FabSwingers.com forum: 2019

By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Sorry for your losses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A true rollercoaster. Roll on 2020.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Sorry for your losses

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories."

I am so sorry about your losses

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By * Star FilthMan
over a year ago

staplehurst

"A true rollercoaster. Roll on 2020. "

Know the feeling

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sorry for your losses

For me it’s been a stressful one and looking forward to the end of the year and shedding the biggest one.

On the plus I’ve met some great new people and made a couple of true friends.

I’m ready for 2020 and see where it leads

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Sorry for your losses OP

This year has been life changing for me. Each day is a challenge, but a life I didn’t expect to achieve. It will go down as one hell of a journey x

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Sorry for your losses OP

This year has been life changing for me. Each day is a challenge, but a life I didn’t expect to achieve. It will go down as one hell of a journey x"

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't the circumstances of the losses relating to the op, but it's sometimes when things in life are at their very worse, we as humans pull together to be the very best we can be when in times of need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh when you can really think of a pinnacle of your own for 2019, I try to think of someone who has....

Lewis Hamilton 6th WDC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories."

Oh my, I could of written this myself. It's been one of extremes. I lost my father-in-law a few months ago, 5 weeks before I married his daughter. You can imagine the mixed emotions at the wedding, as he should of been next to her.

Also lost a fantastic neighbour and fellow biker.

It's one I shall remember, for good and bad.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Ups and downs. But I'm stronger for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of a conclusion, like a final episode, on a couple of aspects with great personal change. I'm in a good place with lots of ideas and wishes ahead to enjoy, life is always a scary bitch but when you're still breathing at the end of each day it can be so rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A bit of a conclusion, like a final episode, on a couple of aspects with great personal change. I'm in a good place with lots of ideas and wishes ahead to enjoy, life is always a scary bitch but when you're still breathing at the end of each day it can be so rewarding

I sound like mystic fucking meg ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 has been very turbulent for me. Had a couple of highs but mainly lows.

But, I've come out stronger than I went in, and I'm going to make 2020 my bitch

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'm usually positive in these types of threads. Even though events have been nowhere near as bad as the OP's it's been the worst and most stressful year I've had in a while.

Work, family and financial issues have been difficult. My best moment is England winning the Cricket World Cup , not much else to celebrate I'm afraid.

I will do my best to make sure 2020 is much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bearing in mind the posts above, I feel almost guilty saying this - I've had a fantastic year, apart from I'm really missing home and cats. I've done good business in many countries, bought a new house and gave away my youngest sister at her wedding to a really nice guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bearing in mind the posts above, I feel almost guilty saying this - I've had a fantastic year, apart from I'm really missing home and cats. I've done good business in many countries, bought a new house and gave away my youngest sister at her wedding to a really nice guy."

Never feel guilty for enjoying life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember not to tell your sister I'm on here please

Thanks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Sorry for your losses, OP.

On the whole, this year has been a good one in many ways.

My work has been rewarding this year. The teenagers have been fantastic fun. My brain has been mostly good and my physical health has settled to a steady state for now. I finally managed to make it to the MLS. I even managed to have sex seven times this year.

The year isn't over but I'm hopeful that I will end it with a bang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019, wow. Full of ups and downs. My downs have not been as low as the OP has gone through, i am sorry for your losses.

But 2020 is going to be my year. I am going to mingle, i am going to put myself out there. I will go to socials, i will meet people. Come on 2020 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember not to tell your sister I'm on here please

Thanks "

Will do - she would be so shocked you've turned white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember not to tell your sister I'm on here please

Thanks

Will do - she would be so shocked you've turned white

This place really does change a man

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Sorry for your losses OP

This year has been life changing for me. Each day is a challenge, but a life I didn’t expect to achieve. It will go down as one hell of a journey x

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true."

It really is.. just takes a while to believe it sometimes. Ending the year with a smile x

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Don’t feel guilty, it’s great to hear good news it helps negate the bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear of your sad year OP x

Tbh every single 52 years of my life have been eventful learning curves and every year I come out a better person regardless of what life has throw at me! This year though is end of an era ... and now am looking forward, with abandoned excitement, to the next few years of change, hardwork and adventure! Enjoy every day because they're denied to many ...

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Sorry to hear of your sad year OP x

We intend to and we have plans to ensure the rest of the year gets back on track.

