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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

site rules on verification for single well you must meet someone to be verified but no one wants to meet you for fun unless you’ve been verified it’s the old problem what came first the chicken or the egg who wants to sort it out howDo you get verified social meets shouldn’t really count as it’s a swingers site not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social event or club night and meet some people face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social meets shouldn't really count?

So you're saying that a social meet, where you can prove that you are who you say you are, the person in the pics etc shouldn't count?

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

Swinging doesn't = fuck n go in a lot of cases, some people..... have conversations! Gasp.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meets shouldn't really count?

So you're saying that a social meet, where you can prove that you are who you say you are, the person in the pics etc shouldn't count?

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

Swinging doesn't = fuck n go in a lot of cases, some people..... have conversations! Gasp.

P"

You mean this isn't InstaFuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meets shouldn't really count?

So you're saying that a social meet, where you can prove that you are who you say you are, the person in the pics etc shouldn't count?

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

Swinging doesn't = fuck n go in a lot of cases, some people..... have conversations! Gasp.

P

You mean this isn't InstaFuck? "

UpToMyElbowsInClunge went out of business when women were allowed to vote.

P

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford

I disagree. Firstly photo verification can make a massive difference I've found and there are couples and singles who don't insist on verification.

Then you've got clubs. Back when I was on a couple's profile we verified guys who we met in clubs if they were genuine.

The verification is only really saying that you've met someone. You still hear of accounts deleting themselves or blocking after organising a meet.

You've been on a month. Don't be so hasty in your assumptions, be chill and have fun.

Happy swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meets shouldn't really count?

So you're saying that a social meet, where you can prove that you are who you say you are, the person in the pics etc shouldn't count?

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

Swinging doesn't = fuck n go in a lot of cases, some people..... have conversations! Gasp.

P"

I'm gasping too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"site rules on verification for single well you must meet someone to be verified but no one wants to meet you for fun unless you’ve been verified it’s the old problem what came first the chicken or the egg who wants to sort it out howDo you get verified social meets shouldn’t really count as it’s a swingers site not a dating site"

Shag someone and get them to say wonderful things about you. Truth is secondary....

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford


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You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

"

I was chatting about this the other night in fact. Swinging is as much social as sex. But maybe I'm old fashioned.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I used to meet newbies for a social to give them a verification, if they seemed nice and genuine. I wouldn't have sex with them just to give them a "better" category of verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

I was chatting about this the other night in fact. Swinging is as much social as sex. But maybe I'm old fashioned. "

For me the social is more important than the sex side. If I don't find someone a laugh to be around then my fandango will refuse to tango with them.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think alot of people use the, no verifications, as a less uncomfortable way to decline a meet, meself

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford


"

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

I was chatting about this the other night in fact. Swinging is as much social as sex. But maybe I'm old fashioned.

For me the social is more important than the sex side. If I don't find someone a laugh to be around then my fandango will refuse to tango with them.

P"

Met with a lovely lady last week. We chatted but agreed nothing was there. Had a laugh with chat though. Glad to see I'm not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

I was chatting about this the other night in fact. Swinging is as much social as sex. But maybe I'm old fashioned.

For me the social is more important than the sex side. If I don't find someone a laugh to be around then my fandango will refuse to tango with them.

P

Met with a lovely lady last week. We chatted but agreed nothing was there. Had a laugh with chat though. Glad to see I'm not the only one."

Your not

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Social meets shouldn't really count?

So you're saying that a social meet, where you can prove that you are who you say you are, the person in the pics etc shouldn't count?

You do also realise that for an awful lot of people the social side is just as, if not more important than the sex side right?

Swinging doesn't = fuck n go in a lot of cases, some people..... have conversations! Gasp.

P

You mean this isn't InstaFuck? "

I've been bloody conned it tell ya!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your feedback will take it on board will try to get social meet see how it goes hopefully won’t be too hard to get a social meet once again thank you for your feedback

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

All single men take months for your hard work to pay off, whatever your verification status. Forcus instead on staying sane and upbeat, whilst learning what you can do to improve your potential, that's away from getting a verification badge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said social or on web cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of people will meet unverified men.

You can go in the chat rooms and get verified via webcam. You could attend a group social. You could go to a club. You could put more effort in and arrange a meet with a woman from fab, fuck her brains out and ask her to verify you. Lots of ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plenty of people will meet unverified men.

You can go in the chat rooms and get verified via webcam. You could attend a group social. You could go to a club. You could put more effort in and arrange a meet with a woman from fab, fuck her brains out and ask her to verify you. Lots of ways "

I also feel like the whole ‘sorry I won’t meet unverified men’ is more of a polite excuse most of the time

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