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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester

How important are they to you?!?

Do you message people who you think are ‘your kinda people’!?! Just to say hello and say something nice?

A couple of ladies on here have really made me smile today and it really reiterated how important friendship is here...

This applies to both sexes but I imagine the women chat more than the men! Guys is it something you’d like more of or not?!?

So are you up for friendship? Does it matter or not?

Feel free to drop your experience here and say hello to someone you just like as a person!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It matters very much to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It matters very much to me! "

Some of us have a private natter, don't we lady

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It matters very much to me!

Some of us have a private natter, don't we lady "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a few guys I talk to on here. I get on with them, would happily meet them for a juice or cola

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh yes i have an amazing friend I met from here and she is more important to me than any guy. I would love to have more fab lady friendships like that but I'm awkward to talk to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few, not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't join looking for gal pals

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"It matters very much to me! "

Love my male mates too but can’t beat a girly chat on here too (not that I’m girly at alllll)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like having a little tribe.

Sometimes a person just warms your soul. And you want to keep those close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes chat to dudes, but I don't see how it's any difference to real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never met a female off here socially, but chat to quite a few that was triggered by a forum posting

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"There’s a few guys I talk to on here. I get on with them, would happily meet them for a juice or cola "

That’s nice think guys find it slightly more awkward just having a chat than we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it’s great to have a friend that understands fab life. Even though I’m much older than her our friendship works so well as we’ve had similar life experiences. I know I can talk to her about anything and she doesn’t judge me. Same as her to me x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have a few, not many

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Do you drop messages if someone seems like your kinda mate?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've only had ever females who are in couples who actually want to chat to me further than one or two messages on here, maybe that will change after I've been to my first social...

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I sometimes chat to dudes, but I don't see how it's any difference to real life "

Some people are a bit wary of making friends.. I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love my female friends in here and chat very often with one in particular. She drives me crazy but is part of my life now. Always up for more

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I like having a little tribe.

Sometimes a person just warms your soul. And you want to keep those close. "

Ditto... *chest bump*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s a few guys I talk to on here. I get on with them, would happily meet them for a juice or cola

That’s nice think guys find it slightly more awkward just having a chat than we do. "

I’m quite comfortable talking to another man, even if he’s half naked in the picture I see of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love same sex friendships in swinging. I find it’s lovely to relate and laugh and I need more of it in my life. Obviously we have a couples account but would happily talk with other women on kik or wherever so Mr couldn’t peep our chatter lol - Mrs

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Yes, it’s great to have a friend that understands fab life. Even though I’m much older than her our friendship works so well as we’ve had similar life experiences. I know I can talk to her about anything and she doesn’t judge me. Same as her to me x "

Ah that’s lovely it’s a huge part of the place for me too x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I do message in an attempt to start a conversation - I've made some lovely friends through doing just that and talk to them daily, even if they're not using the site currently.

I do find it a bit awkward at times just saying hello, I think you're cool! People already form opinions of you before you've spoken and might think you're a right twat. I think that's my overthinking nature coming out though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get on better socially with guys anyway, not just on Fab but in my life in general. So there a few guys I chat to who I consider ‘mates’. And a couple of women but they’re more FWB

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I rarely talk to guys on here but there are a few that I can and do have a natter with on occasion. Friendships are important and are something that I didn't expect from fab.

In general I prefer the company of women anyway, simply because the competitive aspect of most male friendships wear me out. There are a few guys that I value and respect though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am often hesitant to message as I don’t want to make women feel like it’s Mr or us angling as a couple, just being friendly. Sometimes I do it anyway and am usually glad when I do - Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made lots of friends on the scene. We chat regular.it's nice to be nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do message in an attempt to start a conversation - I've made some lovely friends through doing just that and talk to them daily, even if they're not using the site currently.

I do find it a bit awkward at times just saying hello, I think you're cool! People already form opinions of you before you've spoken and might think you're a right twat. I think that's my overthinking nature coming out though. "

For what it’s worth, I think you’re cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do message in an attempt to start a conversation - I've made some lovely friends through doing just that and talk to them daily, even if they're not using the site currently.

I do find it a bit awkward at times just saying hello, I think you're cool! People already form opinions of you before you've spoken and might think you're a right twat. I think that's my overthinking nature coming out though. "

Nah, just do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love my female friends in here and chat very often with one in particular. She drives me crazy but is part of my life now. Always up for more "

You cant get rid of me ever...(not joking)

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oooh yes i have an amazing friend I met from here and she is more important to me than any guy. I would love to have more fab lady friendships like that but I'm awkward to talk to "

Sometimes it’s just breaking the ice and saying hi I love little catch ups and random chats. I’m hoping lots of others feel the same x

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I would have thought it’s more of a woman thing. It gets a bit daunting when a man with his willy out contacts you just to talk about the Spurs match.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

None really. Though I tend to get on better with women anyway in general. But I'll chat away to anyone.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’m a guys gal, always have been. I get on better with men (so long as i don’t fancy them else i turn shy) and chat to a a few men on Fab on a non sexual basis, fairly regularly . But i’m a solitary person and have only two close friends. I’m friendly (ish) but tend to keep folk at arms length.

