FabSwingers.com forum: Not good enough..

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

All the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Yes, all the time!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Yup...

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yup...

But what right minded person would reject yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, one persons poison is another’s medicine.

You just never know.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in a sense 'not good enough'. More of a: 'I don't seem to fit their needs'. And it's best to move on.

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Yep all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Often.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

Your welcome Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*"

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

Your welcome Sarah

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Now I do, I used to just mail but after about 100 non responsive texts or blocked I learned the hard way ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Roll them back at him, he may need them later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah only because I rarely send the first message

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. Normally based off a height/ cock/ body type requirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often yes, when someone lists a huge amount of must be this, can’t do that etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death."

I’ve not seen it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Who's Jim

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Roll them back at him, he may need them later "

Nah fuck it. I could claim disability if I was blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Yeah all the time. I'm just not good enough. x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yep!

My fragile ego, can't take the knock backs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death."

Love it stud

you can have it anytime

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

I’ve not seen it

I have, many times, over a period of months. I just never found it that amusing. Perhaps it's just jealousy as what ever they are doing seems to be working for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if their profile says they are looking for something I’m not.

Why wouldn’t I message someone who might be out of my league.... the worst that’s going to happen is they don’t read my message or they do and then delete it.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

Love it stud

you can have it anytime

Cool, can it be stored and consumed at a later date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

I’ve not seen it

I have, many times, over a period of months. I just never found it that amusing. Perhaps it's just jealousy as what ever they are doing seems to be working for them.

Try it grasshopper, you’ll be knee deep in fanny in no time at all. You’ll be secretly laughing inside then.

You can thank me later

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By *atford69Man
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes!

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

I’ve not seen it

I have, many times, over a period of months. I just never found it that amusing. Perhaps it's just jealousy as what ever they are doing seems to be working for them.

Try it grasshopper, you’ll be knee deep in fanny in no time at all. You’ll be secretly laughing inside then.

You can thank me later

I shall have to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

I’ve not seen it

I have, many times, over a period of months. I just never found it that amusing. Perhaps it's just jealousy as what ever they are doing seems to be working for them.

Try it grasshopper, you’ll be knee deep in fanny in no time at all. You’ll be secretly laughing inside then.

You can thank me later

What are you 2 on about, I’m most confused now

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Well said Jim

*rolls eyes*

Who, what, when ,where and why are you rolling your eyes at?

Jim is it?

That they dont deserve his cock

About 5mins ago

Top deck of my bus home going through Castle Bromwich

I know it's a joke but I just think it's been done to death.

I’ve not seen it

I have, many times, over a period of months. I just never found it that amusing. Perhaps it's just jealousy as what ever they are doing seems to be working for them.

Try it grasshopper, you’ll be knee deep in fanny in no time at all. You’ll be secretly laughing inside then.

You can thank me later

What are you 2 on about, I’m most confused now

Saying "they/you cant have my penis"

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Sometimes I have yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yeah. I'm just toooo fugly and fat.

*I don't. I like Virtue's post about not fitting what they are looking for, it's a good way of looking at it. Not that I'm actively looking by any stretch of the imagination.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Not in a sense 'not good enough'. More of a: 'I don't seem to fit their needs'. And it's best to move on. "

Yes, this

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Only if they specifically say no fat women or no women with pubic hair. Or no women over 6ft.

Otherwise i’m game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Sometimes yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message first. If I'm their type, they usually message me

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't believe you can tell from looking at a profile. The only people "not good enough" for me are those who lack manners and morals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Often."

Boldy, don't think that!! Just message me!! Lol!! As if? Xxx

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By *oxy femaleWoman
over a year ago

North (NC500) Northeast of Inverness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah. I'm just toooo fugly and fat.

*I don't. I like Virtue's post about not fitting what they are looking for, it's a good way of looking at it. Not that I'm actively looking by any stretch of the imagination."

Thanks. It's still a bit of a risky assumption though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im refusing to acknowledge f... & f.. comment, Meli.

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By *oxy femaleWoman
over a year ago

North (NC500) Northeast of Inverness

I do that too, I never message guys, but I always reply to messages I receive.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I think it’s the opposite for us guys on here and you know what happened to the cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aim high....

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

I do this

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

"Aim high...."

Yes bud I always do but never get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aim high...."

And shoot low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'd never think I'm not good enough for someone. What a horrible way to look at anybody. Especially yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'd never think I'm not good enough for someone. What a horrible way to look at anybody. Especially yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep!"

Really!!!!

Get messaging pal they'd be mad to turn you down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I wasn't good enough, as in too fat, too hairy, too this, not enough that. Then I woke the fuck up.

