FabSwingers.com forum: How do people normally know you have a crush on them?

By *itty9899 OP Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I tell them.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can’t look at them. It’s like looking directly into the sun

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I pounce on them.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Online.. I tell them. Real world I’ll avoid them.

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By *urning the kinkMan
over a year ago

bristol

I dribble

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I exude unfriendliness, apparently.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I tell them on here.

I haven't encountered a situation away from fab where I've interacted with someone I fancy, for a very long time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life?

I blush like fuck when talking to them and can barely make eye contact. It’s awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i send them lilys.

never ends well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I tell them otherwise they probably wouldn’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I'm terrible at making it known.

On here I tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In between thrusts.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I tell them."

Same, I usually just say 'I have a major ladyboner for you'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If rather tell them face to face

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"i send them lilys.

never ends well"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go even more shy than normal

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I blush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In between thrusts. "

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I seduce them.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn in to Chandler bing

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

I act like a complete tool around them and struggle with eye contact...on here I say ooh you're a bit nice, can I sit on your face?

It's the equivalent of being a keyboard warrior...my balls are bigger here than in reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turn in to Chandler bing"

Or Chanandler Bong?

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

Blush horrifically and generally make a dick out of myself

Sad but true hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I act like a complete tool around them and struggle with eye contact...on here I say ooh you're a bit nice, can I sit on your face?

It's the equivalent of being a keyboard warrior...my balls are bigger here than in reality "

Damn. Why don't women ever ask me if they can sit on my face?

I suppose it comes with the territory of having a face for radio

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By *itty9899 OP Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Blush horrifically and generally make a dick out of myself

Sad but true hahahaha

That kinda cute.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really endearing if the lady gets all shy etc.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I seduce them.x"

Oh Mrs Robinson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Online.. I tell them. Real world I’ll avoid them."

I'm the same - that's probably why I live like a sexless nun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i let them out my van.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

On here I tell them in my roundabout way

Real life, it’s not something I say, normally end up mates before anything else

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Online.. I tell them. Real world I’ll avoid them.

I'm the same - that's probably why I live like a sexless nun "

You need a pilgrimage to hull. Lol

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I waffle absolute nonsense. On here and in real life. I get a bit nervous and talk my way through the nerves/to boring them.

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By *nerealman100Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

"In real life?

I blush like fuck when talking to them and can barely make eye contact. It’s awful!

You wasn't in Tesco by any chance today was you? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I approach them rubbing my thighs with drool dribbling down my chin. Obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I approach them rubbing my thighs with drool dribbling down my chin. Obvs."

Subtle af!

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By *nkedMilfWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

"Blush horrifically and generally make a dick out of myself

Sad but true hahahaha

That kinda cute.

Hahaha thanks, I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I approach them rubbing my thighs with drool dribbling down my chin. Obvs.

Subtle af!"

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Generally id have a red face. Hard to disguise

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Pull their pigtails and run away, hasn't changed since I was 8!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish, if they do, they'd just tell me, please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally they dont i'm basically just rubbish like that

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside

i throw them over my shoulder and take them home...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite shy around them and a bit nervous..usually end up saying something totally stupid then have to run away and hide as i then blush profusely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I either turn into a blustering bumbling buffoon or avoid them.

Online I tell them whilst being a blustering bumbling buffoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I approach them rubbing my thighs with drool dribbling down my chin. Obvs."

Like this

https://tenor.com/view/vic-reeves-shooting-stars-jordan-leg-rub-gif-14386891

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt outrageously with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a little shy and possibly talk nonsense, or laugh nervously

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By *xperimentalistMan
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Frantic fruitless fabbing of their pictures

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I blush, talk gibberish, waffle on, clumsy & make a twat of myself

Hmmmm.... Minus the blushing pretty standard behaviour whether I have a crush on someone or not

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By *eilde HoarWoman
over a year ago

In a wax coated bubble

I can't not touch them, lots of touch gestures as we chat

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I get very talkative but I feel like I make absolutely no sense. My heart starts racing and I blush.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I get very talkative but I feel like I make absolutely no sense. My heart starts racing and I blush.

So basically - you're a nervous wreck? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get quite shy around them and a bit nervous..usually end up saying something totally stupid then have to run away and hide as i then blush profusely

Me too, it's awful!!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I get very talkative but I feel like I make absolutely no sense. My heart starts racing and I blush.

So basically - you're a nervous wreck? Xx"

Yeah, that sums it up.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I get very talkative but I feel like I make absolutely no sense. My heart starts racing and I blush.

So basically - you're a nervous wreck? Xx

Yeah, that sums it up."

Well if I ever meet you I'll just come up and snog you.

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By *ark-Nat 2016Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Chinese burn , job done

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I will not normally say anything

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I will not normally say anything

So that's why you don't message me. Lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I will not normally say anything

So that's why you don't message me. Lol

I know right

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

They usually don't

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Real life I tend not to tell them and just go awkward around them or keep my silence and pretend it's not happening - but haven't been in that situation for a very long time.

On here I mostly get awkward and silly unless it's obvious it is reciprocated and naturally flows as part of a conversation.