I find it hard to make new friends (female or male) as i’m not very sociable as a rule, but have always found (in work settings etc) that women are quick to bitch and gossip. Men tend to be more upfront, and i prefer their matter of factness and as a hot head i like hearing things from a guys perspective.

So yes, guys rule for me in the friend department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a guys gal, always have been. I get on better with men (so long as i don’t fancy them else i turn shy) and chat to a a few men on Fab on a non sexual basis, fairly regularly . But i’m a solitary person and have only two close friends. I’m friendly (ish) but tend to keep folk at arms length.

I find it hard to make new friends (female or male) as i’m not very sociable as a rule, but have always found (in work settings etc) that women are quick to bitch and gossip. Men tend to be more upfront, and i prefer their matter of factness and as a hot head i like hearing things from a guys perspective.

So yes, guys rule for me in the friend department."

This explains quite well why i also get on better with men as friends

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I am often hesitant to message as I don’t want to make women feel like it’s Mr or us angling as a couple, just being friendly. Sometimes I do it anyway and am usually glad when I do - Mrs "

I’m a bit like that messaging couples sometimes! I just like saying hi and it’s good to just have that opportunity with people you see around that you admire the posts of...

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By *he-ProfessorMan
over a year ago

cheltenham


"There’s a few guys I talk to on here. I get on with them, would happily meet them for a juice or cola

That’s nice think guys find it slightly more awkward just having a chat than we do. "

Not necessarily, I chat to guys I know from the club scene reasonably often.

Not really any different from friends I've made in pubs & on vanilla nights out.

Equally I've lady friends on here I've never played with & ladies I chat to "in the real world" who I have played with outside of the scene.

For me the most important thing is being social, anything else comes afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to have banter with the lads and flanter with the ladies

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Had a few chat's with men, but none I would go so far as to say "mate's chat's" just general how you finding the forum's, car things really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love my female friends in here and chat very often with one in particular. She drives me crazy but is part of my life now. Always up for more

You cant get rid of me ever...(not joking)"

Yes people she’s my crazy one

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I do message in an attempt to start a conversation - I've made some lovely friends through doing just that and talk to them daily, even if they're not using the site currently.

I do find it a bit awkward at times just saying hello, I think you're cool! People already form opinions of you before you've spoken and might think you're a right twat. I think that's my overthinking nature coming out though. "

Ha ha yup.. me too.. I feel like a kid in a playground.. but I try and make the effort to just say hi when the opportunity arises.. it may come across weird but I try!

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Don't really chat in pvt with Men, Chat openly in the forums/chat rooms with anyone, I only chat with Men from couples I've met or if they are friends of said couples

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh I love my female friends in here and chat very often with one in particular. She drives me crazy but is part of my life now. Always up for more

You cant get rid of me ever...(not joking)

Yes people she’s my crazy one "

Ahhh cute! A lovely one too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to a few woman but I always find it hard to make friends.

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’m a guys gal, always have been. I get on better with men (so long as i don’t fancy them else i turn shy) and chat to a a few men on Fab on a non sexual basis, fairly regularly . But i’m a solitary person and have only two close friends. I’m friendly (ish) but tend to keep folk at arms length.

I find it hard to make new friends (female or male) as i’m not very sociable as a rule, but have always found (in work settings etc) that women are quick to bitch and gossip. Men tend to be more upfront, and i prefer their matter of factness and as a hot head i like hearing things from a guys perspective.

So yes, guys rule for me in the friend department.

This explains quite well why i also get on better with men as friends "

I always have great guy friends but have found lots of ace women on here that I can have a great crack with some proper diamonds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Through fab I have found the most incredible, kind, loving friends I could ever want. They are my sister's, my kin and I love them deeply The friendship we have is strong and honest and I hope is forever! Love you bird squad!

Peach x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I chat to a few woman but I always find it hard to make friends. "

You’re myyyyy friend x you’re so chatty and lovely! That really surprises me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few, not many

Do you drop messages if someone seems like your kinda mate? "

Not very often, no.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’m a guys gal, always have been. I get on better with men (so long as i don’t fancy them else i turn shy) and chat to a a few men on Fab on a non sexual basis, fairly regularly . But i’m a solitary person and have only two close friends. I’m friendly (ish) but tend to keep folk at arms length.

