FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics on your profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does everyone feel about having their face pics on their profile?

Personally, I find it liberating! It's kind of free just being me

Though I totally get those who prefer to remain intriguing or positively private.

Asking for some friends?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I prefer some anonymity

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer some anonymity "

Yes, I imagine I'm in the minority here.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes I display mine, others I don't. I kind of like putting it out there and people seeing my face. I always get lovely not sexual messages when I do (and get called cute a lot but meh).

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I don't show them publicly but always send one with a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when my inbox is getting hammered i put my face pic up to scare people off so i get time to reply all the compliments

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I never used to, it has been in friends a couple of months.

An abstract one is now in public and that all came about waking up with an ‘oh fuck it, everything out there’ mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be low profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no. "

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I display mine, others I don't. I kind of like putting it out there and people seeing my face. I always get lovely not sexual messages when I do (and get called cute a lot but meh)."

You are cute x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show face pics occasionally. I'm not that brave though as I have all the 'looking for' boxes unticked just now, so I don't come up in local searches.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I prefer the anonymous approach as I've been called out before and several people I know have had bad experiences from being spotted.

I'd rather have control over my identity

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

I like the fact you’d considered I might not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job is a bit sensitive... The people I work for and with would take a rather dim view of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has been on mine for most of my 3 and a half years on here, even if it is just my avatar. I am who I am, if people don't like it, I don't care

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

Positively private for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private

But I’ll show you if ya want

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My face pic is used more than any other pic I have, I’m not really bothered about showing it, and let’s face it (pardon the pun) it’s good to see who you are conversing with now and again

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By *igBlacKnightMan
over a year ago

London

Well my profile speaks for itself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

I like the fact you’d considered I might not be."

Are you Burt the Builder?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

I like the fact you’d considered I might not be.

Are you Burt the Builder?"

Only if you ask nicely.

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I'm not confident enough for that. Body is better than my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not confident enough for that. Body is better than my face"

If your face is only half as nice as your body pics then you are beautiful

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've been tempted. If I could guarantee (even if the chance is low as it is) of a select few people I know not seeing, I'd go for it.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I do face or body.. never both at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I show it.. usually for a certain thread. Otherwise I'll just keep my body parts on display

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I used to have all my fave pictures visible on another site for kinky people. I miss it to be honest as I'm otherwise a pretty open book. However since having to involve the police due to 4 years of stalking and harrassment by an ex partner, I just don't feel comfortable anymore. For a while I didn't even display body pictures but over time I decided I didn't want him to hold me back compleltely.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I used to have all my fave pictures visible on another site for kinky people. I miss it to be honest as I'm otherwise a pretty open book. However since having to involve the police due to 4 years of stalking and harrassment by an ex partner, I just don't feel comfortable anymore. For a while I didn't even display body pictures but over time I decided I didn't want him to hold me back compleltely."

*face

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

I never used to show my face, but I actually enjoy the freedom too OP!

Plus it makes it easier for those whom I have met at the club to know it’s the right profile

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By *ux19Man
over a year ago

Essex

"I do face or body.. never both at the same time

No complaints here

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Sometimes when my inbox is getting hammered i put my face pic up to scare people off so i get time to reply all the compliments

Wonderful post !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer to keep ours private x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

I like the fact you’d considered I might not be.

Are you Burt the Builder?

Only if you ask nicely."

"Are you Burrrt the buildaaar??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes when my inbox is getting hammered i put my face pic up to scare people off so i get time to reply all the compliments

Wonderful post !!!!!!"

*takes a bow and doffs the cap

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I'm glad you're a sarky mare

I like the fact you’d considered I might not be.

Are you Burt the Builder?

Only if you ask nicely.

"Are you Burrrt the buildaaar??

I like erecting things.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Is it my real face that I'm showing ? Underneath the makeup and wig ....The Horror the horror (extra points if you get the film reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go through phases with mine. When the boy child is in the area though or I get a bit para that his mates may stumble across me then I pull them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that I see people with face pictures on public display around my local area on a fairly regular basis, I'll stick to pampas grass outside..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used mine for Halloween the other night, worked a treat.

Seriously, I'm a bit too old looking to be flashing my fizzog around, but I will send on request.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Absolutely...... no point in hiding for me.

Being a host it’s pretty helpful too.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"I never used to show my face, but I actually enjoy the freedom too OP!

