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How lenient are you with your preferences and musts?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have an age filter of 22-49 but would probably meet women up to 52.

I also don't meet smokers but would agree to meet someone who is a smoker if they didn't smoke for that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have several preferences, but would fold like soggy cardboard the minute someone sent me a message asking for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think anything is negotiable as it is very person dependent...comes down to a connection. But from my experience tend to not have too much uncommon with the youngens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an age filter of 22-49 but would probably meet women up to 52.

I also don't meet smokers but would agree to meet someone who is a smoker if they didn't smoke for that day."
I'd meet an animal lover only if they left the lead at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could just set my prefs to read no twats. Numerical or physical values don't really bother me much because each person is an individual and often what makes them attractive in my eyes is something new to me.....

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

A preference is a preference.

If it's a one off meet, I'd probably be willing to compromise, as I don't have to live with them.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve nothing set in stone. It’s rare I fancy someone and that someone could be anyone. I have diverse and slightly odd tastes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have several preferences, but would fold like soggy cardboard the minute someone sent me a message asking for a meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve nothing set in stone. It’s rare I fancy someone and that someone could be anyone. I have diverse and slightly odd tastes."

This..

Someone who makes me laugh beats pretty much anything else.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

To us preferences are exactly that

If I/ we get chatting to people we like, then that's far more important

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By *ristolcouple21Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh here we have an age range set, but if we met someone at a social event or a club we wouldn’t be hung up on age.. if the chemistry was right that would be all that mattered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My upper age limit is 99 but for the right meet id probably go to 102

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think anything is negotiable as it is very person dependent...comes down to a connection. But from my experience tend to not have too much uncommon with the youngens "

Is that a double negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you meet a 50 year old man, with a 30 year old partner, if you were 55 girls ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as a few others it's about the connection it's not all about them perky boobs

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If he pops into my head during the day and I smile then I'd drop all "preferences" in a heart beat

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"Would you meet a 50 year old man, with a 30 year old partner, if you were 55 girls ?"

Probably not, however if it was a club situation am not going to ask ages.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Monkey watches with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Monkey watches with interest "

Me too. This could be humiliating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one rule you should stick to is be open minded. I know I like women of around my age (although as we all know fab age can be quite flexible!) as I have more in common with them and to be honest I am not sure if meeting a girl of my daughters age would ever feel right. Too many morals(hang-ups) for my own good I guess! Having said that I am very open minded about size and shape and have developed a taste for tall and buxom women whose chest I can rest my head on while standing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think anything is negotiable as it is very person dependent...comes down to a connection. But from my experience tend to not have too much uncommon with the youngens

Is that a double negative "

No it’s supposed to be “I tend to not have too much in common with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy. "

Men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men? "

If they look like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men?

If they look like you "

I'm biting my lip rn.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men?

If they look like you

I'm biting my lip rn..... "

That's fine. F&B only bites your ass once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men?

If they look like you

I'm biting my lip rn..... "

The wrinkles around your beautiful rectum attracts me more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men?

If they look like you

I'm biting my lip rn.....

That's fine. F&B only bites your ass once "

For you I'll do it twice Karen ! I mean Sophie !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll meet any women who are anally easy.

Men?

If they look like you

I'm biting my lip rn.....

That's fine. F&B only bites your ass once

For you I'll do it twice Karen ! I mean Sophie ! "

Awww thanks Jimmy

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"I’ve nothing set in stone. It’s rare I fancy someone and that someone could be anyone. I have diverse and slightly odd tastes."

Odd is putting it politely! x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nowts carved in stone, if there's chemistry then bring it on

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Mine aren’t set in stone either......

I do prefer meeting in clubs as I’ve had some really disappointing meets from online.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm so sending a bunch of FAF messages after reading this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very lenient at all, but I've not got many.

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By *heKinksCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

We have very few. So very lenient I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm so sending a bunch of FAF messages after reading this thread "

Seize the moment. Only the brave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at following rules so I’m very lenient if I like the sound of someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not very lenient at all, but I've got many STD's. "
Too much information bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not good at following rules so I’m very lenient if I like the sound of someone. "

Ahhh so you wait until the voice threads pop up before you begin the hunt, gotcha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not very lenient. I know what I want. Having said that I’d probably budge on age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very lenient at all, but I've got many STD's. Too much information bro "

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By *-sas-sinWoman
over a year ago

Arse end of the universe

My upper limit on age I will budge on...the lower not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only got 2 real preferences that I won't budge on. It's the only thing my profile really mentions. I still get asked if I make exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not very lenient at all, but I've got many STD's. Too much information bro "

What.. the.. fuck!

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good

this what fab is about instead of just meeting people try to find faults on you. I for myself dont have any preferences on a person. I prefer to meet and you never know...

