FabSwingers.com forum: Past FWB gets in touch

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Back in early 2015 my long term relationship broke down and after picking myself up I began to enjoy life again. Randomly I posted something on social media and an old female friend replied to it and then private messaged me just to see how life was. We hadn't spoke in about 5 years so it was good catching up over a few messages. I always thought she was pretty hot but nothing ever happened between us. Until now.

She said it'd be great to meet up for a drink so we did just that a few days later. We had a few drinks. I told her I had split with my ex and she told me she has split with hers not too long ago either. We laughed and joked and generally had a great evening. I walked her back to hers and we had a kiss but that was it. To be honest I didn't think more of it and I flagged a cab down from just off the high street and went home.

The next morning she messaged to say she had a great evening and was great to catch up. She then sent another message straight after asking if I wanted more to happen. I replied with something along the lines of "Yes possibly but we had a great evening and I didn't want to spoil the vibe. I'm guessing you wanted something to happen too?" We exchanged a couple of messages and she invited me over that evening. We had sex all evening and it was amazing. Strictly NSA. We continued this for about a year. The sex got better better. Every now and again while we would be having sex she'd say that even if she met someone else in the future she'd still want to fuck me regularly. Wow, that's a compliment i

I thought but I also thought she was caught up in the moment and didn't really question it. She said this a number of times. Then one day we spoke and both decided we wanted to meet someone to start a new relationship and started dating again. She met someone after about 6 months (this would bring us towards the end of 2016). Naturally we lost contact and from the last thing I heard (it was on her social media) she and her new fella had a kid and got married last year.

Now...no more than a month ago she must have seen me online and sent me a message. We exchanged some small talk and mentioned how she missed our chats etc. She then messaged me to say she's not forgotten what she used to say if she met someone else she'd still want to meet up with me for regular sex. Now as flattering as that is, she's married and has a kid!!! The horny bugger in me says do it but morals kick in and say no. I've made a joke of it said she should have thought about that before tying the knot. Now it's not my place to ask her how her relationship is but if she's going through a bad patch then the last thing she needs is confusion. Her fella works away a lot. She has a very big sex drive, maybe she's a woman with needs.

I'm sure this thread will divide opinions so bring it on guys. I'm thick skinned lol. Advice and thoughts please.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

It depends on lots of things but if you want to go for it.

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By *lack UhuruMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Is it sex with you or a relationship with you?

I'm not one for breaking up relationships but ultimately the decision is yours.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it sex with you or a relationship with you?

I'm not one for breaking up relationships but ultimately the decision is yours."

It's just sex she wants. I'm not for breaking up relationships either. It's a sticky one (no pun intended).

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

You do you but as an outsider looking in she's looking to pick you up again after she cast you off when she was in a happy place.

She broke her promise and is now trying to use it as a shoe in.

If you go back keep it in the bad of your mind that once she finds better she'll be gone again.

I don't mean to sound harsh but it is as is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You do you but as an outsider looking in she's looking to pick you up again after she cast you off when she was in a happy place.

She broke her promise and is now trying to use it as a shoe in.

If you go back keep it in the bad of your mind that once she finds better she'll be gone again.

I don't mean to sound harsh but it is as is

I get that completely and thanks for the honesty

I mean the sex was amazing and that's all it'll be and I'm more than ok with that. But there's that niggling thing at the back of my mind...I don't want me to be the excuse of her marriage failing, if it gets to that. All people need nowadays is a scapegoat.

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