I find it hard to make new friends (female or male) as i’m not very sociable as a rule, but have always found (in work settings etc) that women are quick to bitch and gossip. Men tend to be more upfront, and i prefer their matter of factness and as a hot head i like hearing things from a guys perspective.

So yes, guys rule for me in the friend department."

I love a guys perspective on things too.. the more women I’ve chatted to the more I’ve found people who are very similar to me which has surprised me a lot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few, not many

Do you drop messages if someone seems like your kinda mate?

Not very often, no."

I’ll be your friend. Think of the wonderful debates we’d have before one of us killed the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a guys gal, always have been. I get on better with men (so long as i don’t fancy them else i turn shy) and chat to a a few men on Fab on a non sexual basis, fairly regularly . But i’m a solitary person and have only two close friends. I’m friendly (ish) but tend to keep folk at arms length.

I find it hard to make new friends (female or male) as i’m not very sociable as a rule, but have always found (in work settings etc) that women are quick to bitch and gossip. Men tend to be more upfront, and i prefer their matter of factness and as a hot head i like hearing things from a guys perspective.

So yes, guys rule for me in the friend department.

This explains quite well why i also get on better with men as friends

I always have great guy friends but have found lots of ace women on here that I can have a great crack with some proper diamonds x"

Aww I’m sure! Im quite new to the forums but I’m sure I will make a few if i stick around x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I would have thought it’s more of a woman thing. It gets a bit daunting when a man with his willy out contacts you just to talk about the Spurs match."

But if we have to talk to their bits, why can’t men talk to each other’s?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I chat to a few woman but I always find it hard to make friends.

You’re myyyyy friend x you’re so chatty and lovely! That really surprises me x"

I chat to a lot of people but even though I seem very outgoing I'm actually quite shy so I tend to over compensate by being overly chatty.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Through fab I have found the most incredible, kind, loving friends I could ever want. They are my sister's, my kin and I love them deeply The friendship we have is strong and honest and I hope is forever! Love you bird squad!

Peach x"

This is how I feel not fab friends... true friends that I happened to come across here!! X

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've made some great female friends on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Through fab I have found the most incredible, kind, loving friends I could ever want. They are my sister's, my kin and I love them deeply The friendship we have is strong and honest and I hope is forever! Love you bird squad!

Peach x

This is how I feel not fab friends... true friends that I happened to come across here!! X"

See this is what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few, not many

Do you drop messages if someone seems like your kinda mate?

Not very often, no.

I’ll be your friend. Think of the wonderful debates we’d have before one of us killed the other "

I thought we already were? Nothing ivd seen you write has made me feel like that yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like having a little tribe.

Sometimes a person just warms your soul. And you want to keep those close.

Ditto... *chest bump* "

Thanks. I was trying to forget that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m recently new here so seeing some of the blokes on here and thought yeah they seem like they have good craic and banter but not messaged case they took it wrong way some men can be weird like that doesn’t matter for me what pic they have up etc ain’t perving on them like we do the women’s but still yet to message a bloke like

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I do message in an attempt to start a conversation - I've made some lovely friends through doing just that and talk to them daily, even if they're not using the site currently.

I do find it a bit awkward at times just saying hello, I think you're cool! People already form opinions of you before you've spoken and might think you're a right twat. I think that's my overthinking nature coming out though.

For what it’s worth, I think you’re cool "

Thank you! That's made me smile.

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I don't make friends easily IRL in fact I've pretty much given up on the concept. Never thought of fab as a friend making place really.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I have chatted to both male and females privately..not much but enough to know that if i needed a chat then I could and would be welcome.

And its same for me my door is always open to anyone who just needs to talk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple of female friends from fab that I really value. I think you can never have too many real friends.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation "

Daft though isn’t it.. that’s like me not being mates with blokes in case they think I fancy them. Maybe sometimes we all overthink it x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"How important are they to you?!?

Do you message people who you think are ‘your kinda people’!?! Just to say hello and say something nice?

A couple of ladies on here have really made me smile today and it really reiterated how important friendship is here...

This applies to both sexes but I imagine the women chat more than the men! Guys is it something you’d like more of or not?!?

So are you up for friendship? Does it matter or not?

Feel free to drop your experience here and say hello to someone you just like as a person!

"

I drove to London at the weekend to spend time with some of the amazing friends I’ve made on here!

I’ve also got some platonic male friends who are fantastic too though!

It’s when I try to have a relationship that it all goes tits up - the friendships I’ve made are fantastic - both Male and female! Xx

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"I would have thought it’s more of a woman thing. It gets a bit daunting when a man with his willy out contacts you just to talk about the Spurs match.