Have cut all ties with the family members that drag us down so it’s onwards and upwards from now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A solid six out of ten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proper shite

Been thru hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry to hear it has been a bad year and I really hope 2020 is a much better time for you.

I've had an OK 2019. I became a mama at the end of last year so this year has been a huge change for me and I'm struggling with my mental health... but I have an amazing daughter (WHO IS FINALLY STARTING TO SLEEP IN HER OWN COT) and a fabulous partner to help me realise the days aren't as bad as they sometimes seem. I am hoping for more sleep and good health in 2020

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I'm sorry to hear it has been a bad year and I really hope 2020 is a much better time for you.

Fingers crossed for you, focus on what makes you happy and enjoy what makes you feel good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My most successful year so far in my attempt to become the worlds oldest man

... other than that a year of ups and downs but with no serious mishaps which is a definite bonus at this age.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"My most successful year so far in my attempt to become the worlds oldest man

... other than that a year of ups and downs but with no serious mishaps which is a definite bonus at this age."

Lol, we are both older than you.

Allegedly, 50 is the new 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had the best year ever!

Iv met the love of my life and been on a plane for the first time. What more could a girl want.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Iv had the best year ever!

Iv met the love of my life and been on a plane for the first time. What more could a girl want.

Le Boutains and a new handbag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Iv had the best year ever!

Iv met the love of my life and been on a plane for the first time. What more could a girl want.

Le Boutains and a new handbag

Oh yes that to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a word, shite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word, shite."

Well I reckon 2020 is your year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My most successful year so far in my attempt to become the worlds oldest man

... other than that a year of ups and downs but with no serious mishaps which is a definite bonus at this age.

Lol, we are both older than you.

Allegedly, 50 is the new 40

Seriously; enjoying life and looking forward to the next phase and the next challenges. Just wish it would slow down a bit. Millennium bug 20 years ago???

You look fantastic by the way ... irrespective of age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word, shite.

Well I reckon 2020 is your year.

Here’s hoping x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word, shite.

Well I reckon 2020 is your year.

Here’s hoping x"

I hope its OUR year

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I thought that last year was rough, this year has been challenging in different ways. I'm sure I'm supposed to be writing some pseudo positive stuff about learning and growing but right now, I just wish the shite would stop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better than 2018,but given that 2018 was one of the worst three years of my life that's not saying a lot.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I was set free from a lifetime of sorrow, this gave me the confidence to spend the rest of this year finding my true self and doing what I wanted to do, some amazing special friends later and I am happier now than I've ever been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a word, shite.

Well I reckon 2020 is your year.

Here’s hoping x

I hope its OUR year

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Sorry for your loss OP, that was our 2018 with H losing both parents within seven months.

This year though, well we finally moved to Wales & ten months later still look out of our windows at the valley below & pinch ourselves to ensure it is real..

Less stress, less debt & more work for me here than back in Essex so 2019 so far has been ace!

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Sorry for your loss OP, that was our 2018 with H losing both parents within seven months.

This year though, well we finally moved to Wales & ten months later still look out of our windows at the valley below & pinch ourselves to ensure it is real..

Less stress, less debt & more work for me here than back in Essex so 2019 so far has been ace!

Good for you, I lost my gran and our poor dog.

Wouldn't have cared less if it had been my mom, cant stand her!

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

I shan’t miss it. Fingers crossed for 2020 (although I said the same last year

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's been alright. Some big changes coming up in 2020 though so that one could be amazing or awful.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"It's been alright. Some big changes coming up in 2020 though so that one could be amazing or awful. "

Good luck for the new year, hope it all goes to plan.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

2019 has been been on the whole been kind to me. Lost a friend along the way, but they will never be forgotten and made some new ones. So looking forward to 2020

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sorry for your losses OP.

It's been a mixed one for me, I lost a dear close friend towards the end of 2018 and my dad at the start of the year. What should have been an exciting wedding planning time was a bit... because of it.

I've met some truly incredible people that I'm so pleased to have as good friends. They've supported me and made me laugh and been there when I've cried and just been fucking epic. I've found my confidence in my career and I'm working towards something I didn't think I could achieve so young. It's so nice to be good at it and unashamedly so. I'm beginning to rediscover my sexuality after a less than pleasant experience and also finding my voice and expressing when I'm unhappy or when something doesn't sit right with me. And I love me most of the time.