Plus it makes it easier for those whom I have met at the club to know it’s the right profile

And what a pretty face it is

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I do but just upon request

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By *naquest321Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Always send one with a message or forum thread

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I tend to have at least one face pic in public photos.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I tend to have at least one face pic in public photos. "

And it’s a lush and beautiful face.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Nothing to hide here

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"I tend to have at least one face pic in public photos.

And it’s a lush and beautiful face.

Then we have something in common

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have them on profile, all folk have to do is ask.

I occassionally display publicly, if i’m In the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I've used my ugly mug as a profile pic, and there's a few face pics in my gallery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to have a face pic on here.

It makes it easier for everyone. They can see straight away if I'm their type or not before messaging.

I don't really care about anonymity, I have nothing to hide and if any friends see me on here I guess they are on here for the same reason as me, so all's cool.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Face pic ???? What face pic ???

Suzi

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By *ceKweenWoman
over a year ago

Bolton

I’m 50 / 50 with it lol

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"I’m 50 / 50 with it lol"

Cheeky

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I did do until some sleaze bag made my life difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the day, sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite few in a friends gallery and will happily swap in a Face Pic Friday with posters I recognise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why people are surprised when they get recognised.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Mines in my friends gallery although I’ve been recognised twice by my lips on public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines out for a very little while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider my face pic to be a front-line filter, which eliminates most of those annoying 'messagey' things, which people moan about. (Trust me, it works!)

Better than someone showing initial interest, only to go "eek!" and run away later.

"I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no. "

I've always liked your face

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By *edHeadedFunWoman
over a year ago

Didsbury

Have no issue with having mine on. The family and friends that are close to me know I am here so nothing to hide and doesn't bother me if I get recognised.

Although I never use to put my face pic up in the beginning when I was previously on here years ago.

I guess it is everyone's personal chose and what they feel comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face off"

No you can't have my face!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Face off

No you can't have my face! "

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I consider my face pic to be a front-line filter, which eliminates most of those annoying 'messagey' things, which people moan about. (Trust me, it works!)

Better than someone showing initial interest, only to go "eek!" and run away later.

I’d never put my face on my profile, Lord no.

I've always liked your face

That’s very kind of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really want people I know stumbling across me here, so I've got face pics, but they're friends only. Seems like a happy medium.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Sometimes shown, but mostly hidden..It was in my public pics until a few days ago. Someone said they worked with me and to phone them. I didn't work with them or phone them and hid my face for a while.

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. Too many crazies. I like my anonymity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I'm back in my slippers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Face off

No you can't have my face! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have nothing to hide.

I get a lot of messages about how refreshing my face pics are. I Sometimes question whether I need the other photos up or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I'm back in my slippers.

Welcome back. Slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes shown, but mostly hidden..It was in my public pics until a few days ago. Someone said they worked with me and to phone them. I didn't work with them or phone them and hid my face for a while.

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide."
it's pretty face might as well so it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide.it's pretty face might as well so it off

Yeah. Those of us that don't show it are well ugly and dodgy as fuck!!

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm fairly careful being new on the scene as my local club is pretty much on my doorstep!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide.it's pretty face might as well so it off

Yeah. Those of us that don't show it are well ugly and dodgy as fuck!!

Stop telling everyone!

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By *estinyIsAllCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

We show ours sometimes, it changes week by week lol. At the moment we're showing a few xx

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I show my face because I in fabs don't look the same as in real life.

If not, I most likely will hide it as well.

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By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sometimes I do, sometimes it's in friends only. It depends on how I'm feeling at the time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I wear my face to meets and in the inner confines of reality where it essentially remains my property. Online ..... fuck off m8s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide.it's pretty face might as well so it off

Yeah. Those of us that don't show it are well ugly and dodgy as fuck!!

Stop telling everyone!

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I wouldn't say no ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem in showing my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close family and friends know I'm here so I have nothing to really hide.it's pretty face might as well so it off

Yeah. Those of us that don't show it are well ugly and dodgy as fuck!!

Mines been banned even after the watershed

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

"I'm not confident enough for that. Body is better than my face"

Sadly so is mine

Face pics are available, but prefer to keep them private.

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By *guyMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Private, unless you ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your employment/family situation. For some people it's simply not practical. Others don't want to potentially broadcast their interests to the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does everyone feel about having their face pics on their profile?

Personally, I find it liberating! It's kind of free just being me

Though I totally get those who prefer to remain intriguing or positively private.

Asking for some friends?