But if we have to talk to their bits, why can’t men talk to each other’s?! "

Have you seen Spurs lately?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU HAVENT MENTIONED YOUR AMAZING BEST FRINED IN THIS!

And yes I am shouting

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I don't make friends easily IRL in fact I've pretty much given up on the concept. Never thought of fab as a friend making place really."

Nor did I and I don't make

friends that easily but there are some good folk around here.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’m recently new here so seeing some of the blokes on here and thought yeah they seem like they have good craic and banter but not messaged case they took it wrong way some men can be weird like that doesn’t matter for me what pic they have up etc ain’t perving on them like we do the women’s but still yet to message a bloke like "

Sometimes it’s as easy as commenting on the fact you like how someone posts.. I talk all kind of gibberish and I never ever talk sex here! Some great blokes here

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

I love reading the posts on here and often think, hell that's exactly what I thought when an interesting debate is going on.

I am newish to the forums myself but I would love to make some new friends male or female, nice to find like minded individuals.

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By *rixiepeepWoman
over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth

It matters to me would love a friend who I can share my swinging life with also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m recently new here so seeing some of the blokes on here and thought yeah they seem like they have good craic and banter but not messaged case they took it wrong way some men can be weird like that doesn’t matter for me what pic they have up etc ain’t perving on them like we do the women’s but still yet to message a bloke like

Sometimes it’s as easy as commenting on the fact you like how someone posts.. I talk all kind of gibberish and I never ever talk sex here! Some great blokes here "

I can talk the back legs of a donkey about anything and everything even tho I am shy haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

Daft though isn’t it.. that’s like me not being mates with blokes in case they think I fancy them. Maybe sometimes we all overthink it x"

Sometimes I wonder this too - if I message a woman just to chat platonically will she think I’m coming onto her because I’m bi... Which is daft really because my male friends on here don’t all assume I want to sleep with them (that I know of)

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I've made some amazing friends through fab, male and female.

Definitely friends for life...…

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It matters to me would love a friend who I can share my swinging life with also "

Same! I have loads of friends in my vanilla life but I’d love to have some ‘girl friends’ I could share this side of my life with!

Mrs B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say i have both. I get on better with lads but through swinging i have found the lassies have been great . So yeah we have now become a mixed matched jigsaw that all fit perfect together. Have great nights in or out and just have a good laugh . We have become so close that we are a family all be it we met on fab but have taken it to a personal level outwith .

So i hope you all find on fab the same as we did and have just as many laughs in life . X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’ve made a few great friendships via fab but a couple I chat with regularly and I value their friendship #youknowwhoyouare

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends. "

Defo!!! we all need friends and there are sooo many ace people on here! X

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

Daft though isn’t it.. that’s like me not being mates with blokes in case they think I fancy them. Maybe sometimes we all overthink it x

Sometimes I wonder this too - if I message a woman just to chat platonically will she think I’m coming onto her because I’m bi... Which is daft really because my male friends on here don’t all assume I want to sleep with them (that I know of) "

Totally!! Think I’ve more female than male friends here now and that’s not like me.. but it’s been ace just getting to know people and having the most random of chats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation "

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

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By *modDMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

I also think that women may be more likely to declare that they don’t have people to talk to whereas men, not so.

Of course, I could be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends.

Defo!!! we all need friends and there are sooo many ace people on here! X"

Yes but I seem to live in the arse end of nowhere. All the good people seem to be up north.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes I have a few special lady friends who I'm blessed to have in my life.

They are very important to me and although we don't speak daily I know they will be there should I need them. I hope they know I will always be here too.

I didn’t expect to meet such valuable friends on a here, but I'm so glad I have.

Thank you

Jo.Xx

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I’m recently new here so seeing some of the blokes on here and thought yeah they seem like they have good craic and banter but not messaged case they took it wrong way some men can be weird like that doesn’t matter for me what pic they have up etc ain’t perving on them like we do the women’s but still yet to message a bloke like

Sometimes it’s as easy as commenting on the fact you like how someone posts.. I talk all kind of gibberish and I never ever talk sex here! Some great blokes here

I can talk the back legs of a donkey about anything and everything even tho I am shy haha "

Get chatting!!! loads of us love a good natter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've messaged quite a few ladies just to say how lovely they are and have had quite a few chats with some women over dm with no sexual intentions. I've not made any strong friendships on here yet, but there's always time and I love me some girl power

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

"

But I don’t think this about straight men or bi women.. I’ll just say hello to anyone I like something about!

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By *rixiepeepWoman
over a year ago

over the hill / chatsworth

Well I would love to build up friendship male or female so lets chatxx

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By *rAitchMan
over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I have very few close friends, although I have lots of acquaintances. I feel more at ease with women.