So really the people have made it for me this year. Thank you if you're one of them. x

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's had it's ups and downs, but i've met some wonderful people and had some amazing times this year. Yes, there are some aspects that could be improved, but i'm grateful for the good things and fantastic people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to thank all the holes I have pounded senseless behind diverse supermarkets. I'd also like to thank people who are into bareback. And I'd finally like to thank Fabswinger for allowing to find women with lovely anus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll just be glad when its over

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I'll just be glad when its over"

As the saying goes.....tomorrow is another day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not great. In fact it’s been a tough decade.

Onwards and upwards as they say

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

As in the crying thread.

My mother is at peace after a horrendous time with dementia and Alzheimer’s.

I met a Brother I hadn’t seen for 20 years and we have reconnected.

My Brother brought a nephew into this world against all the odds.

I inherited a shedload of cash and I’m going to spend a month away in the sun to break up the winter.

All in all a mixed bag but I fed the positives out weight the negatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a bit shit if honest.

One struggle after another .

Lost my mum.

Had issues with my health and quite a scare.

Had difficulties at work.

Been broken into and burgled twice.

And if all that wasn't enough I've my heart broken repeatedly by the same person .

However in all of that I know I'm lucky. I have my wonderful son's who continue to amaze, inspire and make me proud every day.

And we are ending the year with a holiday to the Dominican Republic.

Here's hoping 2020 is easier and the happiest year yet for us all. Xx

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Thinking of you Mrs M x

It’s been a great year here in fab land, private life remains pretty unchanged, but I’m happy with that. I’ve just penned a note I’m sending to say ‘Thank you’ for the good times, to a very dear friend who’s gone vanilla. We remain the best of friends but no longer in the bedroom... I’m sad for me but I wanted to close that door by denoting what a great time I’ve had with him and wishing him well. He’s one in a million!

Life is good, just a tad quiet at present!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

after a few rotten years, (touch wood) 2019 has been unexpectedly good. Shit still happens, people still let you down, everything still costs more and takes longer. I'm still standing, taking the blows, giving them back when I have to and walking away when I think its the right thing to do.

https://youtu.be/xF8aIa3QOkU?t=47

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Thinking of you Mrs M x

Life is good, just a tad quiet at present! "

Hi DC

Thank you and hope 2020 brings new adventures for you.

Mark & Marie x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Thinking of you Mrs M x

Life is good, just a tad quiet at present!

Hi DC

Thank you and hope 2020 brings new adventures for you.

Mark & Marie x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019

Lost friends and dear family, it’s been a really rough year in cantab towers.

I’m not sure if it’s sad or a comfort but being part of this little community has helped. A general thank you for that!

This year has been a bit of a mulligan, so in the words of the immortal Del Boy

‘This time next year bruv we’ll be millionaires’

Much love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a year I’m looking forward to putting behind me, what was supposed to be a great year, turned out to be devastating personally....... 2020 has to be better from the off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's gone by so quick I barely noticed..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of you Mrs M x

Life is good, just a tad quiet at present! "

You should think about popping over to me in 2020!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Thinking of you Mrs M x

Life is good, just a tad quiet at present!

You should think about popping over to me in 2020!

Fab goes Irish!

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

I'll be happy to see the end of 2019. Its not been a good one. May 2020 be better!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories."

Sorry for your loss. So I looked after my brothers wife with terminal cancer, we lost her 2 months ago....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a year of nothing.

I achieved nothing.

Nothing changed.

Nothing happened.

Yawn

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"It's been a year of nothing.

I achieved nothing.

Nothing changed.

Nothing happened.

Yawn

But it didn’t get worse so that’s good....

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

It’s had it’s up and downs but along the way made new friends and re-established connections with old ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories."

It's been from near disability to near total ability. Amazing but quite hard to understand. So am pleasantly puzzled.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories.

Sorry for your loss. So I looked after my brothers wife with terminal cancer, we lost her 2 months ago....

This happened to my cousins wife.

She was 28 and left her husband and tiny daughter behind.

