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" Perhaps you are confusing it with the guy in the trench coat. I'm talking about going out with my wife who likes to wear clothes that accidentally on purpose reveals flesh. So just because she's a woman that makes it ok?" Or.. do you just mean a bit of leg or something? | |||
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"We feel sometimes that we are the only sexual people in the room, pub or club. Why does no-one flash at us lol? " Because they don't want to let you out of the junction. | |||
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"Haha are you saying you wouldn't want to see it " Nope. Wouldn't want to see it. | |||
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" Perhaps you are confusing it with the guy in the trench coat. I'm talking about going out with my wife who likes to wear clothes that accidentally on purpose reveals flesh. " It's the same thing. If it's with people who have agreed to it fine. A woman flashing people without their consent is the same as a dirty mac flasher. | |||
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" Perhaps you are confusing it with the guy in the trench coat. I'm talking about going out with my wife who likes to wear clothes that accidentally on purpose reveals flesh. It's the same thing. If it's with people who have agreed to it fine. A woman flashing people without their consent is the same as a dirty mac flasher. " This. | |||
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"Pheeeewww" Tough crowd | |||
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"Pheeeewww" Judgemental crowd, you've really stirred a hornets nest up here. | |||
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" Perhaps you are confusing it with the guy in the trench coat. I'm talking about going out with my wife who likes to wear clothes that accidentally on purpose reveals flesh. It's the same thing. If it's with people who have agreed to it fine. A woman flashing people without their consent is the same as a dirty mac flasher. This. " Pretty much, dragging non consenting people into your sex life ain't cool, regardless of who you are or your gender | |||
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"Because many people don't regard being overtly sexual in public vanilla places as acceptable? I certainly don't, and despite being quite kinky and sexually adventurous, would be incredibly uncomfortable with someone forcing their sexuality on me in an inappropriate environment. " This! | |||
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"We feel sometimes that we are the only sexual people in the room, pub or club. Why does no-one flash at us lol? " What pub are you in? I’ll flash my knob at you | |||
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"Good lord people... Wasn't talking about non consensual sexual activity. So much negatively for a sex site. It's always discreet and prearranged aaoooh" There was no negativity in my question. Just a genuine curiosity / attempt to clarify your meaning. | |||
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"I think their profile explains their wants and needs and how they go about them, sufficiently, for those bothered to read it." The OP was asking why others don’t flash at them in public. The above responses are an attempt to answer that. As well as echoing all that’s been said already, I’d add that people probably don’t do it because of the likelihood of children being around in places like buses, trains and Tesco (all referred to on the OP’s profile). I personally wouldn’t want my daughter to witness an adult of either gender flashing their genitals in Tesco or anywhere else. | |||
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" Perhaps you are confusing it with the guy in the trench coat. I'm talking about going out with my wife who likes to wear clothes that accidentally on purpose reveals flesh. " That's no different to a guy in a trench coat. Don't force your sexual perversions on innocent people. | |||
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"Good lord people... Wasn't talking about non consensual sexual activity. So much negatively for a sex site. It's always discreet and prearranged aaoooh" So the answer is. ...because you haven't arranged for the people to be there to flash you | |||
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"No... the answer is, if you don't have anything positive, encouraging or constructive to say, then it's best to say nothing.When you are targeting like minded it's probably best to walk on if it doesn't interest you." I positively disagree with encouraging flashing. The discussion interests me....I enjoy seeing people construct a good back track when they realise their thread isn't looking good for them lol If it's all ore arranged then the answer to your OP is you haven't taken time to arrange people flashing at you. | |||
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"No... the answer is, if you don't have anything positive, encouraging or constructive to say, then it's best to say nothing.When you are targeting like minded it's probably best to walk on if it doesn't interest you. I positively disagree with encouraging flashing. The discussion interests me....I enjoy seeing people construct a good back track when they realise their thread isn't looking good for them lol If it's all ore arranged then the answer to your OP is you haven't taken time to arrange people flashing at you. " I have to agree with the above comments OP. | |||
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"Never waste you time trying to explain who you are and what your journey is to those who are committed to misunderstanding you" You really should have made your original post clearer. If you’d said “why do people who we prearrange to meet with for the purposes of some consensual flashing fun, not join in with the flashing?”, then the responses you received would have been different. Because you didn’t provide this context in your original post, people are bound to ask questions to clarify what you mean. And how are you sure “innocent children are not involved”. Do you ensure Tesco is completely empty? Ot the train you are on? | |||
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"Never waste you time trying to explain who you are and what your journey is to those who are committed to misunderstanding you" Ok I won't | |||
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"Never waste you time trying to explain who you are and what your journey is to those who are committed to misunderstanding you Ok I won't " I don’t feel they’ve made any coherent attempt to explain anything, that’s the point... | |||
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"Never waste you time trying to explain who you are and what your journey is to those who are committed to misunderstanding you You really should have made your original post clearer. If you’d said “why do people who we prearrange to meet with for the purposes of some consensual flashing fun, not join in with the flashing?”, then the responses you received would have been different. Because you didn’t provide this context in your original post, people are bound to ask questions to clarify what you mean. And how are you sure “innocent children are not involved”. Do you ensure Tesco is completely empty? Ot the train you are on? " Quite. If you're in a public place, non consenting people might see. You might see that as a risk worth taking. I don't and never will. | |||
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"Never waste you time trying to explain who you are and what your journey is to those who are committed to misunderstanding you Ok I won't I don’t feel they’ve made any coherent attempt to explain anything, that’s the point... " Absolutely, the response seems to be don't criticise or judge our sexual preferences. And if you don't endorse our original point. OP set up a meet, specify what you want, make sure all parties are consenting and no non consenting parties are inadvertently involved in your meet | |||
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