I find this quite odd, as I talk for a living and for a hobby, as well as being in a band, so it's not as if I avoid mixing with others.

On here, I've had conversations with male and female, but only regarding forum topics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

But I don’t think this about straight men or bi women.. I’ll just say hello to anyone I like something about! "

But you are you and I am me

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I've messaged quite a few ladies just to say how lovely they are and have had quite a few chats with some women over dm with no sexual intentions. I've not made any strong friendships on here yet, but there's always time and I love me some girl power "

Defo!! I’m amazed at how many ace women I’ve got to really love through this place! Love a good natter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, I can talk to a lot of people and get on with them. I'm careful about who I'd describe as a friend though.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

But I don’t think this about straight men or bi women.. I’ll just say hello to anyone I like something about!

But you are you and I am me "

Totes... and I’m awkward as hell I kinda make my own fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Male friend, no. A couple of guys I hold in high regard but we don’t have the type of private intimate conversation I would have with someone I call a friend.

A couple of ladies on the other hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I never expected to make so many lovely friends on here and a couple of people who will certainly be friends for life. It’s been more of that than anything else really! Some serious strange people on here but some wonderful ones too x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I CANNOT BELIEVE YOU HAVENT MENTIONED YOUR AMAZING BEST FRINED IN THIS!

And yes I am shouting "

I KNOW!!! mad as a box of frogs but I adore you princess

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

"

I'm like that. I do wonder if straight guys just assume bi guys want to jump on them!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

I hold myself back a lot these days. Friendly to everyone but not necessarily open to more. Self preservation.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Yes I have a few special lady friends who I'm blessed to have in my life.

They are very important to me and although we don't speak daily I know they will be there should I need them. I hope they know I will always be here too.

I didn’t expect to meet such valuable friends on a here, but I'm so glad I have.

Thank you

Just adore you people like you two make this place really special x

Jo.Xx

"

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I’ve had more luck with male friends than female. I’ve made a couple of rock solid friendships with guys, but struggled with women I’m become close to and ended up getting hurt.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Definitely. I never expected to make so many lovely friends on here and a couple of people who will certainly be friends for life. It’s been more of that than anything else really! Some serious strange people on here but some wonderful ones too x"

Ha ha yup.. it’s quite a mix amazing when you find people on the same page though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll chat to anyone.

I don't go out of my way to message someone to ask how their day was, probably because I don't know anyone too well yet.

But I've had some interesting and fun conversations with people that use the forum. Men, women and couples.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I hold myself back a lot these days. Friendly to everyone but not necessarily open to more. Self preservation. "

That’s a shame probably something I could do with doing.. but I’m a sucker for chats and laughter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

I'm like that. I do wonder if straight guys just assume bi guys want to jump on them! "

I think you and I are quite alike in lots of ways. I've not experienced it at all though, most forum men are pretty pleasant if I do end up mailing them in private over a post. A few have even messaged me first, its probably all in our head?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I'd love some fab friendships, pun intended

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Well I would love to build up friendship male or female so lets chatxx"

Get chatting so many people just chat rubbish here.. it’s not all about sex!

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends.

Defo!!! we all need friends and there are sooo many ace people on here! X

Yes but I seem to live in the arse end of nowhere. All the good people seem to be up north. "

Northerners are pretty cool...

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I’ve had more luck with male friends than female. I’ve made a couple of rock solid friendships with guys, but struggled with women I’m become close to and ended up getting hurt. "

Yes, it's crappy when that happens. I've had it a couple of times but I don't close myself off to building more friendships (not that you have done, more it was a sort of instinctive reaction once upon a time).

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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I've had some nice chats with some lovely women, but I wouldn't say i've made any friendships yet. I do find it difficult to talk to women though, i've always had mainly male friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends.

Defo!!! we all need friends and there are sooo many ace people on here! X

Yes but I seem to live in the arse end of nowhere. All the good people seem to be up north.

Northerners are pretty cool... "

Well I'm actually a northern lass but I'm down south.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have to say i have both. I get on better with lads but through swinging i have found the lassies have been great . So yeah we have now become a mixed matched jigsaw that all fit perfect together. Have great nights in or out and just have a good laugh . We have become so close that we are a family all be it we met on fab but have taken it to a personal level outwith .

So i hope you all find on fab the same as we did and have just as many laughs in life . X"

Ahh that’s ace!! I think many underestimate how amazing the friendships can be here! X

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By *ants cockWoman
over a year ago

lincoln


"How important are they to you?!?

Do you message people who you think are ‘your kinda people’!?! Just to say hello and say something nice?

A couple of ladies on here have really made me smile today and it really reiterated how important friendship is here...

This applies to both sexes but I imagine the women chat more than the men! Guys is it something you’d like more of or not?!?