I used to have my face picture on show when I first signed up but after getting a lot of messages from local guys I did start getting a little paranoid in shops and the gym but I think I'll be putting one back up think you're right it is kind of liberating helps you stand out a little and shows you're not hiding behind anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wear my face to meets and in the inner confines of reality where it essentially remains my property. Online ..... fuck off m8s"

You were mentioned on the 'I want to see their face pic' thread the other day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I'm back in my slippers.

Welcome back. Slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had my pics stolen and plastered over the net, I prefer not to have it on show. But, I'm more than happy to share face pics with Forum folk risking confidentiality, I know.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Having had my pics stolen and plastered over the net, I prefer not to have it on show. But, I'm more than happy to share face pics with Forum folk risking confidentiality, I know. "

This is another good point. I've had my body pictures stolen. I wouldn't want my face pictures stolen too.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Having had my pics stolen and plastered over the net, I prefer not to have it on show. But, I'm more than happy to share face pics with Forum folk risking confidentiality, I know. "
Absolutely agree. No way would I ever post a face picture again. I do not even have one in my private gallery now. There is a reason for that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having had my pics stolen and plastered over the net, I prefer not to have it on show. But, I'm more than happy to share face pics with Forum folk risking confidentiality, I know.

This is another good point. I've had my body pictures stolen. I wouldn't want my face pictures stolen too."

Not long after joining the site I had face photos stolen and then used to set up various fake profiles!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Partial currently on my avatar

Full face - selectively for FPF only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Partial currently on my avatar

Full face - selectively for FPF only "

You have a lovely face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it depends on how confident I'm feeling. I get nervous sometimes and worry that I might be spotted and sometimes I think oh well and other times I'm like maybe I should take it down!

I was undecided today whether to put my photo on private as it made it into hot pics and I was like oh shit, half of my face is there.

I definitely don't think I'd be brave enough to have it all on show in a public album. I don't mind giving a quick peak of it every now and then though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peel not peak*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone in my family and friends know about this. So it doesn't matter who sees our face pics

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Everyone in my family and friends know about this. So it doesn't matter who sees our face pics "
True, I agree. But you have no control whatsoever about where your picture might end up in future. That would / could include somebody stealing your identity, buying stuff in your name... pretending to be you. Honestly, not a good idea.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Ain't never happening on public and rarely on private.

Sadly we still live in a world where a recognisable sexually active woman could be the talk of the playground at best, and lose her job (or more) at worst.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Ain't never happening on public and rarely on private.

Sadly we still live in a world where a recognisable sexually active woman could be the talk of the playground at best, and lose her job (or more) at worst.

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Sadly it goes way beyond that - see above. Identity theft is a big issue in todays world of online shopiing/ online presence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ain't never happening on public and rarely on private.

Sadly we still live in a world where a recognisable sexually active woman could be the talk of the playground at best, and lose her job (or more) at worst.

Even all my work colleagues know. If anyone wants to pinch pictures of my body...they really must be desperate. So they can have them..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to have a face pic on here.

It makes it easier for everyone. They can see straight away if I'm their type or not before messaging.

I don't really care about anonymity, I have nothing to hide and if any friends see me on here I guess they are on here for the same reason as me, so all's cool. "

This !

Im not ashamed.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

Very similar to this

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

All lovely fabsters.... this is not about living the life style without shame... this is about internet security. Please do not feel you are ok, because people can steal your pics and you will be fine because you have nothing to hide. This os a much bigger issue. A well meant word of advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority. "

Neither do I.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority. "
Tbh it is not the graphic pictures that are the problem - it is more about somebody cloning your face picture and using it for a fake ID, that being just one example. The main issue is to be extremely cautious with your online footprint. It really is a nasty world out there.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

Neither do I."

Nor me, that's why I feel comfortable showing my face in public pics... sometimes

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

Neither do I.

Nor me, that's why I feel comfortable showing my face in public pics... sometimes"

I still don't

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

Neither do I.

Nor me, that's why I feel comfortable showing my face in public pics... sometimes

I still don't

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I have on occasion put my face pics to pubic for limited periods and have no problem sharing privately but wouldn't

be comfortable leaving it public permanently for fear of repercussions if it were seen by the wrong people

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I have on occasion put my face pics to pubic for limited periods and have no problem sharing privately but wouldn't

be comfortable leaving it public permanently for fear of repercussions if it were seen by the wrong people "

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

I've enough trouble with my ugly body, why make it worse by showing my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ain't never happening on public and rarely on private.

