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Do you read verifications before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Deciding to message them?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What sways you to message them or not?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's one of a number of factors. On verifications specifically, I look to see if they sound like a decent, friendly person, and I don't get a sense of any risk taking that might concern me.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I do read them but it’s only part of the picture isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of a number of factors. On verifications specifically, I look to see if they sound like a decent, friendly person, and I don't get a sense of any risk taking that might concern me."

This.. and also if they have met other larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, as above its a number of things but decent sounding is important as well as the type of meets they appear to have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, just look at the boobs.....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes, because i’m nosey. I never message a man first.

I’m old fashioned. If he want’s me to “dance” he has to ask me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I actually really like reading them. Well some of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few on here but never got a Veri but always get a when u coming back lol

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

No I just stick a pin in a list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, just look at the boobs....."

Makes a note to post a public boob pic as well as perfect arse pic...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep always read them and they form part of a decision .

Obviously good pics and profile are important.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Yes.. it’s part of the overall picture.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No of course not. Why would I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No more than any other advertising..which is generally a no..

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

No. Veris on a profile mean little to me and I hardly read them anymore. I'll message someone if the profile is appealing and, if they've been on the forums, they've come across well there also.

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By *ifeandhubby400Couple
over a year ago

Arse hole of nowhere ,Scotland


"Yes, because i’m nosey. I never message a man first.

I’m old fashioned. If he want’s me to “dance” he has to ask me.

"
SO this ,you want me/us you need to make the first move..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never messaged anyone first but yeah I always used to read them if someone messaged me or caught my eye.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s part of the overall decision whether to message or return a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No of course not. Why would I? "

This. I don’t use veris at all, for myself or others.

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Yep to ensure people are genuine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No of course not. Why would I? "

Well I do it to see if I'm their type. If all the verifications are from vwe gym rats then I know il be wasting my time.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I don't worry about verifications before I reply to messages. But I do read them, if I am considering meeting someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, because i’m nosey. I never message a man first.

I’m old fashioned. If he want’s me to “dance” he has to ask me.

"

But would you dance if I asked you to dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them before messaging

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I've usually got to know a sense of people through the forums and their profile before I consider messaging them but yes will skim their veris for any signs that we may not be on the same wavelength

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Yes, it gives you a idea of the person,but it won't completely persuade me from meeting or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at both veris and friend list in order to decide. Just to see if I fit in the "aesthetic preferences" of the lady I'm about to message.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I might scan through them but I rarely read all of them. I try to make my own mind up about someone.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Yes but they don't make me meet people just sometimes make me avoid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always do.. it might cut out some of the freaky weirdo's..

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Just being Nosy and gives me an idea but of course nothing is a sure thing these days

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I check to see if they have any from meets to see if they're genuine and trustworthy, but the content doesn't really interest me (other than to be nosey), I like to make my own mind up about people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look at both veris and friend list in order to decide. Just to see if I fit in the "aesthetic preferences" of the lady I'm about to message."

I didn't know you could look at users friends lists

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I'll have a quick look but I make up my own mind about that person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at both veris and friend list in order to decide. Just to see if I fit in the "aesthetic preferences" of the lady I'm about to message.

I didn't know you could look at users friends lists "

If they chose to display it.

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh


"I do read them but it’s only part of the picture isn’t it? "

Exactly this. The published veris are only ever gonna be positive

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By *2699Man
over a year ago

maldon

Yes ,mainly see what ages the verifications are to see if I have any chance of a meet, especially if they say meet 18-99 , and most are around 30-40 , you know the possibility is low

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I look at both veris and friend list in order to decide. Just to see if I fit in the "aesthetic preferences" of the lady I'm about to message.

I didn't know you could look at users friends lists

If they chose to display it. "

I havent noticed that.. But I also havent paid for this site, so I guess it's a paid for option.

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By *ucidityWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at both veris and friend list in order to decide. Just to see if I fit in the "aesthetic preferences" of the lady I'm about to message.

I didn't know you could look at users friends lists "

Not for all profiles, as some people choose to not show the friend list.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I look at everything on a profile before messaging someone.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"No of course not. Why would I?

Well I do it to see if I'm their type. If all the verifications are from vwe gym rats then I know il be wasting my time. "

Sometimes that can be a bit daft though. I've messaged people first who have only got veris from slim, white "MILFs" and gone on to meet them. You get a good idea from the overall profile and forum posts but even then there's no harm in trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them if they're displayed but only out of curiosity. I'm a smart girl and make up my own mind about people. I know to take the contents of veris with a pinch of salt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No of course not. Why would I?

Well I do it to see if I'm their type. If all the verifications are from vwe gym rats then I know il be wasting my time.

Sometimes that can be a bit daft though. I've messaged people first who have only got veris from slim, white "MILFs" and gone on to meet them. You get a good idea from the overall profile and forum posts but even then there's no harm in trying."

But women can afford to be more choosy. Just look at how many women state only black men or men of a certain height or age etc.

If I did this I don't think I would get far. It's almost impossible already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Nope.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Yes. I like to know my victims, errrm possible meets, a little bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do.

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