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"It depends on who is in really. Sometimes yes and sometimes no...." that's what I mean though. And hindsight should have said. Do you keep returning to see who else is in, or just say in and then never check up on it. | |||
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"It depends on who is in really. Sometimes yes and sometimes no.... that's what I mean though. And hindsight should have said. Do you keep returning to see who else is in, or just say in and then never check up on it. " I do go back to check but sometimes it seems to be exactly the same people so then I cba... with face pic fridays I responded to each one I got actually as it seemed rude not to. | |||
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"I always join in. Nearly all of my meets have been as a result of forum interaction, the games are a light hearted way to break the ice and strike up conversation." And see some interesting pics | |||
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"I always join in. Nearly all of my meets have been as a result of forum interaction, the games are a light hearted way to break the ice and strike up conversation." Indeed. That's why I enjoy them. I do always wonder though to what extent each "player" is involved. | |||
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"Im generally very active and don't like being passive. I find that a lot of people are passive though. Obviously that's their prerogative but I believe that the more people are proactive, the more positive connections that they'll make. " Indeed, not to shame them for doing so. Just as you say it's about interactions and the more passive you are, the less interactions (and more) can be made. | |||
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"I generally join in, send messages and check back...occasionally I just want to be told i'm pretty without putting any effort in " You need to check more than occasionally. Xx | |||
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"I don’t meet from the forums so it’s not always followed up, plus i’m easily distracted by other stuff and forget what i’ve posted on" And she killed my hope to get her hairy minge one day | |||
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"Depends on my moods. But I don't send much messages " bet you get a few though lol | |||
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"I always join in. Nearly all of my meets have been as a result of forum interaction, the games are a light hearted way to break the ice and strike up conversation. And see some interesting pics " I've got plenty more | |||
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"I am active but selectively so." Yes ^^ And I am sorry if I am interacting slowly. But i do try. | |||
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"are they a staple though they are mainly started by guys in an attempt to get women involved so they can chat them up in public because they can't get an answer in private, i never message from the forum threads but i do get quite a few message me but not from the f#ck, kiss, avoid threads which i rarely get involved with, the forums are about interaction though thats what we all want from them otherwise why comment " I'd say they are, they keep things pretty much friendly and get people talking without it devolving in to chaos. And insults. The fuck, kiss, avoid one's are different from face pic Friday etc. Though whichever it is, the number of friendships or something more that's has come from them is pretty high. Other threads, like this for example won't give that push to increase the intimacy or connection. With that said all threads have potential to spark something between 2 (or more) people. | |||
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"I try to join in but most people on the threads live miles away and are too far to meet for a coffee/social so I don't message, even if I fancy them. I'm selective with my face pic and a little shy letting guys know I want to get to know them. " That is understandable, but I think in the concept of those types of threads can be a good "excuse" to push that shyness away. Almost like a cover. You never know what may come from just a simple interaction. | |||
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"I like to send messages. Sometimes trying to be funny. Sometimes being complimentary Other times just trying to be helpful. " that's what it is ultimately all about in my opinion. Not about seeing who will fuck you, but just being part of the community with nice little reasons to break the ice without things turning nasty or heated debates. | |||
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"I say I'm in, go for a puss and forget "I'm in" more often than not P" Piss... I go for a piss P | |||
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"Im generally very active and don't like being passive. I find that a lot of people are passive though. Obviously that's their prerogative but I believe that the more people are proactive, the more positive connections that they'll make. " The whole site seems like that. Everyone waiting for someone else to make the first move. | |||
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"I used to be a lurker... now I'm becoming a little more active." Go girl, go girl, go girl. .. | |||
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"If I'm in then I'm in and will start by firing off a couple of PMs and hope it strikes a conversation. Lurking doesn't yield much interaction for me. " That suprises me | |||
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"No point saying I'm in if I'm not in....." I have to tell them when im in too | |||
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