Sadly we still live in a world where a recognisable sexually active woman could be the talk of the playground at best, and lose her job (or more) at worst.

exactly. I’d never put my life at risk for my sexual behaviour. I don’t even have face photos in friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority. Tbh it is not the graphic pictures that are the problem - it is more about somebody cloning your face picture and using it for a fake ID, that being just one example. The main issue is to be extremely cautious with your online footprint. It really is a nasty world out there."

You're right about the online foot and how it can be used there's always that happy inbetween as you and many others have done with the partial and side on views shows more than enough to show what someone looks like but not to much so it can used against you

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

and what is worse, you only realise this whenyou have been cloned/ ID robbed etc

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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"I never used to show my face, but I actually enjoy the freedom too OP!

Plus it makes it easier for those whom I have met at the club to know it’s the right profile

And what a pretty face it is

That’s how you know I’m a good barman, I make myself appear better looking to everyone through booze haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have on occasion put my face pics to pubic for limited periods and have no problem sharing privately but wouldn't

be comfortable leaving it public permanently for fear of repercussions if it were seen by the wrong people "

I’m exactly the same

. I’ve had someone see me on here who knows my kids dad which led to all kinds of things. He wasn’t having a go at me as he knows I have my own life but he was more worried about our teenage kids finding out and being given Grief!! Which I agreed with

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

Neither do I.

Nor me, that's why I feel comfortable showing my face in public pics... sometimes

I still don't

No-one should do anything they're not comfortable with, plus you know which is my favourite pic of yours anyway

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I get blocked when I send my face with a first message. I wouldn't have anyone to chat to if the forum blocked me en masse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But how many people have Facebook accounts etc. If people are going to take your identity there are various avenues to do so. But yes it is obviously a potential risk.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I simply don’t post graphic pics. It’s really not my thing anyway, although I know I might be in the minority.

Neither do I.

Nor me, that's why I feel comfortable showing my face in public pics... sometimes

I still don't

No-one should do anything they're not comfortable with, plus you know which is my favourite pic of yours anyway

Do I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always exchange face pictures before agreeing to a meet but I don't display them publicly.

I have a job that could become a pain in the arse and a life away from the site - although I do always think fair play to those who are more public and I suppose it's personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and what is worse, you only realise this whenyou have been cloned/ ID robbed etc"

fortunately I've never been in that position and feel for anyone who has, as long as people keep making others aware of it and thinking of new way to keep everyone safe while still having fun that's the main thing

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Partial currently on my avatar

Full face - selectively for FPF only

You have a lovely face.

Awe thanks Lorna x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But they could do that via Facebook, Instagram, other online dating sites, all the millions of places are faces are these days....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only show the best parts of me!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I only show the best parts of me!"

The best of most is inside and no photo detects that

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Always face pics. People are bloody welcome to my identity; good luck with that hot mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, Mrs. is quite high up in the company she works for and we wouldn't run the risk of discovery of our pastime and her probable dismissal at that discovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Always face pics. People are bloody welcome to my identity; good luck with that hot mess

"
Of course, people can do what they want and in fairness, attackers tend to go for low hanging fruit.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"No, Mrs. is quite high up in the company she works for and we wouldn't run the risk of discovery of our pastime and her probable dismissal at that discovery."
Agree, that is another part of having a clearly identifiable face picture on public display. As you cannot completely eliminate risk, it is part of risk management.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’d love them to try and make a fake if out of my face pic and what whole face they come up with.

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

Happy to send in first message if I feel the profile is genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's on there for all to see

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By *piritualSFCMan
over a year ago

london

Beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one on friends only but honestly feel really self conscious about it because I look manly. I just have it up because apparently it's better for getting people interested or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pictures on mine.

Never really understood why people want to hide their faces, we're all here for the same thing, and I don't buy the argument about not displaying because of a job - after all, if anyone recognises you, they'd be outing themselves if they mentioned it to anyone

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not ashamed or embarrassed with my face but it would not be acceptable to advertise being on here due to my job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do put face pics up at the moment because it’s ok for for me to do so. I can’t with my partner because of his job. However, there are times I like to just put body shots up too x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have face pictures on mine.

At my work, and many other workplaces, we have the ability to report misconduct anonymously, therefore nobody would need to out themselves. And some people are just that vindictive.

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Doesn’t bother me to show my mush!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

Because I have teenagers and if there friends found out they’d be mortified

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I have face pictures on mine.

