hours on here ? "

Yep!!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Sex takes as long as it takes... not sure it's possible to set a time limit.

I would say on average an hour or so, but can be as little as 20 or 30 minutes or 2 or more hours.

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