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What did your previous partners always tell you to do more of?

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By *itty9899 OP   Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Be less agreeable.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Her usual comment was "man up"

I fucking hate that expression for so many reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be patient...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you please put more mustard on my sandwiches."

"Can you please listen when I'm talking to you"

I forgot the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop overthinking and smile more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose more weight

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Being more decisive

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

To like myself.

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

Stay awake at the wheel!

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Being more decisive "

I flippin tell you that!!

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By *ady23Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

Stop worrying and spend all your time with them. Asshole. We can't change who we are and family commitments.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Don’t wear that, cover up .... still do shoulders to ankles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tell her that i loved her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spend more time with him.

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

Earn more money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be less agreeable."
stop being so thick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be kinder to myself.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Do as I was told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno. I never listened to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drop dead mostly

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales


"Dunno. I never listened to them. "

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By *heeky WigglesMan
over a year ago

Hayling

Laundry / housework

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Cover up and wear polo necks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be patient... "

This and to just be less....me

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

Not quite more of.... but told by my husband..to stop kissing him and having sex with him ... it loses its meaning when done too often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One ex girlfriend wanted me to argue more. She actually said this.

I'm not argumentative, but she

was the kind of girl that could start an argument out of thin air.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Not quite more of.... but told by my husband..to stop kissing him and having sex with him ... it loses its meaning when done too often! "

Kiss me instead. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Earn more money.

Do everything around the home so she can sit on her arse in front of the TV.

This is why she is an ex.

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn the light off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite"

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London


"Her usual comment was "man up"

I fucking hate that expression for so many reasons"

Thats toxic

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now "

That sucks wish u wouldve reported her domestic abuse feel like guys dont get treated the same in this stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also - lose weight.

I did. For myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accept the fact he wasnt goin to leave the wife. As he wouldnt get to see his kids

. . . .

Roll on 10years . Hes divorced and doesnt have access to his kids . Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now

That sucks wish u wouldve reported her domestic abuse feel like guys dont get treated the same in this stuff"

So do I. But I believed her, every time she promised this was the last time. Never going to happen again. I ended up not see my daughter for over two years. Because the courts are so biased against men.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now

That sucks wish u wouldve reported her domestic abuse feel like guys dont get treated the same in this stuff

So do I. But I believed her, every time she promised this was the last time. Never going to happen again. I ended up not see my daughter for over two years. Because the courts are so biased against men. "

You can't blame the court cos they only judge based on the evidence they're given and with you never reporting her previous abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now

That sucks wish u wouldve reported her domestic abuse feel like guys dont get treated the same in this stuff

So do I. But I believed her, every time she promised this was the last time. Never going to happen again. I ended up not see my daughter for over two years. Because the courts are so biased against men.

You can't blame the court cos they only judge based on the evidence they're given and with you never reporting her previous abuse"

I witnessed it first hand. I was never believed.

My barrister said don’t say anything derogatory about her, because you will make her look like a victim and you will look like you are making things up to put her down. Of course you are correct. There was no evidence of her using me as a human punch bag. I just endured it until I snapped one day. I’m not proud of what I did.

I’ve never done anything like that before or since. I didn’t know I was capable of what I did.

Until you have been there yourself, it’s hard to explain. Something inside me just snapped. I couldn’t take it anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... what they wanted me to be

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By *ayjay218Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Come home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One ex girlfriend wanted me to argue more. She actually said this.

I'm not argumentative, but she

was the kind of girl that could start an argument out of thin air."

Do not know why this such a common game to play; mind games and gaslighting. That's what a relationship is all about. (Sarcasm).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be more cuddly. I'm pretty affectionate now though actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ex was domestic abuser domestic violence controller and to have no voice..

5 yrs free of his shite

Exactly the same as me. My ex girlfriend used to beat the hell out of me. Until one day I snapped. Guess who has a conviction for domestic violence now

That sucks wish u wouldve reported her domestic abuse feel like guys dont get treated the same in this stuff

So do I. But I believed her, every time she promised this was the last time. Never going to happen again. I ended up not see my daughter for over two years. Because the courts are so biased against men.

You can't blame the court cos they only judge based on the evidence they're given and with you never reporting her previous abuse

I witnessed it first hand. I was never believed.

My barrister said don’t say anything derogatory about her, because you will make her look like a victim and you will look like you are making things up to put her down. Of course you are correct. There was no evidence of her using me as a human punch bag. I just endured it until I snapped one day. I’m not proud of what I did.

I’ve never done anything like that before or since. I didn’t know I was capable of what I did.

Until you have been there yourself, it’s hard to explain. Something inside me just snapped. I couldn’t take it anymore.

"
fully sympathise I was in a mental and physical abusive relationship and no one believes you. When I walked away I was accused of all sorts and when going through the divorce I was advised to just agree to all the things she was saying despite them not being true as not to make it look vindictive or derogatory against her. There seems to be very little support for male victims of domestic abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also - lose weight.

I did. For myself. "
and you look fantastic x

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

F**k off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"F**k off "
his loss and did I mention I like kissing x

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….


"F**k off his loss and did I mention I like kissing x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"F**k off "

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Maturity. I was 16 at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work less

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

She always use to say take a gamble you only get one chance in life never have any regrets

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Never had a previous partner

D.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Anal

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