Because I have teenagers and if there friends found out they’d be mortified "

I think this is what it comes down to for most people. It's not about hiding from the world, just a select few people that it's best they don't know for whatever reasons.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its not something i would do

However if someone wants to show a face it makes a refreshing change.

Especially if they have messaged ,cuts out the need to ask and sways my decision to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

Because I have teenagers and if there friends found out they’d be mortified

I think this is what it comes down to for most people. It's not about hiding from the world, just a select few people that it's best they don't know for whatever reasons."

I put mine on occasionally but only when I’m online and not for long. But my reasoning is as I said I value my children not being ridiculed as their mums on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine tends to scare people, so I keep it hidden as much as I can.

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By *ecorating GiggloMan
over a year ago

carnforth

I show my true self .

1 I’m not ashamed

2 being single male looking for sex and no bullshit and no ties to explore more fantasies and experiences.

3 no lady is gonna look twice at a photo of just a dick on show and from a single man usually means cheating married or fake I’d say from chatting with others. It shows who they are meeting without disappointment. Those who are looking for that face will come seek that face if they’re there fancy. I Keep my cock pics for friends or show only when chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do."

I would be removed from my professional register should it be brought to their attention I was on this site, which is why I was so upset when one of my face photos appeared as my avatar yesterday during the glitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

Oh my lord really! That’s awful. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?"

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public. "

Is there a thread from Admin?

That's really serious.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public.

Is there a thread from Admin?

That's really serious.

Wait a fucking minute !! I missed sophee's face ???

FFS!!! Why no one texted me !

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public.

Is there a thread from Admin?

That's really serious.

Part of the glitch was also that if you clicked on a profile you saw the wrong one, eg if I clicked on yours I might see mine instead. There was an update and thread about that, but no mention of the private pics thing. I'm taking that part on word of mouth as a few people have mentioned that it happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

All mine have gone, deleted. Face never to be seen on fab ever again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public.

Is there a thread from Admin?

That's really serious.

Thanks for the info, I hadn't read about it.

This is exactly why many people won't photo verify. Private pics being made public. 'Accidentally' or via a site being hacked.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have face pictures on mine.

You are very wrong. I would lose my job without a doubt. You should not make those comments without knowing what folk do.

What glitch?

There was a glitch that put some peoples private pics to public.

Is there a thread from Admin?

That's really serious.

Thanks for the info, I hadn't read about it.

This is exactly why many people won't photo verify. Private pics being made public. 'Accidentally' or via a site being hacked."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private but will share when chatting to potential meets...got to be mutual attraction for all concerned.

Gives the other person a chance to run for hills in horror once they see our mug shots...

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"How does everyone feel about having their face pics on their profile?

Personally, I find it liberating! It's kind of free just being me

Though I totally get those who prefer to remain intriguing or positively private.

Asking for some friends?

Yes for special occasions but generally nope.

I'm not ashamed but some guys think BC they've seen your pic of that it gives them an "in" if they

Happen to o meet you in public. Not pleasant.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Due to work it's tricky to have a face pic of us both.

I don't really care if people see my face or not what we do in our spare time has sweet fuck all to do with my abilities to do my job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to work it's tricky to have a face pic of us both.

I don't really care if people see my face or not what we do in our spare time has sweet fuck all to do with my abilities to do my job."

Your first sentence kind of contradicts your second.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

"Is it my real face that I'm showing ? Underneath the makeup and wig ....The Horror the horror (extra points if you get the film reference

)

The Apocalypse, are you one of the 7 horses?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Is it my real face that I'm showing ? Underneath the makeup and wig ....The Horror the horror (extra points if you get the film reference

)

The Apocalypse, are you one of the 7 horses?"

Apocalypse Now, actually

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"Due to work it's tricky to have a face pic of us both.

I don't really care if people see my face or not what we do in our spare time has sweet fuck all to do with my abilities to do my job.

Your first sentence kind of contradicts your second.

It makes sense, personally the poster doesn't care if people see their face and doesn't affect their ability to do their job.

But employers may not look kindly on their private lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to work it's tricky to have a face pic of us both.

I don't really care if people see my face or not what we do in our spare time has sweet fuck all to do with my abilities to do my job.

Your first sentence kind of contradicts your second.

It makes sense, personally the poster doesn't care if people see their face and doesn't affect their ability to do their job.

But employers may not look kindly on their private lives."

Sorry I meant yhe bit saying it’s tricky having a pic on of both faces but then goes on to say I don’t really care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42.

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