So are you up for friendship? Does it matter or not?

Feel free to drop your experience here and say hello to someone you just like as a person!

"

I wouldn’t of chatted and probably won’t chat to women on here. I did meet some at a group social though. For a woman it’s nice to have a local lady to talk to. So I will be keeping an eye out for the next social. As I’ve met some lovely ladies off here and had such a laugh. Sadly lost contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

"

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had some nice chats with some lovely women, but I wouldn't say i've made any friendships yet. I do find it difficult to talk to women though, i've always had mainly male friends "

Yes I’m the same. Most of mine are male friends apart from 2. I’ve always got on with men better.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I've had some nice chats with some lovely women, but I wouldn't say i've made any friendships yet. I do find it difficult to talk to women though, i've always had mainly male friends "

I’m similar.. but found the last 6 months that I’ve talked more to women than men. It’s been a real turning point and really added to the experience x

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I love reading the posts on here and often think, hell that's exactly what I thought when an interesting debate is going on.

I am newish to the forums myself but I would love to make some new friends male or female, nice to find like minded individuals."

I think we often stop ourselves from doing something so instinctive by overthinking! It’s nice to just message and say I like what you say.. even if it’s just one conversation it’s nice to break the ice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few male friends on here. And there were a bunch of us who kept threatening to meet up socially but it has never quite worked out.

I like having male friends to chat to about stuff.

However I chat to my female friends more.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"How important are they to you?!?

Do you message people who you think are ‘your kinda people’!?! Just to say hello and say something nice?

A couple of ladies on here have really made me smile today and it really reiterated how important friendship is here...

This applies to both sexes but I imagine the women chat more than the men! Guys is it something you’d like more of or not?!?

So are you up for friendship? Does it matter or not?

Feel free to drop your experience here and say hello to someone you just like as a person!

I drove to London at the weekend to spend time with some of the amazing friends I’ve made on here!

I’ve also got some platonic male friends who are fantastic too though!

It’s when I try to have a relationship that it all goes tits up - the friendships I’ve made are fantastic - both Male and female! Xx"

It’s defo something we all need! When stuff goes pear shaped it’s good to have people around who understand.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have a few male friends on here. And there were a bunch of us who kept threatening to meet up socially but it has never quite worked out.

I like having male friends to chat to about stuff.

However I chat to my female friends more."

I wonder why these things don’t happen.. I spend lots of time with my female mates!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly) "

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"How important are they to you?!?

Do you message people who you think are ‘your kinda people’!?! Just to say hello and say something nice?

A couple of ladies on here have really made me smile today and it really reiterated how important friendship is here...

This applies to both sexes but I imagine the women chat more than the men! Guys is it something you’d like more of or not?!?

So are you up for friendship? Does it matter or not?

Feel free to drop your experience here and say hello to someone you just like as a person!

I wouldn’t of chatted and probably won’t chat to women on here. I did meet some at a group social though. For a woman it’s nice to have a local lady to talk to. So I will be keeping an eye out for the next social. As I’ve met some lovely ladies off here and had such a laugh. Sadly lost contact "

Socials are such a great way of meeting up though I spend more time laughing with women than talking to men at those things! X

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I have some great friendships on here. Both same and opposite sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meli and DC mean the world to me. If I ever left fab, I would remain friends with them.

They’re stuck with me for life.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have some great friendships on here. Both same and opposite sex."

I think it adds a lot to the experience it’s the main reason I’m still here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south "

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Meli and DC mean the world to me. If I ever left fab, I would remain friends with them.

They’re stuck with me for life. "

Love it! it’s so good when you find your people!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward. "

As we the same person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few male friends on here. And there were a bunch of us who kept threatening to meet up socially but it has never quite worked out.

I like having male friends to chat to about stuff.

However I chat to my female friends more.

I wonder why these things don’t happen.. I spend lots of time with my female mates! "

I think it gets deprioritised especially when it involved considerable travelling for some. I think we were full of good intentions but don’t put sufficient priority on it.

It may well have been different if we’d met before, but stronger ties took precedence as well as work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meli and DC mean the world to me. If I ever left fab, I would remain friends with them.

They’re stuck with me for life.

Love it! it’s so good when you find your people! "

It really is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that it's really hard to make friends in life in general and especially as I'm about to make the big move it would be good to make some new friends.

Defo!!! we all need friends and there are sooo many ace people on here! X

Yes but I seem to live in the arse end of nowhere. All the good people seem to be up north.

Northerners are pretty cool... "

Agreed

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I have some great friendships on here. Both same and opposite sex.