Things like "I fancy you" threads help break the ice a little but even then I never quite know what to say or if someone sends me a message never quite know how to respond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I turn in to Chandler bing

Or Chanandler Bong? "

That's Miss Chanandler Bong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a text discussion just today about fancying ppl, with a girl I fancy the pants off. Apparently girls dont pick up on being told they're pretty or beautiful (something to do with girls special rules or some shiz). You have to actually say the F-word. So I'm gonna start saying I fancy you and see how that goes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same person checking your profile every hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I laugh too much and lose the ability to think and speak

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I laugh too much and lose the ability to think and speak

Sounds like me when I'm d*unk. Lol

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I had a text discussion just today about fancying ppl, with a girl I fancy the pants off. Apparently girls dont pick up on being told they're pretty or beautiful (something to do with girls special rules or some shiz). You have to actually say the F-word. So I'm gonna start saying I fancy you and see how that goes....

Or perhaps she just wanted you to say it and was being deliberately obtuse!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

I am not a twat to them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont lmao let's face it, fab isnt about getting a crush on someone that I found so far. Real life, nah keep it to myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or perhaps she just wanted you to say it and was being deliberately obtuse!"

Busted....

Fancy

You

Ok? Xx

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Or perhaps she just wanted you to say it and was being deliberately obtuse!

Busted....

Fancy

You

Ok? Xx"

Much better! Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Court case usually

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I chase with an hammer

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!"

He was actually running away from me...they cut that bit out of the film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!

He was actually running away from me...they cut that bit out of the film

Is there something you've not told me, because you look stunning and you seem kinda acceptably funny and smart....?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!

He was actually running away from me...they cut that bit out of the film

Is there something you've not told me, because you look stunning and you seem kinda acceptably funny and smart....?

Don't get all inquisitive now, i've just about lured you in with my false persona

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!

He was actually running away from me...they cut that bit out of the film

Is there something you've not told me, because you look stunning and you seem kinda acceptably funny and smart....?

Don't get all inquisitive now, i've just about lured you in with my false persona

I'm not scared of boob rollover,

its kinda hot ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go with completely over the top, in their face, obvious flirting - they either reciprocate ot get scared and run away

Run forrest, run......!

He was actually running away from me...they cut that bit out of the film

Is there something you've not told me, because you look stunning and you seem kinda acceptably funny and smart....?

Don't get all inquisitive now, i've just about lured you in with my false persona

I LOVE YOU WHITE LADY PERSON!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t look at them. It’s like looking directly into the sun"

Without reading anything else this is hands down the best comment because of your user name because it reminds me of this...

The Romance of the Sun and the Moon

The moon was alone one evening, shining in the midnight sky. Although she was surrounded by myriads of tiny, sparkly stars, she felt as if there was no one to understand her. She eagerly searched the skies for a friend, perhaps a meteor, with whom to discuss the joys and sorrows of her life. But there was nobody.

On the other side of the world, the sun yawned and awoke to shine his light upon the blue-green temples of God. He heard the call to worship, and saw the waves of people bowing and praying. He felt full of good will and charity towards the masses of God's servitors. Perhaps they were not holy, but at least they were faithful.

The moon stayed alone, suspended in the sky with none to touch her. A tiny star whispered to her of a great being, the sun, who brought joy and light to the world. She listened with interest, for it seemed that once, a long time ago, she had seen a being such as this. Beautiful as he was, the sun seemed always just beyond her reach. She would visit the places where he had been, and would always find that he had just left. Those who knew him spoke of his wonder and his glory, and she felt unworthy to be in his presence.

Now the sun was unaware of her yearning, for he was too busy making the crops grow and warming the world. Those who wished his light had only to look upward to heaven and he was there, beaming down upon them.

The moon continued to follow the sun, always coming nearer to him, always hearing that he had just left that portion of the sky, or was just over the next mountain range. Where before there was despair, now she was ever more hopeful, for she knew that she was approaching his presence.

She came closer and closer, until one glorious day came when she stood before him, naked and unafraid. The world looked up and saw only blackness - in the middle of the day. But the moon stood mid-way between the sun and the earth, and all of his glory was for her.

His light blotted out all of her loneliness, all of her pain, all of her past. She stood bathed in wonder before him, and his light filled her soul.

She passed away from him full of light and joy, and though his light was too bright to remember, it was also too powerful to forget. She was dizzy with wonder. As time passed, it seemed that she once had been a being full of light, yet it was so long ago…

Such is the soul of man, dear one. It yearns for the glorious light of Truth, which destroys all loneliness and memory. The many lives of man are as many times as the moon sees the sun - after each, nothing remains but a vague idea of a beauty once seen. And there is always the longing, and always the return.

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I don’t expect much, maybe abit more thought out in my actions.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

If they are straight, I ignore it and move on...and google hugh jackman's shirtless pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I become incapable of having an intelligent conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very open around them, I'll talk to them alot and show more emotion since I'm naturally very shy.

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

Sherborne

I shit my self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im getting all shy...

On here,tell them

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