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By *tarbuck007Man
over a year ago

up2no good


"Mine aren’t set in stone either......

I do prefer meeting in clubs as I’ve had some really disappointing meets from online.

it's since I have started going to the clubs once a month i have saved alot of my time, i met alot of friendly people. what ever happens in the clubs stays at the clubs. sometimes I dont get what I wanted but still enjoyed being there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my preferences and tend to stick with them, especially the age thing, but I think if I met someone at a club or a social and clicked none of my preferences would matter...this seems like a long winded answer.

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I am flexible on height, a bit less flexible on age, even less flexible on ethnicity and not flexible at all on the presence of a functioning brain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am flexible on height, a bit less flexible on age, even less flexible on ethnicity and not flexible at all on the presence of a functioning brain. "

I've had ladies be lenient on height and age when it comes to me. GSOH won them over and a promise of cheesecake which was never delivered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet men with a 5 octave vocal range who love Mexican food and knitting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've magazined this for later

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Age is probably the only thing I’d move and have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t change them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age up.. but not down.

The rest less flexible, but who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my preferences there for a reason. Otherwise I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With me most things I'm lenient with except for two things: Smokers and people over 40. Don't do smokers because if they can't take care of themselves they are definitely unable to take care of me and people over 40 because it just feels...wrong shagging anyone over that age. Those two things are non-negotiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d probably compromise on age dependant on the person, I wouldn’t meet a smoker knowingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm considering altering all my filters to basically say "will meet you if you breathe occasionally"

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"I have several preferences, but would fold like soggy cardboard the minute someone sent me a message asking for a meet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me most things I'm lenient with except for two things: Smokers and people over 40. Don't do smokers because if they can't take care of themselves they are definitely unable to take care of me and people over 40 because it just feels...wrong shagging anyone over that age. Those two things are non-negotiable"

So you’d not meet a smoker as you deem that as not taking care of one self ! but you would meet with someone who regularly has dr*gs? Po**ers or similar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my preferences are concrete.. I have been known to bend some for the right person though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of my preferences are concrete.. I have been known to bend some for the right person though "

Same here. I don’t smoke but will meet smokers and I don’t like Jack Daniels either however I don’t discriminate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really have any preferences persay, i find people facinating and would meet anyone for a social, if theres a spark and an attraction then great, if not you might have at least made a new friend/aquaintence, or on the other hand if theres nothing at all then all youve lost is a couple of hours and maybe the price of a couple of drinks.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I would say not very lenient only because most have come about though fab experiences and time on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me most things I'm lenient with except for two things: Smokers and people over 40. Don't do smokers because if they can't take care of themselves they are definitely unable to take care of me and people over 40 because it just feels...wrong shagging anyone over that age. Those two things are non-negotiable"

And also why is it up to “ them to take care of you”. Surely it’s your responsibility?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an age filter of 22-49 but would probably meet women up to 52.

I also don't meet smokers but would agree to meet someone who is a smoker if they didn't smoke for that day."

My strict preference is no dru*s. I go on mutual compatibility by messaging and chatting via phone. Someone I’ve met who was 23 was much more driven and knowledgable than a man I’ve met who’s over 40. I don’t discriminate by age or creed body location, only thing I look for initially is attraction physically and mentally

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Clearly way to lenient, I’ve been with Swing 2 1/2 years and he still isn’t 40

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ah my preferences are flexible enough if I click with person. In fact some of the best meets I have had have been outside my preferences.,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me most things I'm lenient with except for two things: Smokers and people over 40. Don't do smokers because if they can't take care of themselves they are definitely unable to take care of me and people over 40 because it just feels...wrong shagging anyone over that age. Those two things are non-negotiable

So you’d not meet a smoker as you deem that as not taking care of one self ! but you would meet with someone who regularly has dr*gs? Po**ers or similar! "

Well, in moderation certain drugs like marijuana can be beneficial, so, if they have control, then yeah I'd screw a druggie...but if it's cocaine or some shit then hell no. If it's for medical purposes then I'm fine with that.

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By *ueen of sleezeWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

An overgrown garden is just a no no for me

Deal breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With me most things I'm lenient with except for two things: Smokers and people over 40. Don't do smokers because if they can't take care of themselves they are definitely unable to take care of me and people over 40 because it just feels...wrong shagging anyone over that age. Those two things are non-negotiable

So you’d not meet a smoker as you deem that as not taking care of one self ! but you would meet with someone who regularly has dr*gs? Po**ers or similar!

Well, in moderation certain drugs like marijuana can be beneficial, so, if they have control, then yeah I'd screw a druggie...but if it's cocaine or some shit then hell no. If it's for medical purposes then I'm fine with that."

Ahhh right I get you!! 420 an all that but deffo medicinal! But smokers harm themselves

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