I think it adds a lot to the experience it’s the main reason I’m still here x"

I'm always happy to have more friends. A lot of my closest local friends are people I know through clubs and the kink scene.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward. "

Haha ....... I can talk for England, drink vodka like water and seem to attract random strangers when out.... now you’ve been warned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

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over a year ago

I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward.

As we the same person? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I talk to a few women, one I’ve met and we just clicked and I know I can tell her anything, she will tell me how it is and by the end of it I’ll be laughing.... you know who you are and thank you

I’m looking forward to catching up with the others some point in the future, just a shame everyone lives so far away, the fab curse extends to friendships too

There are a couple of men I talk to and class them as friends more than anything

I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward.

Haha ....... I can talk for England, drink vodka like water and seem to attract random strangers when out.... now you’ve been warned "

Sounds like the perfect match.

I attract random strangers too and people keep trying to talk to me on the tube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare"

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ? "

I know someone in a male only kik group so I guess there must be.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare. "

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

I know someone in a male only kik group so I guess there must be. "

One that have been formed from fab? I am not talking about men from fab guys though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it weren't for the forums and the friendly, funny, helpful and informative ladies I have chatted to, I think I would have given up on fab entirely!

Saying that, I did take a couple months off (busy with life in general), but it was the forum banter and friendships that brought me back.

Niki xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ? "

Tu veux qu’on partage nos dossiers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it. "

I agree I would feel creepy messaging a random women on here in a non sexual way and saying hi. Wonder why that is? I’m sure it wouldn’t feel creepy in person ...

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe


"I love reading the posts on here and often think, hell that's exactly what I thought when an interesting debate is going on.

I am newish to the forums myself but I would love to make some new friends male or female, nice to find like minded individuals.

I think we often stop ourselves from doing something so instinctive by overthinking! It’s nice to just message and say I like what you say.. even if it’s just one conversation it’s nice to break the ice x "

That's very true, I think I need to man up more and reach out, its visible as well on here those that have great friendships and that's lovely to see x

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I'm always happy to just chat to other guys on here

Being bi tho I can't imagine many straight guys striking up a conversation

I wonder about this too.. Most of my male friends on here tend to be bi.

I'm odd though..

If a man is my mate, he'll never be anything more, if a man comes in all sexual though, he'll never be anything.. mate, sex - nuffin.

Like I said.. I'm odd.

Most of the straight regular forum guys seem a good laugh, but I wouldn't want to make them feel uncomfortable. So I tend to just interact via forum. Easier for everyone that way.

I'm like that. I do wonder if straight guys just assume bi guys want to jump on them!

I think you and I are quite alike in lots of ways. I've not experienced it at all though, most forum men are pretty pleasant if I do end up mailing them in private over a post. A few have even messaged me first, its probably all in our head?"

I agree. The friendships that I've got have all been started by messaging off the back of threads to agree or to continue a discussion. As guys often don't do that without an ulterior motive, the friends I've made have mostly been women. Maybe it's just me though, looking for the 'catch'

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I have some great friendships on here. Both same and opposite sex.

I think it adds a lot to the experience it’s the main reason I’m still here x

I'm always happy to have more friends. A lot of my closest local friends are people I know through clubs and the kink scene."

I think it’s nice just to feel able to say hello you make me smile or something daft just because there’s no competition or anything between friends and I think that’s what people expect sometimes within same sex groups on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

I know someone in a male only kik group so I guess there must be.

One that have been formed from fab? I am not talking about men from fab guys though "

How am I supposed to know?

I not in it as I don't have a penis!

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it.

I agree I would feel creepy messaging a random women on here in a non sexual way and saying hi. Wonder why that is? I’m sure it wouldn’t feel creepy in person ... "

Ha ha I have no filter.. if I can wedge a hello in off the back of a thread I will if I think someone’s nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

Tu veux qu’on partage nos dossiers?"

Mdrr j'en ai tellement sur toi

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I love reading the posts on here and often think, hell that's exactly what I thought when an interesting debate is going on.

I am newish to the forums myself but I would love to make some new friends male or female, nice to find like minded individuals.

I think we often stop ourselves from doing something so instinctive by overthinking! It’s nice to just message and say I like what you say.. even if it’s just one conversation it’s nice to break the ice x

That's very true, I think I need to man up more and reach out, its visible as well on here those that have great friendships and that's lovely to see x"

Totally it often gets turned into a negative but there’s no ‘group’ it’s just lots of people who get on x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Meli and DC mean the world to me. If I ever left fab, I would remain friends with them.

They’re stuck with me for life. "

Omg!

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

I know someone in a male only kik group so I guess there must be.

One that have been formed from fab? I am not talking about men from fab guys though

How am I supposed to know?

I not in it as I don't have a penis! "

Toooooo funny!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it.