Of course I'm not gonna be right for everyone or those that catch my eye, much the same as delving deeper they won't all be right for me!

I'm fussy as fuck in my own way, and other people have the right to be too and not all fussiness is based on looks. It's not personal (well in some cases it is) it's merely life.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Im refusing to acknowledge f... & f.. comment, Meli.

Your comment was spot on though. I think that sometimes we focus on our negatives and are too hard on ourselves. Not being compatible with another doesn't make you not good enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im refusing to acknowledge f... & f.. comment, Meli.

Your comment was spot on though. I think that sometimes we focus on our negatives and are too hard on ourselves. Not being compatible with another doesn't make you not good enough."

Exactly!!

Listen to Marissa Peer. So simple yet so true.

We use the wrong language to ourselves so so often that we believe our own bullshit we create about ourselves. We far too often aren't our own friends.

If your friend said these things to you you would comfort them, use logic and kind words as that's what we believe, yet when it comes to ourselves we shut ourselves down.

Bad us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im refusing to acknowledge f... & f.. comment, Meli.

Your comment was spot on though. I think that sometimes we focus on our negatives and are too hard on ourselves. Not being compatible with another doesn't make you not good enough."

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I like the look of them I'll message them, nothing to lose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's i think always obvious that women are the first to say a guy isnt good enough yet will go out her way to say she has extra weight is a bbw, yet its always the men who isnt good enough for her, i dont have types so i dont reject women like that, classic double standard...dont judge me but ill judge you...lol

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By *ydeGloryHoleMan
over a year ago

Hyde

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Love it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"It's i think always obvious that women are the first to say a guy isnt good enough yet will go out her way to say she has extra weight is a bbw, yet its always the men who isnt good enough for her, i dont have types so i dont reject women like that, classic double standard...dont judge me but ill judge you...lol"

What?

I definitely need a drink

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By *ookMan
over a year ago

london

It’s about reading the profile... that’s the secret... read the profile... then send a wink lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I never get messages

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nope

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my head, just now, I will never be good enough for anybody. I've tried so hard to be a good, honest and caring human being. But it gets me nowhere. This year, on Fab, I've been associated with the most uncaring and lowest of life shit bags ever and my head has been fucked to the moon and back. I'm hoping the new year will lift my mood.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Yep!

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Yep, there are some ‘very’ hot couples on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!"

Chicken

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Can't say I do.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I think everyones out my league so I just message anyway

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"In my head, just now, I will never be good enough for anybody. I've tried so hard to be a good, honest and caring human being. But it gets me nowhere. This year, on Fab, I've been associated with the most uncaring and lowest of life shit bags ever and my head has been fucked to the moon and back. I'm hoping the new year will lift my mood. "

I hear you. Big hugs.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yepp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you. Big hugs. "

Well you're a sweetheart and I'd give you a big cuddle just now x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Nope. What’s the worst that could happen.

I send a message that I hope shows I fit their needs. Bust out my best pics and hit send then delete.

If you take a risk your odds improve.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious. "

Not since I learned a very tough lesson 30 plus years ago

Ever since then if I like someone I'll let them know using the philosophy "what's the worst that can happen" Vs "what you might miss out on"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

I’m teasing ya fella

I salute you

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

I’m teasing ya fella

I salute you "

And I'm takin the mick

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"I don’t message cause they don’t deserve my cock

Ha ha class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

I’m teasing ya fella

I salute you

And I'm takin the mick

love it

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By *amille66Woman
over a year ago

Gerrards Cross London

Of course

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hear you. Big hugs.

Well you're a sweetheart and I'd give you a big cuddle just now x"

Likewise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My results on here say I don’t fit the criteria of the vast majority, but I know my worth

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Yes I do... But having met some gorgeous people in person first on a social and gotten on really well... I would never have thought they would be interested... So.. Try not to judge myself too harshly x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes often.

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm freaking amazing. I don't need to message as my milkshake brings all the girls to my yard

True story

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"Hello. Do you read a profile, look at the pics, and not message the person, because you think to yaself, no way would they meet me?.

Curious.

Yep!

Chicken

I'm blocked anyway

I’m teasing ya fella

I salute you

And I'm takin the mick

love it

(_Y_)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everything is temporary.. this feeling hopefully too..x

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

All the time. But it's their loss. They don't know what they're missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everything is temporary.. this feeling hopefully too..x"

Yep, New Year, new friends, new hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope who knows what they like other than their preferences

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

No.

If we're interested, we'll say. And then it's upto them. If we're not what they want, that's fine and we wish them the best and move on.

If we are.. then we chat from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time, I feel a bit down the food chain on here it’s probably no good for my confidence hahaa

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