She is sorely missed

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Funny old year really but the positives outweigh any niggles. My youngest son is getting the help he needs and has come on so much in School and being discharged from SALT was a massive accomplishment for him, it makes my heart sing. My eldest is growing so much I fear he may be taller than me by the age of 10

On a personal level I still have my mum, I briefly dabbled with dating in the Summer and met a man who restored my faith in men, albeit we weren’t destined to be together long, he has renewed my hope in romance. I’ve also started studying again, which has been a bit daunting but so far so good.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

At one point I was told I may not see 2020 but fingers crossed I've overcome the worst xx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Pretty shit really. Dick diagnosed with cancer, daughter went missing and all round bollocks at work.

Otherwise look at the good things family, friends the hound.

Oh and some fantastic parties and fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say the latter part of 2018 to date has been overall, a tad on the shite side. It’s been a challenge at times to stay positive & focused on a daily basis.

I’m hoping 2020 onwards brings more joy!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories.

Sorry for your loss. So I looked after my brothers wife with terminal cancer, we lost her 2 months ago....

This happened to my cousins wife.

She was 28 and left her husband and tiny daughter behind.

She is sorely missed

So sorry, far too young...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As it’s coming to an end, how has 2019 been for you?

It’s been a bad one for us with lots of loss in the family but fingers crossed next year will be better.

One we won’t look back upon with fond memories."

Sorry for your losses. And yes hope 2020 is better for you. Have lost loved ones in the past and its difficult but I know it's a cliche but time is a great healer but only if its your time dont let anyone rush you in the grieving or remembering process ,but I found it does make you appreciate the ones around you more x

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I've also suffered losses like most of us have or will do but this year, 2019, its also a year I lost my job that I had had for 23 years. But has also been a real coming out for me year as a trans girl. Its a year that will live in my memory forever for lots of reasons xx

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

What a lovely change to hear from people who have been happy to post whether it’s been good or bad.

Thank you all for your kindness and also for sharing too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best year of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The craziest, busiest, most stressful but overall best year so far.

My daughter came a little early so we had her at the end of December, we’ve moved out of our first house and pulled out the rewards for buying something to do up and sell on.

Just a bit of a shit situation living out of suitcases with family while we wait for the new house to complete.

Big big plans for the new place, can’t wait to see what 2020 brings!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

So far it's been a festering pile of dog shit , but still 7 weeks left yet , so hope springs eternal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 has been by far my best year in a very long time. Left my old life behind in Norfolk, moved to North Yorkshire and met the man who is very quickly making me forget all the troubles of my past, to the point that I used to have to take my anxiety meds every day just to feel normal yet I haven't touched them for over 6 months now. I can't remember ever being this relaxed or happy before

Mrs xx

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The last year has been one of the best, mainly due to getting to know a wonderful woman from here. I have loved every minute we spent together. There is a chance that might come to an end, which while I will be sad, I will be incredibly thankful for.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"The last year has been one of the best, mainly due to getting to know a wonderful woman from here. I have loved every minute we spent together. There is a chance that might come to an end, which while I will be sad, I will be incredibly thankful for. "

Ah that is so nice. I am sure you will remain friends.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its really been a non eventful year nothing ecstatic has happened and nothing bad has happened

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Its really been a non eventful year nothing ecstatic has happened and nothing bad has happened"

Sometimes normality is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been good. I mean the end of 2018 was fucking horrific thanks to mental health issues which does mean that this year had quite a low benchmark but even so it's been good. But I'm the least crazy I've been for a long time, those things that normal people do like going out, socialising I'm doing again. I've been abroad 3 times, ran lots, seen some great gigs? got my fucked eye fixed so lots of good things. Most of all I've realised I've got a partner who wants to help me rather than punish me when I fuck up and that's pretty ace.

For those who've had shit years just remember it wont last and good times do come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been good. I mean the end of 2018 was fucking horrific thanks to mental health issues which does mean that this year had quite a low benchmark but even so it's been good. But I'm the least crazy I've been for a long time, those things that normal people do like going out, socialising I'm doing again. I've been abroad 3 times, ran lots, seen some great gigs? got my fucked eye fixed so lots of good things. Most of all I've realised I've got a partner who wants to help me rather than punish me when I fuck up and that's pretty ace.

For those who've had shit years just remember it wont last and good times do come back"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 has been utter shite for me. My health has been very worrying, my Special Aunt died, my beautiful dog died, pipes burst and caused flooding at home, my sewer blocked, the oven blew up, both cars broke down, I fell off my scooter and hurt my shoulder and my Fab life has been pretty awful.

Things can only get better.....

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Better than 2018 just, well until last Friday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been a year of nothing.