I agree I would feel creepy messaging a random women on here in a non sexual way and saying hi. Wonder why that is? I’m sure it wouldn’t feel creepy in person ...

Ha ha I have no filter.. if I can wedge a hello in off the back of a thread I will if I think someone’s nice! "

People with no filter are sometimes the best people... thinking before speaking is over rated .

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

My lovely ladies were not something I ever thought I could find here but I have and they can't get rid of me

I think they have been the best part of my Fab life.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I'm round the corner (well nearly)

You my lady I will catch up with at the Bank social and I’m sure we will have a laugh... my fellow northerner living in the south

Looking forward to meeting you but I haveto warn you, I talk too much, drink too much Gin and am a little socially awkward.

Haha ....... I can talk for England, drink vodka like water and seem to attract random strangers when out.... now you’ve been warned

Sounds like the perfect match.

I attract random strangers too and people keep trying to talk to me on the tube! "

Must be your northern aura attracting them ....... people that know me are used to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it.

I agree I would feel creepy messaging a random women on here in a non sexual way and saying hi. Wonder why that is? I’m sure it wouldn’t feel creepy in person ...

Ha ha I have no filter.. if I can wedge a hello in off the back of a thread I will if I think someone’s nice!

People with no filter are sometimes the best people... thinking before speaking is over rated . "

I don't have a filter.

It often gets me into trouble!

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Definitely. I never expected to make so many lovely friends on here and a couple of people who will certainly be friends for life. It’s been more of that than anything else really! Some serious strange people on here but some wonderful ones too x"

#forumbuddy #talksaboutnothing

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those of you who've messaged me about friendly stuff know I'm open. Invitation extended again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

Tu veux qu’on partage nos dossiers?

Mdrr j'en ai tellement sur toi "

Ah toi aussi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my lady friends.....Nora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

Tu veux qu’on partage nos dossiers?

Mdrr j'en ai tellement sur toi

Ah toi aussi?"

Hé oui ! Les femmes ça parlent mdrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being here is my private life. I have a large group of girlfriends who don't know I'm on here. I tend to keep myself to myself on Fab and, unfortunately, from past experience, I don't trust many people. So it's not important to have friends because, apart from 2 guys, I won't discuss anything with anybody about Fab.

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"

If it weren't for the forums and the friendly, funny, helpful and informative ladies I have chatted to, I think I would have given up on fab entirely!

Saying that, I did take a couple months off (busy with life in general), but it was the forum banter and friendships that brought me back.

Niki xx

"

they’re definitely underestimated for the friendship side! I wouldn’t be here without them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never really tried making any friendships in here, but any I have have been male, as they've kinda progressed from chats.

There's lots of women I really like on the forums, but it often feels a bit creepy just to message a female to say hi, you seem lovely,hi!

The male friendships I have are very few but they mean the world to me, and actually can't imagine not being in touch with them

I don't go to socials, so never really get the chance to properly bond. I'm such an antisocial mare.

I love creepy ha ha

I didn’t really understand the whole friendship thing until I went to my first social and absolutely loved it.

I agree I would feel creepy messaging a random women on here in a non sexual way and saying hi. Wonder why that is? I’m sure it wouldn’t feel creepy in person ...

Ha ha I have no filter.. if I can wedge a hello in off the back of a thread I will if I think someone’s nice!

People with no filter are sometimes the best people... thinking before speaking is over rated .

I don't have a filter.

It often gets me into trouble! "

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Being here is my private life. I have a large group of girlfriends who don't know I'm on here. I tend to keep myself to myself on Fab and, unfortunately, from past experience, I don't trust many people. So it's not important to have friends because, apart from 2 guys, I won't discuss anything with anybody about Fab. "

That’s a shame.. but what works for one doesn’t always for another. Bad experience can definately change how we operate x

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I love my lady friends.....Nora "

We love you

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

I have a few people I have a sexy chat with on here mostly men they are easier to talk to I suppose the ladies get to many messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ? "

We had one but it died

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"I think and I might mistaken myself but there less same sex friendship amongst men than there is amongst women.

I talk to anyone and everyone. Except you #youknowwhoyouare

Is there any Kik male only group as there are from women ?

We had one but it died"

In fact we’ve had two while I’ve been on the forum.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I've recently started talking to some females on here, just because we had things in common in a thread. And it's nice to see them check up on me sometimes. But I've also made some male friends here too, all of whom enrich my fab experience

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By *affron40 OP   Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"I've recently started talking to some females on here, just because we had things in common in a thread. And it's nice to see them check up on me sometimes. But I've also made some male friends here too, all of whom enrich my fab experience"

Ah lovely it definitely makes it a much nicer place x got to love a bit of normal chat and laughter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mailed a couple of women on here saying they would love female chat but too shy. Mail opened, no reply

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