I achieved nothing.

Nothing changed.

Nothing happened.

Yawn

But it didn’t get worse so that’s good...."

Yes you're right

When I came back to my home town permanently in 2012 there has been nothing but heartache - my mum, sister and my niece passed away.

I think a bit of nothing instead of constant troubles is better x

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Better then the last few, now that things seem to be settling down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well I was hoping as I hit my 40s at the end of 2018, that this would be a turning year and things would start to look up, but it has been as dreadful as the past 5 years..

so 2020 really can't be much worse.. or probably better...

ye old pessimist

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"well I was hoping as I hit my 40s at the end of 2018, that this would be a turning year and things would start to look up, but it has been as dreadful as the past 5 years..

so 2020 really can't be much worse.. or probably better...

ye old pessimist"

Fingers crossed for you

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I can honestly say 2019 has been a great year for me/us - our best together as we started it as a married couple of 4 days.

After 3 years of doom & gloom it was very much needed.

Looking forward to seeing what 2020 brings

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2019 best yet!

Moved from Cario to a lovely 3 bed villa in

Sharm.

Made a commitment to my long term FWB.

Sorted out a Sponsorship for two very special little

people.

And finished work permanently.

Roll on 2020

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Just to add insult to this torrid year got a phone call yesterday to tell me my aunt had passed away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to add insult to this torrid year got a phone call yesterday to tell me my aunt had passed away

Hugs xxxxx

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true.]

Emotionally/psychologically yes. However, physically no. This year my immune system has taken a huge hit with two potentially fatal infections. A severe brain infection early in the year, and a recent infection that plonked me on the sepsis pathway. My stamina is very poor at present but hopeful that in 2020 I'll make great leaps and bounds, and resume my degree.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true.]

Having being rushed back into hospital with Sepsis myself last year, I can 100% agree with you on that.

Strange how they arent allowed to call it MRSA any longer without the risk of the trust being fined

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Sorry for your loss OP

For me 2019 has been a struggle with my weight...I finally joined SW and lost 2 stone...then the last 3 months it's been hard again to loose I've lost nothing and out on 7lb at one stage was 12.9 which for me was great back upto 13

must try harder hopefully 2020 will be my year to find a nice gent and loksr my final 2 stone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true.]

Having being rushed back into hospital with Sepsis myself last year, I can 100% agree with you on that.

Strange how they arent allowed to call it MRSA any longer without the risk of the trust being fined

The bacterium Staph A resistant to meticillin is a particular strain of bacteria (mrsa) and is usually a local infection (such as a wound) whereas sepsis can be caused by various bacteria that become systemic and present with certain symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What doesn’t kill you, makes you stronger.

Love that saying as it’s so true.]

Having being rushed back into hospital with Sepsis myself last year, I can 100% agree with you on that.

Strange how they arent allowed to call it MRSA any longer without the risk of the trust being fined

I should add that mrsa can lead to sepsis, it's just that the two are not synonymous.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Mine was post op infection was such a joy to be rushed back in with blue lights.

Luckily in the clear now and looking forward to a normal fit and healthy life again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m heartfelt sorry for others troubles.

Life eh ?

I’ve had my fair share of shitty years.

Abuse, bereavements, lies, letdowns, divorce, mistakes.... But this year has been different. My best in a long time.

A new home.

A new job.

New friends.

Continued admiration for my beautiful daughter.

Improvements in my social life and finally..... I’m happy. Content. More confident.

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By * and M looking OP Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"I’m heartfelt sorry for others troubles.

Life eh ?

I’ve had my fair share of shitty years.

Abuse, bereavements, lies, letdowns, divorce, mistakes.... But this year has been different. My best in a long time.

A new home.

A new job.

New friends.

Continued admiration for my beautiful daughter.

Improvements in my social life and finally..... I’m happy. Content. More confident. "

Another positive to outweigh the negatives.

It's great to hear and hope 2020 improves for us too

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m heartfelt sorry for others troubles.

Life eh ?

I’ve had my fair share of shitty years.

Abuse, bereavements, lies, letdowns, divorce, mistakes.... But this year has been different. My best in a long time.

A new home.

A new job.

New friends.

Continued admiration for my beautiful daughter.

Improvements in my social life and finally..... I’m happy. Content. More confident.

Another positive to outweigh the negatives.

It's great to hear and hope 2020 improves for us too

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